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Toast is back in town and we have a lot to catch up on...  Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  1:01 Toast is back in town  4:36 Is life different without Toast?  9:15 Yvonne’s apartment is cozy  10:10 Is Yvonne family?  11:47 Yvonne questions Toast…  13:03 Toast doesn’t want Chelsea to help him  15:05 Chelsea’s HOT questions for Toast  17:36 Is Yvonne an ally to men? 22:02 How many times have we hooked up  24:44 Yvonne lists five men she respects  25:30 Has Yvonne ever helped out Toast  29:25 Setting boundaries with fans  32:05 How can Yvonne celebrate Toast more  33:21 AAPI months thoughts 36:00 Toast can’t make it to Yvonne’s BDAY  38:20 Why do asians go to raves?  43:12 Toast and Scarra have the same bday  45:32 Introvert vs Extrovert personalities  46:45 Eating alone at a restaurant  49:50 Chelsea’s alone alot  51:16 Toast likes to sleep on the floor ALONE  54:50 Sleeping in separate rooms  56:34 Who has the higher social battery?  1:01:00 Toast hasn't made a new friend 1:03:21 Chelsea has a friend for Toast 1:05:51 Yvonne’s first date ettiequte  1:08:34 Google-ing Yvonne on the first date  1:10:41 How much $ would it take to be a stay at home mom/dad 1:17:55 Leaving mean comments online  1:20:13 Who’s ragebaiting who??  1:22:30 Playing your attractive cards  1:23:27 Flexing your car  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Yvonne's accidental date might have been a blessing in disguise... This week, Toast forces the pod to play pickleball, stay tuned... Thanks to our Sponsors: Sign up for your free trial at ⁠https://www.shopify.com/beforethis Timestamps:  00:00 intro  1:13 The podcast lives on  3:01 Toast thinks Yvonne is going through it 4:28 Does Toast have friends for Yvonne?  5:50 Guys going for the same girl… 8:03 Yvonne and Leslie hypotheticals  11:00 Can a woman or man be bumped up to a 10 12:01 Rewatching older clips  13:20 Chelsea reviews if she is biased  16:35 Fighting women on a public platform  19:22 Fighting men on a public platform  21:42 Yvonne’s rude date  25:02 Creators feeling privileged  27:11 Being direct  30:28 Chelsea’s animation friend 31:33 Who’s the funniest OTV member  37:40 What Toast is consuming these days 38:52 Peak OTV days  40:20 Creative rut  44:45 Predicting life  45:55 Toast wants to play pickleball  48:44 Toast comments on Yvonnes weight  53:10 Yvonne’s been working out!  55:04 Chelsea invites Scarra to play pickleball… 57:20 Tune in when we all play pickleball…  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The trio is back together and Toast and Yvonne need to address the past couple of episodes... Timestamps: 00:17 Intro 1:04 Singapore trip + tournament drama7:06 Is AI more accepted in Asia?8:32 Toast’s mom watches the podcast9:24 Is Toast being “squished into a ball”?10:38 Does Toast need more backup?12:56 Toast admits to rage baiting15:04 How Toast & Yvonne handle tension18:23 Chelsea is scared of the YouTube comments20:05 Nate is secretly rage baiting??21:11 Content creators vs pro gamers24:22 Toast's Collab with Yunjin28:50 OTV x SB19 Fear Pong34:25 Team Toast vs Team Yvonne in Singapore36:28 Pickleball + badminton in Singapore37:37 Traveling with Toast’s mom38:58 What relationships have taught us50:21 Dating app openers 51:48 Our upcoming blind dating episode…53:44 Has the podcast affected our relationships?57:02 Outro  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Scarra and Chelsea are back together for round 2! This time Chelsea needs answers.  Sign up for your $1 per month trial at https://www.shopify.com/beforethis Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  00:45 Scarra’s here!! Again… 2:18 Are Chelsea and Scarra friends now? 3:10 Getting Scarra to play tennis  5:32 Chelsea on the courts…  7:30 How Scarra REALLY felt playing tennis again 16:04 Being a tennis influencer… 18:17 Updates on Scarra’s dating life  20:12 When did Scarra know he was straight 21:45 Female allies  25:55 Is Chelsea an ally to Scarra?  29:43 Chelsea proposes a NEW friend!  32:27 Are streamers socially awkward?  34:15 Scarra loves pickleball  37:28 Finding Scarra’s perfect woman 49:00 Scarra doesn’t think Yvonne is a pro gamer  53:12 Intelligent dream woman?  54:25 Paying your therapist to laugh  55:10 Having a close family  1:01:25 Complimenting a guy  1:05:48 Chelsea is here to help Scarra  1:10:27 Toast and Scarra’s relationship  1:14:31 Why Chelsea became friends with Scarra  1:21:20 Fakefans is back!  1:24:20 The don and the diva…  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The Fu siblings are here! Leslie and Nate share how they reunited as siblings and past memories they had apart from each other.  Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  1:20 the Fu Siblings!  1:55 Who is Nate Fu 4:54 Toast is being squished… 8:10  Does Toast needs backup?  10:10 The reality of Yvonne and Toast  11:22 Leslie’s OG streaming days  14:35 Nate’s streaming POV  16:25 Being a female streamer  20:40 OTV parties  24:34  Leslie on Ryan Higa’s Influence  26:15 Nate Films with Ryan Higa in Hawaii  29:54 The Canceled HyperX Commercial  32:08 Leslie and Nate Discover Similarities  37:49 Leslie and Nate’s 30-Year Estrangement 40:13 Lost Hamster Story  41:46 How Leslie and Nate Reconnect  48:54 Leslie on Being Vulnerable Online  52:04 Yvonne's 4D Movie Date  1:03:56 Nate’s First Time Going Live  1:08:50 Nate Makes Aluminum Trophies  1:12:53 Icing Toast in Calgary Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Streamers are low maintenance, and we're here to prove it to you. Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  1:20 Big 60th episode 2:42 Toast doesn’t want to be on a team with Yvonne  8:01 Toast is a yapper  10:43 Chelsea ranked in Brawl Stars  12:27 Faker of Brawl Stars  12:48 Craziest purchases by streamers  17:03 Streamers are low maintenance  20:08 Toast loves to sleep on the floor  23:40 Yvonne is in with the kids  24:58 Toast has a gripe with OTV  26:03 Scarra like it COLD  30:10 OTV master bedroom… 32:12 Toast’s bedroom makeover  33:07 Chelsea’s interaction with Jeremy  35:31 Yvonne is getting back into League  36:52 Can you lose and still be happy?  41:34 Toast’s role as a uncle 45:01 Having kids as content creators  48:10 Giving kids balance 49:58 Nepo babies  52:12 Child cheat code  57:01 Yvonne’s school bullies  59:55 Going to Chinese school  1:07:52 Asian culture being more celebrated  1:10:55 Netflix Avatar the Airbender was a flop?  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Yvonne runs into a dilemma in the early dating stage and Chelsea makes an apology.. Timestamps: 00:00:00 Intro 00:00:26 Chelsea's Brawl Stars Update 00:01:27 Gaming and ranked anxiety 00:03:51 Drake vs 20 00:05:30 Scrapped Yvonne vs 10 video 00:12:04 Love is Blind: Yvonne edition 00:13:55 Age appropriate.. 00:15:33 Chelsea is setting up the dating game 00:16:53 Dating exclusivity 00:17:15 When to disclose you're seeing other people 00:24:17 You should tell em 00:34:30 Best places to cry 00:35:43 Dont be afraid to hurt their feelings 00:37:32 They might be watching.. 00:41:50 Yvonne’s standards 00:42:08 Yvonne's dating standards and the Android debate 00:43:52 Chelsea apologizes to Android users 00:46:14 Scarra and Chelsea go to Tennis 00:48:32 Yvonne's board game night 00:50:38 Toast's reflections on his family Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Give a man a break sometimes or maybe not... 👀  Timestamps:  00:00 - Intro01:00 - The competitive card game grind02:51 - Yvonne's sushi date10:04 - Dating seriously for marriage12:42 - Trying to set up Yvonne13:45 - Stop trying to train your boyfriend14:46 - The perilla leaf debate19:52 - Giving your company prize to another girl25:33 - Would you take a free trip to Hawaii?26:18 - Driving your coworker home29:20 - Building furniture for a random girl35:29 - Buying personalized souvenirs for coworkers40:38 - What would your death row meal be?46:08 - Would you want to know when you’re going to die?47:19 - Using fame to skip the line51:33 - Why celebrities get special treatment52:26 - The fake acting career prank54:16 - Outro Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Yvonne and Toast are back and this week they're finding out how high and low some of their dating standards are 👀 Turns out you don’t need a real job. Build your own business with a free trial at shopify.com/beforethis Timestamps:  00:00 Intro00:23 Recap of previous episode (Scarra & Chelsea)03:23 Yvonne's Collective Con experience07:37 Scarra’s raffle and booth10:28 Selling cards and cash management12:13 Fan interactions and giving back14:41 Yvonne's dating update16:32 "He's a 10 But..."40:48 Getting scammed on MapleStory and Neopets42:28 The tea scam43:49 Street scams, CDs, and mascots44:33 Valorant tournament recap47:22 League of Legends Classic tournament51:57 Discussing League ranks52:37 Wrap-up and tea for next week Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Yvonne and Toast are away this week but Chelsea continues to fight to find Scarra love!  00:00 Intro  1:28 Are Scarra and Chelsea friends?  2:30 Scarra’s podcast  4:30 Did Chelsea sabotage Scarra?  6:31 Scarra’s belief and plan for dating 10:48 Chelsea wants to set Scarra up  14:45 Hypothetical first date  20:35 The “perfect” date  23:17 Dating a fan?  26:51 Deal breakers for Scarra 28:15 She’s a 10 BUT…. 45:14 Is living in LA actually worth it?  46:20 Introvert vs extrovert  50:42 Life is short  52:50 Scarra wants a crazy ex  53:10 We want love for Yvonne 55:21 Meeting a girl at the club?  56:30 Do we believe in love at first sight? 57:56 Learning how to set boundaries 1:04:20 How do you stay hopeful? 1:07:00 Dealing with hate online 1:11:10 The truth about creator burnout 1:17:23 Toast’s content strategy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Should we join Stream U next year? 👀 Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  00:45 Toast plays pickleball  7:20 Yvonne’s Pokémon passion  10:05 Toast is triggered by someone…  11:20 Womens intuition  12:55 Toast didn’t want to be on the same team as this person 14:45 Valorant tournament thoughts   19:10 Yvonne is killing at Valorant  20:38 Yvonne kills s0m 23:31 Toast isn’t doing as hot  25:30 Streamer university thoughts  33:04 Toast become a professor at Streamer U 35:01 Would we apply to Streamer U 41:03 Is Toast chopped?  42:20 What makes someone “chopped”  49:51 Hi from Faker Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We've heard crazy rumors and even crazier ones from our own friends... Start your free trial at https://SHOPIFY.COM/beforethis Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  00:23 Yvonne rates her own trip 2:45 Thoughts on the Calgary trip 3:03 Yvonne forced Toast to go raving 6:28 Toast takes over Yvonne’s hometown 8:44 Meeting Yvonne’s mom 9:53 Yvonne’s friends defend her from Toast 12:40 The craziest things they saw in Calgary 15:17 Who has more pull? 18:36 Toast gets iced for the first time 20:58 Meeting Yvonne’s childhood friends 23:04 Peak Asian Canadian childhood 28:05 The craziest rumors about Toast and Yvonne 28:49 Lily thought Toast would date Yvonne 30:22 How rich is Toast actually? 31:14 The truth about the podcast’s money 32:30 Did Yvonne and Brodin date? 32:52 Would Yvonne date someone in the friend group?  33:33 Chelsea went to an all girls college 34:44 Love and Deepspace 42:28 What race would you choose to be? 50:31 Would they ever move back home? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week we're asking if men actually know what women want? Do women know what women want?  Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  00:40 Toast is into Love Island  3:25 Testing men  5:18 Big SO fight  7:30 Complimenting another’s partner 12:24 Badminton Open  14:15 Yvonne has PULL 19:12 LIVE PODCAST SHOW!  21:32 Toast is Ryan Higa... 22:54 Toast doesn’t want Yvonne on his team 26:38 PRO VS JOE  31:20 Toast breaks it down for Chelsea 34:25 Marvel Rivals drama  36:00 Tournament dynamics 39:18 Recovering from losing  45:35 Is “NORMIE” derogatory  47:06 When did we realize we were straight  50:02 Would you love me if I was a worm  52:45 Experience with he opposite gender  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Yvonne finds messages from her dad 🥺 Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  00:30 Pickleball movie… 3:10 Yvonne Dad reaches out 9:02 Yvonne’s thoughts on her dad :(  17:50 Reconnecting and getting clarity  26:11 Abg and abb event  30:34 Toast’s is insecure about his hair 33:55 Yvonne’s hairdresser  36:30 Meccha Chameleon 40:31 Toast doesn’t want to give up 45:00 How long Mecca Chameleon will last  47:23 Taking bets  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

TGC Cafes, Disney Adults, and finding Scarra true love?  Timestamps: 00:00 Fighting Before This.... 2:15 Toast vs Yvonne's 50/50 Debate5:18 Chelsea Gets Dragged Into It8:12 Who Actually Owns the Podcast?11:50 Brodin Interrupts Another Argument12:42 The Creator OTV Couldn't Get16:25 OTV vs 100 Thieves19:08 The Robert Downey Jr. Incident21:35 Being Known as "OTV" Instead of Yourself24:55 Yvonne's Imposter Syndrome28:45 Yvonne Finds Her Footing31:30 The New OTV Camping Video34:20 Toast's Worst Camping Experience36:55 Doomscrolling Has Gone Too Far39:30 Toast's ChatGPT Sessions42:10 Yvonne's Dream TCG Cafe45:25 Adult Hobbies After 3048:30 Would Yvonne Go Camping With Her Future Boyfriend?50:15 Red Flag or Green Flag?55:10 Chelsea Tries Setting Up Scarra Again55:36 Will We Get A Scarra Date Update?56:17 Outro Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices