What if the patterns running your life were never yours to begin with? James Kawainui reveals how ancestral trauma, childhood wounds, and unconscious “operating system” beliefs quietly shape the choices we make, the relationships we repeat, and the leadership we bring to work and home.
Dave Roberts guides a powerful conversation with James, a native Hawaiian Kahu healer, teacher, and mentor whose path took him from Navy service and corporate success to a life-changing ancestral awakening at 42. Together they unpack why geographic escape never fixes internal pain, how unresolved conflict keeps recreating itself, and why real transformation begins when you stop outsourcing your power.
You’ll discover:
Why the same emotional script keeps showing up with new people and new circumstancesHow Pono, grounding, and somatic awareness help you recognize what’s happening inside your body before you reactThe difference between helping someone and becoming their guruWhy integrity means knowing your limits, telling the truth, and refusing to give advice that disempowersHow Ho’oponopono works as a process of accountability, listening, self-inquiry, and true resolutionJames also shares the story behind his forthcoming book, What My Ancestors Knew, and explains why the traditional Hawaiian practice of Ho’oponopono is far deeper than a simplified “forgiveness” mantra. He breaks down the sacred process of bringing people together, holding space without interruption, and restoring balance only after every voice is heard.
This episode is especially resonant if you’ve been carrying old pain, repeating the same conflict in different forms, or trying to lead others without first getting honest with yourself. If you’re craving clarity, peace of mind, and a more sovereign way to move through the world, this conversation will meet you right where you are.
Perfect for anyone ready to stop repeating the past, reclaim personal responsibility, and discover what healing looks like when it is rooted in culture, humility, and deep inner truth.
James Bio and Contact Information
James Kealiipiilani Kawainui is a Native Hawaiian Kahu, healer, teacher, and mentor carrying a Kahuna lihim
James lived a full and driven life—serving in the Navy, building custom homes and yachts, and spending 17 years as a corporate executive. Despite outward success, something essential was missing. At 42, he experienced an awakening when his ancestors spoke to him and called him home. He left corporate life and began the path back to his lineage and healing work.
Today James works with people stuck in unresolved conflict, repeating patterns, or quiet self-doubt. He helps them uncover and clear what lies beneath those struggles and find clarity, confidence, and courage.
Rooted in pono—the Hawaiian practice of living in balance, harmony, and integrity—his work includes healing, mentoring, teaching, speaking, and retreats. James is the author of the forthcoming What My Ancestors Knew and is the owner of Red Rock Property Reset, bringing ancestral clearing practices to real estate professionals. He lives in Sedona, Arizona.
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