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Send me a text message about this podcast Summary In this episode, Heather Tingle answers common questions about organising zones in the home, focusing on whether doubling up on zones like bedding and tech causes problems or offers benefits. She provides practical advice on system consistency and how to decide the best approach for your space. Key topics The importance of choosing a system for organising zonesPros and cons of having multiple zones for the same itemsHow to decide whether to keep items in one or multiple locationsThe significance of clear zone differentiation to avoid confusionTech organisation: splitting items into work and home tech zonesAvoiding the pitfalls of mixed zones and duplicate storageStrategies for maintaining an efficient and accessible systemThe impact of system consistency on decluttering successUpcoming DeclutterCon 2027 and new resources from Heather Tingle Chapters 00:00 Introduction to doubling zones and common questions 02:24 Pros and cons of having bedding in each room versus one central location 03:21 The pitfalls of mixed zones and scattered storage 04:16 Organising tech: splitting into work and home zones 05:31 The importance of keeping zones distinct to avoid confusion 06:29 Why separating towels and bedding can cause issues 07:23 Benefits of keeping guest bedding and towels in one place 08:14 How a well-organized system saves time and reduces stress 09:11 Summary: how to effectively double up zones without chaos 09:39 Upcoming DeclutterCon 2027 and new resources from Heather Tingle My New Mini Book: Reclaim your Room of Doom: USA Amazon Store Affiliate Link HERE UK Amazon Store Affiliate Link HERE Buy your DeclutterCon 2027 Tickets HERE Find out more/join the Untangled Life Membership for Unlimited* 1:1 Whatsapp Support, strategy sessions and group body doubling zooms. Link HERE. (*within reason) Support the show If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast. Get started with my Zoning and Getting Started Workshop, everything you need to know on how to get started and have the best success when decluttering. Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you! Follow me on Facebook Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link) Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home. Follow me on instagram Feel free to email me: [email protected]  Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.

Send me a text message about this podcast Summary In this episode, Heather Tingle shares practical tips and personal insights on how to make packing and unpacking less stressful, especially for neurodivergent travellers. She discusses strategies to simplify the process, reduce decision fatigue, and create routines that make travel easier. Key topics The emotional and practical challenges of packing and unpackingCreating a standard packing list to reduce decision fatigueGamifying packing and unpacking to save timeOrganising travel essentials for quick accessThe importance of decluttering your wardrobe for easier travelStrategies for managing travel-related stress and fatigueChapters 00:00 The Evolution of Packing and Unpacking 03:50 The Challenges of Unpacking 07:36 Strategies for Easier Packing and Unpacking Support the show If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast. Get started with my Zoning and Getting Started Workshop, everything you need to know on how to get started and have the best success when decluttering. Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you! Follow me on Facebook Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link) Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home. Follow me on instagram Feel free to email me: [email protected]  Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.

Send me a text message about this podcast Summary In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather talks about the clothes that don't fit right now, and why packing them away in a separate box often isn't the answer. Whether it's the bag under the bed marked "one day" or the vacuum pack in the loft, out of sight can quickly become out of mind, especially for neurodivergent brains, and that box can end up holding a lot of quiet guilt along with the clothes. Heather shares a different approach: keep the favourites, the pieces you genuinely love, in with your current clothes, so they're there and ready when they fit again. Bodies change for all sorts of reasons, and a loved dress doesn't need to go just because it doesn't fit this month. She also looks at children's clothes, both the ones they're growing into and the ones they've outgrown, and how keeping the next size where you can see it means it actually gets worn. For the clothes that will never fit again but you adore, Heather talks through ways to keep them close, from repurposing them into cushions, quilts or memory bears, to a memory box, to simply giving them a spot in your wardrobe where they make you smile every day. The simple test is how a piece makes you feel when you see it. If it makes you happy, keep it and enjoy it. If it makes you sad, it might be time to let someone else love it. Plus, a DeclutterCon update: tickets close this Sunday (4th October 26) at 10pm and only a handful are left. Join us on Saturday 10th October 2026 at the Radisson Blu Sheffield, with tickets at decluttercon.co.uk. Timestamps  00:00 Introduction to Decluttering Clothes That Don't Fit 02:46 The Emotional Weight of Clothing and Body Changes 05:34 Keeping Favorites and Letting Go of the Rest 08:38 Creative Ways to Repurpose Cherished Clothing Support the show If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast. Get started with my Zoning and Getting Started Workshop, everything you need to know on how to get started and have the best success when decluttering. Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you! Follow me on Facebook Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link) Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home. Follow me on instagram Feel free to email me: [email protected]  Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.

