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Jesse Townes is on the show, and we are talking about Heated Rivalry!! Because we are obsessed, and it's an amazing way to talk about different relationships! We cover yearning, Shane and Ilya's attachment styles, the little details of the show we love, the sexy scenes, the club montage, the cottage, Scott/Kip, My moon my man, Rose, and basically every part of the show.  We also nibble on dyslexia, how much money you make in TV, Quinn, frotting, Ryan Murphy, wedding, Jane Austin Period Drama, Rain fall showers, shower sex. 

HEATED RIVALRY, BABY!!! Jesse Townes (the world's biggest Heated Rivalry fan) is on the pod today, and we are walking through the first three episodes of HR. We cover the small moments you might have missed, break down the relationship dynamics and intimate scenes, how masculinity is represented, fandoms and parasocial relationships, why women love the show, and how HR is different than anything else on TV right now.  We also nibble on: adderall psychosis, Traitors, the patriarchy, the Golden Globes, Smartless, and more. 

Niki, from the Double Teamed Podcast, joins us to talk about her debut novel- The Book Of Lovers! We cover smut books and exploring your fantasies, the ENM community, and when ENM turns back to monogamy, sex parties, kn1fe play, situationships, group sex, detaching from the outcome, and more.  We also nibble on: twilight, vampires, romantasy, mates, twins, new years goals, polyester clothing, having kids, fast fashion, etc.  Find the book here: https://amzn.to/3Nd6YTB

This week is an ask me anything episode, where I answer your questions about: the a-spot, plan b and emergency contraception, org@sming with a partner, Lake Wawasee, being a late-blooming lesbian, Cheex, booty stuff,  the uti vaccine trials, smut books, etc.  We also nibble on breakups, holidays, flying, vaccines, astrology, and more. 

In this episode, we are talking all about Mormon wives season three!!! Aka, the best and worst reality TV show. We are diving into the Demi Drama, Jordan claiming he's being emasculated, Jessi's affair, Mikalaya's story and trauma, Taylor Frankie Paul as a star, and Dakota being a dumb dumb.  Basically, we go through the entire season, and I share my thoughts very uncensored.  We also nibble on burnout, Brimstone, Matt Rogers, holidays, responsive desire, low sex drive, The Bachelorette, embarrassment 

We are joined by actor and singer, Tiana Le, to talk about what it's like growing up in the industry! We cover how she stays grounded, how she fell in love with acting again, the state of the industry, going from playing a child to an adult, how to protect your mental health through rejection, focusing on the journey and not the outcome, and how to make it in the industry.  We also nibble on golf, Big Shot, loneliness, coming of age during covid, meditating, hobbies, dating bad men, love bombing, and Zohran Mamdani

Dr. Ellen Kaufman, an AI and dating expert, joins us to discuss the current state of AI, how people are using it for dating, and what the future holds.  We cover if using AI to write your dating profile is considered catfishing,  how AI affects our mental health, why people are turning to AI companions, what happens when people trust AI instead of human connections, ChatGPT psychosis, and more.  We also nibble on Gen Z vs. Millennial dating habits, puritan culture, Blake Lively, Waymo, Love Is Blind, the rise of conservative influencers, etc. 

In this episode, we are talking about how to help Gaza. Just because there is a ceasefire does not mean the trauma and suffering are over. We speak to Operation Olive Branch, which works with partners to get aid directly to the people of Palestine. Operation Olive Branch: https://www.instagram.com/operationolivebranch/ Perinatal Project Operation Olive Branch: https://www.instagram.com/amani.alkahlout/ Pal Humanity: https://www.instagram.com/pal.humanity/

In this episode, we are covering the Vogue article by Chanté Joseph, "Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing now?" We talk about boyfriends stealing their girlfriends' aura, having to compromise your morals for a man, why this culture shift happened, how to be your own person in a relationship, not doing things because social media says to, living life for yourself, the generalization of men, how Instagram affects relationships, and more.  We also nibble on being a dog mom, taxes, vet bills, Live Laugh Love, billionaires, SNAP benefits, RHOSLC, etc.  

This week, I am answering your questions! I answer: What is the key to a happy and healthy marriage? How do I get over kink shame? What books are you reading? What is the best way to give a bj? Have you ever had a threesome? What do I do about UTIs? Do you identify as neurodivergent? What are the best tips for booty stuff aftercare? What is your favorite movie? We also nibble on Jumanji, bed death, The Gottmans, How to fight, Bridge Kingdom, ADHD, hemorrhoids, Dancing with the Stars, etc. Codes from the episode:  Cheex: VIBESLUT  LEESA: Abigail50  Happy v: HAPPYVIBE

Rory Uphold, author of A Final Girl's Guide To The Horrors Of Dating, joins us to talk about the ups and downs of dating and what she has learned from her experiences! We chat about debunking traditional dating advice, how women can become the choosers, when to leave a relationship, how to take autonomy over your dating life, how to get rid of a limiting belief system, how to heal from SA and feel empowered moving forward, and how to learn to fall in love with yourself!  TW: We talk about our SA experiences and how we moved forward from them.  We also nibble on the ick, horror movies, our SA stories, Scream, Chappel Roan, concert culture, sunscreen, and more. 

GG Magree, whose new album SPIT LOVE comes out Oct 22, joins us to talk about sexuality and creativity! S8xuality inspires creativity and vice versa. And when you learn to step into yourself and find your stride, you become completely yourself and unlock your creative potential! We touch on how you deserve to take up space creatively, sexually, and personally. And we touch on how you get to the place where you are completely comfortable being yourself. We also nibble on pole dancing, horror films, being bi, the spirit world, ghosts, Benson Boone, AI, Sabrina Carpenter, and Gossip. 

This week, my husband Jesse Townes joins me to talk about what men think about during s*x. We answer: Men, why don't you make any noise? Speak up!, Is it true that when you are in doggy, you think about other girls?, Do you have to go somewhere else mentally to finish?, What is going through your head when you are f!ngering me?, What does it mean when a guy doesn't make eye contact during s*x?, How long is too long to go without s*x in a relationship?, Do you judge how our vulv@s look?, and do you care if there is a little poop during booty stuff? We also nibble on sm*t books, Quicksilver, responsive desire, male insta-cart drivers, plantains vs bananas, Hercules, Disney and more. 

Kaila Yu, author of the newly released book Fetishized, joins us to discuss the fetishization of Asian Women in the Western Media. We cover the 2000s as problematic,  Memoirs of a Geisha, how stereotypes affect mental health, dating, and building up your self-esteem after being fetishized, the nuance of sexualization, and more.  We also nibble on being a foodie, LA restaurants, Emily Ratajkowski, Sabrina Carpenter, the empathy crisis, menopause, not being honest about plastic surgery, etc.     

It's just me this week, and I decided to put my Personal Trainer Certification to WORK and talk you all through some no bullsh*t fitness advice because I am tired of seeing people who do not know what they are talking about share info on working out. I walk you through the lies influencers are telling you, the secret to being fit, what workouts you should be doing, and the mind-muscle connection, how to apply things you learn practically, fitness goals for all levels, habit stacking, all or nothing mentality, how to eat for your fitness goals, breaking out of the binge/restrict mentality, finding balance and more!  We also nibble on being in front of the camera, celebrity feuds, Las Culturistas, Love Island, and the Disney College Program.