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(ENG): SUSAN BRATTON: Throatgasms, Sex Tech and 1,000 Threesomes. Watch us on YouTube: https://youtu.be/VCTmuUIdpK4 AD | BEDUCATED: https://beducate.me/lisa or here and use my code PLEASEPINCHMEHARD at the checkout after taking the 2-min quiz for 50% off Susan Bratton has had more than 1,000 threesomes, so who better to tell us what actually makes them hot? In this episode of Deep and Dirty, Lisa and Susan talk about what makes group sex feel safe, connected and genuinely pleasurable. They explore how to communicate your needs, move beyond sexual performance and embrace the awkward moments that naturally happen when bodies come together. The conversation also goes deliciously off-road into throatgasms, yoni massage, sex toys, long-distance intimacy, teledildonics and the science of expanding our capacity for pleasure. Susan also explains why toys are collaborators rather than competition, and why, at 65, she is having the best sex of her life. About Susan Bratton: she is an intimacy expert, bestselling author and sex educator who has helped millions create more pleasure, passion and connection. For more than two decades, she has taught the pleasure-based sex education many of us never received. Find Susan here: Better Lover: https://betterlover.com/ | Susan’s website: https://susanbratton.com/ | Susan’s favourite pleasure tools: https://drivedesire.com/ | Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susanbratton/ | YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BetterLover | Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/trustedhotsexadvisortomillions/ | LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susanbratton/ | X / Twitter: https://x.com/susanbratton I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more! Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under [email protected] More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com) My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook My book SAVED IN NOTES... on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback) Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

(ENG): LADY VYRA: Inside the mind of a dominatrix. Watch this on YouTube: https://youtu.be/R-kAHJTt3jA In this episode, Lisa talks to Berlin-based dominatrix Lady Vyra about sensual dominance, BDSM as bodywork, and why kink can be so much more playful, tender and funny than the clichés suggest. There is movement, theatre, leather, breath, shame, power, and yes: an alien-looking vibrator that left one poor man beautifully confused. Lady Vyra shares stories from her sessions, including couple play-coaching, women discovering their dominant side, and an extended chastity adventure through Berlin involving rules, check-ins, a prison room and a very official-sounding arousal ban. Somehow, between all the whips, cages and roleplay, it becomes a conversation about trust, embodiment and giving yourself permission to want what you want. We also talk about why BDSM can feel almost meditative, how safe words and communication make deeper play possible, and why pleasure deserves a place next to massages, facials and all the other things we casually call self-care. Funny, juicy, thoughtful and surprisingly wholesome in the dirtiest possible way. Find Lady Vyra: https://ladyvyra.com/ | Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ladyvyra_2/ I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more! Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under [email protected] More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com) My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook My book SAVED IN NOTES... on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback) Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

DEEP&DIRTY (DE): Augenkontakt ist intimer als Nacktheit. Und Oral ist meditativ. BEDUCATED: CODE: pleasepinchmehard // LINK HIER oder hier: https://beduc.at/pd2635-ppmh In dieser Folge geht es um zwei Themen, die erst mal wirken, als hätten sie nicht viel miteinander zu tun: Augenkontakt und Oral. Ich schaue mir beides erst getrennt an und merke dann ziemlich schnell: Am Ende geht es bei beiden um Nähe, Fokus und dieses kleine innere „Uff, das ist jetzt aber echt nah“. Es geht darum, warum Augenkontakt sich manchmal intimer anfühlen kann als nackt sein. Warum angeschaut werden so viel auslösen kann. Und warum Oral für manche Menschen etwas Meditatives haben kann: beim Geben durch Fokus, beim Empfangen durch Vertrauen und Loslassen. Eine Folge über Intimität, Kopfkino, Körpergefühl, kleine peinliche Momente, echte Aufmerksamkeit und die Frage, was passiert, wenn wir beim Sex ein bisschen weniger performen und ein bisschen mehr da sind. Prefer the transcript? Find it here. I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more! Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under [email protected] More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com) My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

(ENG): Are we headed towards a sexless society? BEDUCATED: Link here or https://beduc.at/pd2631-ppmh: | Discount Code: pleasepinchmehard MORE ONLINE: https://pleasepinchmehard.com/are-we-headed-toward-a-sexless-society/ Are we headed toward a sexless society, or is desire simply exhausted? In this episode, I talk about dopamine, doomscrolling, dating apps, consent, body image, self-improvement culture and why intimacy can feel so complicated now. Not to shame anyone for having less sex, but to ask what desire needs in order to feel safe, playful and alive again. Less performance. More play. Less perfection. More presence. Less self-surveillance. More tenderness. I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more! Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under [email protected] More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com) My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook My book SAVED IN NOTES... on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback) Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

(ENG): REBECCA MINOR @bi_invisibility: Bi+ invisibility, straight-assumed relationships, identity, motherhood, and finding the words for who you are. Watch this on YouTube: What happens when you know you are queer, but the world keeps reading your life as straight? In this episode, I talk to Rebecca Minor, therapist, gender specialist, author, and co-founder of bi+ (in)visibility. We speak about bi+ invisibility, straight-assumed relationships, identity, motherhood, coming out, bisexual men, community, and the question so many people carry quietly: Am I queer enough? Rebecca reminds us that your actions do not determine your identity. You can be bi, queer, pan, questioning, married, monogamous, a parent, private, visible, or still figuring things out. Your identity is still yours. About Rebecca: Rebecca Minor is a queer therapist, educator, and founder of bi+ (in)visibility, an online community for bi+, pan, and queer people navigating life in straight-assumed relationships. Drawing from both her clinical work and lived experience, Rebecca helps people untangle identity, belonging, visibility, and what it means to be known. Her work has resonated with hundreds of thousands of people who have spent years wondering whether they are "queer enough" and looking for language, community, and connection. She is also the author of Raising Trans Kids: What to Expect When You Weren’t Expecting This. Links: Instagram: @bi_invisibility | @gender.specialist | bi+ (in)visibility: genderspecialist.com/bi-invisibility | Rebecca’s book: Raising Trans Kids: What to Expect When You Weren’t Expecting This I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more! Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under [email protected] More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com) My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook My book SAVED IN NOTES... on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback) Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

DEEP&DIRTY (DE): LOVIS WALTNER - Sexuelle Bildung beginnt an der Supermarktkasse. YouTube Video hier: https://youtu.be/pAGUwrb1c84 BEDUCATED: Link hier oder: https://beduc.at/pd2627-ppmh | Rabatt-Code: pleasepinchmehard ALLE LINKS ZU LOVIS:Website: https://www.hejlovis.com/ | Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hej.lovis.sxpaedagogik |E-Mail: [email protected] ÜBER DIESE FOLGE: Was passiert, wenn ein Kind an der Supermarktkasse fragt, wie das Baby in den Bauch gekommen ist? Oder wenn es in der Badewanne den eigenen Körper entdeckt und sagt: “Das fühlt sich schön an”? In dieser Folge spreche ich mit Sexualpädagogin Lovis Waltner über sexuelle Bildung, die nicht aus dem einen großen, peinlichen Aufklärungsgespräch besteht. Sondern aus vielen kleinen Momenten im Alltag. Lovis macht Mut, nicht perfekt sein zu müssen. Wir dürfen sagen: “Das ist eine gute Frage, ich muss kurz überlegen.” Oder: “Das weiß ich gerade nicht, aber ich finde es heraus.” Wichtig ist, dass Kinder merken: Mit diesen Themen darf ich kommen. Denn wenn Kinder keine Antworten von uns bekommen, suchen sie sie woanders. Bei Freund:innen, im Internet, auf Social Media oder irgendwann in Pornos. DEEP & DIRTY findest du überall, wo es Podcasts gibt, und hier auf YouTube. Über Lovis Waltner | Lovis Waltner ist Sexualpädagogin, Sexualberaterin und Jugend- und Heimerzieherin. Ihr Schwerpunkt liegt in der sexuellen Bildung für Kinder, Jugendliche, Eltern und Fachkräfte. Sie arbeitet unter anderem mit Familien, Schulen, Kindergärten und der Kinder- und Jugendhilfe. In ihrer Arbeit geht es um Körperwissen, Gefühle, Grenzen, Sprache, Selbstbestimmung, digitale Medien und die Frage, wie Erwachsene Kinder und Jugendliche sicher, altersgerecht und unaufgeregt begleiten können. Prefer the transcript? Find it here. I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more! Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under [email protected] More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com) My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