Send me a text message about this podcast Summary Have you ever been told, or told yourself, that if you really wanted a tidier home you'd have done it by now? In this episode Heather gets into why that message is so untrue, and why wanting it badly is rarely the missing piece. Money, health, energy, the people you live with, inherited stuff and sheer volume all play their part, and so do systems that were built for someone else's brain. Sometimes, though, what keeps you stuck is more psychological than that. Heather talks about how every blitz that slid back and every borrowed system that never stuck quietly gets filed away as evidence that you can't do this. If you're neurodivergent and have spent years braced for criticism, it's no wonder your brain eventually asks why you're even bothering. She shares three stories she sees over and over with clients. The first is the quiet belief that you don't deserve a nice home, or that you'd never keep it nice anyway. The second is the feeling that there's no point until you move or the extension gets built. The third is the idea that nice homes just aren't who you are. That last one is personal. Heather opens up about growing up in doer uppers, envying friends with freshly plastered new builds, nearly writing to DIY SOS, and realising it was never the walls that made her home feel wrong. There's a lot here about perfectionism, and why you're allowed one lovely corner, one comfy nook or one finished drawer even when the rest of the room still needs work. Heather explains avoidance as self preservation: your brain protecting you from disappointment. What breaks the cycle is trusting yourself (or trusting her, if that feels like too much right now), with mindset and action working together. There's also an HSIO moment giving you permission to want and keep a nice home, whatever your family's homes looked like. This is the penultimate episode before DeclutterCon on 10th October at the Radisson Blu, Sheffield, UK. Tickets are on sale until Sunday 4th October, now with live stream tickets available if you can't be there in person. You'll find them at www.decluttercon.co.uk  Timestamps 00:00 - Why decluttering failures are usually psychological, not proof of laziness 00:57 - Why “you don't want it enough” is a damaging myth 03:21 - Why self-help advice often misses the real problem 05:15 - Wanting it badly can become part of the overwhelm 06:14 - When the issue is systems, not mindset 06:43 - Why blitz decluttering works briefly and then falls apart 09:07 - The hidden belief that you do not deserve a nice home 10:31 - “It is temporary” and why waiting can last for years 13:49 - Perfectionism and the belief that a home must be fully finished to be worth loving 15:40 - Self-preservation, avoidance, and the cycle that keeps people stuck 19:07 - Why mindset and action both have to change together 19:37 - Heather Says It Is Okay: permission to want and keep a nice home 20:36 - Choosing one tiny change instead of copying someone else's system 21:59 - Final encouragement and reminder to be kind to yourself Support the show If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast. Get started with my Zoning and Getting Started Workshop, everything you need to know on how to get started and have the best success when decluttering. Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you! Follow me on Facebook Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link) Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home. Follow me on instagram Feel free to email me: [email protected]  Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.

Send me a text message about this podcast Summary Heather Tingle shares a personal reflection on why decluttering sometimes means releasing more than objects. In this episode, she unpacks how a box of old business supplies surfaced an abandoned subscription box idea and what that revealed about identity, sunk cost, and the difference between a dream and the stuff attached to it. Letting go of stored items can also mean letting go of guilt, without giving up the possibility of a future version of the dream. Timestamps 00:00 — Why this episode is about letting go of a dream  00:29 — The maintenance declutter that surfaced an old box  00:58 — Why Heather had not decluttered her home in 10 years  02:53 — Discovering autism and ADHD during lockdown  05:44 — Why the abandoned idea felt sad, not silly  07:41 — Sunk cost, identity, and staying in limbo  08:35 — Letting go of the stuff without killing the dream  10:32 — Other examples of unfinished dreams and projects  11:30 — How hope turns into guilt and obligation  12:00 — Why the dream was never in the objects  12:22 — Releasing the nagging feeling of unfinished potential  12:51 — Dreams can rest and return in a different form  13:20 — A “Heather says it’s okay” moment about choosing the present  13:49 — Reality over fantasy and prioritising peace of mind  14:46 — Letting go now does not prevent revisiting the idea later Support the show If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast. Get started with my Zoning and Getting Started Workshop, everything you need to know on how to get started and have the best success when decluttering. Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you! Follow me on Facebook Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link) Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home. Follow me on instagram Feel free to email me: [email protected]  Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.

Send me a text message about this podcast Summary This episode started with a comment from an Untangled Life member: "but that's the missing piece, isn't it, no accountability." Heather takes that and runs with a live confession: she set herself a DeclutterCon bonus challenge to find and sell £60 worth of stuff from her own home to pay for a course she's doing. She's found £90 to £100 worth. She's sold none of it, because she hasn't listed a single item. Heather unpacks why announcing something publicly isn't the same as being accountable for finishing it, why the classic "pretend someone's coming over" trick doesn't work for her brain, and shares two real examples from her own life (a disastrous A level project and a course she completed in her 40's) that show the actual difference between a deadline that works and one that doesn't. She ends with specific, small, immediate accountability tactics, and a public commitment you can hold her accountable to! What you'll walk away with Why announcing a goal isn't the same as building real accountability into itWhy "pretend someone's coming over in 20 minutes" doesn't work, and why even a real visitor deadline doesn't helpThe difference between a single distant deadline and a long term goal broken into fixed short term checkpointsPractical, small scale accountability tactics you can use as you declutter and organise your homeWhy client "homework" between sessions rarely works, and what Heather does instead Chapters 00:00 Introduction: The importance of accountability in decluttering 02:11 Heather's personal decluttering challenge and honesty about progress 04:21 Why accountability often fails when only self-imposed 06:28 The significance of fixed deadlines from Heather's academic experience 08:36 Using short-term checkpoints to stay on track 09:54 The problem with vague goals and how to make them specific 12:30 Practical strategies: body doubling, public declarations, and micro deadlines 13:49 Encouragement to start small and find accountability partners Support the show If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast. Get started with my Zoning and Getting Started Workshop, everything you need to know on how to get started and have the best success when decluttering. Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you! Follow me on Facebook Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link) Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home. Follow me on instagram Feel free to email me: [email protected]  Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.

Send me a text message about this podcast Summary Is Your Tidying Actually Making Your Home Worse? We've all done it, shoved something into whatever drawer had space, told ourselves "away" counted as "organised," and called it a day. In this episode Heather digs into a pattern she sees in almost every client's home: drawers and cupboards with no real system, no zoning, just wherever things happened to end up. She walks through exactly how this spirals, the hunting, the giving up, the leaving things out "so I'll remember where it is," the piles that build on piles, the doom drawers and doom bags, and how it all ends with owning ten of the same item because you can never trust you'll find the original. She unpacks why this is so exhausting on a deeper level too.  Your working memory was never built to hold onto "which of six random drawers has the batteries in it today," and it's not laziness when things get left out, it's a system asking your brain to do a job it can't do. The fix is zoning before organising: deciding where something actually lives based on how you use it, then trusting that home enough to put things back there every time. Heather also shares one of her favourite parts of a declutter session: the moment a client finds something they'd forgotten they even owned, tucked away in a drawer that never had a proper place before. Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Why tidiness isn't enough 02:13 The problem with random drawers and cupboards 04:47 The cycle of clutter and why it happens 06:28 The broken windows theory of clutter 09:53 Why your brain can't remember everything 11:58 The importance of zoning and categorisation 12:51 How trusting your system creates lasting order 13:17 The joy of rediscovering forgotten items Support the show If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast. Get started with my Zoning and Getting Started Workshop, everything you need to know on how to get started and have the best success when decluttering. Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you! Follow me on Facebook Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link) Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home. Follow me on instagram Feel free to email me: [email protected]  Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.

Send me a text message about this podcast Summary Ever hit the point in decluttering where it feels like nothing's changing, no matter how much work you've put in? In this episode Heather talks about the invisible wall so many people hit partway through their decluttering journey.  The point where progress feels invisible and it's easy to think "what's the point, nothing's ever going to change." Heather breaks down why this happens: shrinking dopamine rewards as you get used to letting go of more, the shift away from delayed gratification, working by area instead of by category (which makes progress harder to see), fatigue from treating decluttering as a marathon rather than a sprint, and still putting things down rather than putting them away. She also shares the broken windows theory and how it applies both to relapsing into clutter and to the moment things finally click, plus her own snowball-up-the-hill metaphor for where you might be in the process right now. If you're feeling demoralised and like you'll never get there: this one's for you. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the decluttering wall and emotional challenges 02:20 How initial decluttering efforts feel more rewarding 05:03 The 'click point' and reaching decluttering milestones 06:22 Decluttering as a slow marathon, not a sprint 07:16 The challenge of putting things away consistently 08:10 The benefits of proper organization and how mess becomes easier to manage 09:36 Dealing with frustration when things are out of place 10:33 Taking breaks and managing capacity during decluttering 11:28 Encouragement to keep pushing and recognising progress 11:55 Final motivation: you're making progress and not alone Support the show If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast. Get started with my Zoning and Getting Started Workshop, everything you need to know on how to get started and have the best success when decluttering. Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you! Follow me on Facebook Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link) Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home. Follow me on instagram Feel free to email me: [email protected]  Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.

Send me a text message about this podcast Summary 147 episodes in, and Heather realises she's never actually done a full episode on one of her favourite neurodivergent-friendly storage solutions: hooks. In this episode she talks through why hooks work so well for messy brains, busy lives, and anyone who forgets things exist the second they're out of sight. Starting with the fruit-bowl-turned-doom-pile most of us have by the front door, and a client's tiny porch that had become a genuine shoe-related fire hazard. From there, Heather walks room by room through where hooks quietly solve problems that baskets and boxes don't: the entryway, the kitchen, and all the small stuff that "doesn't really have a home" :  TV remotes, towels, clothes brushes, and the chair-pile of not-quite-dirty clothes. What you'll walk away with Why hooks work so well for ADHD brains and anyone who struggles with "out of sight, out of mind"The difference between a container that helps and a container that quietly becomes a doom pileHow a client's small porch and a big shoe problem got solved with hooks instead of basketsWhy giving something a finite number of hooks is more useful than it sounds (especially with kids' shoes)A room-by-room walkthrough: entryway, kitchen, and the "floating" stuff that never has a proper homeThe one question to ask yourself about any storage solution: can I put this away easily? Who this episode is for Anyone with a spot in their home that keeps quietly filling up no matter how many pretty containers they buy for it — especially if you're ADHD, have a busy household, or just tend to forget things exist the moment they're out of sight. Timestamps 00:00 - Why hooks are the storage solution Heather had not talked about yet 00:30 - Why open containers become doom piles for ADHD and messy brains 01:00 - The fruit bowl problem and why hallway catchalls fail 02:29 - When containers turn into extra dumping grounds 03:27 - Why hooks work: visible, finite, and instant 03:56 - Preparing items so they can actually hang on hooks 05:22 - How visible storage stops losing, rebuying, and tripping over items 06:46 - Why floor space and safety improve with hook systems 07:15 - A tiny porch, too many shoes, and why baskets failed 08:40 - Replacing shoe baskets with wall hooks in pairs 09:38 - Finite wall space as a built-in boundary for growing children’s shoes 10:30 - Entryway items that work well on hooks 11:58 - Hooks in the hallway and choosing styles that fit your home 12:27 - Kitchen tools, pans, and utensils on hooks and racks 13:24 - Using a bulldog clip on a hook for receipts and paper piles 14:22 - Solving the problem of items that “float” around the house 14:46 - Anchoring the TV remote near the sofa 15:15 - Towels, colour coding, and preventing damp piles 15:43 - Clothes brushes, torches, and worn clothes that need a temporary home 16:37 - The final test: can you put it away easily? Affiliate links to great hooks: Dog tail hooks Pet station Heavy duty hook Shower glass door hooks Over door hooks Remote control bungee Phone lanyard Support the show If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast. Get started with my Zoning and Getting Started Workshop, everything you need to know on how to get started and have the best success when decluttering. Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you! Follow me on Facebook Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link) Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home. Follow me on instagram Feel free to email me: [email protected]  Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.

