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In today’s episode, we’re answering listener questions around protein intake, calorie tracking, daily movement, and managing cravings. How much protein do you need per day? Is it true that we can’t digest more than 35 grams at a time? What do you do about crazy PMS cravings and hunger? Can I do spin classes instead of daily walking? We also get into the practical side of tracking food, including whether you should weigh food raw or cooked and how to make casseroles, soups, and other one-pot meals easier to track without turning nutrition into a full-time job. We discuss maintenance days, permission around foods you enjoy, and learning to respond to cravings with curiosity instead of restriction, guilt, and chaos. “We have for too long placed our health and our lifestyle into the hands of people selling us b******t." - Amy Rudolph “You can't think your way out of this. You have to act differently." - Iris Deadlifts This week on Capable and Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck: Why protein is important but more protein isn’t always betterHow to approach protein intake in a larger body without chasing an unnecessarily high numberWhy the “35 grams of protein per meal” rule is outdatedWhy carbs deserve a much bigger place in your dietHow to weigh and track food without making it unnecessarily complicatedWhy spin classes are great movement but aren’t a substitute for strength training or walkingHow to approach increased hunger and cravings around your periodUsing maintenance, permission, and experimentation to move away from food restriction and chaos Resources Mentioned: Iris Deadlifts on InstagramAmy Rudolph on InstagramWork with us at Beth Feraco Fitness Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Capable and Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Apple Podcasts | Spotify Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us! Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram and Amy Rudolph on Instagram.

In today’s SELECTS episode, we’re joined by Barbie Boules,RDN. Best known as The Cognition Dietitian, Barbie is a registered dietitian, cognitive wellness specialist, and optimal aging enthusiast, dedicated to helping women prioritize themselves, experience confidence, excellent health, and genuine joy. Barbie shares her journey into nutrition and her passion for women's cognitive and cardiometabolic health, especially during menopause. She offers practical steps for maintaining metabolic and brain health, the critical role of metabolic health in brain function, especially in preventing diseases like Alzheimer's, highlighting the urgency and importance of taking preventive measures early on and the Four Pillars of cognitive and metabolic health. Barbie's expertise and compassionate approach provide listeners with actionable advice on how to maintain a healthy and enjoyable lifestyle, manage stress, and build cognitive reserve through lifelong learning and social connections. This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in optimizing their health through midlife and beyond, with a focus on nutrition, exercise, and overall wellness. “Our brain's health rests on our metabolic health. We have to be metabolically healthy for our brain to thrive.” - Barbie Boules, The Cognition Dietitian “Stress manifests physically 100% of the time, especially if we're managing stress with food or alcohol.” - Barbie Boules, The Cognition Dietitian This week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck: Barbie’s journey to becoming The Cognition Dietitian and her focus on women’s healthWhat is “metabolic health” and why does it matter, especially in midlife?The connection between metabolic health and brain functionPractical advice on building muscle and maintaining metabolic healthThe Four Pillars of cognitive and metabolic healthThe truth about “hormone balancing” and hormone therapyHow to effectively self-advocate during doctors appointmentsRecommendations for responsible supplementation and identifying nutrient deficiencies Connect with Barbie Boules, The Cognition Dietitian (and Resources Mentioned): Barbie Boules The Cognition Dietitian on InstagramA Guide to Women’s Health: Fifty and Forward, Harvard HealthThe Official MIND Diet by Dr. Martha Clare MorrisThe Brain Health Kitchen: Preventing Alzheimer’s Through Food by Annie Fenn MDThe Vajenda by Dr. (OB/GYN) Jen Gunter Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Apple Podcasts | Spotify Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us! Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram and Amy Rudolph on Instagram.

