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In this episode, host Scott Kiloby and guest Dan McLintock, Co-Developers of KI Emotional Repression Inquiry, break down the recent public controversy surrounding Ed Sheeran. The fallout began when Sheeran's tour dropped opener Macklemore over his "Free Palestine" onstage remarks, leaving Ed facing intense public criticism for refusing to take a political stance and attempting to stay neutral to protect his brand. Scott and Dan look past the headlines to explore why maintaining neutrality in the face of major issues isn't just a business strategy. It’s often rooted in a lifetime of buried anger and unmet needs for approval, love, validation, and safety. Scott candidly reflects on his own past as the "Ed Sheeran of spirituality," admitting how he avoided taking firm political positions out of fear of losing followers and approval. Together, the hosts dissect Ed’s visible emotional trauma on stage alongside their own histories as lifelong anger repressors, showing what happens when fear of taking a stand finally collides with truth. Calls to Action ​Connect with Dan McLintock: Reach out to Dan for 1-on-1 coaching, inner work, and guidance on navigating suppressed emotion: https://getwithdeprogram.com​Connect with Scott Kiloby: Explore the Kiloby Inquiries and learn how to stop repressing emotions and start living authentically. Reach out on What’s App at 1 812 204 4324 or visit repressiontest.com.

Join KI Co-Developer @danmclintock and I as we introduce, discuss and deconstruct Palantir and PayPal CEO Peter Thiel’s lecture ideas about what the modern ‘Anti-Christ’ is and does. We’ll also deep dive into our own experience with emotional repression as a lens through which to point at and call out Thiel’s anger repression shadow. To work with Scott, reach out on WhatsApp at 1-812-204-4324. To work with Dan, visit http://getwithdeprogram.com #kilobyinquiries #danmclintock #scottkiloby #peterthiel #antichrist #shadow

In this deeply personal episode, Scott steps into full vulnerability to share the raw details of his life and the relationship challenges that catalyzed his transformative path. For the longest time, he was blind to the deep-seated patterns running his life, but a series of profound realizations shattered those illusions. These breakthroughs humbled him completely, forcing him to confront the painful truth that he has been operating almost entirely from a place of fear. By pulling back the curtain on his own history, Scott breaks down exactly how these lifelong patterns show up and, more importantly, how you can begin to recognize your own. If you are ready to stop letting fear run the show and want to kickstart your own healing journey, head over to repressiontest.com to take his free somatic test and join the newsletter community today.

Simple Presence: The Myths and the Truth In this episode, Scott challenges the mainstream spiritual narrative around "simple presence." For years, teachers have pointed to presence as an easy fix, but Scott shares how chasing a detached awareness can actually become a hiding place. Behind his own mask of presence lay buried anger—an unprocessed trauma that continually manifested on the surface as addiction, cancer, and spinal stenosis. Turning conventional mindfulness on its head, Scott introduces an unorthodox pathway to true embodiment. Instead of using presence to bypass or avoid our deepest pain, he explains why we must go straight to the root of suffering, using a continuous practice focused on the repression. If you are ready for simple embodied Presence, but are tired of the practices that don’t deliver, this episode is your roadmap. Work with Scott (One-on-One, Groups, & Scholarships) Reach out directly on WhatsApp at +1-812-204-4324.

In this episode, Scott gives a piece of wisdom that almost no one is talking about. He points to how to handle a narcissist authentically. The answer is not what we think it is. Listen to hear the hidden gem. Start at repressiontest.com to begin Scott’s work and be automatically added to his newsletter. You can also reach out to him directly for a discount this summer on WhatsApp at 1-812-204-4324. The deadline for discounts is running out quickly.

Why do we cheat, fantasize, obsessively look at porn, or fall into addictive cycles while in relationship? Most approaches stay on the surface, demanding apologies or applying spiritual band-aids. But these behaviors are actually driven by buried trauma and deeply unmet needs for love and safety. Real transformation requires moving out of the stories in our heads and down into our bodies, where those numbed-out emotions live. Until we consciously process that root pain and understand where the behavior comes from, we are bound to repeat it. This episode delivers a practical roadmap to stop managing symptoms and finally heal the core cause. Ready to work with Scott one on one or in a group? Message him on WhatsApp at 1-812-204-4324 to get started.

Why do we continue to suffer even after years of spiritual practice or self-help? In this episode, Scott Kiloby reveals a groundbreaking perspective on awakening and embodiment: our deepest suffering is driven by the emotions we have most repressed. Scott explains that our vulnerability consists of the emotion(s) we are most afraid to feel and express, acting as the ultimate block to our true authenticity. Rather than using spiritual practices to bypass or avoid this pain, an embodied healing path requires us to look directly at the root of our suffering. Through the lens of his unique "Dimensions of Practice," Scott lays out a precise, cutting-edge pathway for processing these buried emotions. Until we do the deep somatic work to fully embody our realizations, our avoided emotions will continue to drive our behaviors and prolong our struggle. Tune in to discover how to stop bypassing, face what is hidden, and unlock true authenticity. If you’re interested in starting this work, join Scott's newsletter by taking his free somatic test at repressiontest.com.

Ever feel like your relationships are trapped in a frustrating loop of disappointment? The Set-Up is the invisible way we walk into rooms and relationships trying to extract the core needs that went unmet during our childhood: love, safety, approval, and validation. Because we don’t openly announce or communicate these needs, they silently transform into subconscious demands on the people around us. When others inevitably fail to meet these unspoken demands, it creates deep suffering for us. But here is the catch: this suffering feels familiar. We unconsciously keep producing the exact same painful outcomes because, deep down, we are terrified to step out of the cycle and show up as our raw, authentic selves. Discover your hidden patterns by taking the somatic test and joining the newsletter at repressiontest.com.

In this episode, Scott Kiloby breaks down how to end suffering in the simplest terms possible. He points directly to the root of human suffering and reveals how almost every traditional practice or method we engage in ultimately falls short. This is a succinct, tried-and-true statement on how to end suffering, designed exclusively for serious seekers who are not just looking to regulate their system or find temporary relief, but are ready for true transformation. To start Scott’s work, visit repressiontest.com to take your free somatic test and be automatically added to his newsletter.

In this deeply illuminating episode, Scott Kiloby addresses a question he has been asked for years: What does the journey of emotional repression Inquiry actually look like from start to finish? While it has taken some time to bring this comprehensive overview to light, Scott delivers his definitive response, mapping out the clear "before and after" of doing this profound work. Listeners will get an honest, unvarnished look at both the incredible benefits and the inherent challenges that come with untangling deep-seated emotional repression. Scott goes beneath the surface to explore how our evolutionary survival mechanisms have become intricately entangled with our personal trauma, and how understanding this connection is pivotal to true transformation. Whether you are completely new to Inquiry or have been doing the work for years, this episode offers a rare, deep dive. Beginners will find a clear, accessible roadmap, while seasoned practitioners will resonate with advanced insights that can only be uncovered by actively doing the work as it was developed. If you are ready to take the next step in your own transformation and experience the "after" of this work firsthand, join Scott’s Becoming Unbound program: https://kiloby.com/bu-program

It began with an unexpected flash of rage toward a client—a moment that shattered a carefully built image and ended up transforming every personal and professional relationship in its wake. Many helpers carry a deep reservoir of buried anger born from unmet childhood needs for love, approval, and safety. Blind to this hidden driver, they suffer quietly in the background, battling chronic burnout from inauthentic helping. Blending personal experience with scientific research and the insights of the Kiloby Inquiries (KI), this episode explores what happens when we attempt to heal others before ending our own suffering—and how facing our buried emotions finally brings codependency to an end. If this episode speaks to you and you’re ready to finally get to the root of suffering and inauthentic helping, reach out to Scott on WhatsApp at 1-812-204-4324.

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In this episode, Scott breaks down the codependency and trauma of helpers. Visit repressiontest.com to start this work. If you are a helper, message Scott on What’s App to be trained. The number is 1-812-204-4324.