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After 100 episodes, Howie Chan finally says the thing most podcasters won't say out loud. In this season one finale, he gets honest about the money, the growth, and the grind behind Influence Anyone. He pulls back the curtain on a question every creator eventually faces, then he turns to the 12 guests who most influenced him and how he thinks about influence, from Robert Cialdini and a $700,000 thank-you note to Navy SEAL Rich Diviney and a lesson on fear learned during Hell Week. Chapters 00:00:00 The Honest Truth About Influence Anyone 00:10:39 Robert Cialdini: The $700K Note 00:13:00 Scott Walker: Why Am I Talking? 00:14:34 Henna Pryor: The Fast Comeback Rate 00:16:07 Nir Eyal: Beliefs Are Tools 00:18:30 Melina Palmer: Do It Now, Not Monday 00:20:00 Phill Agnew: The Effort Effect 00:22:16 Nancy Harhut: People Don't Think the Way You Think 00:24:57 Brian Ahearn: Set Up the Ask Before the Ask 00:27:44 Owen Fitzpatrick: We Sell Ourselves Stories 00:30:09 Kwame Christian: Acknowledge Before You Ask 00:31:26 Rich Diviney: Moving Horizons 00:33:27 Sam Horn: The Hook and the Hinge 00:35:19 What Every Guest Had in Common 00:37:06 What's Next in Season Two The Behavioring Lab Howie is launching a membership at howiechan.com/lab to help experienced professionals close the gap between what they know and how people perceive them, using behavioral science and influence psychology. → howiechan.com/lab Guest Episodes Mentioned: Robert Cialdini: https://www.howiechan.com/podcast/robertcialdini Scott Walker: https://www.howiechan.com/podcast/scottwalker Henna Pryor: https://www.howiechan.com/podcast/hennapryor Nir Eyal: https://www.howiechan.com/podcast/nireyalbelief Melina Palmer: https://www.howiechan.com/podcast/melinapalmer Phill Agnew: https://www.howiechan.com/podcast/phillagnew Nancy Harhut: https://www.howiechan.com/podcast/nancyharhut Brian Ahearn: https://www.howiechan.com/podcast/brianahearn Owen Fitzpatrick: https://www.howiechan.com/podcast/owenfitzpatrick Kwame Christian: https://www.howiechan.com/podcast/kwamechristian Rich Diviney: https://www.howiechan.com/podcast/richdiviney Sam Horn: https://www.howiechan.com/podcast/samhorn — Produced by Ideablossoms (https://ideablossoms.com/)

Hundreds of Ku Klux Klan members have handed their robes to Daryl Davis, a Black jazz musician who won them over by listening instead of arguing. His opening question: How can you hate me if you don't even know me? Howie Chan sits down with Joshua Bandoch, former academic, speechwriter, and author of How to Get What You Want, to unpack why that approach works and why most persuasion fails before it starts. Josh defines persuasion as shared action, not winning, and makes the case that leading with logic is itself illogical, because every human being is wired to feel first and reason second. You'll learn the four questions that get people to yes without a pitch, why asking how someone feels opens doors that asking what they think keeps shut, how moral foundations theory helps you persuade people who don't share your values, and why the most persuasive leaders of the last century were all for something rather than against someone. Chapters: 00:00:00 The Daryl Davis KKK Story 00:05:20 Biggest Persuasion Misconception 00:08:04 Persuasion as Shared Action 00:12:24 Why We're Wired to Talk About Ourselves 00:15:46 Questions That Reveal What People Want 00:17:43 Leading with Emotion Versus Logic 00:24:57 How to Read an Audience You Can't Talk To 00:27:07 Appealing to Values Without Pandering 00:36:26 Be For Something 00:42:18 The 4 Questions That Get People to Yes 00:50:18 Why Experts Struggle to Lead With Feelings 00:58:05 Stories That Move People to Act 01:00:56 Crashing Through Glass Ceilings From Joshua Bandoch: Website (https://joshuabandoch.com/) LinkedIn (https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshua-bandoch-02211b167) Book (https://joshuabandoch.com/book/) Mentioned in this episode: Mark Victor Hansen’s episode: How to Ask for What You Want: The Skill Mark V Hansen Used to Sell 500M Books (after 144 rejections) (https://www.howiechan.com/podcast) (Aug 18) Your Expertise Deserves to Be Known The Behavioring Lab is a new community for experienced professionals who want to build a professional brand that gets them known, trusted, and chosen by the right people. → http://behavioringlab.com/ Join the founding member waitlist. — Produced by https://ideablossoms.com

