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Drew Swingz & Kyle WrightExplicit
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Date created
2024/10/22
Latest episode
2026/02/04
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🎙 Swingz Podcast | Ep. 065: Why Taboo Turns People On (Kinks, Fetishes, and Consent)
2026/02/04
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🔴 LIVE DISCUSSION: Kinks vs Fetishes — Understanding Desire, Boundaries, and Exploration
People hear the word kink and immediately think extremes. Chains. Whips. Taboo. Something only other people are into.
But the truth is far more nuanced.
In this episode of the Swingz Podcast, Drew and Erika break down the real difference between kinks and fetishes, where desire actually comes from, and why navigating curiosity in the lifestyle takes more maturity than most people expect.
This isn’t a shock-value episode. It’s a grounded conversation about psychology, consent, boundaries, and knowing when exploration adds depth — and when it’s time to pause or walk away.
We also dive into:
Why most people have kinks (and why that’s normal)
When preference turns into dependency
Why consent is the starting point — not the finish line
How bad experiences reshape desire
Why lifestyle spaces require higher emotional intelligence
Plus, we’re celebrating 10 years of LifeInStyleSTL with a LIVE Valentine’s X ticket giveaway (rules announced only during the show).
🎟️ LIFEINSTYLESTL VALENTINE’S X — FREE TICKET GIVEAWAY
📅 February 13–14, 2026
🏨 Two-night hotel takeover
🎶 Live music, DJs, pool parties, room crawl, and more
➡️ Giveaway rules are shared live during the episode only.
🔗 LINKS & SUPPORT
🎥 Watch Live / Replay: YouTube.com/@SwingzPodcast
🎧 Audio: Apple Podcasts & Spotify (next day)
💬 Join the Discord: https://discord.gg/DHYCmqKQmH
💎 Support the Show:
• YouTube Memberships
• Patreon: https://patreon.com/swingzpodcast
• Super Chats during live shows
🎩 Swingz Podcast Hat Giveaway:
Paid members who like, comment, and share this episode are entered to win.
🧠 SOURCES REFERENCED
• Lehmiller, J. (2018). Tell Me What You Want
• YouGov America Sexual Attitudes Survey (2015)
• DSM-5-TR (APA)
• Wright et al. (2020). Archives of Sexual Behavior
• Connolly, P. (2006)
If this episode made you think, drop a comment and tell us what landed.
Like the episode, subscribe if you haven’t, and share it with someone navigating curiosity or boundaries.
Keep it honest. Keep it consensual.
— Drew & Erika Swingz
🎙 Swingz Podcast | Ep. 064: New Year, Clean Slate: Resetting Goals, Content, and Momentum
2026/01/28
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🔔 SUPPORT THE SHOW
👍 Like the episode
📌 Subscribe if you’re new
💬 Drop a comment — even a quick “what’s up” helps more than you think
⭐ Listening on audio? Leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.
💬 LIVE CHAT & SUPER CHATS help keep the show independent and growing.
🎩 Swingz Podcast Hat Giveaway:
Paid YouTube Members or Patreon supporters who like, comment, and share this episode are automatically entered. Multiple hats. Real odds.
🧠 WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE
🔄 The January Reset
The mental whiplash of watching stats reset overnight
Why January feels worse for creators than any other month
Comparing yourself to others when everyone is restarting
How resets expose what wasn’t working last year
🔥 Hot or Not
HOT: Facebook Dating
NOT: Flipping off the camera
🗓️ Planning a Year Without Burning Out
Realistic goals vs fantasy goals
Why consistency beats intensity
Planning in quarters instead of months
Leaving room for real life, breaks, and fun
📊 Goals That Actually Matter
Vanity metrics vs meaningful progress
What numbers really move the needle
Personal vs business goals
Why some goals shouldn’t be shared publicly
📚 Lifestyle Lingo
Term: Facial
Why terminology, consent, and communication matter more than people realize — especially when expectations aren’t clearly defined.
🧠 Words of Wisdom
If your plan depends on motivation, it’s a bad plan.
Progress you can repeat beats success you can’t maintain.
🎶 EVENT PLUG — LifeInStyleSTL LouFest 2026
Live music. Sexy bar takeover vibes. No hotel rooms required.
📍 Downtown St. Louis
📅 January 31, 2026
💵 $64 per couple | Ladies FREE
⏰ Doors at 8PM — party goes late
Two-room setup with Plastic Kings playing rock covers all night.
One loud room. One chill lounge. Always packed.
🎟️ Tickets & details below.
🔗 LINKS
🎧 Audio Podcast (Next Day):
Apple Podcasts | Spotify
🎥 Watch Live & Replays:
/ @swingzpodcast
🎩 Support the Show:
YouTube Memberships | Patreon
📍 Events:
LifeInStyleSTL.com
📲 Follow Us:
Drew: linktr.ee/drewswingz
Erika: linktr.ee/erikaswingz
📩 Email the show:
[email protected]
💬 JOIN THE CONVERSATION
Tell us in the comments:
One goal you’re setting for this year
OR one thing you’re leaving behind from last year
If this episode helped reset your mindset, share it with someone who’s staring at their numbers wondering what comes next.
For Erika Swingz, I’m Drew Swingz — and I’ll see you out there.
🎙 Swingz Podcast | Ep. 063: When the Lifestyle Changes You and When You Change the Lifestyle
2026/01/21
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Our friend John, husband to Ashlie Sweetie, is currently in the ICU fighting for his life. He’s in a coma, a father of four, and a hardworking diesel mechanic whose family is now facing overwhelming medical bills while he’s unable to work.
John and Ashlie have both been guests on this podcast and are part of the LifeInStyleSTL community. When someone in this community needs help — we show up. Period.
👉 Please donate or share their GoFundMe if you’re able:
https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-jo...
Even sharing the link helps more than you think. Thank you for supporting them.
🎙️ ABOUT THIS EPISODE
Tonight’s episode is different — and it needed to be.
We’re talking honestly about how the lifestyle changes people over time… and how sometimes the most mature, healthiest decision is admitting that something that once worked no longer does.
This episode covers:
Why opening up isn’t always linear
Closing doors without calling it failure
Burnout, health, finances, kids, and shifting priorities
Changing boundaries without blowing everything up
Taking breaks, leaving the lifestyle, or redefining what it looks like for you
Why conditional consent is still valid
And why outgrowing something doesn’t mean you failed
This is a real, grounded conversation — not clickbait, not fantasy, not pressure.
❤️ SUPPORT THE SHOW
If you value honest conversations like this, the best way to support the podcast is through:
👉 YouTube Memberships – badges, emojis, early access, priority chat
👉 Patreon – help keep the show independent and improving
👉 Super Chats during live shows
Links are below. No pressure — just appreciation.
🎟️ HAT GIVEAWAY
We’re giving away Swingz Podcast hats 🎩
To enter:
Be a paid member on YouTube or Patreon
Like this episode
Comment
Share
That’s it. We’ve got several hats to give away, and winners will be contacted directly.
🎄 UPCOMING EVENT — LifeInStyleSTL XXXmas Lingerie Party
Close out the year the right way with a full hotel takeover featuring:
Meet & Greet
Themed room crawl
Lingerie party after 10PM
Heated indoor pool
Homemade food & spiked cider
Optional on-site rooms with breakfast included
🎟️ Use promo code SWINGZ2026 to save on tickets
Links are below — this is a great entry point if you’re new.
🧠 LIFESTYLE LINGO
Fluffer
Originally a porn-industry term, now used in lifestyle spaces to describe someone who provides sexual, emotional, or ego support behind the scenes.
🔥 HOT OR NOT
HOT: No alarm clocks
NOT: Zyn
🧠 WORDS OF WISDOM
This episode closes with a serious conversation about masculinity, emotional restraint, responsibility, and why actions matter more than feelings — especially for men navigating relationships, families, and leadership roles.
It’s not sugarcoated. It’s not trendy. It’s honest.
📣 FINAL ASK
If this episode resonated with you:
Drop a comment sharing something you’ve outgrown in life or the lifestyle
Like the video to help it reach others
Share it with someone who might need this conversation
And once more — if you can help John and Ashlie, please us
🎙 Swingz Podcast |Ep. 062: The Most Misread Couple We’ve Had On
2026/01/14
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This week on the Swingz Podcast, Drew & Erika sit down with JustaBarbi and DaddyChev — two creators who look intimidating as hell at first glance… and then completely flip the script once you actually get to know them.
What started as skepticism before a Florida trip turned into one of the most eye-opening weeks we’ve had in the lifestyle. We talk first impressions, content creation, long-term ambition, “Dommy Mommy” energy, traveling for collabs, and why vibes matter more than appearances every single time.
If you’ve ever judged someone too quickly — or been judged yourself — this episode hits home.
🔥 IMPORTANT LINKS & CTAs (Read This First)
👉 Vote for us at the AVN Awards (once per day per account):
https://avn.com/awards/voting/favorite-adult-podcast
Categories:
Favorite Adult Podcast
Favorite Creator Couple
👉 Watch LIVE & Subscribe:
https://YouTube.com/@Swingzpodcast
👉 Support the Show:
YouTube Memberships & Patreon help keep this podcast independent, unfiltered, and growing.
Links are below 👇
🎧 AUDIO VERSIONS (Available the Next Day)
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/swingz-life-as-a-xxx-content-creator/id1775345579
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5hCJaKWklGcQwgFeJnbtjH
👥 GUEST LINKS
JustaBarbi: https://x.com/justa_barbi
DaddyChev: https://x.com/wydchev
Go show them some love — and tell them Swingz sent you.
🧠 What We Cover in This Episode
Why JustaBarbi & DaddyChev are constantly misread
Traveling for collabs and what it reveals about people
How Florida changed everyone’s perspective
“Dommy Mommy” explained (confidence vs control)
Choosing collabs intentionally to avoid burnout
Long-term growth vs chasing short-term hype
AVN prep, ambition, and playing the long game
Why vibes beat looks every damn time
💬 JOIN THE CONVERSATION
Drop a comment with:
Your first impression vs reality moment
A time you misjudged someone (or were misjudged)
Your HOT or NOT for the week
We read comments live on the show.
🌐 FOLLOW & CONNECT
Drew: https://linktr.ee/drewswingz
Erika: https://linktr.ee/erikaswingz
Podcast: @SwingzPodcast on all platforms
Email: [email protected]
If you enjoyed this episode, like it, subscribe, comment, and share it.
If you really want to help us grow — vote daily at AVN and consider becoming a member.
Keep it filthy. Keep it bold. We’ll see you out there. 🖤🔥
🎙 Swingz Podcast |Ep. 061: Two Nights, One New Year: Inside our LifeInStyleSTL New Year Experience
2026/01/07
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⬇️ READ THIS FIRST – IT HELPS US MORE THAN YOU THINK ⬇️
🔥 WE’RE UP FOR AVN AWARDS — VOTE DAILY 🔥
🗳️ Favorite Adult Podcast
🗳️ Favorite Cam / Creator Couple
👉 Vote once per day, per account:
https://avn.com/awards/voting/favorite-adult-podcast
👍 Like the video
💬 Drop a comment (even “hell yeah” helps)
📌 Subscribe to the channel
💸 Super Chats are OPEN during live shows
🎧 Missed the live show?
Audio versions drop next day on:
• Apple Podcasts
• Spotify
🥂 EPISODE OVERVIEW
This week, we’re breaking down two chaotic nights at the LifeInStyleSTL New Year’s Eve takeover — glass-walled hotel rooms, wild energy, questionable food decisions, emotional moments, and the kind of stories you only get when you put open-minded people together for 48 straight hours.
From Drew driving four hours for a hookup, to Erika powering through New Year’s Eve while feeling like absolute trash, to dance floors, orgies, masquerade vibes, and everything in between — this episode is a full, unfiltered NYE recap.
If you’ve ever wondered what lifestyle hotel takeovers are really like… this one’s for you.
🕛 WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE
• Two-night swinger hotel takeovers
• LifeInStyleSTL NYE party recap (Night 1 & Night 2)
• Holiday chaos & four Christmas celebrations
• Golf, hookups, and questionable decisions
• Lifestyle lingo: Brat / Bratty explained
• Emotional New Year’s moments
• AVN voting & why it actually matters
• Hot or Not: two-day events vs bad party food
• Drew’s Words of Wisdom on confidence & posture
🎟️ UPCOMING EVENT – LifeInStyleSTL
🖤 Black Party Meet & Greet
📅 January 23, 2026
📍 Soulard, St. Louis
💵 $28.99 per couple | 👠 Single ladies FREE
🎟️ Tickets & info: https://lifeinstylestl.com
💸 Use promo code: SWINGZFEST to save
Meet & Greets are where friendships start — no pressure, no expectations, just real conversations.
❤️ SUPPORT THE SHOW
Want to help keep this podcast independent, uncensored, and growing?
⭐ YouTube Memberships – badges, emojis, priority chat
⭐ Patreon – support the show directly
⭐ Super Chats during live episodes
🎁 HAT GIVEAWAY
Paid members who like, comment, and share this episode are automatically entered to win a Swingz Podcast hat.
🔗 FOLLOW & CONNECT
🎙️ YouTube: https://YouTube.com/@Swingzpodcast
🔗 Drew: https://linktr.ee/drewswingz
🔗 Erika: https://linktr.ee/erikaswingz
🎧 Apple Podcasts & Spotify – search Swingz Podcast
Thanks for watching, listening, voting, commenting, and supporting.
This show doesn’t exist without you.
🖤 Keep it filthy. Keep it bold. We’ll see you out there. 🔥
BONUS Swingz From LifeInStyleSTL NYE Party
2025/12/31
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🎙 Swingz Podcast |Ep. 060: Shark Fishing, Friendship BLOWUPS, and Navigating the Lifestyle Together
2025/12/24
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🔥 Episode 60: Shark Fishing, Friendship Blowups & Navigating the Lifestyle Together
🗳️ VOTE DAILY AT THE AVN AWARDS
👉 Favorite Adult Podcast: https://avn.com/awards/voting/favorite-adult-podcast
👉 Favorite Cam / Creator Couple: https://avn.com/awards/voting/favorite-cam-creator-couple
👍 LIKE • SUBSCRIBE • COMMENT • SHARE
💬 Super Chats are OPEN during the live show — they keep the podcast running!
Last week we didn’t miss an episode because we were lazy — we missed it because we were stress-testing friendships in Florida.
In Episode 60, Drew & Erika are joined by TanaNicoleSTL and FeralJesse to break down everything that happens when travel, alcohol, late nights, and real conversations collide. From shark fishing and hot tubs to emotional “crash outs” and honest conflict resolution, this episode dives deep into what real friendships in the lifestyle actually require.
This isn’t a highlight reel — it’s the truth about communication, growth, and why friendships aren’t built on perfection… they’re built on how you handle the messy parts.
🦈 In This Episode:
• Florida shark-fishing chaos (yes, we caught one)
• Trip dynamics that accelerate friendships — for better or worse
• What happens when tension goes unspoken
• Lifestyle Lingo: “Crash Out” — and why emotional spirals kill connections
• Real talk on friendship conflict between Drew & Jesse
• Preparing for AVN as first-timers
• Why silence ends friendships faster than arguments
• How to tell who’s actually happy for your growth
• Why real friends don’t compete — they celebrate
🧠 Words of Wisdom:
Pay attention to who shrinks when you grow.
That information is priceless.
🎧 Listen to the Podcast:
🎥 YouTube (Live & VOD): https://youtube.com/@SwingzPodcast
🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/swingz-life-as-a-xxx-content-creator/id1775345579
🎵 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5hCJaKWklGcQwgFeJnbtjH
🤝 Support the Show:
⭐ YouTube Memberships
⭐ Patreon: https://patreon.com/SwingzPodcast
⭐ Super Chats during live streams
👥 Follow Our Guests:
🔥 TanaNicoleSTL
X (Twitter): https://x.com/TanaNicoleSTL
📲 Follow Us Everywhere:
Drew: https://linktr.ee/drewswingz
Erika: https://linktr.ee/erikaswingz
Podcast: https://youtube.com/@SwingzPodcast
If this episode hit home, drop a comment — we read them on the show.
Thanks for being here, thanks for supporting, and thanks for helping us keep this community real.
Keep it filthy, keep it bold — we’ll see you out there.
🎙 Swingz Podcast |Episode 059: Navigating Online Safety, Real-World Danger & Lifestyle Adventures
2025/12/10
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Tonight we're diving into a BIG one — online safety, age-verification laws, predator awareness, protecting kids on the internet, lifestyle misunderstandings, and the chaos of our week… including Erika’s first Jiu-Jitsu class and prep for our Florida shark-fishing collab trip.
This episode blends real-world seriousness with Swingz humor and storytelling, so get comfy — it’s a ride.
📺 Full Video Episodes:
YouTube.com/@SwingzPodcast
🎧 Audio Versions (New Episodes Every Wednesday):
Apple Podcasts ➜ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/swingz-life-as-a-xxx-content-creator/id1775345579
Spotify ➜ https://open.spotify.com/show/5hCJaKWklGcQwgFeJnbtjH
❤️ Become a YouTube Member:
Badges, emojis, early access, VIP perks
https://www.youtube.com/@SwingzPodcast/join
🔥 Join Our Patreon:
Behind-the-scenes, early releases, members-only Discord perks
https://patreon.com/SwingzPodcast
💬 Super Chats:
Read live during every episode and keep the show growing!
⭐ FOLLOW US EVERYWHERE
Drew: linktr.ee/drewswingz
Erika: linktr.ee/erikaswingz
Podcast: linktr.ee/SwingzPodcast
Discord: https://discord.gg/DHYCmqKQmH
Reddit: reddit.com/r/SwingzPodcast
⭐ AFFILIATE & SPONSOR LINKS
📌 SocialRise (Content Scheduling + Analytics)
Manage all your platforms with one tool
https://social-rise.com/?via=erika
📌 LifeInStyleSTL Events:
This week’s promo code: SWINGZXXXmas
https://LifeInStyleSTL.com
📌 Yum-Yum-Time Floggers:
Custom lifestyle toys — use code SWINGZ
https://yumyumtime.com
🎙 Episode 058: From Matches to Lifelong Friends
2025/12/05
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Tonight’s episode is all about how one random DM can spark friendships, adventures, chaos, and memories that last a lifetime. We’re joined by TanaNicoleSTL and Jesse, a couple who went from sending a bold message… to becoming some of our best friends in the lifestyle and content world.
From gaming marathons to tattoo guns, bonfire hookups to Florida shark-fishing trips, and even a donkey named Gilbert—this episode is packed with stories about connection, chemistry, and the kind of friendships that feel like family.
This is one of the most fun, wholesome, chaotic episodes we’ve recorded. You’ll laugh, you’ll relate, and you’ll probably message your friends by the end of it. ❤️
🧨 What We Cover in This Episode
How a bold DM sparked a real-life friendship
Why lifestyle friendships hit deeper than vanilla friendships
Fortnite → bonfires → family dinners → lifelong bonds
Tana’s tattoo journey + content creator origin story
Drew almost ignoring the DM that started it all
The 2am “meet up” message
Shark fishing in Florida + planned collabs
Why shy people thrive in the lifestyle with the right circle
Naked dirt bike stories
Lady-boners, truck shopping, Black Friday chaos, and more
💬 Comment of the Week
Erika reads your reactions to Episode 57’s chaos — from shark orgy predictions to the Cynthia Erivo debate that shocked everyone.
Drop a comment on THIS episode to be featured next week!
🔥 Tip of the Week
“The grass isn’t always greener. Don’t let ‘perfect’ ruin ‘good.’”
Drew breaks down why chasing perfection destroys friendships, relationships, and community — and why appreciation is the real key to happiness.
⭐ Support the Show
❤️ YouTube Memberships: badges, emojis, early access, VIP perks
💖 Super Chats: get your name read LIVE
🔥 Patreon: patreon.com/SwingzPodcast
Huge shoutout to our Patreon supporters:
Brandon Gilbert • John McCollum • Jake • Jerry Ryan • Dale Jackson
And to our YouTube Members:
562JRyan • Daddy D • Isaiah Roy IV • Alexis Black • Brandon Scott
You keep this show alive.
🎄 Sponsored By: LifeInStyleSTL — XXXmas Lingerie Party
December 13 • Full hotel takeover • Heated indoor pool
Room crawl • Lingerie dance floor • Spiked cider • Photos with Santa
Use promo code: SWINGZNAUGHTY for a discount this week
🎟️ Tickets at: LifeInStyleSTL.com
🔧 Manta Home Service (636-232-4390)
Professional remodeling for kitchens, flooring, drywall…
and yes, your creative room ideas too.
Call or text 636-232-4390
Save them as “Home Repair Daddy.”
👥 Follow Our Guest
Tana Nicole: https://X.com/TanaNicoleSTL
🔗 Follow Us Everywhere
Erika: linktr.ee/ErikaSwingz
Drew: linktr.ee/DrewSwingz
Podcast: / @swingzpodcast
Discord • Patreon • TikTok • Instagram • X • Reddit
🎙 Episode 057: Theaters, Shark Trips & Holiday Chaos
2025/11/26
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Tonight’s episode is a full Swingz tornado — sex theaters disappearing, Florida shark trips forming into collab chaos, holiday madness, and Drew going on an unexpected rant about Cynthia Erivo.
From wild lifestyle stories to behind-the-scenes creator talk, we’re breaking down the week’s insanity and what’s coming next for the Swingz crew.
🎙 Hosts: DrewSwingz & ErikaSwingz
🎥 Watch Live Every Week: / @swingzpodcast
🔥 THIS EPISODE:
• The death of classic sex theaters — what they used to be, why they’re fading, and whether they should evolve or retire with dignity
• Our Florida shark fishing trip — plus the lineup of spicy collabs being planned
• The great “collab” debate — what the word actually means in the lifestyle & creator world
• How to survive a swinger vacation — naps, testing, packing, boundaries, and avoiding waterline disasters
• Weekly Recap: Trust fund adulting, vending business launch, OF live chaos, board game night flashing, and more
• Hot or Not: Thanksgiving vs. Cynthia Erivo 😬
• Tip of the Week: Why you should NEVER play near the waterline
📢 CTA — JOIN THE COMMUNITY
💬 Comment your wildest sex shop or sex theater story
🔥 Drop a Super Chat during the show to support the podcast
⭐ Join the Swingz fam on YouTube Memberships or Patreon
💬 Join the Discord → / discord
🎄 SPONSORED BY LifeInStyleSTL
Get tickets for the 2025 XXXmas Lingerie Party — a full hotel takeover December 13th
LifeInStyleSTL.com
🔧 Sponsored by Manta Home Service — 636-232-4390
Remodeling, repairs, custom rooms, and more. Local. Professional. Discreet.
❤️ FOLLOW & SUPPORT
Erika → linktr.ee/ErikaSwingz
Drew → linktr.ee/DrewSwingz
Podcast → / @swingzpodcast
🧨 SIGN-OFF
“Keep it filthy, keep it bold… and watch out for sharks, theaters, and Cynthia Erivo.”
🎙 Episode 056: FIRSTS, FIRE & FULL-SEND STORIES ft. Bearded Daddy & RedheadedBaddie
2025/11/19
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Episode 56 is packed with wild beginnings, hilarious firsts, unexpected twists, and the kind of storytelling that only happens when creators and lifestyle newbies go full send from day one.
This week, Drew & Erika are joined by Bearded Daddy & RedheadedBaddie (Christian & Savanna) — a couple who went from unicorn-hunting beginners to crowd-drawing LifeInStyle regulars in record time.
From their first swap…
to their first event…
to their first content shoot…
to the “we’re really doing this” moment that changed everything —
this episode breaks down every chaotic, funny, surprising FIRST that launched them into the deep end of the lifestyle and creator world.
🔥 Episode Highlights:
• Their insane origin story (IG Lives → NSW → playroom chaos)
• Unicorn hunting adventures & early mistakes
• How vibe-based connections changed their dynamic
• First swaps, first events, and first “oh no” moments
• Starting OnlyFans & balancing real life with content
• Why looks don’t matter to vibe swappers
• Drew & Erika’s wild weekly recap: movie night disaster, fishing wins, vending machines, golf, and more
• Tip of the Week: “Ugly People: Shoot Your Shot”
• Words of Wisdom in full Matt Rife style
💬 Drop a comment:
What was YOUR first lifestyle experience? We read them all!
📢 Support the Show
Become a YouTube Member for badges, early videos, behind-the-scenes perks, & shoutouts.
Send a Super Chat to get read on the show.
Join the family on Patreon: / swingzpodcast
Huge thanks to our supporters:
Brandon Gilbert, John McCollum, Jake, Jerry Ryan, Dale Jackson
& our YouTube Members Dale Jackson, Isaiah Roy IV, Alexis Black, Brandon Scott, Jerry Ryan
🎉 Featured Guests
Bearded Daddy & RedheadedBaddie
(Links shared live in the episode)
📌 Follow Us Everywhere
Erika — https://linktr.ee/erikaswingz
Drew — https://linktr.ee/drewswingz
Podcast — / @swingzpodcast
Socials — @SwingzPodcast
Join the Discord!
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🎧 Listen on the Go
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🎙 Episode 055: Firsts in the Lifestyle – How to Meet People in the Lifestyle | SWINGZ Podcast
2025/11/12
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It’s all about connections this week — not the Wi-Fi kind, but the kind that make your lifestyle circle grow.
Drew & Erika are joined by Rowdy Randy and ShootingStar, a brand-new couple to the lifestyle (and the Swingz family!) who just launched their OnlyFans and dove head-first into their first swap, their first party, and their first on-camera collab. 👀
They’ll break down:
💋 How to meet people in the lifestyle — apps, meet-and-greets, and referrals
🥂 Setting expectations before the first meet
🚩 Red & green flags when meeting new couples
💬 How to handle cancellations the right way
🔥 Plus: Hot or Not, Tip of the Week, and Tony Topper’s filthy Words of Wisdom
🏠 Sponsored by Manta Home Service — call 636-232-4390 for all your remodeling and handyman needs.
🎟 Sponsored by LifeInStyleSTL — don’t miss the November Newbie Meet & Greet at Chapter 3 Soulard! Use promo code SWINGZFRIENDS for 10% off this week at LifeInStyleSTL.com
💥 Support us on Patreon: Patreon.com/SwingzPodcast
💬 Join our Subreddit: Reddit.com/r/GWStLouis
📺 Become a YouTube Member for perks & exclusive content!
