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Your business is bringing in money. Clients are paying. Revenue is growing. So why does your personal bank account tell a completely different story? You started your business to create financial independence, not another job that leaves you exhausted and wondering where all the money went! In this episode of iDateMoney®, I'm joined by Iyanna Vaughn, founder and CEO of Lovely Financial Groups, fractional CFO to talk about one of the biggest mistakes entrepreneurs make: building a business that generates revenue but doesn't consistently pay its owner. And Iyanna knows this struggle firsthand! While helping clients reach six- and seven-figure revenue milestones, she realized she was neglecting her OWN finances. Everything changed when she started dating her money, giving her personal and business finances the same attention she gave her clients. The result? She reached six figures in business revenue in 2019 and $250,000 in 2020! We're talking CEO pay, cash flow management, profitability, inherited-money beliefs, and why making MORE money isn't always the answer. Because your business revenue is NOT your personal income! 💰 What You'll Discover Why six-figure revenue doesn't guarantee financial security. How to determine your CEO pay BEFORE setting revenue goals. Why mixing business and personal finances creates costly problems. How childhood money stories influence your financial decisions. Why weekly money dates can transform your cash flow. How to reverse-engineer revenue goals based on the lifestyle YOU want. Why building a sustainable business requires systems, boundaries, and an exit strategy. ⏱️ Episode Highlights 00:00 — Where is your cash flow going? 02:39 — Childhood money stories and the hustle mentality 06:27 — From caregiving to entrepreneurship 08:48 — Helping seven-figure clients while neglecting her own money 11:05 — The danger of mixing business and personal finances 13:07 — Creating a percentage-based spending plan 17:55 — How much should you pay yourself as CEO? 19:23 — Reverse-engineering revenue and profit goals 24:15 — Building a business when life gets complicated 26:38 — Redesigning a business for flexibility 31:53 — Protecting your finances with checks and balances 💖 Connect With Iyanna Vaughn: lovelyfinancials.com Ready to Date Your Money? 💖💸 You don't need another restrictive budget. You need to know where your money is going and what you want it to do for you. Join The Smell of Money and START HERE with iDateMoney®: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=3f83ec6aaacd4b21bdedb6f3b643eef8&utm_campaign=skool_link_direct_message&utm_content=7029c31a6d4048d2b68fdf659b17da62 You'll take a simple look at your cash flow, find money that's hiding in plain sight, and start giving your dollars a job that supports the life you're actually building. iDateMoney® is where you learn to OWN Your Money: O — Organize your cash flow W — Build Wealth N — Navigate your finances So you can find money leaks, reduce debt, build savings and wealth, and make confident decisions with your money. Because it doesn't matter how much money you have—It's what you do with it that matters. 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

Ready to Date Your Money? You don't need another restrictive budget. You need to know where your money is going—and what you want it to do for you. Join The Smell of Money and START HERE with iDateMoney®: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=b841fa9d675f452e8995cb3c0d4e18fd&utm_campaign=skool_link_direct_message&utm_content=cc5ec984cc5a4c8cb4aa956a5fd99925 You'll take a simple look at your cash flow, uncover money that's hiding in plain sight, and start giving your dollars a job that supports the life you're actually building. What if the rules you've been following about money, success, and your career were never yours to begin with? In this episode of iDateMoney®, I'm sitting down with Toni Will, General Manager and Governor of the Kalamazoo Wings, international speaker, coach, and author of Rebellious Success. We're talking about the money stories we inherit, the pressure to achieve, why making mistakes is part of building wealth, and what happens when you stop chasing someone else's definition of success. Toni shares how removing alcohol from her life gave her back approximately 800 hours a year, why she values mission over money, and how her six leadership pillars have helped her navigate everything from professional sports to entrepreneurship. We also get into a conversation many entrepreneurs need to hear: Just because you invest in your dream doesn't mean you should expect an immediate return. If you've ever questioned whether you're doing enough, earning enough, or building your business the "right" way, this conversation will challenge you to think differently. Because success isn't about following everybody else's rules. It's about deciding what matters to YOU and making intentional choices with your time, energy, and money. What You'll