Every leader, parent, and consultant runs into the same wall: resistance. Someone pushes back on an idea or a change, and the instinct is to push harder. Travis Hahler, who has led transformation work inside Google and Salesforce and worked with over 100 organizations, says that instinct is exactly backwards. In this conversation, Howie Chan sits down with Travis to unpack why the human brain treats change as a threat before it treats it as an opportunity. Travis breaks down the six neurological barriers behind every no, from routine and ambiguity to loss and exclusion, and explains why treating resistance as a personal attack only makes it worse. You'll learn why leaders who spin their message trigger more resistance, how to influence people who outrank you using data, why "no" can actually be a doorway instead of a dead end, and how to apply this same framework to your own resistance to change. Chapters: 00:00:00 Why We Resist Change 00:04:33 The Spin Trap Leaders Fall Into 00:06:59 Cultural Differences to Change 00:09:54 The 6 Neurological Barriers to Change 00:15:14 Why Resistance Isn't Personal 00:18:15 Change in Action: Getting People to Attend Events 00:22:10 How Coaches Can Help Participants Be Successful 00:28:05 Influencing Up Without Authority 00:33:59 Using "No" as a Way In 00:39:01 How to Change Your Own Behaviors 00:45:39 Peaks & Pitfalls from 100+ Organizations 00:50:47 Say This, Not That (Quick Fire) 00:52:51 Final Advice: Get Curious, Not Combative From Travis Hahler: Website (https://travishahler.com/) LinkedIn (https://www.linkedin.com/in/travisdhahler/) Book (https://travishahler.com/book/) Mentioned in this episode: Owen Fitzpatrick’s episode: How To Create Any Reality (The Belief Blueprint) (https://www.howiechan.com/podcast) (Aug 4) Your Expertise Deserves to Be Known The Behavioring Lab is a new community for experienced professionals who want to build a professional brand that gets them known, trusted, and chosen by the right people. → http://behavioringlab.com/ Join the founding member waitlist. — Produced by Ideablossoms (https://ideablossoms.com/)

Confidence, according to one of the world’s leading voice coaches, Caroline Goyder, comes from shutting your mouth. It's a strange claim from someone who has spent her career teaching leaders how to command a room, but she has the science, the client stories, and the physiology to back it up. Howie Chan sits down with Caroline, author of Gravitas and Find Your Voice, to unpack why competence alone rarely earns anyone's attention, and why the stillest, most breath-regulated person in a meeting is usually the one people trust most. They get into the physiology of speech, the nervous system science behind stage fright, and the difference between a voice that comes from the head, the heart, and the gut. Caroline also walks through a live grounding exercise built around breath control. You'll learn how to project your voice without shouting, why rehearsed spontaneity beats scripted perfection, how the Gravitas Equation predicts who commands a room, and how to build a transforming insight that makes any talk unforgettable. Chapters: 00:00:00 The Paradox of the Out Breath 00:02:45 Becoming a Magnet in the Room 00:07:04 Rehearsed Spontaneity 00:11:54 The Pratfall Effect 00:13:56 How to Get People to Pay Attention to You 00:17:23 Head Voice, Heart Voice, Gut Voice 00:22:06 A Live Grounding Exercise 00:30:01 The Gravitas Equation 00:35:51 Reframing Anxiety 00:41:09 Building a Transforming Insight 00:44:49 Meetings, Pitches, and Disengaged Rooms 00:54:24 Stillness Is Power From Caroline Goyder: Website (https://carolinegoyder.com/) LinkedIn (https://www.linkedin.com/in/carolinegoyder/) Books (https://carolinegoyder.com/books/) Mentioned in this episode: Dr. Carmen Simon’s episode: B2B or B2C: The Only 10% That Matters in Marketing & Sales (https://www.howiechan.com/podcast) (June 23) Your Expertise Deserves to Be Known The Behavioring Lab is a new community for experienced professionals who want to build a professional brand that gets them known, trusted, and chosen by the right people. → http://behavioringlab.com/ Join the founding member waitlist. — Produced by Ideablossoms (https://ideablossoms.com/)