🎧 Watch the full episode: YouTube.com/@SwingzPodcast
🎙 Listen on Spotify: Swingz on Spotify
🍎 Listen on Apple Podcasts: Swingz on Apple
🎙 Episode 054: Firsts in the Lifestyle – Our Wildest Beginnings | Swingz Podcast
2025/11/06
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They say you never forget your first — and tonight, we’re proving it. 😏 From our very first swap and the awkward beginnings to the unforgettable chaos that came after, Drew & Erika rewind time to share how it really started, how it went down, and what we learned along the way.
It’s a wild, hilarious, and totally unfiltered episode packed with embarrassing firsts, unexpected moments, and the stories that built the Swingz legacy. Whether you’re a lifestyle veteran or brand new to the scene, you’ll laugh, cringe, and maybe even blush your way through this one.
💬 Drop a comment: What’s your most memorable “first” (keep it TOS-friendly 😉)?
🔥 In This Episode:
Our very first swap (and how Craigslist was involved 😅)
First orgy, first FFM, first MFM — what went right, what didn’t
The power of learning from your “first fails”
“F*ck-et List” talk — the ultimate bucket list of experiences
Why every first, no matter how awkward, builds confidence
Erika’s “Comment of the Week” (you don’t want to miss this one)
Words of Wisdom: “Confidence isn’t built on smooth experiences — it’s built on surviving the train wrecks with a grin.”
🧠 Tip of the Week:
Your journey is your own. Don’t compare your “firsts” to anyone else’s — just enjoy the ride and laugh through the awkward.
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Ep. 053 - SWINGZ | Friends With Benefits (And Without)
2025/10/30
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In the lifestyle, sex gets the spotlight—but friendship is the real glue that keeps everything together. 💬 In this episode, Drew & Erika Swingz dive into the laughter, boundaries, and chaos that come with lifestyle friendships—the ones that stay platonic, the ones that cross the line, and the ones that crash and burn in spectacular fashion.
What’s Inside:
🎯 Defining lifestyle friendships — when it’s just friends, and when it’s more
💬 Mixing lifestyle & family — where to draw the line
🔥 Long-term lifestyle friends vs. short-term fun
😂 The “Hot or Not” list for the week
🏡 Manta Home Service shoutout (use 636-232-4390 for your next home project!)
💡 Tip of the Week — Don’t “dangle the carrot”: be upfront about your intentions
❤️ Words of Wisdom — Why real friends last, and fake ones fade
💬 Join the conversation:
What’s the wildest or most meaningful friendship story you’ve had in the lifestyle? Drop it in the comments—we’ll read a few next episode!
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Ep.052 - SWINGZ | “One Year of Swingz — Stories, Chaos & Community
2025/10/22
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We’re celebrating ONE YEAR of Swingz with a full house and fan-favorite clips! Joining us: SunflowerDiva & DJ, and LolaWilld. We’re swapping best memories from the podcast, LifeInStyleSTL events, and the creator grind—plus we’ll roll in short clips from past guests throughout the show.
Watching live? If we hit 10 super chats (any amount) tonight, we’ll host an online movie watch party for everyone who chipped in. 🙌
What’s inside (highlights)
1-year memories with returning guests
LifeInStyleSTL’s 10-Year Anniversary & Halloween weekend recap
Community moments that stuck with us
“Real talk” about growing a respectful, fun, adults-only scene
Surprise clips from fan-favorite guests
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Podcast reviews
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Tri forever 2025/05/01
Best lifestyle podcasts
We are part of the lifestyle community in St. Louis We have been to a few lifeinstyle parties an ran into you gays before but never met
Aside this is ...
Jordanp1989 2025/09/09
Decent content but Inconsistent
The hosts constantly talk about always being consistent and putting out content every week, but they don’t actually put out the podcast every week. Ov...
TimThu 2024/12/15
Fantastic interviews!
Drew, you are hitting a home run with this! Awesome content!
STLkrolic 2024/10/24
Top Tier
That DrewSwingz guy is hilarious! I hear he’s amazing.
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