In today’s episode, we’re talking about what to do when you’re sick, how to decide whether you should work out when you’re under the weather, and why a few days away from your normal routine isn’t going to undo your progress. We break down the “above the neck, below the neck” rule for exercise when sick, talk about when it makes sense to rest instead of train, and discuss what to prioritize with nutrition, hydration, and recovery when you’re not feeling your best. We also get into a very real problem: what happens when you think you’re in a calorie deficit but your results aren’t reflecting it. We talk about dining out, untracked food, emotional eating, alcohol, and using an accountability calendar to identify patterns instead of relying on the vague feeling that you’ve “been good.” From there, we discuss why sometimes the best approach to sustainable fat loss is to slow down, build the necessary habits and skills first, and trust a coach who is willing to tell you what you actually need to hear - not just what you want to hear. “Maintenance is a love note to your body and your brain." - Amy Rudolph “A good coach won’t always tell you what you want to hear." - Iris Deadlifts This week on Capable and Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck: The above-the-neck vs. below-the-neck rule for exercising while sick Why a few days away from the gym won't erase your progress What to prioritize with nutrition and hydration when you're sickWhy “it wasn't perfect” is not a useful measure of success Using an accountability calendar to identify patterns in your habits Why you can feel like you're in a calorie deficit without actually being in one Why a good coach may tell you you're not ready for a fat loss phaseBuilding the habits and systems first so fat loss is actually sustainable long term Resources Mentioned: Iris Deadlifts on InstagramAmy Rudolph on InstagramWork with us at Beth Feraco Fitness Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Capable and Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Apple Podcasts | Spotify Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us! Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram and Amy Rudolph on Instagram.

In today’s episode, we're revisiting one of the most misunderstood parts of a fitness journey: maintenance. We answer listener questions about wanting to eat more without gaining weight, dealing with mental hunger versus physical hunger, and why learning to maintain your results is every bit as important as losing weight in the first place. We also discuss the influence of social media, unrealistic expectations around calories, and why maintenance should never feel like a punishment. We also tackle another coaching question we hear all the time: when is it time to take a break from a calorie deficit? From recognizing diet fatigue and understanding maintenance breaks to overcoming the fear of "undoing your progress," we explain why strategically stepping out of a deficit can actually help you build a healthier body composition and a more sustainable relationship with food. If you've ever worried about gaining weight in maintenance, struggled with constant hunger, or felt nervous about increasing your calories, this conversation is for you. "If you take care of your body, your body's gonna take care of you." - Amy Rudolph "The skill is in recognizing I don't actually want more or need more.” - Iris Deadlifts This week on Capable and Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck: How to tell the difference between physical hunger and mental hungerWhy comparing your maintenance calories to people on social media can be misleadingPractical ways to increase calories while maintaining your weightHow meal structure and food choices can improve fullness and satisfactionSigns that it's time to take a maintenance break or diet breakWhy your scale weight and body composition naturally change in maintenanceHow long to stay in a calorie deficit before considering a breakWhy practicing maintenance is essential for long-term fat loss success Resources Mentioned: Maintenance Masterclass EpisodeQ&A: Maintenance Refresher, Mindset Shifts, and Real-Life Strategies for Success in Maintenance Connect with Us: Iris Deadlifts on InstagramAmy Rudolph on InstagramWork with us at Beth Feraco Fitness Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Capable and Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Apple Podcasts | Spotify Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us! Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram and Amy Rudolph on Instagram.

In today’s episode, we’re catching up on where we are in life, health, fitness, and our current goals - and, unsurprisingly, life has not exactly been smooth sailing. Iris is in the middle of a 10-12 week fat loss phase at 11 months postpartum, while Amy is continuing to live in maintenance after a major move and a year of focusing on building muscle. We chat about how to make long-term nutrition and fitness sustainable, and how to specifically be flexible without completely abandoning your goals. We discuss the difference between an exception and a pattern, why you shouldn't compare your chapter 2 to someone else's chapter 45, and why sometimes the healthiest decision is to not pursue fat loss right now. Most importantly, we talk about building the kind of confidence where a stressful week becomes a road bump instead of a roadblock. “Maintenance is a love note to your body and your brain." - Amy Rudolph "Rearrange some things, say no, delegate, and put strength training on your freakin' schedule." - Iris Deadlifts This week on Capable and Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck: Navigating fat loss as a busy momWhy you need a foundation before a calorie deficitPlanning for food when life gets chaoticUsing flexibility within structureWhy strength training is a non-negotiableThe importance of maintenance for long-term resultsRecognizing exceptions versus unhealthy patternsAvoiding FOMO and comparison in your fitness journey Resources Mentioned: How to Eat More Calories at Maintenance (& Other Questions) EpisodeIris Deadlifts on InstagramAmy Rudolph on InstagramWork with us at Beth Feraco Fitness Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Capable and Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Apple Podcasts | Spotify Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us! Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram and Amy Rudolph on Instagram.

In today’s episode, we’re talking about diet culture, body image, extreme thinness, and the ever-changing standards women are expected to meet with dietitian and social media educator Abby Langer. We dig into the return of extreme thinness as an aspirational ideal, the influence of GLP-1s and social media, and why we should be questioning the messages telling us that smaller, younger-looking bodies are inherently healthier or more desirable. We also talk about what malnutrition can actually look like, why you can’t determine someone’s health from their appearance alone, and how easily we can internalize these standards without even realizing it. We also get into the practical side of navigating diet culture, including how to identify nutrition misinformation, why credentials and follower counts don’t automatically make someone trustworthy, how social media can exploit our insecurities, and how parents can help their kids develop a healthier relationship with food, bodies, and the internet. Most importantly, this conversation is about learning to recognize when we’re being sold something designed to make us smaller—and deciding that we don’t have to buy into it. “If we don’t talk about it, we’re allowing it.” - Abby Langer “After decades and decades of internalizing this messaging, we have to start to wake up and recognize that we've been sold a lie. It's been a lie." - Abby Langer This week on Capable & Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck: Why extreme thinness keeps coming back as an idealHow GLP-1s have changed the conversation around weight lossWhy you can’t determine someone’s health from their appearanceHow women internalize body standards from an early ageWhy menopause and aging have become targets for the wellness industryHow to spot nutrition misinformation and fear-based marketingHow social media can reinforce body dissatisfaction and diet cultureRaising kids without passing down body shame and food rules Connect with Abby Langer or Langer Nutrition:  Abby Langer on InstagramAbby Langer - Canada's Food and Nutrition ExpertLanger Nutrition BlogBite Me. By Abby LangerAggressive Salad with Abby Langer Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Capable & Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Apple Podcasts | Spotify Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us! Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram and Amy Rudolph on Instagram.

In today's episode, we dive into what it means to “fall to the level of your systems” in health and fitness, focusing on meal planning and prepping, getting in NEAT, and going to the gym. We share our own experiences and many practical tips for making food prep, meal planning, and nutrition easier. We also move into the fitness side of things, sharing the power of walking, explaining how to rack up steps throughout your days, and how to find your best gym schedule. It’s all about setting yourself up for success in a way that's flexible and adaptable to your needs. We chat about the importance of finding what works for you, emphasizing that there's no one-size-fits-all solution to health and fitness. We also share stories about what happens when things don't go as planned and how to adjust without feeling like you've failed. By the end of this episode, you'll have a bunch of ideas on how to create systems that not only support your goals but also fit into your life without adding stress. “Decision fatigue is a real thing, especially when you have goals with nutrition and fitness, and you’re creating a new lifestyle that supports where you want to be.” - Iris Deadlifts “The power of being outside doing some exercise and having something other than the inside of your house to look at can be incredibly uplifting.” - Meri “Curiosity over judgement.” - Amy Rudolph This week on Capable & Worthy: Meal prep variations and how to find what suits your style and preferencesHow to automate certain aspects of health and fitness to reduce decision fatigueOur unique systems for meal prep, NEAT, and the gymFreedom in StructureWhat are movement snacks and how you can use themWhat is temptation bundling to help us do the things we need to doThe benefits of having a structured gym plan Connect with us: Iris Deadlifts on InstagramAmy Rudolph on Instagram Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Capable & Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Apple Podcasts | Spotify | GooglePlay | iHeartRadio Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us! Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram, and Amy Rudolph on Instagram.

In today’s episode, we’re talking about lipedema with Dr. Chase Miller, a doctor of physical therapy and certified lymphedema therapist. We dig into what lipedema actually is, how it differs from lymphedema and obesity, what symptoms to look for, and why lipedema is so frequently misunderstood or misdiagnosed. We also discuss what we know - and what we still don’t know - about the role of genetics, hormones, puberty, pregnancy, menopause, and adipose tissue dysfunction. We also get into the practical side of managing lipedema, including compression, exercise, strength training, cardiovascular exercise, nutrition, calorie deficits, and surgical interventions like liposuction. Most importantly, this conversation is about giving people realistic expectations without taking away their sense of agency. Lipedema may change what your body does, but there are still plenty of tools in your toolbox - and early education, consistent habits, and acceptance can help you manage the condition and give yourself the best chance of maintaining your health and quality of life. "Diet will always matter, no matter if they have that body type or not. But diet does not simply eliminate lipedema tissue.” - Chase Miller, DPT “Generally, for people who live an active or healthy lifestyle, lipedema symptoms tend to manage better." - Chase Miller, DPT This week on Capable & Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck: What lipedema is and how it differs from lymphedema and obesityCommon physical signs and symptoms of lipedemaThe potential role of genetics and hormonal changesWhy lipedema can be painful, tender, and difficult to identifyHow compression may help with comfort and circulationThe role of strength training, cardio, and staying activeWhether a calorie deficit affects lipedema fat and body proportionsWhat to know before considering liposuction or other interventions Connect with Adjuvant Physical Therapy / Chase Miller DPT, CLT, AIB-VRC:  Adjuvant Physical Therapy WebsiteAdjuvant PT on InstagramAdjuvant PT on Facebook Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Capable & Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Apple Podcasts | Spotify Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us! Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram and Amy Rudolph on Instagram.

In today’s episode, we're challenging one of the biggest myths in health and fitness: that successful people simply have more willpower. We unpack what the latest research actually says about willpower, self-control, and why relying on motivation and discipline alone is a losing strategy. Instead, we explore how your environment, habits, and daily routines quietly shape the choices you make—often without you even realizing it. We also dive into the deeper reasons people struggle with nighttime eating, emotional eating, people-pleasing, chronic dieting, and feeling "stuck." From stress, sleep, and shame to calorie deficit mentality and difficult conversations, this episode is about moving beyond white-knuckling your way through health goals and creating a lifestyle that actually supports the life you want to live. If you've ever believed you just need more discipline, this conversation might completely change the way you approach lasting behavior change. ""Don't let your life go by without getting to know yourself and getting curious." - Bri Reinecke "What is it costing you to stay where you are?" - Tiffany Gamble This week on Capable and Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck: Why willpower isn't the secret to successful weight loss or healthy habitsWhat current research says about self-control and behavior changeHow your environment influences your eating habits more than disciplineWhy stress, poor sleep, and under-fueling make cravings feel impossible to resistThe connection between people-pleasing, boundaries, and your health goalsHow years of dieting create a "calorie deficit mindset" that keeps you stuckPractical ways to reduce decision fatigue and make healthy choices easierWhy curiosity - not guilt or shame - is the key to creating lasting change Connect with Us: Iris Deadlifts on InstagramAmy Rudolph on InstagramWork with us at Beth Feraco Fitness Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Capable and Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Apple Podcasts | Spotify Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us! Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram and Amy Rudolph on Instagram.

In today’s episode, we answer some of the most common questions we get about fat loss, strength training, workout programming, breastfeeding hunger and cravings, what to do when the people around you don't share your health and fitness priorities. We kick things off with a candid conversation about what’s happening in our own lives - from moving houses and navigating postpartum fitness to preparing for intentional fat loss phases - and why timing matters more than chasing the "perfect" plan. This episode is all about meeting yourself where you are, choosing the right season for your goals, and creating habits you can actually sustain for life. "If you're going to be in a fat loss phase, be in it, and be in it all the way." - Amy Rudolph "My empathy and understanding for parents has shot through the roof. And my patience for excuses has plummeted through the floor." - Iris Deadlifts This week on Capable and Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck: How to know when it's actually the right time to start a fat loss phaseDo you absolutely have to change your workout every 4–6 weeksNavigating breastfeeding hunger, food noise, and body image during postpartumPractical strategies for staying on track while traveling or on vacationFinding supportive people when your friends and family aren't on the same journeyWhy communication with your partner can make or break your successHow eliminating weight-loss deadlines leads to better long-term results Resources Mentioned / Connect with Us: Iris Deadlifts on InstagramAmy Rudolph on InstagramWork with us at Beth Feraco FitnessIs HIIT required for visceral fat loss? (& other training questions) with Coach Bri Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Capable and Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Apple Podcasts | Spotify Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us! Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram and Amy Rudolph on Instagram.

In today’s episode, we’re discussing three topics that have been flooding our client conversations lately: the truth about electrolyte supplements, why higher-calorie foods deserve a place in a healthy diet, and what progressive overload actually means if your goal is building muscle. We separate hydration facts from marketing hype, breaking down when electrolyte supplements might actually be useful, and chat about overcoming the fear of calorie-dense foods, and how constantly chasing the lowest-calorie option can sometimes work against your goals. We also unpack one of the most misunderstood concepts in strength training: progressive overload. We explain why it's about creating more stimulus, not simply lifting heavier every workout, and how adapting your training to your energy levels is often the smartest way to stay consistent. "It's more than just what we want the scale to do—it's how we want our body to operate." - Amy Rudolph "You cannot think your way into a new way of acting. You have to act your way into a new way of thinking." - Iris Deadlifts This week on Capable and Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck: Why most people don't actually need electrolyte supplementsThe difference between dehydration that needs water versus electrolytesHow electrolyte marketing has convinced healthy people they need more than they doWhy healthy fats and higher-calorie foods belong in a balanced dietHow fear of calorie-dense foods can lead to under-fueling and stalled progressWhat progressive overload really means (and why it isn't just lifting heavier)How to adjust your workouts without sacrificing strength and muscle growth Connect with Us: Iris Deadlifts on InstagramAmy Rudolph on InstagramWork with us at Beth Feraco Fitness Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Capable and Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Apple Podcasts | Spotify Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us! Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram and Amy Rudolph on Instagram.

In today’s episode, Elaina Efird, Registered Dietitian and Eating Disorder Specialist, joins us to help clarify the fine line between disordered eating behaviors and clinically diagnosed eating disorders. She explains how the level of obsession and obsessive behaviors with food, weight, and body image can be a key indicator, emphasizing the importance of recognizing early signs of unhealthy patterns, and we touch on the growing awareness of conditions like Orthorexia, which can still be incredibly harmful, while not formally diagnosed. We also explore how societal pressure and social media contribute to disordered eating behaviors, and the importance of fostering healthy relationships with food, both for ourselves and for the next generation. Elaina shares practical tips on mindful eating practices and how to prioritize health-focused behaviors over pure aesthetics. We discuss fostering healthy eating behaviors in children from a young age, and honoring children’s natural hunger and fullness cues, rather than forcing them to finish their plates, which can disrupt their innate ability to regulate food intake. We chat about how establishing boundaries around mealtimes, encouraging mindful eating, and creating consistent family rituals can set a strong foundation for a positive relationship with food. By modeling healthy behaviors and avoiding restrictive food practices, parents can help prevent future disordered eating patterns in their kids. “We need to shift the focus away from how our bodies look and towards the behaviors that truly define health—eating well, moving in ways we enjoy, and managing stress.” - Elaina Efird, RD “Hunger and fullness cues are innate cues since birth. We, as adults, have learned how to ignore them.” - Elaina Efird, RD This week on Capable & Worthy: Eating disorders vs disordered behaviorsSocietal pressure to avoid fatness fuels disordered eatingProfessional help should be sought early when food obsession negatively impacts lifeEarly recognition and professional support can prevent the progression from disordered eating to a full-blown eating disorderSetting boundaries around food behaviors, especially with children, fosters a healthy relationship with eatingMindful eating practices like focusing on your five senses can help reconnect with your body’s cuesKids often have a natural sense of hunger and fullness—trust them, and avoid forcing them to clean their platesTeaching children to sit down for meals and focus on their food helps build lifelong mindful eating habitsRole-modeling a positive relationship with food and not restricting certain foods can prevent children from developing secretive or binge behaviors later in life Connect with Elaina Efird, RD: Elaina Efird, RD on InstagramEfird Nutrition Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Capable & Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Apple Podcasts | Spotify Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us! Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram, Meri on Instagram, and Amy Rudolph on Instagram.

In today’s episode, we have a real, unfiltered conversation about shame as a motivator, why it doesn’t work long-term, and how so many of us internalized it from diet culture, old-school coaching, and even shows like The Biggest Loser. We unpack what we’re seeing across social media and in our clients - women getting right up to the edge of change… and then bailing on themselves. We discuss the difference between guilt and shame, and why confusing the two can keep you stuck in the same cycles for years. We dive into why shame is a terrible long-term motivator for fat loss and healthy habits, how guilt can actually be useful, and why making a realistic plan - then simply doing it - is one of the most powerful things you can do to build self-trust. We also talk about delegation, boundaries, people-pleasing, “grace” vs. avoidance, and how small 1% changes compound into massive transformation over time. “Guilt says I did something wrong. Shame says I am wrong.” - Amy Rudolph “Two things can be true - this is what I’ve always done and it feels comfortable… and it’s not the thing that’s going to serve me.” - Iris Deadlifts This week on Capable & Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck: Why shame-based motivation fails long-termThe critical difference between guilt vs. shame in behavior changeHow shame destroys self-trust and locks you into a fixed identityThe “wagon wheel ruts” metaphor - why old habits feel automaticGrace vs. avoiding accountability (and how to tell the difference)Why planning ahead for events (holidays, travel, weekends, Super Bowl parties) changes everythingThe power of making a reasonable plan and actually following throughHow 1% improvements and boring basics compound into real lifestyle change Connect with Us: Iris Deadlifts on InstagramAmy Rudolph on InstagramWork with us at Beth Feraco Fitness Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Capable & Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Apple Podcasts | Spotify Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us! Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram and Amy Rudolph on Instagram.

When you're diagnosed with Hashimoto's, hypothyroidism, lupus, or another autoimmune condition, it's easy to believe your health is out of your control. In today’s episode, fellow Team BFF coach Tiffany Gamble joins us to share her journey from working in healthcare to losing 65 pounds, being diagnosed with Hashimoto’s, hypothyroidism, and lupus, and discovering that the biggest improvements in her health didn't come from trendy supplements or quick fixes - they came from consistently doing the basics. We dive into thyroid testing, how to advocate for yourself when doctors dismiss your symptoms, why so many women feel stuck after a diagnosis, and the role nutrition, movement, hydration, and strength training play in managing chronic illness. If you've ever felt like your diagnosis means you'll never lose weight or feel good again, this conversation will leave you feeling informed, empowered, and hopeful. "I have two choices. I can either do everything that I can to mitigate what I'm feeling... or I can just lay down and exist.” - Tiffany Gamble "If you don't do something when you feel like you need to do something, then that's gonna be a problem." - Tiffany Gamble This week on Capable & Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck: Tiffany's journey through Hashimoto's, hypothyroidism, lupus, and a 65-pound weight lossCommon thyroid symptoms that are often overlooked or dismissedWhy "normal" thyroid labs don't always tell the whole storyHow to advocate for yourself when you know something feels wrongThe role nutrition, hydration, movement, and strength training play in managing autoimmune conditionsHow tracking your food can help you identify patterns and improve your healthWhy the boring basics consistently outperform quick fixes for long-term health Connect with Tiffany Gamble:  Coach Tiffany Gamble on Instagarm - Fed Up with FadsWork with us at Beth Feraco Fitness Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Capable & Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Apple Podcasts | Spotify Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us! Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram and Amy Rudolph on Instagram.

In today’s episode, we're answering more of your most thoughtful questions - from what we do outside of fitness to the lessons we'd share with our younger selves before years of dieting, body comparison, and chasing impossible standards. We talk about hobbies, self-care, body image, and why slowing down might be one of the most underrated skills in health and fitness. We also dive into a topic that comes up constantly in coaching: feeling discouraged by "slow" progress. We unpack why sustainable fat loss, body recomposition, and habit change are supposed to take time, how impatience keeps people stuck in the diet cycle, and what to do when emotional eating or overeating certain foods continues to show up despite your best intentions. If you've ever felt frustrated by the pace of your results or wondered if you're doing enough, this conversation is for you. "If the methods are not sustainable to get you to where you want to go, the results that you achieve from those methods will also be unsustainable." - Amy Rudolph "What if you're not something to be fixed? Like, what if you're not broken?" - Iris Deadlifts This week on Capable and Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck: Why hobbies and joy outside of fitness matter for long-term well-beingThe role of rest, relaxation, and nervous system regulationWhat we'd tell our teenage selves about our bodiesHow body comparison steals time, energy, and confidenceWhy sustainable fat loss should feel slower than most people expectThe habits and behaviors that actually create lasting resultsWhy some foods are easier to overeat - and what to do about itHow emotional eating patterns can reveal unmet needs and hidden stressors Connect with Us: Iris Deadlifts on InstagramAmy Rudolph on InstagramWork with us at Beth Feraco Fitness Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Capable and Worthy: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Apple Podcasts | Spotify Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us! Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram and Amy Rudolph on Instagram.