Despite what many people think, going viral is NOT luck. According to Michael Schein, author of The Hype Handbook, it's a formula, and it starts with picking a fight, not with a person, but with an idea everyone else has agreed to accept without question. In this conversation, Howie Chan sits down with Michael to unpack how he turned himself from a broke, forgettable marketing copywriter into an in-demand ghostwriter and hype strategist, using the same psychological principles that built cult followings, packed stadiums, and turned unknown authors into household names. He explains why the advice to niche down is usually wrong, why almost every credible expert eventually needs a Bible, a foundational book that gives followers something to rally around, and why the fastest way to build an audience is to strategically borrow someone else's. You'll learn why picking the right fight matters more than being liked, how to find a hyper-specific niche instead of a generic one, what separates a ‘Bible’ from an ordinary business book, and how to build a secret society of powerful connections. Chapters: 00:00:00 Why Opposition Builds a Tribe Faster Than Merit 00:08:36 The Alice Cooper Billboard That Broke London 00:11:43 Picking a Fight with an Idea, Not a Person 00:15:28 How to Dig Past the Generic Answer 00:17:19 The Niche Myth 00:22:53 Life After Writing the ‘Bible’ 00:26:45 A Regular Business Book Versus a ‘Bible’ 00:30:19 When Hype Goes Too Far 00:32:09 Build a Secret Society 00:41:19 Should You Write a Book? 00:43:42 Self-Publishing Versus Traditional Publishing 00:51:42 Final Advice: Own What You're Against From Michael Schein: Website (https://michaelfschein.com/) LinkedIn (http://linkedin.com/in/michaelfrancisschein) Book (https://michaelfschein.com/the-hype-handbook/) Mentioned in this episode: How to Ask for What You Want: The Skill Mark V Hansen Used to Sell 500M Books (after 144 rejections) (https://www.howiechan.com/podcast) (August 18) Your Expertise Deserves to Be Known The Behavioring Lab is a new community for experienced professionals who want to build a professional brand that gets them known, trusted, and chosen by the right people. → http://behavioringlab.com/ Join the founding member waitlist. — Produced by Ideablossoms (https://ideablossoms.com/)

Most professionals think branding starts with picking the right customer. Howie Chan says that’s the wrong question to ask. In this solo episode, Howie breaks down the positioning framework he uses to build some of the world's biggest brands, translated for executives, founders, and professionals who want to be remembered instead of overlooked. He explains why a brand is not a logo or a tagline but a memory sitting in someone else's mind, and why trying to serve everyone leaves that memory blank. You'll learn how to plot your brand on the relevance and difference matrix, why trigger-first targeting beats picking a persona or title, how to map your direct, indirect, and alternative competition, and how to build a star anchor that sticks through point of view, repetition, and expression across visual, verbal, and experiential touchpoints. Chapters: 00:00:00 What Brand Actually Means 00:03:25 The Relevance vs Difference Matrix 00:05:54 The Trigger First Strategy 00:10:11 Finding Your Difference 00:14:24 Expression: Point of View and Memorable Idea 00:18:09 Visual, Verbal, Experiential Branding Mentioned in this video: Neuroscientist: “Attention spans are NOT shorter” (7 tactics that get anyone’s attention) (July 28) Your Expertise Deserves to Be Known The Behavioring Lab is a new community for experienced professionals who want to build a professional brand that gets them known, trusted, and chosen by the right people. → http://behavioringlab.com/ Join the founding member waitlist. — Produced by Ideablossoms

Most people think building a community means throwing up a Circle page or a Slack channel and waiting for people to show up. Sophie Cross, founder of Freelancer Magazine, built an 800-member paid community without a single group chat, and she tells Howie Chan why that absence was intentional. In this conversation, Sophie shares how she launched her print magazine for freelancers through a fast, high momentum Kickstarter campaign, the psychological tricks she used to push past fear before hitting publish, and the real difference between a community that talks at people and one that connects people to each other. You'll learn why speed can beat perfect planning, how to build a community around an outcome instead of an existing identity, why virtual co-working sessions keep freelancers accountable without adding more noise to their inbox, and what Sophie considers the most overlooked skill in growing a business around real human connection. Chapters: 00:00:00 How Purple Cow Sparked Freelancer Magazine 00:06:21 Fear, Momentum, and the Courage to Launch 00:11:40 The Kickstarter Playbook: Pre-Launch and Testing Fast 00:18:43 Lessons for Building a Community 00:22:43 Building Community Without a Built-In Identity 00:27:19 Meeting People Where They Are (Howie's Community Test) 00:36:21 The Unspoken Realities of Leading a Community 00:39:15 Monetizing Community: Pricing, Team and Growth 00:42:50 Trust and the Small Things That Build Connection 00:46:56 Inside Virtual Co-Working 00:50:16 Final Advice: Surround Yourself with the Right People From Sophie Cross: Website LinkedIn Mentioned in this video: Goldie’s episode: She posted 800 daily LinkedIn videos… and this happened! (July 21) Your Expertise Deserves to Be Known The Behavioring Lab is a new community for experienced professionals who want to build a professional brand that gets them known, trusted, and chosen by the right people. → http://behavioringlab.com/ Join the founding member waitlist. — Produced by Ideablossoms

Mark Victor Hansen got rejected 144 times before Chicken Soup for the Soul became one of the bestselling book series in history. In this episode, Howie Chan sits down with the legendary author, publisher, and co-creator of the Chicken Soup for the Soul franchise to unpack the psychology behind persistence, goal-setting, destiny, and influence. Hansen breaks down why most people never figure out what they actually want, and shares the mental technique he and Jack Canfield used to program their subconscious mind while they slept, the same process that produced the Chicken Soup for the Soul title itself. He explains why storytelling is the real engine behind influence and sales, and walks through the traps that kill most first-time authors before they ever finish a book. You'll learn why writing down your goals every day changes how your brain processes opportunity, how to identify a niche worth owning, and how the biggest rejections often turn into the biggest wins. Chapters: 00:00:00 Ask Yourself, Ask Others, Ask God: Finding Your Destiny 00:04:35 Program Your Subconscious Before You Sleep 00:12:06 Storytelling: The Core of Influence 00:22:24 Four Paths to Publishing 00:25:02 The Traps That Kill Most Books 00:26:53 Own Your Niche: How to Choose What to Write First 00:32:07 Top Tips to Write Your Book 00:35:12 Writing Emotion Into a Nonfiction Business Book 00:38:52 Turning Problems Into Fortunes 00:44:17 Marketing Your Book: Lessons from Podcasting's Biggest Names 00:54:54 Final Advice on Purpose and Legacy From Mark Victor Hansen: Website LinkedIn Books Mentioned in this video: How To Create Any Reality (The Belief Blueprint) (August 4) What’s Your Influence Style Profile? What do you do when you need someone to do something? This quiz will help you discover your most natural influence style, so you can use that strength more effectively (and know your blind spots). → https://www.influencestylequiz.com/ Join 1,025+ leaders who've already uncovered what their style is. Become the Expert People Remember, Trust, and Choose. Expert Foundations is a live 3-week program where you'll build the three foundations every influential expert needs. → https://www.howiechan.com/expertfoundations Next cohort begins August 17 - September 4, 2026 — Produced by Ideablossoms

In this solo episode, Howie shares a very personal story. It happened in March, 2022. A brief phone call ended his dream job and he was forced to rebuild his career. Now, in hindsight, if he could redo the 18 months that followed, there are three things he'd do (very) differently. Hit play and listen to Howie break down why being good at your job will not keep you safe in the modern workplace and how most professionals confuse personal branding with professional branding — that confusion is exactly what keeps smart, credible professionals invisible. Howie holds nothing back and walks through the three strategic foundations that have to be locked in before anyone posts a single thing online. Chapters: 00:00:00 The Call That Ended My Dream Job 00:04:08 3 Reasons Building a Professional Brand Matters 00:09:59 Personal Brand vs Professional Brand 00:13:59 The Question Almost Everyone Skips 00:18:00 The 3 Foundations of a Powerful Professional Brand 00:31:21 The Skill Nobody Taught You 00:33:49 3 Things I’d Redo After Getting Laid Off What’s Your Influence Style Profile? What do you do when you need someone to do something? This quiz will help you discover your most natural influence style, so you can use that strength more effectively (and know your blind spots.) → https://www.influencestylequiz.com/ Join 1,025+ leaders who've already uncovered what their style is. Become the Expert People Remember, Trust, and Choose. Expert Foundations is a live 3-week program where you'll build the three foundations every influential expert needs. → https://www.howiechan.com/expertfoundations Next cohort begins August 17 - September 4, 2026 — Produced by Ideablossoms (https://ideablossoms.com/)

Howie Chan sits down with Owen Fitzpatrick, social psychologist and author of Inner Propaganda, to unpack why your brain is running a quiet campaign against your own objectivity. Owen reveals that belief has almost nothing to do with logic. It has to do with what feels right, safe, and stable. Together they break down the four different kinds of truth we mistake for objective fact, why argumentation almost never changes anyone's mind, how to build a belief growth mindset, and why your brain decides what to believe before it ever starts reasoning. Owen also shares the deeply personal story behind why he's spent his career studying belief: he got very close to ending his life at 14 years old, but one line in his own suicide letter stopped him and saved his life. Chapters: 00:00:00 How Our Beliefs Influence Our Reality 00:12:34 Why This Matters: Living in a Difficult World 00:17:12 Building a Belief Growth Mindset 00:22:16 The Kale Analogy: Curating Your Information Diet 00:26:56 Desired Truth: When We Don't Want to Believe 00:31:22 Becoming a Belief Leader 00:34:02 The Courage to Change Your Beliefs 00:37:19 The Antifragile Identity 00:43:03 Influencing Teams and Companies 00:52:03 Nuance, Real Propaganda, and Complex Characters 01:00:52 Owen's Story: The Letter That Saved His Life (and His Final Message) From Owen Fitzpatrick: Website LinkedIn Book: Inner Propaganda Mentioned in this video: Beyond Belief: The Truth About Why You Feel STUCK | Behavioral Change w/ Nir Eyal (March 10) What’s Your Influence Style Profile? What do you do when you need someone to do something? This quiz will help you discover your most natural influence style, so you can use that strength more effectively (and know your blind spots.) → https://www.influencestylequiz.com/ Join 900+ leaders who've already uncovered what their style is. Become the Expert People Remember, Trust, and Choose. Expert Foundations is a live 3-week program where you'll build the three foundations every influential expert needs. → https://www.howiechan.com/expertfoundations Next cohort begins August 17 - September 4, 2026 — Produced by Ideablossoms

The goldfish attention span myth has been repeated in TED Talks, boardrooms, and marketing decks for years, but it never actually existed. In this solo episode, Howie Chan traces the myth back to its source, then asks a better question: if attention span isn't shrinking, what actually decides where the brain looks? Howie breaks down why psychologists rarely study attention the way we imagine it, and unpacks the deeper mechanism behind why some ideas get noticed while others disappear into the noise. He walks through the seven signals the brain has evolved to prioritize, from relevance and novelty to identity and consequence, and shows how each one shapes whether a presentation, a pitch, or a single sentence earns someone's focus. Chapters: 00:00:00 Debunking the Goldfish Attention Span Myth 00:02:53 One of the Most Important Questions in Influence and Leadership 00:05:07 What Attention Actually Is 00:07:29 The Seven Signals the Brain Notices 00:18:35 Bringing the Seven Signals Together 00:19:42 The Responsibility That Comes With Attention Check out Howie’s episode with Dr. Carmen Simon: B2B or B2C: The Only 10% That Matters in Marketing & Sales (June 23) What’s Your Influence Style? What do you do when you need someone to do something? This quiz will help you discover your most natural influence style, so you can use that strength more effectively (and know your blind spots.) → https://www.influencestylequiz.com/ Join 900+ leaders who've already uncovered what their style is. — Produced by Ideablossoms

Goldie Chan filmed her first LinkedIn video in 2017 on an iPhone 5, with no editing, no title cards, and no plan. 800 consecutive videos later, she is one of the people who invented what LinkedIn videos even look like. In this episode, Howie Chan sits down with Goldie, author of Personal Branding for Introverts, to unpack the real difference between reputation and personal brand, the evolutionary wiring that keeps talented experts invisible, why volume has nothing to do with visibility and Goldie’s framework for building a personal brand that can survive a total identity overhaul. You'll learn the hard and soft keyword exercise Goldie uses to help clients find real clarity, why introversion has nothing to do with visibility, how to tell a gimmick from a genuine signature, and how to grow your influence inside a company without losing yourself in the process. Chapters: 00:00:00 Goldie Chan and the Original LinkedIn Video 00:13:17 Creating a Genuine Personal Brand 00:19:19 Reputation vs Personal Brand 00:22:43 The Myths Surrounding Introverts 00:26:25 An Exercise to Build Your Personal Brand 00:34:40 Transparency vs Authenticity (and Guarding Your Privacy) 00:41:34 The Why of Building a Personal Brand 00:47:55 How to Pivot Your Personal Brand 00:52:35 Common Pitfalls When Building a Personal Brand 00:58:29 Start With One Platform, Then Build the Ecosystem 01:03:29 Navigating Employer vs Personal Brand Tension 01:09:34 Know Yourself Before You Brand Yourself From Goldie Chan: Website LinkedIn Personal Branding for Introverts Mentioned in this video: 99% of people are using LinkedIn WRONG (5 things I’d do if I had to start today) (April 21) What’s Your Influence Style Profile? What do you do when you need someone to do something? This quiz will help you discover your most natural influence style, so you can use that strength more effectively (and know your blind spots.) → https://www.influencestylequiz.com/ Join 800+ leaders who've already uncovered what their style is. The Invisible Expert Problem FREE Masterclass How to become known WITHOUT chasing followers or pretending to be someone you’re not. → https://events.influencesystemmastery.com/register July 30, Thursday, 11 am CST, 6 pm UK, 6 pm CET — Produced by Ideablossoms

Most people think LinkedIn success comes down to knowing the algorithm. Howie Chan disagrees. After being named the number one creator worldwide for branding and positioning on LinkedIn in 2024, he's found that the people who consistently win on the platform aren't the ones with the best tactics, they're the ones who understand human psychology. In this solo episode, Howie breaks down the five psychological beliefs shared by the most successful people on LinkedIn. Drawing on research from Princeton's Oppenheimer and frameworks from Clayton Christensen, he shows why opportunities are created in the mind long before they show up in your inbox. You'll learn why simplicity increases perceived competence, why sameness makes you invisible, and why the real driver of opportunity is being remembered, not being the loudest. Chapters: 00:01:26 LinkedIn Is More Than a Social Platform 00:04:25 Trait 1: Get Clear on What You Want 00:05:26 Trait 2: Clarity Over Cleverness 00:06:53 Trait 3: Different Beats Better 00:08:42 Trait 4: Opportunities Are Social 00:09:24 Trait 5: Own a Specific Problem Check out Howie’s episode on  how you can be better than 99% of people who use LinkedIn: 99% of people are using LinkedIn WRONG (5 things I’d do if I had to start today) (April 21) What’s Your Influence Style? What do you do when you need someone to do something? This quiz will help you discover your most natural influence style, so you can use that strength more effectively (and know your blind spots.) → https://www.influencestylequiz.com/ Join 800+ leaders who've already uncovered what their style is. — Produced by Ideablossoms

Most people believe B2B buyers make rational, spreadsheet-driven decisions while consumers buy on impulse. Talia Wolf, founder of GetUplift and bestselling author of Emotional Targeting, says that's backwards. In this episode, Howie Chan sits down with Talia to break down why B2B purchases often carry more emotional weight than B2C ones, and why self-image and social image quietly drive nearly every decision a person makes. Talia shares the exact interview questions she uses to uncover emotions that customers can't articulate themselves and lays out her three-part emotional targeting framework — research, audit, and testing. You'll learn how to identify the hidden emotional triggers behind your customers' decisions, why B2B may be more emotionally driven than B2C, and why data alone rarely wins deals. Chapters: 00:01:40 Self-Image vs Social-Image 00:07:51 The B2B Emotion Myth 00:11:39 What Emotional Marketing Actually Means 00:14:40 The Value of Social Listening 00:22:46 Questions That Reveal Your Customer’s Hidden Emotions 00:30:21 Copying Competitors Won't Save You 00:34:45 The 3-Part Emotional Targeting Framework 00:46:33 Emotional Targeting in Everyday Life 00:51:12 Using Emotional Pull to Build Communities 00:54:52 Where Conversion Optimization Is Headed 00:58:03 The Problem With Outsourcing Your Brain to AI From Talia Wolf: Website (https://taliawolf.com/) GetUpLift (https://getuplift.co/) LinkedIn (https://www.linkedin.com/in/taliagw) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/c/TaliaWolf) Book (https://taliawolf.com/book) Mentioned in this episode: Conversation with Matt Sucha (episode 74): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Udgvfulyjb4 What’s Your Influence Style Profile? What do you do when you need someone to do something? This quiz will help you discover your most natural influence style, so you can use that strength more effectively (and know your blind spots.) → https://www.influencestylequiz.com/ Join 800+ leaders who've already uncovered what their style is. — Produced by Ideablossoms (https://ideablossoms.com/)

Why can the exact same message change one person's mind instantly, while it does nothing for someone else? In this solo episode, Howie Chan explores the real reason persuasion fails so often, because most people communicate the way they want to be heard, not the way the other person actually processes information. He introduces the five influence styles that shape human behavior, drawn from years of studying behavioral science and working with leaders, founders, and salespeople. He reveals what each style is built on, where it breaks down under pressure, and why stress doesn't create your style; it reveals it. You'll learn how Commanders, Scientists, Storytellers, Connectors, and Sages move people to act, where their biggest blind spots hide, and the one shift that makes influencing anyone dramatically easier. Chapters: 00:00:00 People Are Influenced Differently 00:02:48 The Commander Influence Style 00:03:59 The Scientist Influence Style 00:05:36 The Storyteller Influence Style 00:07:14 The Connector Influence Style 00:09:31 The Sage Influence Style 00:12:43 Pressure Reveals Your True Style Check out Howie’s episode with Dr. Robert Cialdini: Godfather of Influence: The Persuasion Principle that Resulted in a $700K Gift & The “Bible of Online Marketing” (Episode 50) What’s Your Influence Style? What do you do when you need someone to do something? This quiz will help you discover what is your most natural influence style, so you can use that strength more effectively (and know your blind spots.) → https://www.influencestylequiz.com/ Join 700+ leaders who've already uncovered what their style is. — Produced by Ideablossoms