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48 episodes
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Emily DiniExplicit
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Date created
2024/12/10
Latest episode
2026/09/27
Average duration
33 min.
Release period
21 days
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You're a successful woman who's got a lot of things going right in your life (dream job, cozy home, amazing friends)...but relationships are a different story. On Becoming Secure, we talk all things dating, healing anxious, avoidant, & disorganized attachment styles, and healthy relationships - so you can feel as amazing in relationships as you do in every other area of your life 💕
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Why you’re avoidant now in a healthy relationship
2026/09/27
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WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?
You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)
🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃♀️
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8 Things I’d do if I wanted to find a healthy relationship in 2026
2026/07/09
Apply for Attachment Alchemy
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WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?
You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)
🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃♀️
Get the Replay Here!
Life update, the loss of my cat, and building your own "village"
2026/06/30
In this episode of Becoming Secure, Emily talks about the loss of her cat, the importance of having a village, and how to create one if you don't have that yet.
More info on the Women's Circle starting in July: https://forms.gle/ktnPsSfVsoa6LqR27
Apply to work with Emily 1-1
WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?
You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)
🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃♀️
Get the Replay Here!
Why therapy hasn't healed your anxious attachment
2026/06/21
Apply to work with Emily 1-1
WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?
You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)
🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃♀️
Get the Replay Here!
Are you actually a fearful avoidant and not anxiously attached?
2026/05/25
Apply to work with Emily 1-1
WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?
You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)
🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃♀️
Get the Replay Here!
The guys I'm into aren't into me, and I'm not attracted to the guys who ARE into me
2026/05/12
Does it take a long time to find guys you're attracted to? Does it feel like all the guys you're into aren't into you? And that guys who are into you - are definitely not the type you'd go for? Emily unpacks why this happens through an attachment lens in this episode of Becoming Secure!
Apply for Emily's 1-1 attachment healing program, Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14
Apply to work with Emily 1-1
WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?
You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)
🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃♀️
Get the Replay Here!
Do men actually want commitment?
2026/05/02
Register for Un-Situationship-Able today! https://forms.gle/L8EhQiRQjWLG5E5f6
Apply to work with Emily 1-1
WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?
You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)
🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃♀️
Get the Replay Here!
How to Get Over Your Situationship - for good!
2026/04/25
Read more and register for ✨Un-Situationship-Able✨ today! https://forms.gle/h1H5aWSUbUGqUc5G6
Apply to work with Emily 1-1
WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?
You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)
🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃♀️
Get the Replay Here!
[Situationships] My 5 dating non-negotiables to avoid situationships
2026/04/17
Ready to end the cycle of situationships and attract commitment-ready men? These 5 boundaries will put you on the right path!
And if you're ready to end the cycle for good, register for Un-Situationship-Able today! A live 5-week coaching program to help you never end up in a situationship again and only attract men who can fully choose you!
Register Here: https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6
Apply to work with Emily 1-1
WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?
You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)
🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃♀️
Get the Replay Here!
[Situationships] I told him I wanted a relationship, so why did nothing change?
2026/04/07
You finally worked up the courage to have the hard convo...what are you looking for? He says he doesn't want a relationship right now, butttt...nothing changes after that. He keeps seeing you and acting like things are the same...why?
Un-Situationship-Able is open for enrollment now! Read more and register here: https://forms.gle/VBqTZm4Urwgwf1VS7
Apply for 1-1 Work: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14
Apply to work with Emily 1-1
WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?
You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)
🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃♀️
Get the Replay Here!
[Situationships] Why are situationships such a mindf*ck?!
2026/04/07
What makes situationships feels so intoxicating, intense, and hard to get over? Emily breaks this down in the latest episode of Becoming Secure!
Un-Situationship-Able is now open for enrollment! Read more and register here: https://forms.gle/i9vYmp4qJZLhSaPCA
Want to work 1-1 with Emily? Apply here: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14
Apply to work with Emily 1-1
WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?
You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)
🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃♀️
Get the Replay Here!
The #1 thing keeping you from healthy love
2026/03/19
Links mentioned:
Free resource: Am I Settling? workshop replay. Get it here: https://mailchi.mp/69faea9d5bc1/am-i-settling-workshop-replay-sign-up
Read more and apply for Should I Stay or Should I Go? https://forms.gle/QAmfpFRbQF1ZED7w7
Apply for Attachment Alchemy 1-1 Program: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14
Apply to work with Emily 1-1
WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?
You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)
🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃♀️
Get the Replay Here!
Should you date a guy who’s not *technically* divorced yet?
2026/03/07
Should you date a guy who's not technically divorced yet? A client recently asked me this question. His reason made sense. He said he was ready to date. Was it okay for her to proceed? In this episode, I break down for you exactly what I told her!
Links mentioned:
Free resource: Am I Settling? workshop replay. Get it here: https://mailchi.mp/69faea9d5bc1/am-i-settling-workshop-replay-sign-up
Read more and apply for Should I Stay or Should I Go? https://forms.gle/QAmfpFRbQF1ZED7w7
Apply to work with Emily 1-1
WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?
You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)
🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃♀️
Get the Replay Here!
Are you asking for too much? Or settling for too little?
2026/01/24
In this episode, Emily breaks down two unsexy truths about settling and why it can be so hard to tell if you're settling for too little or asking for too much!
Get the "Am I Settling?" workshop replay here!
In this workshop, we'll cover the 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)
🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃♀️
❓Plus time for hot-seat coaching/Q&A - so you can ask questions & get immediate clarity on whether you're settling! 👑💅🏼
Get the replay here!
Apply to work with Emily 1-1
WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?
You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)
🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃♀️
Get the Replay Here!
Dating Mistakes Anxious Attachers Make w/ Guest Valerie Rubin
2025/12/19
On this episode of Becoming Secure, Emily welcomes anxious attachment coach Valerie Rubin to discuss common mistakes anxious attachers make in dating and relationships and the importance of doing somatic work in healing anxious attachment!
Find Valerie's instagram here
Valerie's podcast is called: The Anxiety Recovery Podcast.
Apply to work with Emily 1-1
WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling?
You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)
🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃♀️
Get the Replay Here!
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I’ve been following Emily for a while and It’s amazing how much growth I’ve experienced by listening to her guidance and applying it to my life in the...
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Helpful and clear
I love listening to Emily’s insights. I have actually done one on one work with Emily and she changed my life, this is not hyperbole. Listening to th...
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