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This is the episode we were nervous to record. Justin admits greed might be a blind spot, something he’s still in the middle of figuring out. So instead of teaching, we asked some revealing questions and answered them honestly. What we found is that greed is rarely about money. It usually shows up as anxiety, like checking the bank account one more time, and underneath that anxiety is often control, comparison, and fear. It reveals deeper questions about safety, security, and trust, and often a fear of being embarrassed or dependent if we were to lose what we have. As we dug further, it got emotional. Justin wrestles honestly with whether he’s greedy or grateful, and notices that as God has entrusted him with more (a business, a family and other responsibilities), his trust in God hasn’t kept pace. Behind it is a deep desire to provide and an equally deep fear that he won’t. As we concluded, men still carry the insecurities of a small boy; manhood just teaches us how to hide them. From there we bring the gospel to the center, drawing on 1 Timothy 6:10 and Genesis 12:2. Why would an adopted son of the King worry about money? We also get practical: don’t be alone with your wallet, so bring trusted people into big financial decisions. Budget, and include a generosity line item separate from your tithe that your kids can be part of. Generosity is the antidote to greed, and like sin, it can be passed down through generations as a blessing to our kids. There’s no neat bow on this one. We’re all works in progress. So take these questions with you: How much is enough?Is there something you own that would be hard to give away?What are you afraid would happen to you if you had significantly less than you have now?When did you first learn that money, success, or possessions meant you were safe, valuable, or winning?God, am I using my money to honor you? Is my house too big? Am I blinded by greed? Be curious. Ask a friend. Ask God. The only wrong response is assuming you’re fine. Consider this episode permission, and grace. Just receive it. Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: November 12-14, 2026 in Austin, TX Scripture Mentioned: 1 Timothy 6:10 + Genesis 12:2 Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Intentional Fatherhood Website Follow @intentionalfatherhood_ on Instagram Watch + Subscribe on YouTube Intentional: Website + Instagram Justin Whitmel Earley: Website + Instagram

Our Seven Deadly Sins series continues with gluttony: the desire to consume beyond what we actually need. That certainly shows up at the table, but also in our scrolling, shopping, and substance consumption. Gluttony is sneaky and easy to dismiss, and since your metabolism can hide both your sins and your virtues, it can go unnoticed for a lifetime. So this conversation is really about the heart. Are you eating to delight in God's creation, or to cope? Or a better question might be: What do you reach for when you're hurting? Food and drink aren't bad in themselves. They're gifts from God. Even in Eden, we were made for dependence, needing food to live, and for delight, enjoying trees that were pleasing to the eye. Gluttony perverts those into excess and shame. Its promise is comfort, but whether we run to food or starve ourselves of it, we're trying to solve some sort of pain that food can't fix, and many people stay spiritually and emotionally stuck because they won't face it. We also walk through Aquinas' five forms of gluttony (eating too soon, too expensively, too much, too eagerly, and too daintily), debate whether smaller vices keep us from larger ones, and hear Justin's framework for feasting, fasting, and "ordinary fare" days. Practical Ways to Fight Gluttony: Take your avoidant consumption more seriously than you think you need to. If you're consuming to change how you feel, you're avoiding something, and you won't heal until you face it.Take gratitude more seriously than you think you need to. Receive good things as gifts, not escapes.Practice the sacred "no." Find out what has become a god by going without it. Skip dessert, leave your phone in another room, or stop eating before you're stuffed.Fast from your favorite thing. Set down whatever you instinctively run to when you're uncomfortable.Pray for self-control. Ask God to grow self-discipline in you. None of us have this dialed in, but we're learning that every craving points to a deeper hunger that only God can satisfy. So instead of numbing the ache, we invite you to face your vices and let Him meet you there. Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: November 12-14, 2026 in Austin, TX Scripture Mentioned: Genesis 2:9 Books Mentioned: The Body Teaches the Soul by Justin Whitmel Earley + The Supper of the Lamb by Robert Farrar Capon Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Intentional Fatherhood Website Follow @intentionalfatherhood_ on Instagram Watch + Subscribe on YouTube Intentional: Website + Instagram Justin Whitmel Earley: Website + Instagram