DiscoverWhy inherited money stories can keep you playing by rules that no longer serve you.Why keeping your nine-to-five while growing a business can be a strategic financial decision.The six leadership pillars that helped Toni transform a professional hockey organization.Episode Highlights00:00 Cash flow, intentional spending, and defining your lifestyle 02:19 Meet Toni Will and the evolution from Toni 1.0 to 2.0 03:47 Marriage, money management, and financial independence 06:08 Building a business without leaving a successful career 08:01 Toni's alcohol-free journey and reclaiming her time 10:59 The six leadership pillars 15:55 The financial realities of publishing a book 18:18 Managing expectations and evaluating ROI 21:02 Leading a major new arena project in Kalamazoo 24:55 The message behind Rebellious Success Whether you're building a business, paying off debt, publishing a book, or creating your next chapter, your money decisions should support the life YOU want to live.Connect With Toni Will: toniwill.comiDateMoney® is where you learn to OWN Your Money: O — Organize your cash flow W — Build Wealth N — Navigate your finances So you can uncover money leaks, reduce debt, build savings and wealth, and make confident decisions with your money. Because it doesn't matter how much money you have, it's what you do with it that matters. 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

Ready to Date Your Money? 💖💸You don't need another restrictive budget. You need to know where your money is going and what you want it to do for you. Join The Smell of Money and START HERE with iDateMoney®: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about You'll take a simple look at your cash flow, uncover money that's hiding in plain sight, and start giving your dollars a job that supports the life you're actually building. 👉 JOIN THE SMELL OF MONEY + START HERE: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about How much money do you actually need to retire? $1 million? $2 million? More? The answer isn't that simple. In this episode of iDateMoney®, Lisa Drennon sits down with financial educator, author, speaker, and co-founder of Stonebriar Wealth Advisors, Gary Preisser, to challenge the idea that building wealth is simply about accumulating as much money as possible. Gary believes wealth isn't a trophy. It's a tool. And the value of that tool comes from what you're able to do with it. Together, Lisa and Gary talk about why cash flow—not an arbitrary retirement number—needs to be part of the conversation when you're trying to determine whether you can afford to retire. Two people can have the exact same amount saved and be in completely different financial situations based on their expenses, Social Security, pensions, income sources, debt and the life they actually want to live. That's why the question isn't simply: "How much money do I have?" It's also: "What do I need this money to do?" In this episode, you'll hear:Why there isn't one magic number you need to retireHow your current and future cash flow affect retirement readinessHow unintentional spending can quietly consume even a strong incomeIf you're not intentional about where your money goes, it has a way of disappearing into expenses that may not even matter to you. Your income can increase. Your investments can grow. Your net worth can climb. But if you don't know why you're building that wealth, you can spend decades accumulating money without ever allowing it to create the life you were building it for. And eventually, somebody is going to spend that money. Why shouldn't some of that somebody be you? Take the trip. Help your kids or grandkids if that's important to you. Create experiences. Give. Build something. Retire. Or simply create enough predictable cash flow that you don't have to worry every month. Your answer doesn't have to look like anyone else's. That's the point. Connect with GaryGary Preisser is a financial educator, author, speaker and co-founder of Stonebriar Wealth Advisors. https://www.stonebriarwealthadvisors.com/ About iDateMoney®iDateMoney® is where you learn to OWN Your Money: O — Organize your cash flow W — Build Wealth N — Navigate your finances So you can uncover money leaks, reduce debt, build savings and wealth, and make confident decisions with your money. Because it doesn't matter how much money you have— It's what you do with it that matters. 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