DEEP&DIRTY (DE): HEIßE GEDANKEN FÜR HEIßE TAGE. Es ist heiß. Zu heiß zum Arbeiten, zu heiß zum Schlafen, vielleicht sogar zu heiß für Sex. Aber Fantasie hält sich nicht an Temperaturen. Heiße Gedanken für heiße Tage ist eine Solo-Folge über die Erotik des Unausgesprochenen. Über das Prickeln vor dem ersten Schritt. Über Menschen, die man kaum kennt und trotzdem mitnimmt. Und über Fantasien, die oft ganz leise anfangen. Und ja, ich habe mich mal wieder ans Schreiben auf Deutsch gewagt. Das ist für mich immer noch ungewohnt, also seid lieb zu mir. Prefer the transcript? Find it here. I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more! Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under [email protected] More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com) My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

(ENG): LEA MISHRA // BIWEEKLY SHOP. A conversation about being Bi+, finding language for yourself, and creating everyday ways to feel seen. Watch this on YouTube: https://youtu.be/xhGTrC7TOME In this episode of DEEP & DIRTY, I talk to Lea Mishra, founder of Biweekly, about Bi+ visibility, fashion as a quiet signal, coming out more than once, flirting with women, internalized biphobia, and why so many Bi+ people still feel invisible. Lea shares how the question “Where is everyone?” led her to create Biweekly: a fashion brand using symbols, colors and everyday pieces to make Bi+ identity more visible without having to shout. We talk about being bi in straight-presenting relationships, feeling “too normal” to belong, the pressure and freedom around coming out, and why bisexuality is an attraction, not an action. An episode for everyone who has ever felt not queer enough, too late, too hidden, or unsure whether they count. About Lea Lea Mishra is the founder of Biweekly, a fashion brand creating clothing and accessories for more Bi+ visibility in Europe. Before Biweekly, she co-founded POHA House, a co-living brand focused on community and connection. Lea lives in Zurich, is a mother of two, and is passionate about building brands that create real impact through visibility, belonging and community. Links Website: https://biweekly.shop/deInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/biweekly.shop/TikTok: @biweekly.shop I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more! Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under [email protected] More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com) My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook My book SAVED IN NOTES... on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback) Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

(ENG): MARIE // MOONLIGHT SOIETY. Sex Work Without Shame: Feminism, Kink and Booking Desire. Watch this on YouTube: https://youtu.be/EStZb82xf0k In this episode, I speak with Marie, founder of Moonlight Society Berlin, an escort agency focused on kink-aware, emotionally intelligent companionship. We talk about escort, kink, BDSM and fetish without shame, scandal or judgement. Marie shares why she founded the agency she once needed herself, how feminist sex work can look in practice, and why communication, consent, transparency and emotional intelligence are at the heart of her work. We also explore why booking companionship can be especially powerful for women, queer people and anyone curious about desire, fantasy or kink — but unsure where to begin. A conversation about sex work, brave spaces, conscious encounters and the courage to ask for what you want. ABOUT MARIE // Marie is the founder of Moonlight Society, a Berlin-based boutique escort agency for kink-aware, emotionally intelligent companionship. With a background in journalism, branding, art direction and digital marketing — and her own lived experience in sex work — Marie created Moonlight Society as an ethical, feminist and transparent alternative within the escort industry. LINKS: Moonlight Society: https://moonlight-society.com // Instagram: @moonlightsociety_berlin // Email: [email protected] I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more! Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under [email protected] More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com) My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook My book SAVED IN NOTES... on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback) Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

DEEP&DIRTY (DE): MONE HAZEL - People Pleasing beim Sex. YouTube Video hier: https://youtu.be/C1tTGcYEYMI BEDUCATED: Link hier oder: https://beduc.at/pd2623-ppmh | Rabatt-Code: pleasepinchmehard ALLE LINKS ZU MONE: Website: www.monehazel.de / Instagram: @monehazel / TikTok: @monehazel ÜBER DIESE FOLGE: Was, wenn du gar nicht so unkompliziert bist, sondern einfach gelernt hast, es allen recht zu machen? In dieser Folge von DEEP & DIRTY spreche ich mit Mone Hazel über People Pleasing, Selbstwert und Sex. Wir reden darüber, warum People Pleaser im Bett oft experimentierfreudig wirken, obwohl sie vielleicht vor allem versuchen, zu erraten, was das Gegenüber möchte. Und darüber, was mit Lust passiert, wenn man ständig gefallen, leisten und Konflikte vermeiden will. Es geht um Selbstwert als Grundlage für ehrliche Beziehungen, um Grenzen, Kommunikation, Fantasien und die Frage: Wie finde ich eigentlich heraus, was ich wirklich will? In dieser Folge sprechen wir über: ➡︎ People Pleasing in Beziehungen und beim Sex ➡︎ warum Gefallen nicht dasselbe ist wie Begehren ➡︎ Selbstwert und sexuelle Kommunikation ➡︎ die Angst vor dem Nein ➡︎ Fantasien als Hinweis auf die eigene Lust ➡︎ Männer, Leistungsdruck und emotionale Entwicklung ➡︎ kleine Schritte raus aus dem People-Pleasing-Modus DEEP & DIRTY findest du überall, wo es Podcasts gibt, und hier auf YouTube. Über Mone Hazel Mone Hazel ist Coach, Sexualberaterin und Content-Creatorin. Seit 2019 macht sie Aufklärungs-Content rund um Liebe, Sex und Beziehung und verbindet dabei Fachwissen mit Humor. In ihrer Arbeit stärkt sie vor allem das Selbstwertgefühl von Menschen und begleitet sie dabei, People Pleasing und alte Beziehungsmuster aufzulösen. Prefer the transcript? Find it here. I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more! Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under [email protected] More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com) My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

DEEP&DIRTY (DE): MARC GRÖNNEBAUM - PRESS PLAY: spielen für Erwachsene. YouTube Video hier: https://youtu.be/HE7mnY4RNlg ALLE LINKS ZU MARC: Gratis Gespräch buchen: https://marcgroennebaum.com/discover-what-is-in-for-you/ || Website: marcgroennebaum.com || Instagram: @touch_feel_heal ÜBER DIESE FOLGE: In dieser Folge von DEEP & DIRTY spreche ich mit Marc Grönnebaum, Certified Sexological Bodyworker und Pleasure & Intimacy Coach, über Lust, Leichtigkeit und die Frage, wie wir in Langzeitbeziehungen wieder mehr ins Spielen kommen. Es geht um Berührung ohne Leistungsdruck, um das Ja und Nein im Körper, um verkörperten Konsens und darum, warum Lust nicht immer gesucht, sondern manchmal einfach wieder entdeckt werden darf. Marc erklärt, warum Playfulness nicht erst im Schlafzimmer beginnt, was „Vorspiel“ vielleicht mit unserem Denken über Intimität macht und wie kleine Momente im Alltag wieder Verbindung schaffen können. Eine Folge für alle, die sich lieben, aber manchmal nicht mehr wissen, wie sie sich körperlich begegnen sollen. Und für alle, die Lust nicht als Projekt, sondern wieder als etwas Lebendiges erleben wollen. Prefer the transcript? Find it here. I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more! Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under [email protected] More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com) My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

DEEP&DIRTY (DE): KRISTINA MARLEN - Wir reden zu viel über Sex und berühren uns zu wenig. YouTube Video hier: https://youtu.be/0g5WQeT9Ty8 ALLE LINKS ZU KRISTINA: Website: www.marlen.me // www.marlensworld.com // Instagram: @Kristina.marlen ÜBER DIESE FOLGE: Was, wenn du gar keinen besseren Sex brauchst, sondern erstmal deinen Körper zurück? In dieser Folge spreche ich mit Kristina Marlen über Berührung als sexuelle Bildung, Sexarbeit als Körperwissen und darüber, warum so viele Menschen zwar einen Körper haben, aber kaum noch darin wohnen. Wir reden über Scham, Tabus, Zensur, Bondage, Körperarbeit, Verspieltheit und diese kleinen Wächter im Kopf, die sofort aufspringen, sobald es spannend wird:Darf ich das? Ist das komisch? Bin ich zu viel? Was, wenn ich mich wirklich spüre? Kristina erzählt, warum Berührung manchmal mehr verändert als tausend Gespräche, weshalb Sexarbeit auch Care-Arbeit sein kann und wie ihre Ausbildung Sexcoaching mit dem Wissen und den Fähigkeiten von Sexworker*innen verbindet. Eine Folge über Lust, Nähe, Mut, Körper, Kopf und die ziemlich wichtige Frage, ob wir unsere inneren Wächter nicht einfach mal mit einem Aperol an die Spree setzen sollten. Prefer the transcript? Find it here. I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more! Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under [email protected] More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com) My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