Send me a text message about this podcast Summary You said you'd "just tidy the side" at 11 o'clock. You look up and it's half past one, the kitchen looks worse than when you started, and you genuinely can't account for the last two hours. In this episode, Heather Tingle talks about time blindness. A genuine, documented part of how many ADHD brains work.  Drawing on her own experience of starting ADHD medication and noticing, for the first time, what time feels like when it isn't "bendy." She breaks down the three ways time blindness shows up in decluttering and daily life: losing hours to a task with no sense of time passing, avoiding tasks because they feel far longer than they actually take, and "waiting mode".... the habit of doing nothing before an appointment so you don't lose track of time. Heather explains why this isn't a discipline problem, why generic productivity advice (yes, including all those planners and the Pomodoro technique) hasn't worked for you, and shares practical, decluttering-specific ways to work with it instead of fighting it. What you'll walk away with Why time blindness is different from poor time management, and why productivity advice hasn't worked for youThe three ways time blindness shows up: the "Bermuda triangle of time," the overestimation trap, and waiting modeWhy a visible, physical timer works where phone timers don'tHow timing a task once (like putting laundry away) can chip away at the "everything feels bigger than it is" feelingWhy setting a hard "leave by" time works better than a vague window before an appointmentHow accountability — a lift arriving at your cutoff time, or body doubling — can anchor your sense of time passingThe one habit to take away that interrupts all three patternsChapters 00:00 Introduction to Time Blindness and Its Impact 02:17 Common Patterns of Time Misjudgment in Daily Life 04:10 Time Blindness vs. Time Management: Key Differences 06:03 Three Common Patterns in Time Blindness 07:28 Overcoming the Overestimation of Task Duration 08:52 Waiting Mode and Its Hidden Costs 10:41 Practical Tools: Timers and Deadlines 12:22 Using Time Awareness to Reduce Clutter and Anxiety 14:13 Accountability and Body Doubling Strategies 15:10 Final Tips and Encouragement for Managing Time Blindness Visual timer (Amazon Affiliate link)  Support the show If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast. Get started with my Zoning and Getting Started Workshop, everything you need to know on how to get started and have the best success when decluttering. Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you! Follow me on Facebook Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link) Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home. Follow me on instagram Feel free to email me: [email protected]  Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.