Ready to make your next $25K without signing a single new client? Apply for your seat at The Profit Table: https://idatemoney.systeme.io/applied 🗝️🌬️💖💰 What happens when your health starts draining more than your energy? It can drain your time, your income, your savings, your ability to work, and even your confidence in the decisions you're making. In this episode of iDateMoney®, I sit down with Marla Chaffin, founder of Symptoms Make Sense, to talk about something we don't discuss enough: The connection between your health and your wealth. Marla spent years searching for answers after chronic pain and unexplained symptoms turned her life upside down. Her journey took her through doctors, hospitals, specialists, medications, lifestyle changes, and ultimately a completely different way of looking at her health. And as we talked, one thing became very clear: Health and money have a lot more in common than we realize. When something isn't working, we often want the fastest solution. A restrictive diet. A restrictive budget. Another supplement. Another program. Another financial strategy. But lasting change usually doesn't come from another quick fix. It comes from understanding what's actually happening, questioning the patterns you've been operating from, and taking small, intentional steps toward something different. In this episode, we talk about:Marla's four-year search for answers after her health suddenly declinedThe financial cost of chronic illness—including lost time, lost wages, travel, specialists, and treatmentWhy restriction can backfire in both health and moneyWhy quick fixes rarely create sustainable changeWhy understanding the root of a problem can change the decisions you makeHow health challenges can lead to debt when medical expenses and lost income collide You don't completely change decades of health habits overnight. And you don't completely change decades of money habits overnight either. You start paying attention. You ask better questions. You learn what works for you. And then you take the next step. Because whether we're talking about your health or your money, being intentional about your choices matters. Connect with MarlaMarla spends most of her time inside her free Skool community, Symptoms Make Sense: https://www.skool.com/symptoms-make-sense/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2 Ready to start looking at your money differently?Inside The Smell of Money, we're having the money conversations most people avoid. You'll learn how to organize your cash flow, identify where your money is actually going, make more intentional spending decisions, and give every dollar a job without putting yourself on another restrictive budget. Join here: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about This episode shares personal experiences and educational discussion and is not a substitute for individualized medical advice. Talk with an appropriate healthcare professional before changing medications, supplements, or treatment.

Your next $25K isn't hiding in more clients. It's already moving through your business; you just haven't claimed it. Welcome to the debut of The Profit Table: a bi-monthly conversation for established women entrepreneurs who make good money but don't feel in control of it. One question runs the whole room: if you couldn't sign another client for 90 days, what would you change inside the business you already have to create your next $25K? No hot seats. No pressure to share private numbers. Just real money talk you can put to work the same day because it's not how much money you have, it's what you do with it. 🪑 Want a seat at the next table? It's by application: https://forms.gle/D4uxd6Vx9m9fQHbP9 💸 Come find your money inside The Smell of Money: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about Hosted by Lisa Drennon — Wealth Activator, iDateMoney®

How Your Money Mindset Affects Cash Flow, Business Debt & ProfitReady to make your next $25K without signing a single new client? Apply for your seat at The Profit Table: https://forms.gle/r6BavN4zASdsJv5u9 What if your biggest money problem isn’t actually the money? Your money mindset, cash flow habits, and beliefs about wealth can influence how you respond to business debt, slow revenue months, profit, and even how much money you allow yourself to keep. In this episode of iDateMoney, I sit down with Lisa Somers, CEO of Marketplace Superheroes, to talk about the side of entrepreneurship that doesn’t always make it onto social media. Lisa shares how she went from training to become a psychologist to helping build a multimillion-dollar online education company—and what happened when that successful business suddenly had to deal with more than $1 million in debt. And yes—they paid it off. But this conversation isn't just about debt payoff. It's about what happens between your ears when the numbers don't look the way you want them to. In This Episode, We Talk About:💸 How childhood and cultural beliefs about wealthy people can affect your ability to receive and keep money 💸 Why making more money doesn’t automatically eliminate your money fears 💸 The difference between a financial problem and the emotional story you attach to it 💸 How Lisa and her brother approached more than $1 million in business debt 💸 Why a multimillion-dollar business doesn't necessarily mean the owner has massive personal cash flow 💸 Separating business finances from personal finances 💸 Why entrepreneurship isn't supposed to feel amazing 100% of the time 💸 The danger of comparing your financial life to what another entrepreneur appears to have 💸 Why