DEEP&DIRTY (DE): Sinan Huemer und Lisa über DIRTY TALK BASICS. In dieser Folge sprechen wir Dirty Talk ohne Cringe: So findet ihr Worte, die wirklich zu euch passen. Der Link zu den Synonymen ist hier: www.pleasepinchmehard.com/andere-worter-fur-muschi-pimmel-und-co-auf-deutsch YouTube Video hier: https://youtu.be/H7Bv-b67bwY ALLE LINKS ZU SINAN: Website: https://www.vikingtantra.com // Podcast: https://www.vikingtantra.com/viking-tantra-podcast // Instagram: @vikingtantra ÜBER DIESE FOLGE: Dirty Talk muss nicht laut, hart oder komplett drüber sein. In dieser Folge sprechen Lisa Opel und Sinan Huemer darüber, wie erotische Sprache im Alltag anfangen kann, warum kopierte Porno-Sätze oft schiefgehen und wieso der beste Einstieg meistens viel simpler ist: sagen, was du fühlst, was du siehst oder was du dir gerade wünschst. Dazu gibt es ehrliche Tipps, Baby Steps, jede Menge Kontext und natürlich eine herrlich absurde Sammlung an Synonymen für Muschi, Pimmel und Co. Prefer the transcript? Find it here. I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more! Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under [email protected] More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com) My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

(ENG): LILIANA LADIOS VELASQUEZ: Horny, Angry & Finally Free: Aging, desire, and the politics of being in a female body. I’m joined by the incredible Liliana aka La Dios: performance artist, comedian, dominatrix, and abortion support doula and we get into everything from sex work and shame to perimenopause, rage, and the very real meaning of my body, my choice. We talk about what BDSM can actually teach you about boundaries (spoiler: a lot), why so many women feel disconnected from their desire right now, and how aging can bring a level of clarity that makes you… significantly less tolerant of nonsense. We also get personal. From her journey through sex work and comedy to the activism that now keeps her up at night, especially around abortion rights and creating spaces where people can make decisions about their bodies without shame or pressure. It’s raw, it’s funny, it’s honest and at times, it might hit a nerve (in the best way). Also: a three-legged cat named Tina Turner makes an appearance. You’re welcome. Watch the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/4X84Zygj-4c About Liliana Liliana Velasquez M., aka La Dios, is a performance artist, comedian, dominatrix, and abortion support doula based in Berlin. Moving between sex work, stage, and activism, she uses her voice (and her presence) to challenge shame, question systems, and stand firmly for body autonomy and consent. Her work is raw, political, and deeply human — always rooted in one thing: freedom of choice. Find Liliana here: www.ladios.me www.timetoshinekink.com   IG: @Ladios_v I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more! Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under [email protected] More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com) My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook My book SAVED IN NOTES... on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback) Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

(ENG): COURTNEY BOYER: I asked my husband for an open marriage after 17 years. Courtney Boyer joins me for a deeply honest, sometimes uncomfortable conversation about desire, shame, and what happens when you stop living your life for approval. We talk about growing up in purity culture, marrying young, and building a life that looked “right” from the outside but didn’t fully feel like hers. After 17 years of marriage, she asked for something that would change everything and we get into what actually happens after a moment like that. Not the fantasy, but the conversations, the fear, the tension, and the growth that follows. We also explore navigating non-monogamy in a monogamous partnership, the emotional reality behind opening a relationship, and why so many women feel disconnected from their own needs in the first place. This isn’t a guide or a blueprint. It’s a real conversation about self-abandonment, reclaiming pleasure, and learning to choose yourself even when it’s messy, complicated, and doesn’t fit into neat labels. About Courtney Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S., is a therapist-turned-relationship coach, writer, and speaker whose work centers on love, desire, and authenticity. She is the author of Not Tonight Honey and Opened, and has been featured in Glamour, Cosmopolitan, The Huffington Post, and BBC Radio Live. Drawing on her background in mental health and sex therapy, she blends professional expertise with lived experience to help women break free from shame, reclaim their voice, and create relationships rooted in honesty and autonomy. She lives in Germany with her husband and three children. Find Courtney here: Instagram: @courtneyboyercoaching - https://www.instagram.com/courtneyboyercoaching/ | Couple IG: @themonopolycouple - https://www.instagram.com/themonopolycouple/ | Website: https://www.courtneyboyercoaching.com Watch the episode on YouTube: Prefer the transcript? Find it here: https://youtu.be/vx53NNR-s-E. I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more! Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under [email protected] More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com) My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook My book SAVED IN NOTES... on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback) Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe