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Send us a text In this episode, Mizzy Bender, Swingers Lifestyle educator, shares the emotional journey that life had to offer over the last 2 years. Breaking down the true feelings of this podcast, family relationships as well as friendship downfalls. It was all too much to handle, but the best self discovery at the end.  It's now time to bring this podcast to a whole new experience. Between real life stories and swinger shenanigans, we are getting into the Real Truths!  Hit follow so you never miss an episode. For more behind the scenes and closer interactions Blog: https://www.mizzybender.com/post/mizzy-bender-the-quick-details Mizzy Bender OnlyFans Join SDC RSVP to our Events: www.MindbenderParties.com Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 42 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers Lifestyle. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has migrated into a traveling boutique at swinger parties lifestyle events across the US.

Send us a text Mizzy Bender is a lifestyle influencer and educator who has been in the ethical non-monogamy/swinging lifestyle for over 7 years. She discusses the complexities and nuances of this lifestyle, emphasizing the importance of clear communication, trust, and understanding between partners. Regarding a married man attending a lifestyle event alone while his wife is not present, Mizzy notes that there will likely be some judgment from others, but advises the man to focus on his own relationship boundaries and not worry too much about others' opinions, as long as he is being transparent and honest. She encourages open-mindedness and understanding within the community. Mizzy also discusses the differences between "swingers" and those in a broader "lifestyle" of ethical non-monogamy, as well as the evolution of the lifestyle community with the rise of social media. She provides resources and information about her blog, events, and educational services for those interested in exploring this lifestyle. For more behind the scenes and closer interactions Blog: https://www.mizzybender.com/post/mizzy-bender-the-quick-details Mizzy Bender OnlyFans Join SDC RSVP to our Events: www.MindbenderParties.com Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 42 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers Lifestyle. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has migrated into a traveling boutique at swinger parties lifestyle events across the US.

Send us a text In this thoughtful and eye-opening episode, Mizzy Bender breaks down one of the most misunderstood topics in ethical non-monogamy: the difference between being a swinger and being a lifestyler. While swinging traditionally centers around partner swapping, the broader “lifestyle” community embraces many forms of open, non-monogamous connections—and most people fall somewhere between the two. Mizzy debunks one of the biggest misconceptions in the swinger world: that people are constantly engaging in sexual play. In reality, most lifestyle participants only play a few times a year, emphasizing connection over frequency. She shares her own experiences and why she personally prefers deeper, more trusted connections rather than casual encounters. The conversation highlights the importance of emotional maturity, self-reflection, and building a solid foundation with your primary partner before stepping into the lifestyle. Clear boundaries, honest communication, and a slow, intentional approach are essential—not just for safety, but for keeping your relationship strong and centered. Mizzy’s message is clear: the lifestyle is not about chasing sexual experiences—it’s about understanding yourself, honoring your partner, and approaching non-monogamy with integrity, clarity, and heart. For more behind the scenes and closer interactions Blog: https://www.mizzybender.com/post/mizzy-bender-the-quick-details Mizzy Bender OnlyFans Join SDC RSVP to our Events: www.MindbenderParties.com Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 42 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers Lifestyle. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has migrated into a traveling boutique at swinger parties lifestyle events across the US.

Send us a text In this episode, lifestyle influencer and educator Mizzy Bender—who has spent over seven years immersed in the ethical non-monogamy and swinger community—dives deep into the realities of exploring relationships beyond traditional monogamy. As the creator behind a growing lifestyle blog and a host of inclusive, judgment-free events, Mizzy brings firsthand experience and authenticity to every conversation. She breaks down the wide range of relationship compositions that exist within the lifestyle and explains why clarity, communication, and self-awareness are essential when defining your own boundaries. Mizzy reminds listeners that people will judge no matter what, but what truly matters is doing what’s healthy and ethical for you and your partner. Addressing a common stereotype, she also discusses why single men are often labeled as “creepy”—and how the real issue isn’t gender, but behavior. Respect, transparency, and consent are non-negotiable, and everyone has a responsibility to uphold them. At Mizzy’s events, the focus is always on creating a safe, open, and welcoming environment where individuals and couples can explore their sexuality and relationship dynamics free from shame or assumptions. Her message is clear: communicate openly, trust yourself, and let go of other people’s opinions—ethics always come first. This episode offers grounded guidance for newcomers and seasoned lifestyle participants alike, helping them navigate the ENM world with confidence, clarity, and integrity. For more behind the scenes and closer interactions Blog: https://www.mizzybender.com/post/mizzy-bender-the-quick-details Mizzy Bender OnlyFans Join SDC RSVP to our Events: www.MindbenderParties.com Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 42 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers Lifestyle. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has migrated into a traveling boutique at swinger parties lifestyle events across the US.

Send us a text In this raw and deeply personal episode, Mizzy Bender opens up about the experiences that shaped her journey—both inside and outside the swinger lifestyle. With honesty and vulnerability, she shares her history of domestic abuse in a previous marriage and the ongoing emotional work required to heal, grow, and reclaim her sense of self. Mizzy also reflects on her complicated relationship with her mother, exploring how those dynamics have influenced her personal life and her path as a lifestyle advocate. While navigating these intimate challenges, Mizzy remains committed to educating and empowering others within the swinger and ethical non-monogamy community. She discusses the realities of the lifestyle—its highs, its complexities, and the moments that demand accountability. Mizzy offers direct advice on how swingers should approach new partners in public spaces, stressing the importance of consent, respect, and reading body language. Addressing recent frustrations with disrespectful behavior at an event, she calls for higher standards within the community and reminds listeners that morals, integrity, and kindness are non-negotiable. Mizzy also gives a peek at what’s ahead, including upcoming blog content and a new raffle designed to connect more deeply with her audience. This episode is unfiltered, emotional, educational, and unmistakably Mizzy—an honest look at healing, boundaries, and what it truly means to be part of a respectful, sex-positive community. For more behind the scenes and closer interactions Blog: https://www.mizzybender.com/post/mizzy-bender-the-quick-details Mizzy Bender OnlyFans Join SDC RSVP to our Events: www.MindbenderParties.com Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 42 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers Lifestyle. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has migrated into a traveling boutique at swinger parties lifestyle events across the US.

Send us a text Mizzy Bender discussed was how new couples entering the swinger lifestyle can sometimes develop feelings for other partners, which can lead to complications. The speaker emphasizes the importance of thorough communication, setting clear boundaries, and taking time to observe and learn about the lifestyle before fully engaging. For more behind the scenes and closer interactions Blog: https://www.mizzybender.com/post/mizzy-bender-the-quick-details Mizzy Bender OnlyFans Join SDC RSVP to our Events: www.MindbenderParties.com Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 42 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers Lifestyle. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has migrated into a traveling boutique at swinger parties lifestyle events across the US.

Send us a text Mizzy Bender is a swingers lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy influencer/ educator. She hosts lifestyle events in Rhode Island and the Northeast, and recently held a "Back to School" themed party. Mizzy discussed the challenges of managing her busy schedule and social media presence, and how she has been working on her mental health and self-care. She also talked about the importance of planning outfits and being organized for the events. At the recent party, Mizzy described the setup of the club, including the dungeon area with various BDSM equipment and play spaces. She shared some fun, unfiltered moments that occurred during the event, highlighting the open and welcoming community at their parties. Mizzy emphasized that their events cater to all types of people, regardless of appearance or background. She encouraged viewers to keep an open mind and not have preconceived expectations when exploring the lifestyle. Overall, Mizzy provided an inside look at the swingers lifestyle community and her experiences as an event host and influencer in this space. For more behind the scenes and closer interactions Blog: https://www.mizzybender.com/post/mizzy-bender-the-quick-details Mizzy Bender OnlyFans Join SDC RSVP to our Events: www.MindbenderParties.com Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 42 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers Lifestyle. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has migrated into a traveling boutique at swinger parties lifestyle events across the US.

Send us a text Mizzy Bender is a lifestyle influencer and educator who discusses various aspects of the swinging/non-monogamous lifestyle. She provides an honest, direct approach to these topics, aiming to educate and inform her audience. She is preparing for an upcoming event series and is excited about using new technology like Meta glasses to capture real-time content. The speaker also discusses her personal journey, including challenges and growth, as she works to find her creative and spiritual path. Overall, the content focuses on the swinging lifestyle, personal development, and connecting with her audience through live discussions. For more behind the scenes and closer interactions Blog: https://www.mizzybender.com/post/mizzy-bender-the-quick-details Mizzy Bender OnlyFans Join SDC RSVP to our Events: www.MindbenderParties.com Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 42 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers Lifestyle. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has migrated into a traveling boutique at swinger parties lifestyle events across the US.

Send us a text What to Expect from todays Swingers Lifestyle Education Debunking Swinger Lifestyle Myths My aim is to offer an honest and transparent view of the swinger lifestyle, addressing frequent myths and misunderstandings. It's essential to approach this lifestyle with realistic expectations rather than fantasies or fluff. Navigating the swinger lifestyle involves complex emotions, clear communication, and careful boundary-setting. Typical Flow of a Swinger Event Swinger events typically kick off around 9 PM, as guests arrive, settle in, find their spots, and begin socializing. Dancing often helps build initial connections, but it's critical to remember that consent remains paramount at every stage. Sexual activities generally start between 10:30 PM and midnight; however, it's far from the assumed "orgy" scenario. Open play can happen, but it's structured, respectful, and consensual—single individuals rarely engage with multiple partners simultaneously. I strongly recommend observing and understanding the dynamics of an event before actively participating. Importance of Consent and Boundaries in the Swingers Lifestyle I stress the vital importance of using your voice to establish and maintain personal boundaries, both as a participant and event organizer. I've shared instances where I intervened directly to address inappropriate behavior, ensuring everyone's safety and comfort. Consent is dynamic and can be revoked at any moment; attendees must feel empowered to say "no" without any fear of negative repercussions. Advice for Swinger Newcomers For those new to the lifestyle, I recommend an initial observation period of approximately six months. This helps newcomers debunk myths and genuinely understand the realities involved. I encourage trying different event styles and hosts to discover the best match for your comfort and preferences. Effective communication, strong boundary-setting, and the willingness to speak up are crucial for successfully navigating this lifestyle. For more behind the scenes and closer interactions Blog: https://www.mizzybender.com/post/mizzy-bender-the-quick-details Mizzy Bender OnlyFans Join SDC RSVP to our Events: www.MindbenderParties.com Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 42 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers Lifestyle. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has migrated into a traveling boutique at swinger parties lifestyle events across the US.

Send us a text Welcome to a live Q&A session hosted by me, Mizzy Bender, where I discuss various aspects of the swinger lifestyle, my personal experiences, and answering questions while providing advice and insights. The discussion covers topics such as my struggles with body image and sexuality, my recent weekend adventures, the importance of communication and setting boundaries in the lifestyle, and the role of mental health awareness. Key Topic Breakdown Mizzy's Weekend Adventures A key takeaway is that it's okay to not play even if plans are made, and that one should never force themselves into a sexual situation they are not comfortable with.Mizzy's Struggles with Body Image and Sexuality I discuss her struggles with body image and insecurities, and how she has learned to embrace herself more.I talk about the challenges faced with her sexuality, such as difficulties with lubrication and arousal, due to her hysterectomy and medication.Importance of Communication and Boundaries I emphasizes the importance of clear communication and setting boundaries in the swinger lifestyle.I advise against assuming or expecting certain sexual activities, and encourages people to be vocal about their needs and preferences.I also stresses the importance of respecting the boundaries and relationships of others in the lifestyle.Mental Health Awareness Another key takeaway is the importance of mental health awareness and self-reflection in the swinger lifestyle.I believe that addressing one's mental and emotional well-being is crucial before engaging in the lifestyle.I provide resources and encourages her audience to take the time to understand themselves and their partners before participating in the lifestyle.For more behind the scenes and closer interactions Blog: https://www.mizzybender.com/post/mizzy-bender-the-quick-details Mizzy Bender OnlyFans Join SDC RSVP to our Events: www.MindbenderParties.com Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 42 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers Lifestyle. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has migrated into a traveling boutique at swinger parties lifestyle events across the US.