following a proven business model can shorten your learning curve 💸 Creating additional income streams without immediately quitting your 9-to-5 One of my favorite takeaways from this conversation: Revenue being down is financial information. It doesn't automatically mean your business is failing. It doesn't mean you're unsafe. And it doesn't mean everything is falling apart. The question becomes: What does the number tell you—and what action can you take next? That distinction can completely change the way you make money decisions. About Lisa SomersLisa Somers is the CEO of Marketplace Superheroes, an online education company that has helped more than 10,000 people build additional income streams through online business. After working across virtually every department in the company, Lisa now specializes in scaling education businesses, building high-performing remote teams, strategic partnerships, and direct-response marketing. Her own journey has included everything from learning entrepreneurship from scratch to helping navigate and eliminate more than $1 million in business debt. Resources MentionedMarketplace Superheroes: marketplacesuperheroes.com About iDateMoney®iDateMoney® is where women entrepreneurs learn to OWN Your Money: O — Organize your cash flow W — Build Wealth N — Navigate your finances So you can uncover money leaks, pay yourself consistently, reduce debt, build wealth, and make confident financial decisions. Because it doesn't matter how much money you make-It's what you do with it that matters.🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

Ready to make your next $25K without signing a single new client? Apply for your seat at The Profit Table: https://forms.gle/r6BavN4zASdsJv5u9 What if the experiences you've lived through could become the foundation of a profitable business? In this episode of iDateMoney®, Lisa Drennon sits down with Dr. Lisha Antiqua, founder of Your Own University and creator of the Amazing YOU Method, for a powerful conversation about identity, healing, expertise, entrepreneurship, and getting paid to be YOU. Dr. Lisha shares how her own experiences with trauma, healing, education, and entrepreneurship ultimately became part of her life's work, and why your lived experience can become valuable intellectual property when you learn how to turn it into a message, methodology, program, or business. We also get into an important conversation about coaching: When is your personal experience enough? When do you need additional education or certification? And why is staying within your expertise so important when you're responsible for helping someone else transform their life? You'll discover: How your lived experiences can become valuable expertiseWhy identity matters when building a business around YOUThe difference between coaching, mentoring, and teachingWhen education and certifications actually matterHow to turn your story into a message, methodology, or offerWhy authenticity can be more powerful than following someone else's marketing formulaHow to identify your zone of geniusWhy entrepreneurship requires a financial plan—not just a desire to make more moneyThe importance of setting a profit-margin goalWhy tenacity and purpose matter when business feels like a roller coasterHow to build a business that pays you for the wisdom you've already earnedAs Lisa explains, entrepreneurship isn't a shortcut to fast money. You need a business plan, a financial strategy, and a clear understanding of what you want your business to produce. Because you can make as much money as you want but if you don't know what to do with it, making more won't solve the problem. Connect with Dr. Lisha AntiquaVisit Your Own University: http://www.lishaantiqua.com/ and take the Soul Purpose Quiz to discover whether you're in the Rebuilding, Messenger, or Architect stage of turning your experience and expertise into a message, movement, and profitable business. About iDateMoney®iDateMoney® is where women entrepreneurs learn to OWN Your Money: O — Organize your cash flow W — Build Wealth N — Navigate your finances So you can uncover money leaks, pay yourself consistently, reduce debt, build wealth, and make confident financial decisions. Because it doesn't matter how much money you make-It's what you do with it that matters.🗝️🌬️💖💸