As we continue our series on the seven deadly sins, we pivot to the more outward, consumptive sins: lust, greed, and gluttony, specifically focusing on lust in this episode. Pornography often comes to mind first, but it's only one of many ways lust can show up in our lives. Since most of us have heard plenty about what not to do, we start with a better question: what is sex actually for? Sex was God's idea from the beginning. It points to our deeper longing for union with God, unites us with our spouse, and brings forth new life. Lust isn't the desire for sex within marriage. It's a disordered search for intimacy that promises connection but trains us to avoid it, keeping us in a loop fueled by excuses like "you're stressed" or "you're lonely." Desire isn't the enemy, but it becomes destructive when it stops asking, "How can I love?" As Augustine said, our hearts are restless until they rest in God, and lust promises to fill that restlessness but never delivers. In the end, lust isn't wanting too much of God's design. It's wanting far too little of it. Brook gets personal about what lust takes from fathers, sharing how it affected his family of origin and how pornography became a temptation during an overwhelming season of life. We talk about asking, "What's the thing behind the thing?" and why taking our sin seriously helps us take God's grace seriously. Practically, here's where we landed: You'll be most protected from lust when you're running to God and to your marriage for intimacy.Stay in open, ongoing conversation about lust with covenant friends.Your wife should know the passcodes to your phone, and you should never be alone with it.Don't let your kids be alone on the internet. Podcast Episodes Mentioned: Sex in Marriage: Communication, Connection + Healing Past Wounds Around Intimacy (YouTube, Spotify + Apple Podcasts) + The Hidden Blockers of Sexual Desire in Marriage + How to Move Past Them Together (YouTube, Spotify + Apple Podcasts) + Brook’s Interview on the Open Spaces Podcast (YouTube, Spotify + Apple Podcasts) Protect Young Eyes: Website, Instagram + Facebook Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: November 12-14, 2026 in Austin, TX Scripture Mentioned: Genesis 1, Genesis 2:24, Genesis 4:7, Matthew 5:27–28, Matthew 19:6, Ephesians 5, James 1:14–15, 1 Corinthians 10:12, Joshua 24:15 Sowing a Hidden Seed: Marriage Edition is currently available as our thank you gift to Legacy Builders, Intentional’s monthly giving community. Learn more at intentionalparents.org/devotional. Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Intentional Fatherhood Website Follow @intentionalfatherhood_ on Instagram Watch + Subscribe on YouTube Intentional: Website + Instagram Justin Whitmel Earley: Website + Instagram

We don't usually call it envy. We call it "just being honest," or "I'm not jealous, I just wish things were different." But envy is sneakier than that. It's a refusal to be content with the life God actually gave us, and it shows up as comparison, insecurity, gossip, and pushing people out. This week continues the Seven Deadly Sins series with a hard look at where envy starts, why it hurts the person feeling it most, and how to fight it with the one thing strong enough to counter it: love. Envy starts with discontentment in your own story, not with someone else's blessing. And here's the part we don't say out loud enough: the primary victim of envy is you. It's easiest to feel toward people close to us, within the same sphere or vocation, which is part of why it shows up so often in the church, where we're quick to rejoice at someone's downfall and slow to rejoice at their win. And it almost always has some sort of wound underneath it: shame, a father wound, or performance-based love. That's why you can't white-knuckle your way out of it. You only defeat envy by practicing its opposite. Six Ways to Reframe Envy as Love: Envy asks, "Why them?" Love says, "Thank God for them."Envy says, "There's not enough." Love says, “God's grace isn't scarce.”Envy says, "I have to compete." Love says, "I get to celebrate."Envy says, "Their success diminishes me." Love says, "Their success blesses us."Envy says, "I wish I had their life." Love says, "I want to steward the life God gave me."Envy says, "Why not me?" Love says, "Good for them." Practices: The Antidote to Envy Specifically confess the ways you are jealous and envious of people in your life.Stop scrolling.Practice the discipline of gratitude.Practice the discipline of encouragement.Practice celebration. This kind of change happens slowly, and only by the Spirit's work in you, not by trying harder. We spend so much of our lives convinced there's never enough, when half the time we're complaining about a prayer God already answered. Ask yourself if you're wishing you had someone else's career, family, or circumstances. Then let it go. There's always room for more in the kingdom, and your life, the one right in front of you, is the one God is using to shape you. Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: November 12-14, 2026 in Austin, TX Scripture Mentioned: James 3:16, Proverbs 14:30, 1 Corinthians 13:4 + Philippians 4:11-13 Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Intentional Fatherhood Website Follow @intentionalfatherhood_ on Instagram Watch + Subscribe on YouTube Intentional: Website + Instagram Justin Whitmel Earley: Website + Instagram

Anger might be the quintessential sin of fatherhood. It's the one that shows up at bedtime, in the car, in the moment a kid won't listen for the fifth time, and it's the one our kids are most likely to watch us model and then repeat. We open this episode with a pattern Brook is still working through: bedtime gets stressful in his house, and it often ends in anger. But when we look closer, what makes us angry in that moment usually isn't the kids at all, it's everything sitting underneath. Brook and Justin dig into why anger is a secondary emotion, and why our families so often get our worst, even when we hold it together everywhere else. Most of us don't have an anger problem. We have an awareness problem: we don't recognize what's actually driving the reaction, which is usually a realization that we're not in control, we're not God, and we can't always get what we want. But we don't stop at the diagnosis. We get honest about our own angry moments, name the pride that's often underneath ("this shouldn't be happening to me"), and land on the real hope: a Christian father isn't defined by the absence of sin, but by the presence of repentance. Repair has a way of healing even the most painful places, moving a family from pain to healing to resilience. We close by looking at how Jesus modeled anger rightly: never for his own power, always for the sake of someone else, making room for joy, kindness, and long-suffering instead. This is a candid, Scripture-anchored conversation for any father who has lost it and needed a way back to his wife and kids. Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: November 12-14, 2026 in Austin, TX Scripture Mentioned: James 1:19 + Romans 12:19 Books Mentioned: Habits of the Household by Justin Whitmel Earley Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Intentional Fatherhood Website Follow @intentionalfatherhood_ on Instagram Watch + Subscribe on YouTube Intentional: Website + Instagram Justin Whitmel Earley: Website + Instagram

This week, we're opening a new season built around the seven deadly sins: sloth, anger, envy, lust, gluttony, greed, and pride. We’re spending this season walking through each one in depth, not to shame you, but because you can't fight what you won't name. This episode starts with sloth, what we think is the defining sin of our generation. Sloth isn't what most of us picture. Thomas Aquinas called it “sorrow about spiritual good,” a sadness that sets in when the right thing is also the hard thing. That means you can be productive at work all week and still be spiritually asleep. It's a sin of omission, not commission: the gap between the life you're living and the life you were made for. And you don't close that gap on willpower alone. You can only do it with the help of the Holy Spirit. We trace where this actually shows up in a father's life: the hard conversation you keep putting off, the disengagement that looks like exhaustion but is really avoidance. It's the same instinct Adam had in the garden. God asks where he is, and Adam says, "I heard you and I was afraid, so I hid." Sloth hides. What it's chasing is comfort, when it actually needs rest. Here's the hope. The opposite of sloth isn't hustle, it's faithfulness, joy and intentionality. It’s caring enough to be hurt and present enough to be interrupted. Ephesians 5 tells us to wake up, because Christ will shine on us if we do. Your kids are watching whether you're a father who's tired or a father who cares. This season, we want to help you become the second one, by shining a light on the areas of your life still stuck in the dark. Season 4 Recurring Themes:Jesus loves you in the midst of your sin. This isn't about shame, it's about transformation.What if the biggest threat isn't what you do occasionally, but what you're becoming?You live in an action movie. It's a spiritual fight.You're called to live a life without secrets. Sin flourishes in the dark but dies in the light.You can't do fatherhood alone. You fight sin in community, and covenant friendship with others and Jesus is where sanctification happens.Your sin isn't unique. Naming it has power.Sin comes at you with reason, making itself sound reasonable.Grace means you can live differently.You're like a garden. Gardeners work at the intersection of grace and agency.Sanctification takes practice.Questions to Ask Yourself:What conversations have you been avoiding?Where have you confused being busy with being faithful?What part of your soul have you stopped tending?Where have you settled for existing instead of being?If your children copied your spiritual life exactly, would you be excited or concerned, sorrowful or encouraged?Applications:Community: Name your sloth to yourself first, then confess it to your spouse or a friend. Send this episode to that friend and ask each other what's been left undone, and how it will be different next time.Spiritual discipline: Read. Reading usually coincides with caring, and it pulls you out of apathy.Spiritual discipline: Build key rhythms into your week that improve motivation and keep you out of the habit of avoidance.Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: November 12-14, 2026 in Austin, TX Scripture Mentioned: Galatians 5:19-21, Colossians 3:5-11, Genesis 3:10, Ecclesiastes 2:17-26, Revelation 3:15-16, Ephesians 5:14-16 + James 1:22-25 Books Mentioned: East of Eden by John Steinbeck + The Body Teaches the Soul by Justin Whitmel Earley Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Intentional Fatherhood Website Follow @intentionalfatherhood_ on Instagram Watch + Subscribe on YouTube Intentional: Website + Instagram Justin Whitmel Earley: Website + Instagram

In this episode, Brook sits down with Fred Odom for the second installment of Fatherhood in the Wild, our series featuring everyday dads in the trenches of marriage, work, and raising kids. Fred is a dear friend, a husband to Becca, a father of three young daughters (affectionately dubbed the family "C-suite"), and part of the team behind Chick-fil-A's leadership conferences, where his gift is helping others find the words to say what matters most. What began as a work call became a real friendship, and this conversation is a window into what fatherhood actually feels like for a man carrying a lot all at once. Much of the conversation centers on the difference between the title of leadership and the weight of stewardship. Fred shares how a recent promotion taught him that greater responsibility isn't about accolades but about carrying more people, and how that same posture applies at home. We're not owners of our work, our marriages, or our kids; we're stewards of all of it. Fred opens up honestly about discovering his struggle with anger only after becoming a dad, and how underneath it is a desire for control and a deeper question of whether he can trust God to provide what he needs through the very life he's been given. Fred also walks us through his story: his parents' divorce at age three, growing up between a predominantly white school and a predominantly Black church, and the quiet ache of not knowing where he belonged. That longing for belonging, he's come to see, is woven through his whole life, from inviting others in during college to helping speakers know they have a place on stage today. He shares how his mother's resilient faith shaped him, how a retreat finally gave him permission to bring his anger and grief to a God who loves him, and how he's learning that his calling isn't something he has to force into existence. As one friend told him, God cares more about who you're becoming than what you're achieving. The episode lands on a word Fred sensed God gave him this year: devotion. What he expected to be about his devotion to God turned out to be about God's devotion to him, learning to believe he is a beloved son. He shares a prayer spoken over him that has reframed this whole season: that his surrender would be greater than his sacrifice. We talk about how the enemy uses the lie that you're "behind," how greatness in the kingdom is the hidden life that leads to serving others, and how it's the small, faithful, daily things, family prayers in the car, a weekly core value, wiping the counter, that shape both our kids and us. Fred closes with a reflection on how a simple invitation to gather a few men has grown into something the Lord is using, a reminder that impact often starts with nothing more than initiative. Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: November 12-14, 2026 in Austin, TX Scripture Mentioned: Nehemiah 8:10 + 2 Chronicles 16:9 Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Intentional Fatherhood Website Follow @intentionalfatherhood_ on Instagram Watch + Subscribe on YouTube Intentional: Website + Instagram Justin Whitmel Earley: Website + Instagram

In our final episode of the season, we explore what it means to build a legacy that extends far beyond our own lifetime. Legacy is more than money. It’s the wisdom, faith, values, and way of life we pass on to future generations. We discuss why legacy isn’t something we think about later; it’s being shaped right now through the work we do and the lives we live. Together, we wrestle with questions like: What are you building? Are you pursuing something bigger than yourself…something you may never see finished? We talk about building with hope instead of anxiety, embracing humility about what we cannot accomplish alone, and recognizing that the most meaningful work is always passed on through others. We also ask a challenging question: What does it feel like to live with you while you’re building your dreams? Our families may never remember the metrics, goals, or bottom lines, but they will remember our presence, our character, and the memories we create together. As two imperfect fathers still trying to figure it out ourselves, we reflect on the tension between work, calling, and family, and close with a prayer that God would help us build lives that leave a lasting legacy. Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: November 12-14, 2026 in Austin, TX Scripture Mentioned: Deuteronomy 6:6-7, Psalm 78:4, Proverbs 13:22, Acts 13:36, Ecclesiastes 2:24-25 + Ecclesiastes 9:7-9 Books Mentioned: A Time to Build by Yuval Levin, To Change the World by James Davison Hunter + Leaf by Niggle by J.R.R. Tolkien Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Intentional Fatherhood Website Follow @intentionalfatherhood_ on Instagram Watch + Subscribe on YouTube Intentional: Website + Instagram Justin Whitmel Earley: Website + Instagram

This week, we explore the importance of being an amateur, and doing things simply because you love them. In a culture that pushes us to monetize every skill and maximize every minute, many men have lost touch with hobbies that exist purely for joy. But God created us not only to work, but also to create, play, and enjoy the gifts He has given us. We discuss the barriers that keep us from embracing this part of life, including the pressure to turn hobbies into side hustles and a world that values consumption more than creativity. Whether it's woodworking, cooking, camping, golf, music, or working on cars, these pursuits can provide the kind of rest, fulfillment, and connection that passive, mind-numbing entertainment often cannot. We also talk about how hobbies can deepen our relationship with God, build community, and create meaningful memories with our children. As C.S. Lewis said, “Joy is the serious business of heaven.” This episode is an invitation to reclaim the things that make you come alive, not because they're productive, profitable, or practical, but because they remind you of who God created you to be. This Week’s Action Steps: Reclaim one “useless” thing that you simply enjoy doing.Schedule play like it’s a responsibility.Invite your kids into it. Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: November 12-14, 2026 in Austin, TX Scripture Mentioned: Ecclesiastes 2:24, 1 Timothy 6:17, 2 Chronicles 9 + Genesis 2:9 Books Mentioned: The Supper of the Lamb by Robert Farrar Capon Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Intentional Fatherhood Website Follow @intentionalfatherhood_ on Instagram Watch + Subscribe on YouTube Intentional: Website + Instagram Justin Whitmel Earley: Website + Instagram

In this pivotal episode of the season, we explore the relationship between family and work, challenging the common idea of “work-life balance.” Rather than seeing work and family as competing priorities, we discuss how they are meant to be integrated and ordered rightly. The real question isn’t how to fit your family into your work, but what your work is ultimately for in light of your family. We answer common questions many fathers have about setting healthy work boundaries, staying present with your family after a long day, sharing the responsibilities of the home, and teaching your children the value of work. From establishing rhythms of rest to embracing the “second race” of family life after work, we discuss how fathers can faithfully serve both their vocation and their household. We also explore the importance of inviting children into meaningful work through chores, household responsibilities, and even opportunities to observe or participate in your work when appropriate. Family and work are not opposed to one another; they are deeply intertwined. And while fatherhood can often leave you tired and stretched thin, that reality is often part of the calling. The days are long, the years are short, and the work of raising children is some of the most important work you'll ever do. Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: November 12-14, 2026 in Austin, TX Scripture Mentioned: 1 Timothy 5:8 + Philippians 2:5-8 Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Intentional Fatherhood Website Follow @intentionalfatherhood_ on Instagram Watch + Subscribe on YouTube Intentional: Website + Instagram Justin Whitmel Earley: Website + Instagram

Many fathers carry a deep sense of responsibility to provide, achieve, and work hard, yet often wonder how their faith should shape both their work and their family life. In this episode, we explore the spiritual disciplines that surround and inform the life of work: before you leave for work, while you're at work, and when you return home. We discuss the hidden life of a father and why spiritual formation matters when much of your most important work goes unseen. Drawing from poetry, teachings, and our own lived experience, we examine how spiritual disciplines reorder our loves, expose what is driving us, create space for God to interrupt our patterns, and quietly shape the kind of fathers we are becoming. Key Disciplines of Fathers (Which Also Apply to the Workplace): Presence.Blessing.Repair.Attention.Slowing down.Play.Emotional awareness.Saying no. We also talk about the transformative impact of prayer, Scripture, fasting, Sabbath, and generosity, as well as two practical rhythms for the workday: making prayer part of your work rhythm and making rest and reflection part of your work rhythm. Along the way, we explore why Sabbath is designed to help us work from rest rather than simply recover from exhaustion, and why our limits are a feature of God’s design, not a flaw. This episode is not a call to legalism or adding more to your to-do list. It is an invitation to start somewhere. Spiritual disciplines are a gift that help us live, work, and lead our families from a place of being deeply loved by our Father. Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: November 12-14, 2026 in Austin, TX Scripture Mentioned: Mark 1:9-11 + Matthew 11:30 Previous Episode Mentioned: S1E3 - Habits, Rhythms, and Spiritual Disciplines for Intentional Fatherhood (YouTube, Spotify + Apple Podcasts) Poem Mentioned: Those Winter Sundays by Robert Hayden Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Intentional Fatherhood Website Follow @intentionalfatherhood_ on Instagram Watch + Subscribe on YouTube Intentional: Website + Instagram Justin Whitmel Earley: Website + Instagram

This week, we dive into leadership and why it matters for every man. Most people think of leadership as something reserved for business owners, managers, or people with authority, but the reality is that we're all leading somewhere. As fathers and husbands, the way we show up influences the people around us and shapes the culture of our homes, workplaces, and communities. In this conversation, we unpack what healthy leadership actually looks like and why so many leaders get it wrong. We explore why leadership is less about competency and more about character, why servant leadership creates healthy cultures, and how many of the same qualities that make someone a good leader also make them a good father. We also discuss some of the common reasons people struggle in leadership, including insecurity, performance-based identity, a need for control, and the tendency to avoid hard conversations. Along the way, we talk about the responsibility leaders have to bring calm in moments of chaos, make difficult decisions when necessary, communicate clearly, and put the needs of others ahead of their own. Ultimately, we look to Jesus as the model for healthy leadership. By paying attention to how He lived, served, spoke, and led in the Gospels, we find a perfect example of leadership rooted in humility, courage, conviction, and care for others. Whether at home, at work, or in the community, His example challenges us to lead in a way that helps others flourish. 7 Practices of a Healthy Leader: Practice daily self-leadership by managing yourself well before leading others.Clarify and repeat the vision consistently so people know where they are headed.Have hard conversations early, addressing issues with both kindness and honesty.Create healthy feedback loops and invite others to speak openly.Serve in unseen ways, looking for opportunities to put others first.Filter complaints wisely, discerning which concerns need action and which do not.Be available and present with the people you lead, investing time in relationships. Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: November 12-14, 2026 in Austin, TX Scripture Mentioned: Proverbs 29:18 + Proverbs 11:10 Previous Episode Mentioned: S3E3: The Dangerous Lie About Calling and Success (YouTube, Spotify + Apple Podcasts) Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Intentional Fatherhood Website Follow @intentionalfatherhood_ on Instagram Watch + Subscribe on YouTube Intentional: Website + Instagram Justin Whitmel Earley: Website + Instagram

In this episode, we continue our conversation on stewardship by looking at one of our most valuable and limited resources: time. Time is the currency of our purpose, and stewarding it well means finding the balance between laziness and anxiety. While some of us need to embrace greater ambition and intentionality, others need to embrace the gift of limitation. Rest, sleep, Sabbath, and slower rhythms are not flaws in our design, they are part of it. Drawing from Ephesians 5:15-16, we discuss what it means to “redeem the time.” The goal is not perfect productivity but faithful stewardship. You may not have enough time to do everything you want to do, but you do have enough time to do the things God is calling you to do. Wisdom helps us release unrealistic expectations, trust God with the future, and use our days with greater purpose. We also explore the importance of using mornings and evenings well, building life-giving rituals, and developing habits that shape a sustainable rhythm of life. Because in the end, we redeem time not to become more productive, but to become the people God has called us to be. Practical ways to steward your time: Structure important blocks of your day.Track where your time goes.Put your phone out of sight when working.Sit with difficult problems instead of escaping them.Write by hand to improve focus and clarity.Create intentional phone settings for work, home, and Sabbath. Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: November 12-14, 2026 in Austin, TX Scripture Mentioned: Ephesians 5:15-16, Psalm 90:12 + Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 Book Mentioned: The Writing Life by Annie Dillard Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Intentional Fatherhood Website Follow @intentionalfatherhood_ on Instagram Watch + Subscribe on YouTube Intentional: Website + Instagram Justin Whitmel Earley: Website + Instagram

This week, we talk about money, work, providing, and vocation through the lens of biblical stewardship. Stewardship is the faithful management of what belongs to God, and Scripture reminds us that our money, time, relationships, influence, families, and opportunities are ultimately His, not ours. Jesus speaks often about greed and warns against living with an ownership mindset instead of a steward’s heart. We explore what it looks like to faithfully steward not only finances, but also our wives, children, organizations, and responsibilities. Seeing ourselves as stewards kills entitlement and reshapes how we use our resources for the good of our families, neighbors, churches, and communities. The conversation also highlights the importance of simplicity and generosity, which means living with intentional limits instead of unnecessary excess, while cultivating a lifestyle of open-handed giving with our money, time, and energy. We also discuss practical ways to build habits and structures around generosity, including the idea of capping your lifestyle while leaving your generosity uncapped. Rather than drifting financially, families should decide ahead of time what “enough” looks like and create a plan for giving radically and intentionally. Practical Steps: As you anticipate or plan for an increase in finances, discuss with your spouse what your capped lifestyle looks like.Create a plan for generosity, including specific categories, the timing, how much, etc.3 Questions to Ask Yourself: What have you been given?What does faithfulness look like in those areas?What needs to change in how you’re handling it? Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: November 12-14, 2026 in Austin, TX Scripture Mentioned: 1 Timothy 6:10, Luke 12:13-21, Luke 12:48, 1 Corinthians 4:2, Matthew 6:19-24 + Matthew 6:1-8 Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Intentional Fatherhood Website Follow @intentionalfatherhood_ on Instagram Watch + Subscribe on YouTube Intentional: Website + Instagram Justin Whitmel Earley: Website + Instagram

This episode wraps up our conversation on the spiritual foundation of work before we move into the practical side of vocation and calling. We explore the tension between ambition and idolatry, and how we were created to pursue meaningful things, yet how easily ambition can become self-centered. Together, we discuss how Scripture reframes ambition as something good when it’s rooted in humility, service, and faithfulness rather than ego, pride, or status. Justin reflects on how his understanding of “making it” was shaped by watching his father’s success and notoriety, while Brook shares how parenting a child with special needs has reshaped his view of ambition, rhythms, and career expectations. We also talk through the things that often hold us back from healthy ambition: fear, comfort, distraction, comparison, exhaustion, financial pressure, and the lies we believe about ourselves. Ultimately, we ask what it looks like to pursue success with integrity and a focus on spiritual formation, remembering that the goal is not selfish ambition, but courage, humility, and faithfulness. Practices: Be honest with trusted friends about your ambition.Be honest with trusted friends about your idols.Be honest with trusted friends about the audacious dream(s) you’re afraid to say out loud. Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: November 12-14, 2026 in Austin, TX Scripture Mentioned: Philippians 2:3-9, John 8:44, Proverbs 11:10, 2 Corinthians 10:5 + Romans 12:2 Books Mentioned: Godly Ambition by Ruslan KD, Every Good Endeavor by Timothy Keller, Generous Justice by Timothy Keller, Kingdom Calling by Amy Sherman + On the Road with Saint Augustine by James K. A. Smith Submit Questions: Send a voice recording to [email protected], mentioning your name and where you’re from. Intentional Fatherhood Website Follow @intentionalfatherhood_ on Instagram Watch + Subscribe on YouTube Intentional: Website + Instagram Justin Whitmel Earley: Website + Instagram