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Most people don’t want a bitter, drawn-out divorce, yet many end up in one simply because that’s how the system is set up. Rock Rocheleau, a Las Vegas divorce attorney who has spent years watching couples fight over things they’d mostly agreed on, thinks there’s a better way to begin. His firm has built an approach around what he calls a “no-fight divorce,” and the idea is simpler than you’d expect. In this podcast episode, Rock explains why the court system tends to turn a family problem into a legal battle, and why a single piece of paper can change how two spouses talk to each other. You’ll hear how his firm uses an online structured negotiation tool and an AI assistant to help couples understand the rules of divorce, trade proposals, and avoid having the kinds of conversations that make things worse.  You’ll also discover why he no longer bills clients by the hour, focusing instead on task-based flat fees. Those make the price of fighting more visible and enable clients to clearly weigh the cost of fighting over the value of what they’re fighting for.  Rock also gets honest about the limits of self-representation, alerting clients to situations where NOT having a lawyer could hurt their case. Whether you’re facing divorce, are a divorce professional, or you’re just curious about whether there’s a less painful path through divorce, this episode is worth a listen. About Rock Rock Rocheleau is the managing attorney at Right Lawyers in Las Vegas, Nevada, a firm dedicated exclusively to handling divorce and custody cases. Rock and his firm stand out by utilizing flat-fee pricing rather than traditional hourly rates, bringing predictability and transparency to their clients. Recognized for their exceptional service and dedication to families in transition, Rock and Right Lawyers have been voted Best of Las Vegas Divorce Lawyer eight times in a row. Connect with Rock You can follow Rock on YouTube at @Rightlawyers. To learn more about his work, visit Right Lawyers, and to explore his new AI-assisted legal service, visit No Fight Divorce. Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach and Consultant, Lawyer, Author, and Speaker who is dedicated to helping people make the best decisions possible for themselves, their families, and their future - especially in stressful times. You can check out Karen's videos on YouTube. You can connect with Karen on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and on her own website at karencovy.com.

The scariest part of divorce court isn’t knowing you’re right. It’s realizing that being right may not be enough. In this podcast episode, family law attorney Wendy Hernandez, who has spent 27 years in Arizona family courtrooms, explains why preparation is what turns your facts, evidence, and story into something a judge can actually use, and why simply walking into court expecting “the truth” to win can be a costly mistake. From understanding the rules of family court to deciding which battles are worth fighting, Wendy breaks down what it really takes to prepare for divorce. She also reveals what really happens at a divorce trial, where tight time limits, credibility problems, unexpected objections, and a judge’s discretion can dramatically affect the outcome … even when you believe you have a strong case. We also explore why settling can give you something trial never can: more control over what happens next.  Whether you have a lawyer, are considering representing yourself, or are trying to decide whether to settle or keep fighting, understanding the divorce process before you make your next move could save you money, reduce uncertainty, and change the way you approach your divorce. About Wendy Wendy Hernandez has spent 27 years in Arizona family courtrooms, guiding thousands of clients through divorce, custody, and child support with preparation instead of false hope. She is the creator of Command the Courtroom, a popular YouTube channel and education platform with over 46,000 subscribers and 5 million views worldwide. Drawing from decades of courtroom experience, Wendy distills complex legal processes into plain-language strategies, empowering individuals—whether represented or self-represented—to navigate the family court system with clarity, confidence, and peace. Connect with Wendy You can connect with Wendy on Facebook at Command the Courtroom. You can follow Wendy on YouTube at @Commandthecourtroom and on Instagram at commandthecourtroom. To learn more about her book, Legally Ending Love: A Courtroom Savvy Guide to Divorce and Beyond, and access free resources, visit her website at Legally Ending Love. Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach and Consultant, Lawyer, Author, and Speaker who is dedicated to helping people make the best decisions possible for themselves, their families, and their future - especially in stressful times. You can check out Karen's videos on YouTube. You can connect with Karen on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and on her own website at karencovy.com.

You can be brilliant, successful, and logical and still feel helpless in the one place that matters most: your closest relationships. In this podcast episode, Dre Baldwin, a former professional athlete turned performance coach, explains why high-achieving people can struggle to make difficult decisions in their relationships, even when they know something needs to change. He explores the mental blocks, rationalizations, and blind spots that can keeps people locked in the same marriage fight instead of confronting what’s really going on. Dre presents a practical way to approach relationship problems before they turn into resentment. HE also shares how to raise a difficult issue, get your partner engaged in the conversation, and figure out whether you’re dealing with a problem that can actually be solved or a circumstance you may just have to accept … or not. Dre also explains why waiting until you have complete clarity before making a decision can keep you frozen, and how taking action can reveal information you simply can’t get by thinking harder. This conversation also digs into a challenge many successful professionals face: the skills that make you a strong leader at work can create conflict when you bring them home.  Dre explores how power, judgment, communication, and curiosity affect connection, and why changing the way you approach a difficult conversation can sometimes change the response you get. Most importantly, he shows how learning to listen for what isn’t being said may be just as important as finding the right words to say. About Dre Dre Baldwin is the founder of Work On Your Game®, a performance system for executives, business owners, and organizations. A former 9-year professional athlete, 4-time TEDx speaker, and author of 43 books, his work has reached over 100 million people worldwide. Dre helps leaders install execution discipline, decision-making structure, and executive presence—eliminating inconsistency and improving organizational performance through repeatable systems. Connect with Dre You can connect with Dre on Facebook at Work On Your Game University. You can follow Dre on YouTube at @DreAllDay, on X at @DreAllDay, on Instagram at DreBaldwin, and listen to his podcast Work On Your Game. You can also get a free copy of his book, The Third Day: The Decision That Separates the Pros from the Amateurs, here. If you’re interested in learning more about Dre’s Power Presence Protocol, visit the appropriate link below: For Leaders & Operators: → http://www.PowerPresenceProtocol.com For Teams: → http://www.WorkOnYourGame.com/ERI Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach and Consultant, Lawyer, Author, and Speaker who is dedicated to helping people make the best decisions possible for themselves, their families, and their future - especially in stressful times. You can check out Karen's videos on YouTube. You can connect with Karen on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and on her own website at karencovy.com.

A late-night phone call from a terrified eight-year-old changed how one divorce attorney thinks about conflict forever. In this podcast episode, family law attorney and mediator Sharon deFala shares the story behind that call, and how it pushed her away from conducting divorce fights in court and toward resolving them in a calmer, more compassionate way. What she's learned along the way challenges a lot of assumptions about what actually damages kids, and what keeps exes fighting long after the marriage is over. Sharon breaks down why so many divorce disputes never seem to end, even when the money at stake is small. Sharon discovered that most drawn-out legal fights aren't really about assets or unfairness at all, but about something much harder to let go of.  Sharon explores why some couples remain emotionally attached to the fight, how outside opinions can derail a settlement that actually works, and why dealing with a high-conflict spouse may require you to stop trying to change them and start looking for another path to your goal. By shifting the focus from winning, fairness, and rigid legal positions to dealing with the everyday realities both you and your ex will soon face, you can change your entire divorce process.   What's more, the choices you make during your divorce will determine whether you carry the conflict with you long after the divorce is over. If you're embroiled in a divorce fight that seems like it will never end, this podcast episode may just change the entire course of your divorce. About Sharon Sharon Oberst DeFala is a family law attorney, mediator, holistic divorce professional, and Reiki Master who has been helping individuals and families navigate life's transitions with compassion and clarity since 1992. Known as the "divorce attorney with a heart," Sharon combines decades of legal experience with a holistic approach that prioritizes not only the outcome of a divorce, but how clients move through the process. She is also the author of the book, Love Your Divorce: Your Guide to a Holistic Happier Ever After. Connect with Sharon You can connect with Sharon on Facebook at Sharon DeFala and follow her on Instagram at sharondefala. To learn more about Sharon's work and her book, Love Your Divorce: Your Guide to a Holistic Happier Ever After, connect with her via her social media channels. Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach and Consultant, Lawyer, Author, and Speaker who is dedicated to helping people make the best decisions possible for themselves, their families, and their future - especially in stressful times. You can check out Karen's videos on YouTube. You can connect with Karen on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and on her own website at karencovy.com.

Somewhere between 35 and 40, your body starts a hormonal countdown that can quietly change the way you see your marriage, your career, and even yourself. Women’s health and fitness expert Corry Matthews explains how intertwined menopause and marriage can be and how hormonal changes that begin in your mid-30s can do far more than cause hot flashes. They can affect your mood, metabolism, confidence, relationships, and even your ability to make clear decisions.  Corry explores what happens when shifting estrogen and progesterone collide with the pressures of midlife, and why women who suddenly feel angry, exhausted, foggy, or simply “not like themselves” may want to look at their health before making major life changes. She also explains why standard hormone testing doesn’t always tell the whole story, what other health markers may provide clues, and how stress can make an already complicated hormonal picture even harder to navigate. If your patience is gone, your body feels unfamiliar, and your relationship suddenly feels harder and more frustrating, you’re not alone and you’re not imagining it. But before you blow up your marriage, make sure it’s not just your hormones that are blowing up your life. This episode will show you how to identify whether it’s your marriage or menopause that needs help, and exactly what to do to get back on track. About Corry Corry Matthews is a fitness, nutrition, and women’s health expert with nearly 30 years of experience and a Master’s degree in Sports Medicine, with a background in exercise physiology. She works primarily with women over 40, helping them understand the physical changes of perimenopause, menopause, and midlife so they can make better decisions about their health and their lives. Through Strength & Grace, Corry helps women stop hiding behind their health and build habits that support their confidence, relationships, and the life they want to live. Connect with Corry You can connect with Corry on Facebook at Corry Matthews. You can follow Corry on YouTube at @CorryMatthews and on Instagram at corrymatthews. You can find her recipe cookbook here, and you can learn more about her 21-Day Nutrition Reset here. Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach and Consultant, Lawyer, Author, and Speaker who is dedicated to helping people make the best decisions possible for themselves, their families, and their future - especially in stressful times. You can check out Karen's videos on YouTube. You can connect with Karen on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and on her own website at karencovy.com.

Divorce can quietly cost you six figures if you don't know where to look or what to look for. Unfortunately, most people have no idea how many divorce money mistakes they’ve made until their divorce is long over and they’re stuck with a result they can’t change. Certified Divorce Financial Analyst Sue Plisch has spent years helping people uncover hidden income, decode confusing pay stub abbreviations, and catch the kind of overlooked details that can make or break a settlement. Her approach goes beyond just splitting assets down the middle; it's about understanding what a truly fair outcome looks like for your specific situation. From hidden executive compensation and overlooked assets to retirement accounts that aren’t worth what they appear to be, divorce finances are rarely as simple as dividing everything 50/50. Sue explores some of the financial traps people commonly miss, including why keeping the family home may not be as affordable as you think, how joint debt can put your credit at risk, and why two retirement accounts with identical balances may have very different values after taxes. You’ll also discover why preparing financially before your divorce can give you more options and more control both during and after your divorce, especially if your spouse has traditionally handled the money. From tracking your real expenses and establishing credit in your own name to finding financial information you may not have access to, Sue shares practical ways to protect yourself and explains why the way you structure your settlement can sometimes matter just as much as how much money you receive. About Sue Sue Plisch, CFP®, CDFA®, is the founder of Resilient Divorce Solutions. Drawing on more than 17 years as a mathematics educator, financial planner, and her own personal experience with divorce, Sue helps clients make confident financial decisions and avoid costly, six-figure mistakes. Outside of her work empowering clients through life transitions, Sue is a mother of three teens who enjoys hiking, paddleboarding, playing board games, and learning Spanish. Connect with Sue You can connect with Sue on LinkedIn at Sue Plisch and on Facebook at Resilient Divorce Solutions. You can follow Sue on Instagram at smartsplitsue. To learn more about working with Sue, visit her website at Resilient Divorce Solutions. And you can download her free e-book, 10 Financial Mistakes to Avoid in Divorce, here. Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach and Consultant, Lawyer, Author, and Speaker who is dedicated to helping people make the best decisions possible for themselves, their families, and their future - especially in stressful times. You can check out Karen's videos on YouTube. You can connect with Karen on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and on her own website at karencovy.com.

What if getting divorced didn't mean losing years of your life to an expensive courtroom battle that ruined your finances AND your co-parenting relationship with your ex? That’s the question attorney Amanda Mason set out to answer with her new divorce alternative, Solagree. Amanda is a family law attorney, mediator, and founder of Solagree, a mediated arbitration process that offers couples a structured way to resolve even difficult divorce issues privately, efficiently, and with more control. Instead of starting with litigation, in the Solagree process couples move through education, negotiation, and, when necessary, private decision-making to resolve their divorce issues. The process combines divorce coaches, financial professionals, parenting specialists, attorney-mediators, and arbitrators who work with a couple to guide them through their divorce more efficiently and cost-effectively. What’s most impressive is that this process doesn’t depend on everyone being perfectly cooperative. It contains built-in ground rules that are designed to deal with spouses who delay, refuse to provide financial information, or otherwise try to derail the process. For business owners, high-net-worth couples, and anyone worried about privacy, mediated arbitration can also keep sensitive financial and business information out of a public courtroom while still providing access to tools such as business valuations and forensic accounting.  Divorce doesn’t need to be conducted in an open-ended court battle. Solagree provides a way for couples to get binding decisions, protect themselves, and move forward without putting themselves or their families through exhausting litigation. If you or someone you know is trying to find a better, more efficient, and less expensive way to divorce, this episode is one you won’t want to miss. About Amanda Amanda Mason is the CEO and founder of SOLAGREE®, a groundbreaking nationwide platform that replaces public courtroom battles with a structured, virtual, and flat-fee mediated-arbitration process. A partner at Mason, Mason, & Smith in Wilmington, North Carolina, Amanda brings over two decades of legal experience, with extensive expertise as a dedicated family law attorney and DRC Certified Mediator.  Connect with Amanda You can connect with Amanda on Facebook at Solagree and follow her on Instagram at amandamasonatty. To learn more about how to work with Amanda, visit her website at SOLAGREE®. Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach and Consultant, Lawyer, Author, and Speaker who is dedicated to helping people make the best decisions possible for themselves, their families, and their future - especially in stressful times. You can check out Karen's videos on YouTube. You can connect with Karen on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and on her own website at karencovy.com.

When your child’s future depends on a custody evaluator’s recommendation, the way you present your story can matter almost as much as the story itself. In Part 2 of this conversation with custody evaluation expert Reneé Rodriguez, we talk about how parents can build a focused, credible body of evidence that helps evaluators understand what is really happening with their kids, without overwhelming the evaluator with hundreds of texts, accusations, or emotionally charged details. In this episode, Reneé breaks down what actually makes evidence persuasive, from choosing neutral third parties who can speak to your child’s well-being to responding strategically when your co-parent makes allegations against you. She also explores why the custody evaluator (NOT the judge!) may be the most important decision-maker in your case. Renee also discusses how to document troubling patterns that affect your kids without sounding petty, vindictive, or obsessed with every disagreement your co-parent creates.  Finally, she explains what you can do when you believe an evaluator or Guardian ad Litem is biased against you and why protecting your credibility throughout the divorce process is critical. If you or someone you know is embroiled in a high conflict divorce where kids are involved, this special two-part series with Renee Rodriguez is one you’re not going to want to miss.  About Reneé Reneé Rodriguez is the founder of Best Foot Forward Consulting and creator of The Custody Blueprint®. She has spent over a decade helping protective mothers challenge the family court system's default "50/50" custody shortcut by focusing on documented, undeniable facts rather than emotion. Her work sits at the intersection of strategy and advocacy, equipping mothers with the tools to build specific, evaluation-ready, and court-ready case files using her three-pillar methodology: Strategy, Mindset, and Evidence. By giving women the framework to present precise evidence, Reneé empowers them to navigate custody evaluations with confidence and ensure their child's real safety is prioritized. Connect with Reneé You can connect with Reneé on LinkedIn at Best Foot Forward Consulting and on Facebook at The Custody Blueprint. You can follow Reneé on YouTube at @TheCustodyBlueprint and on Instagram at thecustodyblueprint. To learn more about how to work with Reneé and get guidance on your custody situation, visit this personalized link here. You can also learn more about her 12-Week Custody Warriors Engagement program here or reach out directly at [email protected]. Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach and Consultant, Lawyer, Author, and Speaker who is dedicated to helping people make the best decisions possible for themselves, their families, and their future - especially in stressful times. You can check out Karen's videos on YouTube. You can connect with Karen on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and on her own website at karencovy.com.

You can walk into a custody evaluation with the truth on your side and still walk out with a result you never saw coming. That’s the reality that Reneé Rodriguez, founder of Best Foot Forward Consulting and creator of the Custody Blueprint™, helps her clients avoid. Drawing on her own experience going through a custody evaluation, as well as her years as a corporate strategist, Reneé explains why family courts default to equal parenting time and why breaking that default requires a specific kind of documentation, not just a compelling story. In this podcast episode, Reneé walks us through what actually happens during a custody evaluation, from the first intake questionnaire all the way through interviews, psychological testing, and the home visits. She also shares why neutral language, careful documentation, and focusing on what you can prove can be far more powerful than trying to tell an evaluator everything your spouse has ever done. What makes this conversation particularly compelling are the practical details Reneé shares about how to turn years of a relationship into a tight, structured narrative and how to understand what matters to an evaluator in your area. This is the first of a two part series on custody evaluations. If you or someone you know is fighting for more custody or parenting time in their divorce, this two part podcast series should be at the top of your “must listen to” list. (P.S. Don’t forget to subscribe so that you don’t miss part 2 of this important conversation.) About Reneé Reneé Rodriguez is the founder of Best Foot Forward Consulting and creator of The Custody Blueprint®. She has spent over a decade helping protective mothers challenge the family court system's default "50/50" custody shortcut by focusing on documented, undeniable facts rather than emotion. Her work sits at the intersection of strategy and advocacy, equipping mothers with the tools to build specific, evaluation-ready, and court-ready case files using her three-pillar methodology: Strategy, Mindset, and Evidence. By giving women the framework to present precise evidence, Reneé empowers them to navigate custody evaluations with confidence and ensure their child's real safety is prioritized. Connect with Reneé You can connect with Reneé on LinkedIn at Best Foot Forward Consulting and on Facebook at The Custody Blueprint. You can follow Reneé on YouTube at @TheCustodyBlueprint and on Instagram at thecustodyblueprint. To learn more about how to work with Reneé and get guidance on your custody situation, visit this personalized link here. You can also learn more about her 12-Week Custody Warriors Engagement program here or reach out directly at [email protected]. Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach and Consultant, Lawyer, Author, and Speaker who is dedicated to helping people make the best decisions possible for themselves, their families, and their future - especially in stressful times. You can check out Karen's videos on YouTube. You can connect with Karen on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and on her own website at karencovy.com.

What if the fastest way to figure out your next chapter wasn't to spend years in therapy, but to spend a week cooking, healing and having fun in a beautiful European venue alongside strangers who quickly become friends? That's the idea behind the women’s retreats led by Hannah McKitrick, founder of Dolce Vita Experiences. Her retreats are built around food, coaching, and connection for women navigating big life changes.  Unlike a traditional vacation, a retreat combines time away with coaching, reflection, new experiences, and the support of other women. Hannah explores why that combination can quiet self-criticism, create surprising connections, and help you recognize patterns and possibilities that can be difficult to see when you’re handling everyday responsibilities on your own. You’ll also discover why simple experiences - from cooking and sharing meals to spending time at the spa, hiking, or simply having someone else handle the details - can play a bigger role in personal growth than you might expect.  Whether you’re questioning what comes next, in the middle of a difficult life transition, or you’re just ready to build a new chapter, this podcast episode offers a different way to think about what it takes to get out of your head, reconnect with yourself, and move forward with greater clarity. About Hannah Hannah McKitrick is the founder of Dolce Vita Experiences—a travel, wellness, and personal growth company that helps purpose-led women live, lead, and nourish from deep alignment. Through immersive experiences and retreats that combine foodie travel, coaching, and connection, Hannah supports high-achieving leaders and women in transition to recalibrate their nervous systems, reclaim joy, and build a life that feels as good as it looks. Her work blends the energetics of ease and intuition coaching to help women gain clarity and have more fun after a major life transition. Connect with Hannah You can connect with Hannah on LinkedIn at Hannah McKitrick and on Facebook at Hannah McKitrick. You can follow Hannah on Instagram at hannah.mckitrick. To learn more about how to work with Hannah, visit her website at Dolce Vita Experiences. And you can learn more about her upcoming Dolce Vita Reset Retreat in Samos, Greece here. Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach and Consultant, Lawyer, Author, and Speaker who is dedicated to helping people make the best decisions possible for themselves, their families, and their future - especially in stressful times. You can check out Karen's videos on YouTube. You can connect with Karen on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and on her own website at karencovy.com.

Starting over after 50 comes with its own kind of pain … but that’s just one of the things that makes gray divorce different. The legal, financial, and emotional implications that getting a divorce later in life bring can make the difference between enjoying your “golden years,” and trying to play “catch up” at a time in life when you thought you’d be able to relax. In this special solo podcast episode, you’ll discover everything from how to decide if a gray divorce is for you to the legal processes that will help you through it less expensively (or not!). You’ll also learn about the financial realities and relationship concerns with your adult kids that nobody warns you about, and the critical health care considerations you need to understand before finalizing your divorce. But this episode isn't just about logistics. It's about who you become on the other side, how your friendships shift, whether the stigma is as real as it feels, and why some people wait decades to leave when they didn't have to. If you're standing at the edge of a gray divorce, or wondering how anyone survives the practical side of it, this podcast episode is for you. Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach and Consultant, Lawyer, Author, and Speaker who is dedicated to helping people make the best decisions possible for themselves, their families, and their future - especially in stressful times. You can check out Karen's videos on YouTube. You can connect with Karen on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and on her own website at karencovy.com.

Can a marriage survive infidelity, or does trust, once broken, stay broken for good? In this podcast episode, Brannon and Tyler Patrick, brothers and licensed therapists with decades of combined experience helping couples heal from betrayal and addiction, dive deeply into the world of affairs, betrayal, and broken trust.  Known as “The Therapy Brothers,” Brannon and Tyler challenge the way most people think about betrayal, explaining that secrecy, deception, and unspoken expectations are generally at play in a relationship long before any physical line is crossed. The brothers trace how old coping patterns, unaddressed loneliness, and simple neglect can all lead a relationship toward dangerous territory, sometimes without either partner realizing it's happening. They also point out a specific shift in how couples communicate that can either pull them closer together or push them further apart. Most importantly, Brannon and Tyler explain what it really takes to rebuild trust after an affair, and why healing isn't defined only by whether a couple succeeds in saving their marriage or not.  Whether a relationship survives infidelity or ends after it, the brothers offer practical insights into recovering from betrayal, recognizing genuine change, and creating healthier relationships built on honesty, courage, and integrity. If you've ever wondered what separates the couples who make it through from those who don't, this conversation gets right to the heart of it. About Brannon & Tyler Brannon Patrick, LCSW, and Tyler Patrick, LMFT, are brothers and licensed therapists who specialize in helping individuals and couples recover from infidelity, addiction, and broken trust. With more than 20 years of experience each in addiction and trauma treatment, they combine clinical expertise with practical, straightforward guidance. Together, they host The Therapy Brothers, a weekly call-in show with over 500 episodes, where they help people work through betrayal, shame, trauma, and addiction in real time. Their approach focuses on healing the underlying trauma and shame that fuel relationship struggles, helping couples rebuild trust through honesty, accountability, empathy, and resilience. Connect with Brannon & Tyler You can connect with Brannon & Tyler on Facebook at The Therapy Brothers. You can follow Brannon & Tyler on YouTube at @therapy.brothers, on Instagram at therapy.brothers, and on their podcast at The Therapy Brothers. To learn more about their upcoming events, visit their website for men's retreats at Rising Son and women's retreats at Radiant Dawn. Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach and Consultant, Lawyer, Author, and Speaker who is dedicated to helping people make the best decisions possible for themselves, their families, and their future - especially in stressful times. You can check out Karen's videos on YouTube. You can connect with Karen on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and on her own website at karencovy.com.

Your wardrobe holds your entire past life … which is exactly why getting dressed can feel so stressful after a big life change. When your body shifts, your lifestyle changes, or your identity evolves (especially after divorce!) your personal style needs to evolve with you. Otherwise, the closet that used to “work” can start working against you. Personal stylist and wardrobe detox expert, Suzanne Bernie, works with clients going through major life shifts (think divorce, career changes, or major illness) who open their closets and realize that nothing in there matches who they are now. Suzanne explains why so many of us get stuck wearing the same three outfits on repeat, even when we’re surrounded by clothes we once loved. Suzanne reveals why so many closets are full of clothes that never get worn, why black isn't always the safest choice, and how small shifts in color, fit, and styling can completely transform the way you look and feel. Suzanne breaks down what actually makes an outfit look expensive and put-together versus dated, and why the priciest labels aren't usually the answer. If you've ever stood in front of a full closet feeling like you had nothing to wear, or if you want your clothes to match the person you are now, hit play, share this with a friend who’s in transition, and subscribe so you don’t miss what’s next. If you enjoyed it, leave a review and tell me: what’s the one item in your closet you’re ready to retire? About Suzanne Suzanne is a Personal Stylist who works with clients from all business sectors, both internationally and within the UK. She curates perfect outfits tailored to her clients' bodies and styles, offering both personalized shopping experiences and in-home wardrobe detoxes. Passionate about using style to transform lives, Suzanne hosts specialized style workshops for divorcees, as well as workshops for women navigating cancer treatment to help rebuild confidence, boost self-esteem, and inject some well-deserved fun into their journeys. She proudly styles men, women, and members of the LGBTQ+ community of all ages, finding her biggest joy in making people feel absolutely fabulous by dressing them in the perfect colors, shapes, designs, and fabrics. Connect with Suzanne You can connect with Suzanne on Facebook at Suze Bernie Stylist and follow her on Instagram at @suzeberniestylist. You can also visit her website at suzannebernie.com.  Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach and Consultant, Lawyer, Author, and Speaker who is dedicated to helping people make the best decisions possible for themselves, their families, and their future - especially in stressful times. You can check out Karen's videos on YouTube. You can connect with Karen on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and on her own website at karencovy.com.

Feeling buried in debt can make you believe you have no way out … and that’s exactly when you make the biggest financial mistakes. In this podcast episode, attorney William (Bill) Mitchell draws on decades of experience helping both consumers and debt relief companies to explain why so many people end up overwhelmed by debt, and why the right solution depends on your specific financial situation.  Instead of treating debt relief as a one-size-fits-all problem, Bill breaks down the four primary options available for getting out of debt, from debt consolidation loans and credit counseling to debt settlement and bankruptcy. He also explains which option is best for which situation. Bill reveals how rising credit card interest rates, aggressive marketing, and common misconceptions can quietly trap people in a cycle that becomes harder to escape the longer they wait.  The discussion goes beyond debt relief to explore real-world financial decisions that can have lasting consequences, especially during major life transitions like divorce. From handling joint credit card debt and protecting your credit to avoiding predatory debt relief companies and choosing the smartest way to borrow money in a crisis, you'll come away with practical insights that could save you thousands of dollars—and help you make better financial decisions when the stakes are highest.  About Bill William R. (“Bill”) Mitchell is a seasoned attorney with more than two decades of experience helping individuals and businesses find financial freedom and stability. A nationally recognized expert in debt relief and settlement, Bill has guided thousands of consumers toward reducing or eliminating their debt burdens. As one of the few lawyers who has represented both major debt resolution companies and the consumers they serve, he brings a unique 360-degree understanding of the industry to his advocacy. Beyond debt relief, Bill is a trusted business attorney who advises small and mid-sized privately held companies on everything from business formation and financial transactions to contract negotiation and dispute resolution.  Connect with Bill You can follow Bill on YouTube at @LegalEdgeDebtSolutions and on Instagram at legaledgedebtsolutions. You can also purchase his book, Say Goodbye to Credit Card Debt: How to Outsmart the Banks and Avoid Their Traps on Amazon. Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach and Consultant, Lawyer, Author, and Speaker who is dedicated to helping people make the best decisions possible for themselves, their families, and their future - especially in stressful times. You can check out Karen's videos on YouTube. You can connect with Karen on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and on her own website at karencovy.com.

Most people going through divorce focus on finding a good attorney … but that might be the single biggest financial mistake you make. Jamie Lima, certified divorce financial analyst, certified financial planner, and co-founder of SecureSplit, knows that from personal experience. Watching his parents' divorce strain the family financially, then going through his own costly split in 2017, shaped everything about how he now helps people navigate the financial side of divorce so they can get a better divorce settlement. In this podcast episode, Jamie breaks down why relying solely on your attorney can cause you to leave serious money on the table, what a divorce financial team actually looks like, and how AI and specialized software are beginning to reshape divorce-related financial analysis.  Jamie also talks about SecureSplit,  a platform he designed to eliminate the expensive duplication of effort that happens when attorneys, CDFAs, and clients are all working in disconnected systems. He also pulls back the curtain on how AI is quietly reshaping divorce proceedings in ways most people aren't prepared for. From how to prompt AI tools so they actually give you useful information, to the privacy risks most people never consider, to why your ChatGPT history could end up as evidence in your own case, Jamie offers a surprisingly practical (and at times very sobering!) look at what it means to be a smart, informed advocate for yourself in a modern divorce. The tools are powerful. The mistakes are costly. And knowing exactly what you're doing is critical. About Jamie Jamie Lima launched Allegiant Divorce Solutions as a sister company to his traditional financial planning firm after navigating his parents' divorce at a young age and experiencing his own emotionally and financially draining divorce in 2017. With nearly 20 years of financial planning experience, Jamie intimately understands the immense financial challenges individuals face during a split. Realizing that the costly mistakes made in his own divorce could have been avoided with the right support, he became a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®. Today, Jamie is dedicated to helping clients navigate the complex financial aspects of divorce to secure fair settlements with significantly less stress. Connect with Jamie You can connect with Jamie on LinkedIn at Jamie Lima and follow him on Instagram at Allegiant Divorce. To learn more about how to work with Jamie, visit his websites at Allegiant Divorce Solutions and SecureSplit. Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach and Consultant, Lawyer, Author, and Speaker who is dedicated to helping people make the best decisions possible for themselves, their families, and their future - especially in stressful times. You can check out Karen's videos on YouTube. You can connect with Karen on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and on her own website at karencovy.com.