Send us a text Hi, its me, Mizzy Bender, self-described as a "swinger's ethical non-monogamy overall lifestyle bracket, influencer, educator" and I'm here to discuss the importance of creating boundaries in the swingers lifestyle. Mizzy shares her personal experiences and insights to provide guidance on how couples can establish healthy boundaries around physical, emotional, and practical aspects of non-monogamous relationships. Key Topics from this Episode Importance of Boundaries Boundaries are the blueprint that keeps the swinger's lifestyle consensual and safe.Without clear boundaries, couples risk resentment, confusion, and emotional fallout.Establishing boundaries is critical to maintaining trust and a healthy relationship.Physical Boundaries Discuss and agree on the specific sexual activities you and your partner are comfortable with (soft swap, hard swap, independent play, etc.).Identify any limits or "off-limits" acts.Communicate these boundaries clearly with any play partners.Emotional Boundaries Determine the level of emotional intimacy you and your partner are comfortable with (flirting, repeat play partners, etc.).Avoid making assumptions - have open conversations to align on emotional boundaries.Be aware of the potential for emotional attachment and jealousy.Practical Boundaries Decide how frequently you want to engage in the lifestyle (weekly, monthly, etc.).Consider the time, cost, and logistical factors involved.Ensure lifestyle activities don't interfere with other life responsibilities.Privacy and Disclosure Maintain discretion and confidentiality about your swinger's activities.Avoid name-dropping or sharing details without consent.Respect the privacy of your play partners.Aftercare Discuss how you and your partner want to reconnect and "reclaim" each other after a play session.Explore any specific kinks or needs you have for post-play intimacy.Ensure you both feel cared for and emotionally supported.Conclusion I encourages couples to take the time to reflect on their individual needs and desires, and to continuously revisit and adjust their boundaries as For more behind the scenes and closer interactions Blog: https://www.mizzybender.com/post/mizzy-bender-the-quick-details Mizzy Bender OnlyFans Join SDC RSVP to our Events: www.MindbenderParties.com Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 42 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers Lifestyle. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has migrated into a traveling boutique at swinger parties lifestyle events across the US.

Send us a text Key Topics and Summaries of what to expect to learn: Navigating the Swinger's Lifestyle as a Beginner Recommends that newcomers to the lifestyle observe and experience different types of swinger events (house parties, club settings, hotel takeovers, etc.) for at least 6 months before actively participating.Be aware of event rules, dress codes, and etiquette to ensure a positive experience.I stress the importance of having a "club bag" with essentials like condoms, lube, and a change of clothes to feel prepared and confident.Addressing Insecurity and Confidence Issues A viewer's wife is insecure about her appearance compared to other women in the lifestyle.Suggests the wife engage in self-reflection, journaling, and self-care activities to build her confidence and security.I emphasize that a person's unique qualities and personality are what make them attractive, not physical appearance alone.Communicating Desires and Boundaries in Open/Swinging Relationships A viewer's open relationship is transitioning as he moves back home from being stationed elsewhere. I advise the couple to focus on reconnecting and rebuilding their foundation before considering reopening the relationship.For a wife interested in becoming a "hot wife", I stress the importance of clear communication between the couple about boundaries, expectations, and how to set up successful interactions with potential partners.Hotel Takeover Events I explain the typical setup of hotel takeover events, where the party floor has open doors and people can freely move between rooms to watch or participate.Advises following the specific rules and etiquette of each event, such as getting permission before entering a room or engaging in any activities. In conclusion, I would like to emphasize the importance of self-awareness, communication, and establishing clear boundaries as keys to navigating the swinger's lifestyle successfully. She provides practical advice and encouragement to help viewers overcome insecurities and build confidence to explore their desires in a safe and ethical manner. For more behind the scenes and closer interactions Blog: https://www.mizzybender.com/post/mizzy-bender-the-quick-details Mizzy Bender OnlyFans Join SDC RSVP to our Events: www.MindbenderParties.com Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 42 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers Lifestyle. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has migrated into a traveling boutique at swinger parties lifestyle events across the US.

Send us a text Mizzy Bender discusses the importance of communication in the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy.  The key topics covered are: *Setting Boundaries Before Events *Communicating Expectations and Desires *Honesty with Yourself and Your Partner *Communication Challenges and Strategies For more behind the scenes and closer interactions Blog: https://www.mizzybender.com/post/mizzy-bender-the-quick-details Mizzy Bender OnlyFans Join SDC RSVP to our Events: www.MindbenderParties.com Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 42 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers Lifestyle. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has migrated into a traveling boutique at swinger parties lifestyle events across the US.

Send us a text It's a reoccurring topic that single guys in the swingers lifestyle get such a bad wrap. But why? I did some research by posting the question of .. What are some things single men in the swingers lifestyle do, that just irks you so much. The answers that came back really can apply to everyone, not just single men. I thought it would be a great exercise to talk about each entry one by one, really understanding the depth of it thought. The specific talking points for today's show are: Make plans after plenty of chat and planning and are a no show.Thinking they are God's gift to the swinging community…Email non stop and do not read our preferencesHang out by the women’s bathroom at closing timeAre pushy, persistent, and can't take a hint. Yeah that's 3 things but they are equally annoyingFor us it is not just single men, but couples as well.  but to separate them, single men at least where we have been seem to think that just because we are in the lifestyle she is down to have sex with everyone.  This also goes with couples, as we have had couples reach out to us who obviously did not read our profiles as to what we are looking for and wanting to get together for play.  While we do enjoy a good encounter with others, we have been in and around this long enough to know what we want and we know how to attract the couples we are interested in.  Over the years it has gotten worse where men think that going to a lifestyle party is an easy score as everyone there is DTF everyone else.  Over the years we have met some of the nicest and well mannered single men, and while they are not her choice ( her choice not mine, I would love to see her play with more), she has played with a few who treat her like a lady and not a quick score.Unfortunately if there are single guys like these examples , the host didn’t do a good job of vetting them.  That’s why they are there.  I’m not saying that single guys can’t be annoying because yes there are a shit ton of them.   I can’t wait to see the post about annoying single women.Talking to my lady when I step away or just ignoring me like I’m not there.  Jumping into her dms to try and play while keeping me out of the loop.Tbh. Single men don't bother me nearly as much as the fake people, the cliques, the abuser defenders etc. People will belieFor more behind the scenes and closer interactions Blog: https://www.mizzybender.com/post/mizzy-bender-the-quick-details Mizzy Bender OnlyFans Join SDC RSVP to our Events: www.MindbenderParties.com Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 42 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers Lifestyle. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has migrated into a traveling boutique at swinger parties lifestyle events across the US.

Send us a text It's a reoccurring topic that single guys in the swingers lifestyle get such a bad wrap. But why? I did some research by posting the question of .. What are some things single men in the lifestyle do, that just irks you so much. The answers that came back really can apply to everyone, not just single men. I thought it would be a great exercise to talk about each entry one by one, really understanding the depth of it thought. The specific talking points for today's show are: Putting effort into breaking up couples or pursuing relationships within your group to play games. The guys are like “I’m single but “….. no buts!!!  You’re either on your own or you’re not. PeriodCome up and try to join in or start touching without asking.Well, I'm single (divorced), and have been in the lifestyle for about 9 years. I won't go to "events" until I find someone who will come with me. I won't go as a single guy...It's just not the same.Ask to join in when I am doing a scene.I've been on both sides of this coin. When I was with a partner (GF, FWB etc) all was well, met some great folks and had some memorable play time, however, when I found myself without one, it got weird. With some, I was still the same me I always was, just single but to others, it was like I was a walking STD, just waiting to spread disease and automatically deemed to be a pervert just looking to cause trouble, had no business being around some of the very same people I was when I had a woman in my life and was not given the time of day.  To be fair, there are some guys who are overly aggressive and give a bad name and paint an unfair picture, as most single guys "get it" and respect others. TBH, I think we all can agree at least that a MMF threesome is still quite popular. My advice has always been, have no expectations and you won't be disappointed. This will always be a bone of contention though. Just the 2 cents of a currently single guy. 🙂As a single guy in the LS something i hate the most is those that try to hit anything that moves at the clubs without even good conversations it's the simple reason i hate going to event alone i don't want to be counted in to them i go if i have a partner or have talk to a single lady or couple and we gonna meet  at the event there is always that little group that wait in the dark corners to try attack when coFor more behind the scenes and closer interactions Blog: https://www.mizzybender.com/post/mizzy-bender-the-quick-details Mizzy Bender OnlyFans Join SDC RSVP to our Events: www.MindbenderParties.com Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 42 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers Lifestyle. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has migrated into a traveling boutique at swinger parties lifestyle events across the US.