Save $500–$2,000 in hidden money leaks, organize your cash flow, and create a money system that actually works with the Money Hunt found inside the Smell of Money Community.  Join here: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about What if the reason you're not making more sales isn't your offer, your pricing, or your audience? What if it's the way you're approaching the conversation? In this episode of iDateMoney®, I'm talking with Nicole Kramer, former high school math teacher turned #1 salesperson at a Fortune 500 company—twice—TEDx speaker, sales coach, and founder of TNC Speaking and Coaching. Nicole didn't start out thinking she was a salesperson. In fact, she thought salespeople were slimy. Until one job interview changed everything. When the interviewer pointed out that she had 15 years of teaching experience and zero sales experience, Nicole fired back: “I've been selling math to teenagers for 15 years, and nobody wanted to buy that.” Boom. 💥 She realized she'd been selling all along. And that's where this conversation gets GOOD. Nicole went from taking a major pay cut, carrying close to six figures in debt, and then being hit with another six figures in medical bills—to becoming the #1 salesperson in the country. But her success wasn't built on pressure, manipulation, or memorizing the perfect sales script. It was built on connection, trust, relationships, and understanding what people actually need. In this episode, we're talking about:🗝️ Why “no need = no sale” 🗝️ The difference between selling your offer and solving someone's actual problem 🗝️ Why your past experience may have prepared you for sales more than you realize 🗝️ How desperation for the sale changes the energy of the conversation 🗝️ Why you need now buyers, soon buyers, AND later buyers in your pipeline 🗝️ Why market research should happen BEFORE you spend months creating your course or offer 🗝️ The value exchange that can happen even when money isn't exchanged 🗝️ How better sales skills are really better communication skills 🗝️ Why Nicole believes learning to communicate with influence can change far more than your business About Nicole KramerNicole Kramer spent 15 years teaching high school math before moving into corporate sales, where she became the #1 salesperson at a Fortune 500 company—twice. Today, she's a TEDx speaker, sales coach, and founder of TNC Speaking and Coaching. Through her program Unscripted, Nicole teaches entrepreneurs and business professionals how to develop the confidence, communication skills, and influence to navigate the conversations that matter—without relying on a script. Connect with Nicole on Instagram and grab her free Sales Call Template to learn the steps to creating more effective sales conversations. Ready to OWN Your Money?Making more money isn't the whole answer. You get to understand what's happening with the money you're already making, what it's costing you to generate it, and whether your business is actually creating the profit you think it is. Come join us inside The Smell of Money, where we're talking cash flow, profitability, confident money decisions, and building wealth from the business you've already created. Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of iDateMoney®️Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

Save $500–$2,000 in hidden money leaks, organize your cash flow, and create a money system that actually works with the Money Hunt found inside the Smell of Money Community.  Join here: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about 🗝️🌬️💖💰 What if the thing you're trying to hide is actually the thing that could help you connect with your next client? In this episode of iDateMoney®, I'm joined by Laurie Frenza, founder of Limitless Life, for a conversation about turning your lived experiences, skills, passions, and story into income. Laurie believes that in today's online world, connection is everything. People don't just buy the course, coaching program, product, or service — they buy because they trust the person behind it. And trust starts with being willing to show people who you are. Laurie shares how living with chronic pain since childhood shaped her entrepreneurial journey and taught her to continually evolve. Instead of allowing her circumstances to determine what was possible, she found new ways to use her creativity, experience, and strengths to build a business that supports the life she wants. In this episode, we talk about:Why your story can become one of your greatest business assetsWhy people buy from people they know, like, relate to, and trustHow old beliefs about money can quietly influence your business decisionsWhy investing in yourself isn't necessarily wasted when you learn from the experienceThe importance of consistency when building an online businessWhy copying someone else's content or strategy can actually slow you downHow to stop chasing shiny objects and stay focused on your own pathWhy entrepreneurs need a plan — not 20 different strategiesThe value of mentorship and having someone to bounce ideas offWhy repeating your message is necessary even when you're tired of hearing yourself say itHow to listen to your audience before creating your next offerWhy alignment, joy, and self-trust matter when choosing how you market your business One of my favorite reminders from this conversation: People don't need you to have someone else's story. They need you to be willing to tell yours. Your experiences can help someone recognize themselves in you and think: "She gets me." And that's where connection begins. Story to Income ChallengeLaurie also shares her Story to Income Challenge, designed to help entrepreneurs turn their lived experience and knowledge into a digital product people actually want. Connect with Laurie and join Story to Income: story.loriferenza.com Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of iDateMoney®️! Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

Save $500–$2,000 in hidden money leaks, organize your cash flow, and create a money system that actually works with the Money Hunt found inside the Smell of Money Community.  Join here: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about What if the story you’ve been telling yourself about money, work, security, and success isn’t actually yours? In this episode of iDateMoney®, I sit down with Kristy Giarratano, a nurse-turned-coach and host of the Raising Hope podcast, for a powerful conversation about identity, money stories, and having the courage to rewrite your life. After years of working in high-pressure emergency departments, Kristy knew something had to change. But walking away from a successful career and reliable income wasn’t something she did overnight. It took her 10 years. Instead of jumping without a plan, Kristy created a financial runway, saved money, and prepared herself to build a business from a place of intention rather than panic. We also talk about the deeper transformation behind the numbers. After 13 rounds of IVF, becoming a mother, and building a business, Kristy began questioning some of the beliefs she had carried since childhood—including the belief that being a single mom meant life had to be a constant struggle. She realized: That may have been part of the story she witnessed growing up, but it didn’t have to become her story. In this episode, we talk about: • Why financial security can keep us stuck in situations we’ve outgrown • The importance of creating a financial plan before making a major transition • How inherited money beliefs quietly influence our decisions • Why making more money doesn’t automatically eliminate financial fear • Rebuilding your identity after a major life change • Breaking generational patterns before passing them to your children • Why true wealth is about far more than the number in your bank account Kristy defines true wealth as having the time to spend with her daughter while feeling free, healthy, happy, and surrounded by love. And that’s the reminder I want you to take from this conversation: It doesn’t matter how much money you have. It’s what you do with it. You get to question the stories you inherited. You get to decide what wealth looks like for you. And you get to create a new financial story instead of repeating the old one. Connect with Kristy Visit Kristy Giarratano’s website to learn more about her coaching, reinvention quiz, and free resources: https://www.kristygiarratano.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com Your Next Money MoveIf this episode has you questioning the story you’ve been telling yourself about money, start by looking at what your numbers are actually telling you. Take the iDateMoney® Wealth Audit to uncover your CEO Gap Score when you join The Smell of Money: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about and identify where money may be leaking from your cash flow, and see the next move you can make to keep more of the money you’re already earning. Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of iDateMoney®️! Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

Save $500–$2,000 in hidden money leaks, organize your cash flow, and create a money system that actually works with the Money Hunt found inside the Smell of Money Community.  Join here: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about Have you ever stopped to ask yourself why you believe what you believe about money? Many of our deepest financial habits aren't created by us, they're inherited through generations of family beliefs, emotional conditioning, and survival patterns. In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Sarah Lauren to explore how generational conditioning shapes everything from our self-worth to our spending habits and how healing your nervous system can transform your relationship with money. If you've ever struggled with emotional spending, scarcity, guilt around making money, or feeling like success somehow makes you a "bad person," this episode will help you uncover where those beliefs came from and how to begin rewriting your story. In This Episode You'll Learn:Why generational beliefs impact your financial decisionsThe difference between trauma and everyday survival conditioningHow your nervous system influences your money habitsSarah's three stages of healing inherited patterns:Remembering your true selfEmbodying worthinessManifesting from alignmentThe surprising childhood experience that created Sarah's money storyWhy awareness is the first step to lasting financial freedomHow emotional healing and wealth-building go hand in handWhy money isn't the problem—your relationship with it isConnect with Sarah LaurenJoin Sarah's free Skool community: Freedom Lovers Only: https://www.skool.com/freedomloversonly/about?utm_source=skooldotcom&utm_medium=website&utm_campaign=user_profile_page&utm_content=9103925b38084802b6af29bb6b8d1b47 Inside, you'll find daily Bliss Rituals designed to help parents heal inherited conditioning and create emotional freedom for themselves and future generations. Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of iDateMoney®️!Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

