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Send us Fan Mail You asked, and we answered!  In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, Paul and Rhian tackle your anonymous wedding planning questions, sharing honest advice, real wedding stories and the answers to some of those tricky dilemmas couples face while planning their big day. From bridesmaid dilemmas and family fallouts to wedding budgets, invitation timings, photo booths and whether you really need a wedding planner, we're getting into the questions you want answered, without the sugar-coating. Plus, we share some unexpected wedding day disaster stories and discuss how to plan a wedding that feels right for you, rather than getting caught up in Pinterest perfection or other people's expectations. In this episode, we discuss: 💍 Wedding planning advice: How to choose your budget, decide which extras are worth spending on and stay true to yourselves. 👰 Bridesmaids and family dilemmas: Should you ask your groom's sister to be a bridesmaid? What do you do when family members aren't speaking? And how can you keep everyone happy on your wedding day? 🎂 Wedding cake and invitation timings: When should you book your wedding cake, and when is the best time to send your wedding invitations? 📸 Wedding entertainment and extras: Which photo booth is best for your guests, and do you really need a wedding planner? ⏰ Your wedding day timeline: Is a 12pm or 2pm ceremony better? We debate the pros and cons for couples, guests and suppliers. 📱 Wedding inspiration vs reality: How do you deal with the pressure of Pinterest, Instagram and the expectation to have an extravagant, picture-perfect wedding? 😂 Wedding day disasters and honest stories: We share some surprising stories from real weddings, including family drama and a couple whose relationship didn't survive the wedding day. Plus, we tackle your questions about thank-you cards, guest lists, wedding traditions and whether you really need to include all the extras. Our philosophy? Your wedding should reflect you as a couple, not somebody else's expectations or what you've seen on social media. Whether you're newly engaged, choosing your suppliers or putting the finishing touches to your big day, join Paul and Rhian for honest conversations, practical wedding planning tips and a few laughs along the way. 💬 Got a wedding dilemma or a story to share? Send it to us through our website or message us on Instagram. We might discuss it on a future episode! Subscribe or follow Totally Absolutely Engaged for more wedding planning advice, supplier insights, real wedding stories and everything you need to navigate your engagement. Support the show Get social and follow us on Instagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail Planning your wedding budget and wondering where to spend, where to save, and what’s actually worth it? In Part 2 of our special supplier interviews from The Hub Show, Paul and Rhian chat to wedding professionals about the decisions that can make a real difference to your big day. From wedding flowers and venue styling to mobile fizz bars, wedding entertainment and preserving your bouquet, we’re getting honest advice straight from the suppliers who know weddings best. In this episode, we discuss: 🌸 Wedding flowers & bouquet preservation: Is it worth preserving your wedding bouquet? How can you make your wedding flowers more affordable, and is Pinterest setting unrealistic expectations? 🏡 Wedding venues & styling: Do you need flowers on every table? Can DIY wedding decor look just as good as professional styling? And what should you consider when choosing a venue for your guest list? 🤵 Wedding suits & outfits: How important is it for the groom’s outfit to match the wedding theme, and are coordinated suits worth the investment? 🥂 Wedding drinks & mobile bars: Is a free bar really the best use of your budget? Could a fizz bar add that extra wow factor, even when your venue already provides drinks? 🎰 Wedding entertainment ideas: Are casino tables worth it for a smaller wedding? And what should you plan for that awkward gap between the wedding breakfast and the evening reception? Plus, we’re sharing listener Planning Panics, hilarious Wedding WTFs, and real-life wedding scenarios involving mismatched suits, fire alarms, signature cocktails and family members rearranging the wedding flowers! Whether you’re newly engaged, choosing your wedding suppliers or trying to make your wedding budget go further, this episode is full of practical ideas, honest opinions and things to think about before your big day. 🎧 Listen to Totally Absolutely Engaged wherever you get your podcasts. Have a wedding dilemma or a funny wedding story? Send it to us and we might feature it on a future episode! Support the show Get social and follow us on Instagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail Wedding planning can feel overwhelming, so we’re bringing you honest advice straight from the people who know weddings best! 💍 In this special episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, Paul and Rhian head to The Hub Show to chat with a brilliant line-up of wedding suppliers about the questions couples really want answered before their big day. 🎧 In this episode, we’re talking about: 🎵 Wedding DJs and music: Should your DJ stick to your do-not-play list, even if the dance floor is empty? How many songs should you give your DJ, and should you let them have some creative freedom? 💍 Personalised wedding ceremonies: Are personal vows better than traditional vows? How long should your ceremony be, and do you really have to write everything yourself if you book a celebrant? 🎤 Live wedding music: Does a live singer create a better atmosphere than a playlist? Can you have both a live singer and a DJ, and what happens if you and your partner have completely different music tastes? 🍫 Wedding favours and personal touches: We chat about personalised chocolate, edible wedding favours and how to make your details feel thoughtful without adding unnecessary stress. 🏰 Wedding venue planning: From menu deadlines and communication with your venue coordinator to backup plans and evening timings, we get into the practical details couples need to think about. As always, expect honest opinions, real supplier experiences, wedding dilemmas and a few laughs along the way. Whether you're newly engaged, planning your wedding reception or choosing your final suppliers, this episode is packed with advice to help you feel more confident about your decisions. Planning a wedding? Follow Totally Absolutely Engaged for honest wedding advice, trusted supplier conversations and the questions you might not have thought to ask. Support the show Get social and follow us on Instagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail Wedding dress shopping is meant to be exciting… but between budgets, family opinions, social media, alterations and suddenly questioning every decision you make, it can also feel VERY overwhelming. In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, Paul and Rhian are joined by Jez and Jacob, the directors of SayOui, a bridal boutique in Sandbach, Cheshire, to get the honest truth about what actually happens when you go wedding dress shopping. From why around 70% of brides arrive with a completely different dress in mind to the one they eventually choose, to whether you really should bring six people to your first appointment, Jez and Jacob share plenty of advice for brides who don't know where to start. We chat about: 👰 How to know which wedding dress style actually suits you 💷 What you should realistically budget for a wedding dress ✂️ Why wedding dress alterations can cost more than you expect 👠 When you actually need to choose your wedding shoes 🤍 What underwear you should wear to your bridal appointment 👯 How many people you should take wedding dress shopping 📱 Why social media can cause serious wedding dress FOMO ✨ What to do if you suddenly think you've chosen the wrong dress 💡 How bridal boutiques can help you stay within your budget 🎀 Customising and bespoke wedding dresses 🥂 Why smaller bridal appointments might actually be better 🚨 And some very relatable Wedding WTF moments from the bridal shop! Plus, we tackle listener dilemmas including falling in love with a dress that's £900 over budget, worrying you've chosen the wrong dress after seeing other gowns online, and bringing a whole crowd of opinions to your first bridal appointment. If you're wedding dress shopping or about to start this is one to save. Find SayOui at @sayoui.uk and online at sayoui.co.uk And don't forget to send us your wedding dilemmas and stories, we might answer yours on a future episode! Support the show Get social and follow us on Instagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail What does it REALLY take to be a wedding singer? This week, Paul and Rhian are joined by Tasha Bennett, a wedding singer, songwriter and former successful photographer who has built a huge following online and now has a diary that stretches years into the future. But being a wedding singer isn't just turning up, singing a few songs and going home. Tasha talks honestly about everything couples don't necessarily see, learning songs, preparing tracks, protecting her voice, travelling to weddings, dealing with song requests, managing enquiries and why booking a wedding singer isn't simply about the number of hours they spend performing. With over 850 songs in her repertoire, Tasha explains what she will and won't learn for couples, why she has had to put boundaries around new song requests, and why the songs that sound easy can sometimes be the hardest ones for a singer to perform. We also get into her journey from chasing a record deal and working in the music industry, to building a successful photography business, before eventually returning to singing, something she originally thought she'd never be able to make a living from. Plus: 🎤 How many songs does a wedding singer actually know? 🎶 Can you request ANY song for your wedding? 💷 Why wedding singers cost what they do 🫖 How singers actually look after their voices 📱 Why Tasha prefers WhatsApp voice notes to phone calls 👗 Why she doesn't want to look like every other wedding singer 💍 How far in advance should you book? 