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*Warning: This episode does contain references to sexual assault and self-harm. Listener discretion is advised.* Lerato Khoza (formerly Mathews) was raised in a violent home, being the youngest of 13 children. A very blended family, spread over decades, created an environment for this quiet girl to be a bit overlooked. She chose to fight her battles on her own by whatever means necessary. This resulted in a broken, hurting person just looking to be understood by others. It wasn't until a chance encounter on a regular day, that Lerato found the beginning of her brand new story. Finally, things started to make sense. Please send me a message if there’s someone you’d like to have share their testimony. Don't underestimate the power of a transformed life. [email protected]

Tim grew up as a young boy thinking his life was pretty normal, despite the fact his parents owned a funeral home. However, as time went on Tim soon discovered that he was the 'fat kid'. When faced with the reality of being different, Tim found himself doing what he could to fit in, no matter the cost. Tim was driven by the need to succeed and succeed he did by most standards. Unfortunately, there's more to life than winning and Tim was left feeling more isolated and broken than before. That is until one encounter that drew him to the place where he found all he ever needed to reinvent his life and become the person he was meant to be. Please send me a message if there’s someone you’d like to have share their testimony. Don't underestimate the power of a transformed life. [email protected]

(Republished from July 2024) Whalied Ling grew up the youngest of five in a strict Muslim household. However, that didn't stop him from getting involved in drugs and gangs, which led to crime and heartache. Listen along as he shares his incredible journey of transformation, and the simple act that made all the difference. Please send me a message if there’s someone you’d like to have share their testimony. Don't underestimate the power of a transformed life. [email protected]

Yola was just a little girl born into a normal mid-century American family...until it wasn't. Raised by a father who traveled often and a mother who was self-consumed, this little girl was left to her own devices. Then at fifteen, her whole life turned upside down and everything she thought she knew, was a lie. The next few years brought heartache and one bad decision after another, until she found the one thing that would help her recreate her story! Please send me a message if there’s someone you’d like to have share their testimony. Don't underestimate the power of a transformed life. [email protected]

*Warning: This episode contains references to sexual assault on a minor and should be listened to with caution.* Tumi is a Jozi girl, born and raised; to a single mom and lots of extended family who truly wanted the best for her. Unfortunately, the very thing that haunted her over and over again, went unseen and known by everyone. It wasn't until she followed her heart to a place of healing, that she truly became free of the secret burdens she carried. Please send me a message if there’s someone you’d like to have share their testimony. Don't underestimate the power of a transformed life. [email protected]

Wishing you and yours a very Merry Christmas from my family and I. May you be blessed beyond expectation in the coming year! Thank you for your support! Please send me a message if there’s someone you’d like to have share their testimony. Don't underestimate the power of a transformed life. [email protected]

Prince was the fourth child of five, each one being shipped off to live with a grandmother who tried her best. When that didn't work, the siblings were left to fend for themselves. The result was chaos and heartache. Through his sheer determination to create a different path for himself, Prince set off to fulfill his dreams. What he found was only more emptiness and disappointment. It wasn't until he surrendered to the one thing determined to chase him down, that he truly found what he was created for! Please send me a message if there’s someone you’d like to have share their testimony. Don't underestimate the power of a transformed life. [email protected]

Melissa was raised in a stable home, with two parents that loved and provided for her. That didn't protect her from the rejection the world had in store. A doting father and distant mother, hiding their own secrets, did the best they knew how until they couldn't anymore. That's when she found the one person who truly accepted and loved her despite everything. Please send me a message if there’s someone you’d like to have share their testimony. Don't underestimate the power of a transformed life. [email protected]

*Note: All affiliations have been redacted for safety purposes. Morgan wasn't who most people thought he was. He wasn't even who he wanted to be. Morgan was stronger, tougher, and angrier than others but he didn't like the life he was given. Pushed by an unknown force into drugs and caught in the middle of gang life, all he desired was to find peace and purpose. After more than one escape from death, he finally surrendered and found real love, acceptance and the life the didn't know he needed all along. Please send me a message if there’s someone you’d like to have share their testimony. Don't underestimate the power of a transformed life. [email protected]

For all intents and purposes, Molly lived a very simple, safe life. The middle child of three with two parents who provided everything she needed, Molly should have felt fulfilled. However, what she felt instead was lost and out of place, searching for an identity. Life has a way of teaching its lessons and after many years of searching, this lost little girl learned that no matter how long you run, God will find you in the end. The result was a found purpose and true identity! Please send me a message if there’s someone you’d like to have share their testimony. Don't underestimate the power of a transformed life. [email protected]

(Republished from Oct 2024) Nandi began life with two loving grandparents in a home full of love, despite not having her father present. However, as things often do, life changed suddenly and one thing led to another. Soon, this broken little girl found herself at odds with the world and enslaved by an addiction she didn't know how to break free from. Listen as she shares the one place and the one moment she found her redemption and freedom. Please send me a message if there’s someone you’d like to have share their testimony. Don't underestimate the power of a transformed life. [email protected]

*Warning: This episode does contain references to sexual abuse/assault. Discretion is advised for younger listeners. Tumi's life started out with promise; both parents, a clean home, and everything she could ever want or need. As it sometimes does, life changed. First one thing, then another and as a teenager, Tumi found herself living a life very different from the one she once had. Everything was upside down or backwards and it was only getting worse. After searching for something to make it right, she found the only thing that truly realigned her life to one even better than before. Please send me a message if there’s someone you’d like to have share their testimony. Don't underestimate the power of a transformed life. [email protected]

Raised with two loving parents and even a doting grandmother, Sizwe was set to live a life of ease. Bad friends with  worse influences led him astray at a very young age and he found himself in the midst of a life of crime. Living as one person at school but another at home, this bright young man tried to fool everyone by making a name for himself on the streets. The only person he fooled was himself, until a friend tricked him to going to the one place that revealed real truth - and the life he was meant to live all along! Please send me a message if there’s someone you’d like to have share their testimony. Don't underestimate the power of a transformed life. [email protected]

*Warning: This episode contains references to many subjects that could be disturbing to some listeners. Please listen with caution!* Cathleen was raised in a godly home by parents who loved her and did their best to be the example she needed. There's another side to every story and plagued by being seen as 'different', she became the object of constant bullying. This led to years of feeling left out and insecure. Then came high school. Thinking that a new 'personality' would hold the answers she sought, Cathleen found herself in a downward spiral of bad decisions and even worse consequences. Caught between two worlds, she felt there was only one way out, until an act of God intercepted her at the last moment. Please send me a message if there’s someone you’d like to have share their testimony. Don't underestimate the power of a transformed life. [email protected]

Michael's world was a roller coaster ride from a very young age. It only got worse from there. An alcoholic father and a home torn apart made him vulnerable and angry which manifested itself into drugs and alcohol as he grew older. The late nights and hard living left him broken with the biggest question running through his mind: what is it all for? Little did he know the route he'd take would mend his broken heart and lead him to the life he never dreamt could be his. Please send me a message if there’s someone you’d like to have share their testimony. Don't underestimate the power of a transformed life. [email protected]