Save $500–$2,000 in hidden money leaks, organize your cash flow, and create a money system that actually works with the Money Hunt found inside the Smell of Money Community.  Join here: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about Are you staying in a job because it feels safe, even though it no longer fulfills you? In this episode of i Date Money®, Lisa Drennon sits down with employment attorney and workplace reinvention coach Natalie Holder to explore what really keeps professionals stuck in careers they've outgrown. If you've ever wondered whether it's time for a career change, retirement, entrepreneurship, or simply asking for what you're worth, this conversation will help you make decisions from confidence instead of fear. Natalie shares practical strategies for recognizing when it's time to move on, building confidence before making a leap, negotiating beyond salary, and creating a career that aligns with your purpose. In This Episode You'll Learn:Why fear—not money—is often what keeps us stuckHow to recognize the signals that it's time for a changeThe difference between taking reckless leaps and strategic stepsWhy you need a "Personal Board of Directors"How to identify your transferable skillsSmart ways to negotiate beyond salaryWhy external visibility is one of the most valuable career assets you can buildHow to prepare financially before leaving your jobThe mindset shift that creates lasting career fulfillmentMemorable Quote"You don't just leap—you gather the information, take strategic steps, and make decisions backed by confidence." Connect with Natalie Holder🌐 NatalieHolderSpeaks.com Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of iDateMoney®️!Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

Save $500–$2,000 in hidden money leaks, organize your cash flow, and create a money system that actually works with the Money Hunt found inside the Smell of Money Community.  Join here: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about Have you ever wondered why making money feels harder than it should? Maybe you've taken the courses. Maybe you've learned the sales scripts. Maybe you know exactly what to do, yet something inside still freezes when it's time to ask for the sale, raise your prices, or believe you're worthy of receiving. In this deeply emotional live coaching session, I sit down with Q, founder of the Inner Brilliance Collective, as she courageously shares the painful experience that shaped her relationship with money. Together, we uncover how childhood wounds, survival, shame, and unforgiveness can silently control our financial decisions for years. This isn't a conversation about budgeting. It's a conversation about healing. During this episode you'll experience guided visualization, nervous system regulation, aromatherapy techniques, and a powerful discussion about forgiving yourself so you can finally move from surviving to thriving. In this episode we discuss:• Why money is rarely the real problem • How trauma shapes financial decisions • The connection between your nervous system and receiving money • Why self-worth impacts sales and pricing • Borrowing from your future self through debt • The power of forgiveness in financial healing • Guided visualization to create financial safety • Moving from survival mode into abundance Connect with Today's GuestQ Founder of the Inner Brilliance Collective Helping women quiet their inner critic, build self-worth, and experience lasting personal transformation. Community: https://www.skool.com/inner-brilliance-collective-7769/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2 Special MentionsHeather Boers The Directory on Skool Helping creators and business owners become more visible through collaboration, networking, and Pinterest marketing. https://www.skool.com/thedirectory/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2 Elena Maren Inflameless Living Licensed nutrition professional helping people reduce chronic inflammation through nutrition and lifestyle. https://www.skool.com/anti-inflammatory-lifestyle-1274/about?utm_source=skooldotcom&utm_medium=website&utm_campaign=discovery_search_group_link Ready to Heal Your Relationship with Money?Join The Smell of Money™ community where we combine practical money management, mindset, nervous system regulation, and aromatherapy to create lasting financial confidence. https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

Save $500–$2,000 in hidden money leaks, organize your cash flow, and create a money system that actually works with the Money Hunt found inside the Smell of Money Community.  Join here: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about Most entrepreneurs work hard to make money but what happens after the money hits your bank account? In this episode of iDateMoney®, Lisa Drennon sits down with Thomas Cox, founder of Cox Capital and host of The Owners Table Podcast, to unpack the concept of Infinite Banking, a wealth-building strategy that uses specially designed whole life insurance policies to create a personal source of capital for investing, real estate, business growth, and long-term financial security. Whether you've heard of Infinite Banking or this is your first introduction, this conversation will challenge the way you think about cash flow, profit, and putting your money to work. In This Episode You'll Learn:What Infinite Banking actually is—and who it's designed for.Why this strategy only makes sense if you have consistent excess cash flow.How entrepreneurs can use life insurance as a financial tool instead of viewing it as just a death benefit.The biggest mistake business owners make when they say they're "reinvesting in the business."Why Profit First principles create the foundation for sustainable wealth.How to think differently about saving, investing, and building long-term financial freedom.Why money should always have a job—not sit idle in a checking account.Key Takeaways💰 Money is a tool—not a trophy. 💰 Reinvesting in your business doesn't mean spending money on everything that promises growth. 💰 Insurance can become a strategic financial asset when used correctly. 💰 Building wealth starts with intentional cash flow management before investing. 💰 It's not about how much money you make—it's about what you do with it. Connect with Thomas CoxWebsite: thomascox.co Follow Thomas on Instagram, YouTube, Facebook, TikTok, and other platforms at @thomascox.co. Ready to Organize Your Cash Flow?If you're making good money but still don't feel financially secure, it's time to stop guessing and start leading your money with confidence. Join The Smell of Money™ community where we help entrepreneurs: • Organize cash flow • Navigate debt strategically • Build wealth with confidence Because it doesn't matter how much money you have—it's what you do with it. Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

Save $500–$2,000 in hidden money leaks, organize your cash flow, and create a money system that actually works with the Money Hunt found inside the Smell of Money Community.  Join here: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about What if the biggest thing holding your business back isn't your marketing, it's your relationship with money? In this episode of iDateMoney®, Lisa Drennon sits down with Christian business coach Elaine Lankford to explore the mindset shifts every woman entrepreneur needs to build a profitable business with confidence. Elaine shares her powerful journey from a successful nursing career that unexpectedly ended to rebuilding her life and business through faith, resilience, and strategic action. Together, Lisa and Elaine unpack the money beliefs that quietly keep women stuck and reveal practical ways to create both financial confidence and lasting wealth. If you've ever struggled with inconsistent income, shiny object syndrome, fear of investing in yourself, or wondering if you're truly equipped to succeed, this conversation is for you. In This Episode You'll Learn:Why separating your business and personal finances is one of the first steps toward financial confidence.The difference between having revenue and building real wealth.How scarcity thinking keeps entrepreneurs stuck—and how to replace it with an abundance mindset.Why every successful entrepreneur needs a written financial and business plan.How comparison and imposter syndrome quietly impact your income.The importance of surrounding yourself with mentors and people who think differently about money.Why taking calculated risks is necessary for growth.How to build confidence one consistent step at a time.A healthier perspective on retirement, wealth, and creating a life you truly enjoy.Why money is simply a tool—and how stewarding it well creates greater impact.Memorable Quotes"Money isn't the problem. It's what we believe about money that shapes the decisions we make." "Consistency builds confidence." "You don't need more information—you need a simple plan you can actually follow." "It doesn't matter how much money you have. It's what you do with it." Connect with Elaine LankfordWebsite: https://shestepsforwardcoaching.com Email: [email protected] Ready to Organize Your Money?If you're making money but still wondering where it all goes, it's time to build a system that gives every dollar a purpose. Inside The Smell of Money™ Community, you'll learn how to: Organize your cash flowEliminate debt strategicallyBuild lasting wealth with confidenceCalm your nervous system around moneyMake financial decisions without second-guessing yourself Join the community and start building wealth with confidence. Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily