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are you more "emotionally mature" or just using fancy words to hide your vulnerability? in this episode i cover: -why the rise of therapy speak is eroding intimacy -the 'flat stanley' effect and the emotional distance it creates in partnership -why Expansive Communication is the key to productive conversations that get your sex life back on track Feel called out in a good way or intrigued? Let's talk. :) book a connection call with me get the free pod series on how the feral effect creates deeper connection

Work with meAccess the Feral Effect hereLets normalize the freeze response so we can feel less shame and access more joy after sexual trauma.Listen for -what is happening in the body when Freeze happens, and why its not the same as "doing nothing" -How to gently come out of a freeze response -the next phase of healing after "survivor" that I want everyone to experience

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TAKE THE FREE QUIZ Work with me Oh, the sweet chaos of burning it all down to start over. This ultimate guide to navigating your new queer dating life covers: -The mindset shift that is crucial to finding queer love -Why your dating skills with men don't transfer to women, and how to get lesbians to know you're gay too (without wrapping yourself in the rainbow flag) -the key to great lesbian sex (it's not what you think) I earned my late bloomer scars, and I'm passing the lessons on to you, friend. Here is everything I wish someone would have told me.

⁠Intimacy Block Quiz⁠ ⁠Work With Me⁠ The aftermath of leaving a high control group as a queer person is something we don't talk about enough. I shed light on: -the control tactics that infiltrated my sex and relationships -why I once said, "I would have sex with a woman but I could never be in a relationship with one" -exploring thought crime -What is self monitoring and why its a harmful habit -and how I finally found self acceptance and joy in my body and in my queer intimacy This is my favorite episode yet! Share your experiences with religious dogma below so we can normalize our experiences.

What does it mean when you want to submit in the bedroom, but not in your daily life? Are you enacting the patriarchy? Can you choose what turns you on? I challenge you to listen with curiosity and leave the judgement at the door. Book Your Connection Call Watch Masterclass

What happens when you're SO into her and you enjoy the way she touches you, but your orgasm feels elusive? Why can you cum on your own but not with a partner? Listen to find out: >the hidden meaning of struggling to orgasm >the wrong goal most people chase that makes orgasm more difficult and what to focus on instead >how to talk about it without your partner feeling blamed Links mentioned Masterclass: https://www.sapphicsexologist.com/freebie Book a Connection Call with Me: https://calendly.com/daniebergstrom/discovery-call More about my work: sapphicsexologist.com

How can you feel satisfied when your libido is higher than your partner's? What do you do when the tension of your sex life is affecting the rest of your relationship? How do you stop feeling like your high sex drive is a burden to your partner? Listen to this week's episode to learn: +Stop the cycle- how to stop feeling rejected and actually feel closer to your partner +Understanding desire: Learn how to collaborate with your partner instead of feeling like enemies on separate sides of the room. +Making intimacy appealing: How to initiate sexual connection in a way that feels pressure free and fun for both of you. LINKS MENTIONED: Get your Intimacy Check-Up: https://www.sapphicsexologist.com/freebie Tell me how you navigate mismatched libidos: https://www.sapphicsexologist.com/contact

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