🎧 Why being yourself matters when choosing a wedding supplier 😂 The reality of performing when your voice is exhausted 🎵 Jazz, Spice Girls, 90s R&B and some very questionable song requests And, as always, we get the honest, unfiltered version of what it's really like working in the wedding industry. Follow her on Instagram/TikTok and Spotify @tashabennett Support the show Get social and follow us on Instagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail Thinking about coming to The Hub Show? Here’s exactly what you can expect. In this special episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, Paul and Rhian go behind the scenes and talk through everything happening at the next Hub Show on Saturday 4th October, 12–3pm. With 27+ trusted wedding suppliers, free entry, free parking, food, drinks, entertainment, demonstrations, samples and plenty of advice, this isn’t your typical wedding fair. Paul and Rhian explain: 💍 Who will actually be there: From venues, photographers and florists to cake makers, makeup artists, hair stylists, DJs, singers, celebrants, bridal wear, jewellery and more. 🎁 What’s in the luxury gift bags: Including samples, exclusive supplier offers, an emergency kit, treats and even the chance to win a prize. 🥂 What happens when you arrive: Including prosecco, orange, registration and how the whole show is laid out. 💬 Why The Hub Show is different: There’s no pressure to hand over your details or be dragged around supplier stands. Come in, ask questions, take your time and get honest advice. 🎧 The live podcast: We will be recording at the show, with a post-show debrief coming too. 🍰 Food, cake samples and entertainment: Including coffee, noodles, sweets, cake samples, a singer, DJ and more. ✨ What you can actually get sorted in one afternoon and how to make the most of your time if you're seriously planning your wedding. Paul and Rhian also chat about how The Hub Show has grown from just six suppliers to more than 27, why they wanted to create a relaxed, non-pushy wedding event, and what couples can expect when they walk into the warehouse. Whether you're newly engaged, halfway through planning or just want to meet some genuinely helpful wedding suppliers, this episode gives you the full lowdown before you arrive. 📍 The Hub Show 📅 4th October ⏰ 12pm–3pm 🎟️ Free entry + free parking Register in advance for the chance to get one of the luxury gift bags or just turn up on the day! Support the show Get social and follow us on Instagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail Wedding photography is about so much more than simply showing up for eight hours and taking a few pictures. In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, Paul and Rhian are joined by Maddie Farris Photography, a Manchester-based wedding photographer known for her relaxed, natural approach and alternative wedding style. Maddie chats honestly about finding your people, why she doesn’t follow wedding trends too closely, and how couples can make sure their wedding day reflects who they actually are, rather than what they think a wedding should look like. We get into the questions couples really want to ask, including: 📸 Candid vs posed wedding photos, can you have both without spending the whole day taking pictures? 💍 Do you really need an engagement shoot? Who benefits from one, and when might it actually be worth doing? 🌧️ What happens if it rains on your wedding day? Why embracing the weather can sometimes create the best photos. 👰 How to handle a groom who hates having their photo taken, including Maddie's very honest approach! 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family group photos, how to stop them taking 45 minutes because nobody knows where anyone is. 💷 Why wedding photographers cost what they do and why you’re paying for much more than the time they spend taking photos on the day. 🌅 First looks, sunset portraits and wedding-day timelines, what couples should consider before deciding how they want their photos captured. 🐶 Plus, we chat about dogs at weddings, content creators, twilight weddings, working alongside videographers and why finding a photographer whose personality matches yours can make such a difference. Maddy also shares why being upfront about who she is, from her interests to her alternative style, has helped her attract couples who genuinely feel like her people. Expect honest advice, a few controversial opinions, plenty of wedding dilemmas and a reminder that your wedding photos should feel like you. 🎧 Listen now and follow Totally Absolutely Engaged for more honest wedding advice, real supplier conversations and absolutely none of the wedding planning fluff. Support the show Get social and follow us on Instagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail Season 3 is officially here! And we're kicking things off with a proper catch-up with Paul and Rhian as we get to know our new co-host, settle into the brand-new set and dive straight into some very honest wedding opinions. In this episode, we're asking the questions engaged couples are actually thinking about: - Do you really need to invite everyone who invited you to their wedding? - Do you need a £30,000 wedding to have an amazing day? - Can Pinterest actually make wedding planning more stressful and more expensive? - Is your photographer one of the suppliers worth spending more money on? - Are wedding favours a waste of money? - Would you rather lose your first dance or your vows? - Should you have an unplugged ceremony? - And how do you stop your guest list spiralling out of control? Plus, we're introducing our brand-new Listener Dilemmas, Planning Panic and Wedding WTF segments, where we're tackling real wedding questions, planning problems and the things that have left recently married couples thinking... WTF?! We'll also reveal the first five things we'd tell a friend who got engaged tomorrow, including the one thing we think couples should sort BEFORE they start booking everything. Expect honest opinions, plenty of disagreements, questionable wedding traditions and advice from people who have actually been there. Real suppliers. Honest advice. No wedding planning fluff. This is Totally Absolutely Engaged. Support the show Get social and follow us on Instagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail Planning a wedding and wondering what you actually need, what’s worth spending your money on, and which wedding rules you can completely ignore? Welcome to Totally Absolutely Engaged! The wedding podcast for couples who want honest answers, real advice and none of the wedding planning fluff. From wedding insurance and budgets to bridesmaids, wedding guests, suppliers, traditions and everything in between, Paul & Rhian are here to tackle the questions couples are actually asking. Should you really get wedding insurance? How do you tell a bridesmaid she can’t bring her boyfriend? What happens if you hate your wedding photos? And who decided weddings had to cost this much?! Each episode, we chat to people who actually work in the wedding industry, including wedding photographers, florists, entertainers, venues, cake makers and other trusted wedding suppliers, to find out what couples really need to know before their big day. Expect honest opinions, behind-the-scenes stories, wedding planning tips, money-saving advice, wedding myths and plenty of laughs along the way. Because planning a wedding should be exciting, not overwhelming. Real suppliers. Honest advice. No wedding planning fluff. Your wedding. Your way. Listen to Totally Absolutely Engaged wherever you get your podcasts. Support the show Get social and follow us on Instagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail Does anyone actually eat the wedding cake? How much should you budget? And is fruitcake finally dead? 🍰 We are looking back on one of our favourite episodes of season 2, and we're joined by Cheshire wedding cake designer Rhian, who shares everything couples should know before booking their wedding cake. From choosing flavours your guests will actually eat to avoiding expensive mistakes, this episode is packed with honest advice, behind-the-scenes secrets and practical wedding planning tips. We discuss: Why couples should stop under-ordering wedding cakeWedding cake trends for 2026 & 2027Buttercream vs fondantThe biggest mistakes couples makeHow far in advance to book your cakeWedding cake budgets explainedWhy your wedding cake probably won't melt in summerWhether supermarket wedding cakes are worth itWhy nobody wants fruitcake anymoreThe truth about saving your top tierIf you're currently planning your wedding, this episode is full of useful advice that could save you money while helping you choose a cake your guests will actually remember. Subscribe to Totally Absolutely Engaged for weekly conversations with trusted wedding experts, honest supplier advice and practical planning tips. Support the show Get social and follow us on Instagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail It's time for the final I Do or I Don't? episode, where the Totally Absolutely Engaged team give their brutally honest opinions on some of the biggest wedding planning debates. Would you wear a black wedding dress? Are weekday weddings actually worth it? Should children leave the dancefloor after 9pm? Is a champagne tower a must-have or a complete waste of money? This episode covers some of the most talked-about wedding trends of 2026, with plenty of laughs, disagreements and controversial takes along the way. In this episode we discuss: Black and coloured wedding dressesWeekday weddings vs weekend weddingsChampagne towersSpending more on your dress than your honeymoonDogs and pets as ring bearersAdults-only dancefloors after 9pmAsking guests not to wear certain coloursOutfit changes during the receptionDrone photographyPrivate vows before the ceremonySparkler exitsSplitting wedding costs between familiesEloping vs having a big weddingWhether you're newly engaged, halfway through planning your wedding, or simply love hearing different opinions from wedding professionals, this episode is packed with ideas that might just change your mind. 🎧 Subscribe for weekly wedding planning advice, real supplier insight and honest conversations from inside the UK wedding industry. Support the show Get social and follow us on Instagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail Planning your wedding flowers? In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, we're joined by Jen from Peony Rose Florist to answer the questions every engaged couple wants to know before booking their florist. From how much wedding flowers actually cost to choosing seasonal blooms, avoiding expensive trends and making the most of your budget, this episode is packed with honest advice that could save you money and help you get the look you've always wanted. Jen takes us behind the scenes of being a wedding florist, revealing everything that happens before your flowers arrive on the big day, from ordering and conditioning flowers to dealing with unpredictable British weather and creating bespoke floral designs that perfectly complement each couple. We also answer your listener questions, including whether DIY wedding flowers are worth it, how to maximise your floral budget, when to book your florist, which flowers photograph beautifully, and why trusting your wedding suppliers can make all the difference. If you're planning your wedding and want expert advice on bridal bouquets, buttonholes, ceremony flowers, table centrepieces and creating beautiful wedding flowers without overspending, this episode is a must-listen. In this episode: • How much should you budget for wedding flowers? • Why seasonal flowers save money • The biggest wedding flower mistakes couples make • Fresh vs artificial wedding flowers • Can you DIY your wedding flowers? • How to get the biggest impact from your floral budget • Why trends could end up costing you more Whether you're newly engaged or finalising your wedding plans, this episode will help you make informed decisions and get the most from your wedding florist. Support the show Get social and follow us on Instagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail This week on Totally Absolutely Engaged, we're joined by Lee from Henry D. Johnstone Jewellers, an award-winning family run jeweller known for helping couples find engagement rings, wedding rings and bespoke jewellery they'll treasure forever.  We discuss: • How engagement ring shopping actually works • Lab-grown diamonds vs natural diamonds • Current engagement ring trends • Choosing the right wedding rings • Creating bespoke jewellery • How to get the most value from your budget • Expert advice for newly engaged couples If you're planning a proposal, shopping for wedding rings or simply looking for expert wedding advice, this episode is packed with insights to help you make confident decisions. Support the show Get social and follow us on Instagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, wedding professionals Paul, Isla and Esme are back with Part 2 of I Do or I Don't?, debating some of the biggest wedding trends couples are talking about right now. From first looks and destination weddings to personalised vows, unplugged ceremonies, matching bridesmaid dresses, signature cocktails and choreographed first dances, the team shares honest opinions, real wedding industry insight and practical advice for engaged couples planning their big day. Whether you're newly engaged, deep into wedding planning or simply looking for fresh wedding inspiration, this episode will help you decide which wedding traditions and modern trends are right for you. 🎙️ Topics covered: • First look wedding photos • Destination weddings • Unplugged ceremonies • Personalised wedding vows • Matching bridesmaid dresses • Choreographed first dances • Signature wedding cocktails • Modern wedding trends for 2026 If you're looking for wedding planning advice, wedding ideas and expert insights from experienced suppliers, this episode is for you. Support the show Get social and follow us on Instagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail Wedding awards are everywhere in the wedding industry but what do they actually mean for engaged couples? In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, we're unpacking our experience at the latest wedding awards, discussing what goes on behind the scenes, what judges are really looking for, and whether awards should influence your supplier decisions. From industry recognition and supplier credibility to the realities of entering awards and what couples should focus on when choosing their wedding team, this is an honest conversation about one of the most talked-about topics in the wedding world. Whether you're newly engaged, planning your wedding, or currently searching for wedding suppliers, this episode will help you understand how wedding awards work and what really matters when booking the people who will bring your day to life. Topics covered: • Wedding industry awards explained • Are wedding awards important? • Choosing wedding suppliers • Award-winning wedding businesses • Wedding planning advice • What couples should look for when booking suppliers • Behind the scenes of wedding awards • UK wedding industry insights 🎧 Available wherever you listen to podcasts. 📲 Follow Totally Absolutely Engaged for weekly wedding planning advice, supplier insights and real wedding conversations. Support the show Get social and follow us on Instagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==