Send me a text message about this podcast  Summary In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, host Heather Tingle speaks with Emma Sales about the unique challenges neurodivergent individuals face when moving house. They discuss the importance of planning, the emotional aspects of moving, and practical tips for decluttering and packing. Emma shares insights from her book, 'Unpacked Neurodivergence and Moving House,' emphasising the need for personalised strategies and the acceptance of one's own moving process. The conversation highlights the significance of creating a safe space during the transition and managing stress effectively. In this conversation, Emma Sails shares her experiences and insights on moving, particularly from the perspective of neurodivergence. She discusses the challenges faced during her own moving day, the importance of having backup plans, and the need for clear communication and organisation. Emma emphasises the significance of creating a safe space during transitions and reflects on her past moves, highlighting the lessons learned. The discussion culminates in practical tips for a successful move. Key  topics Challenges of moving house with neurodivergence Strategies for planning and decluttering Importance of safe spaces and routines during move Using tools like spreadsheets and labels effectively Managing stress and overwhelm in the moving process Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Emma Sales and her book 02:00 Why moving house is especially stressful for neurodivergent individuals 03:58 Personal experiences and motivations for writing the book 07:08 Planning and organizing the move: tips for neurodivergent minds 10:11 Using visual plans and spreadsheets to aid packing 12:04 Labeling and prioritizing items for easier unpacking 14:57 Creating safe spaces and managing overwhelm during the move 17:55 Dealing with last-minute packing and unexpected challenges 22:01 Supporting neurodivergent family members during the move 26:01 Reflections on past moves and lessons learned 30:06 Final tips and encouragement for a successful move Link to Emma Sails:  https://navigatingneurodivergence.co.uk  Link to Emmas Book: Unpacked: Neurodivergence and Moving House - (Amazon affiliate link) courses.untangledbytingle.com Getting Started and Zoning Workshop Support the show If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast. Get started with my Zoning and Getting Started Workshop, everything you need to know on how to get started and have the best success when decluttering. Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you! Follow me on Facebook Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link) Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home. Follow me on instagram Feel free to email me: [email protected]  Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.

Send me a text message about this podcast Summary There is a new decluttering trend doing the rounds called House Hushing, coined by Myquillyn Smith, known online as The Nester. Heather breaks down what it actually involves, where it works brilliantly, and why she has some real reservations about it for anyone with a genuinely full house or an ADHD brain. What You Will Learn What House Hushing is and the three steps behind it, the Holding Area, the Pause, and the ReturnHow House Hushing fits into Myquillyn Smith's wider four part approach, decluttering, quiet decorating, soulful styling, and living seasonallyWhen this method genuinely works well, and who it suitsWhy a full house makes this method tricky in practiceThe doom bag risk hiding inside this method, especially for ADHD brainsWhy decluttering by category beats decluttering by roomHeather's take on how to adapt House Hushing so it actually sticks Chapters 00:00 Introduction to House Hushing and Its Popularity 00:30 What is House Hushing and Its Core Principles 01:01 The Three Steps of House Hushing: Holding Area, Pause, Return 01:57 The Benefits of a Quiet, Simplified Space 02:26 Personalizing Your Space and Seasonal Living 03:55 Ideal Scenarios for House Hushing: Renovations and Full Projects 06:56 Practical Challenges: Space, Sorting, and Emotional Impact 08:50 Risks of Instant Gratification and Over-Correction 10:13 Limitations: Addressing Underlying Habits and Systems 11:42 Recommendations for Effective House Hushing and Final Thoughts Support the show If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast. Get started with my Zoning and Getting Started Workshop, everything you need to know on how to get started and have the best success when decluttering. Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you! Follow me on Facebook Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link) Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home. Follow me on instagram Feel free to email me: [email protected]  Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.

Send me a text message about this podcast Summary You know that moment when the kitchen cupboard finally shuts, because you've moved half of what was in there to a back stock cupboard in the garage or a shelf in the cellar? It feels like a win. It isn't. In this episode Heather unpacks one of the most common (and sneakiest) decluttering mistakes, splitting or extending a category so some of it can live in a different room. It solves the problem in room one for about five minutes, then quietly creates two new ones, in room one and room two. Heather explains why this happens (it's not laziness, it's your brain looking for the fastest way out of a hard decision), the three knock on effects that show up later, decision fatigue, forgotten back stock, and a second room that was never designed to hold the extra weight, and walks through real examples including summer and winter clothes, books scattered across the house, and children's toys split between three rooms. You'll also get the actual fix: how to choose one proper home for a category based on where it's really used, and reduce what you own until it fits comfortably, rather than reaching for a second location every time it doesn't. If you've got clutter quietly living in more than one place, this episode will help you spot it and, more importantly, sort it for good. In this episode: What "splitting a category" actually means and why it feels like progressThe three problems it creates over timeReal examples: seasonal clothing, books, and children's toysHow to pick one home for a category and make it actually fitWhy this isn't a willpower issue, and how to give yourself permission to fix itChapters 00:00 Introduction: The common decluttering mistake 00:30 The problem with splitting categories 01:26 How splitting causes decision fatigue 02:23 Secondary spaces and their pitfalls 04:15 Examples of category splitting: books and toys 07:07 Strategies for effective decluttering 08:34 Creating space and reducing categories 09:58 The importance of proper decluttering 10:27 Final tips and encouragement Support the show If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast. Get started with my Zoning and Getting Started Workshop, everything you need to know on how to get started and have the best success when decluttering. Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you! Follow me on Facebook Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link) Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home. Follow me on instagram Feel free to email me: [email protected]  Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.

Send me a text message about this podcast Summary Two clients, one week, the same sentence. "I'm worried because I'm sentimental about everything." It's a phrase Heather hears often, and one that quietly convinces people they're worse at decluttering than everyone else. In this episode, Heather breaks sentimentality down into four levels, most of what feels precious isn't actually equal, and talks through how neurodivergence can shape emotional attachment to belongings. She shares the story of a bag of trip souvenirs that taught her the difference between a true memory and something that just happened to be sitting next to one through osmosis. She also makes the case for why being sentimental, far from being a disadvantage, is a skill worth developing rather than a flaw to fix. In this episode you will learn: Why sentimentality isn't a weakness, and why it's simply a natural part of being humanHow neurodivergence can shape emotional attachment to belongingsThe four levels of sentimentality, from long-time possessions to pure sentimental items, and the "osmosis" attachment in betweenThe difference between fondness and true sentimental attachmentHow grouping souvenirs and keepsakes together makes them all feel equally important, and how to break that grouping apartThe question to ask yourself about any item, would this matter if it was the only memory you had leftWhy non-sentimental, disposable living leads to more clutter and more cost over time, not lessWhy caring for your possessions and feeling attached to them is a skill worth developing, not a disadvantageMentioned in this episode: DeclutterCon, Heather's upcoming event for practical tips, reframes and connections to move forward decluttering and community support Support the show If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast. Get started with my Zoning and Getting Started Workshop, everything you need to know on how to get started and have the best success when decluttering. Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you! Follow me on Facebook Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link) Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home. Follow me on instagram Feel free to email me: [email protected]  Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.

Send me a text message about this podcast Summary Heather debunks the myth that decluttering means minimalism, emphasising that a home should reflect personal love and functionality rather than societal ideals of minimalism. She discusses practical tips for organising, the importance of having backups, and embracing a lived-in, personality-filled space. Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Debunking the myth of minimalism 00:29 Why decluttering isn't about minimalism 01:00 The importance of a home that feels good 01:27 The reality of real homes versus social media images 02:27 The pitfalls of owning nothing 03:23 The value of having backups and extras 04:46 Visual clutter versus sensory needs 05:45 Creating a home that feels welcoming and personalised 07:13 Living with emptiness and adjusting to space 08:07 The 'just in case' pile and planning ahead 09:04 Hobbies, collections, and loving your belongings 10:01 The goal: functional, organised, and personalised spaces 11:24 Organising for purpose, not perfection 12:17 You can have a lived-in, chaotic, yet calm home 12:48 Final thoughts: Focus on what you love and need Support the show If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast. Get started with my Zoning and Getting Started Workshop, everything you need to know on how to get started and have the best success when decluttering. Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you! Follow me on Facebook Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link) Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home. Follow me on instagram Feel free to email me: [email protected]  Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.