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Ask Us a Question! In this episode, David brings up the recent court filing of the Cornell Case in which sexual assault at the forefront of outrage because 1) there was no prosecution and 2) there were men that knew it was happening and did nothing. David references studies that ask the question "Is there a connection between the normalization of violence in porn and the acting out of it in the real world?" - in exploring this topic, David also asks those in recovery who are silent because of their shame to speak up and share proudly, because silence will never change anything. Article shared in study: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11939346/ ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group Follow us onInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal Support the show

Ask Us a Question! In this episode, David and Eileen welcome their guest anonymous to the podcast to open up about her story with her and her husband after betrayal. Is someone who is willing to give up porn for the relationship, but is struggling to accept it is harmful overall, capable of leaving it behind? Because of his spiritual affiliation, David and Eileen reference the spiritual side of how a believer accepts some of the narratives of the world and how they are called to live a different life. Additionally, they help anonymous sort through what she is truly asking her husband for and the steps they have ahead of them. ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group Follow us onInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal Support the show

Ask Us a Question! In this second part of a two part episode, David and Eileen cover 4 additional misconceptions they have seen couples bring into couples coaching over the years. As they go down the list of experiences and misconceptions, they try to set the right expectations to help you on your journey when it gets to the point where couples coaching is the best option for you. In this second session, they address the following common misconceptions: #5: The Pain Reactions of my Partner are a Character Flaw #6: That Individual and Couples Coaching are Approached the Same Way #7: That Both Partners May Have Different Goals and Expectations #8: Believing that Disclosure is a Single Event Rather Than an Ongoing Process ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group Follow us onInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal Support the show

Ask Us a Question! In this episode, David and Eileen cover 4 different misconceptions they have seen couples bring into couples coaching over the years. As they go down the list of experiences and misconceptions, they try to set the right expectations to help you on your journey when it gets to the point where couples coaching is the best option for you. In this first part, they talk about the first four points: #1: If My Partner Just Did the Right Things, it Will Fix Everything #2: Misunderstanding How Much Pain Each Person in In #3: Underestimating How Long This Process Will Take #4: Not Realizing Ways Discouragement Can Set In ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group Follow us onInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal Support the show

Ask Us a Question! In this episode, Eileen takes the mic to talk through a recap of her journey through betrayal in the early days and recounting some ways that she can look back and feel good about some of her decisions, and mull over ways she wished she had done some other things differently. No matter what stage you are at after discovery day, there are lessons that can be learned from reflection and Eileen works on taking this reflection to give some advice that can give some hope as you navigate the next steps of your healing journey. ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group Follow us onInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal Support the show

Ask Us a Question! In this episode, David and Eileen shift the focus to the betrayed partner, addressing a trap many fall into: waiting for their spouse to change before allowing themselves to heal. That mindset — however understandable — keeps healing contingent on someone else's choices, leaving the betrayed partner stuck and powerless. Instead, they both reframe motivation as something internal and self-directed: healing is something you're owed regardless of the choices someone else makes. They also talk about what it looks like to root your motivation in identity rather than outcome — doing the work because of who you want to become, not to fix him or save the marriage. That includes a look at boundaries as an act of self-respect rather than manipulation, and how to support a partner's recovery without carrying it for him. All this has the opportunity to lead to healing and strength that may feel impossible at the start of this, but is grand step into freedom.  ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group Follow us onInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal Support the show

Ask Us a Question! In this episode, David and Eileen discuss how many men in recovery fall into one of two categories: those who don't believe they have a real problem, and those who admit it but resist doing the actual work to change. This episode unpacks why traditional motivators — guilt, shame, or simply "getting caught" — rarely produce lasting change. Ultimately, inward motivation will fade and it requires someone coming along side you to see you through the hard times as you grown and develop internal motivation. Continuing to share their own experiences (and some car and house analogies), David and Eileen explore the real truths of helping a partner heal from betrayal trauma and how accepting that can provide a more secure motivation to the guy who finds it hard to motivate himself. ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group Follow us onInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal Support the show

Ask Us a Question! In this episode, David shares some testimonies from clips of people who have come out and shared their story of hitting rock bottom with porn addiction and how that gave them the courage to come forward with it. Highlighting statistics, David dives into the beliefs that can keep a porn addict stuck, and opportunities to be able to move forward by openly sharing their story with a new voice. And in using this voice, it also gives them a better chance to connect with their partner. Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group Follow us onInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal Support the show

Ask Us a Question! Dr. Kathy Nickerson, a psychologist and researcher who has surveyed over 5,000 people on infidelity, joins David and Eileen to challenge the idea that cheating is simply a moral failure. Drawing on her research, she explains that most betrayal is rooted in unresolved pain, avoidant attachment, and unhealed childhood trauma rather than a fixed character flaw — and that the addictive, escalating "dopamine cycle" behind pornography, emotional affairs, and physical infidelity works much like substance dependency. It's made clear that this framing isn't an excuse, but rather that real healing requires the straying partner to face the root of their pain,in order to keep their word. The conversation also digs into what genuine recovery looks like for the betrayed spouse — learning to trust actions over words, building tolerance for discomfort, and understanding that healing unfolds over years, not weeks. Dr. Nickerson shares encouraging data (75–79% of couples who want to reconcile after an affair succeed) alongside a caution against both minimizing betrayal and weaponizing statistics into fear. It's a compassionate, research-backed roadmap for couples willing to do the long, hard work of rebuilding trust. Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group Follow us onInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal Support the show

Ask Us a Question! In this episode, David and Eileen follow up on their social media announcement that they are expecting a fourth child! They discuss how the joyful experience also brings up feelings from the past and the complicated conversations that can come from finding each other through those feelings. No matter where you are in your journey, major life events happen to everyone after betrayal and can be very difficult to navigate, and that is where David and Eileen really encourage in this episode - how doing this work isn't solely about leaving behind pornography, but finding the hope and strength to build a new relationship that has an opportunity to be better than the old one. Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group Follow us onInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal Support the show

Ask Us a Question! In this episode, David and Eileen bring up how their experience in working with couples has really highlighted how assumptions can get in the way of couples finding each other after betrayal. Most couples don't see themselves as being afraid, but is it easier to assume than to ask the hard questions that may be true about our partner? David and Eileen then share some of their experiences with this and why it is an easy mindset to get into during this difficult time of the relationship. They also give some tools that can set you on the path to being more curious about your partner. Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group Follow us onInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal Support the show

Ask Us a Question! In this episode, David and Eileen dive into the powerful concept of "Capable" and what it truly means in the context of porn addiction, sex addiction, and recovery. They unpack the uncomfortable truth that both the addict and the betrayed partner must face — that we are all capable of various reactions to pain, and how refusing to acknowledge this can silently stall the healing process and delay genuine recovery from porn addiction. They also explore what "Capable" means from their own story, and how this can creep in at an early age to latch on to shame and negative beliefs. David and Eileen then challenge listeners to sit with this word and let it reshape how they approach porn addiction recovery, rebuilding trust after infidelity, and moving forward after the devastation of sexual betrayal. Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group Follow us onInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal Support the show

Ask Us a Question! In this week's episode, David talks about the future of AI and how it is already being used for pornographic purposes. How do we navigate the future of an industry that is harmful but is also going to double in the next 7 years? David addresses the core lust issue at work here, how lusting after real women or AI material traces back to the same lust habit, and ways we can talk with our kids about this to steer them towards healthy sexuality in a world that holds less and less interest in that line of thinking. Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group Follow us onInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal Support the show

Ask Us a Question! In this week's episode, David and Eileen welcome their guest couple who are going through a triggering event on their 9-year recovery journey. When a connection attempt comes from an AI source rather than the person's heart directly, can that hinder trust-building in the relationship? David and Eileen spend time talking with both Morgan and Elaine on the needs and feelings behind each action and expectation, and together the couple charts a path through these hard topics that brings with it a potential solution, but more importantly, hope for a stronger healing connection. Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group Follow us onInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal Support the show

Ask Us a Question! It's easy to look at someone further along in their recovery and feel like you're falling behind — but comparison can quietly become one of the biggest traps in betrayal trauma and porn addiction recovery. In this weeks Podcast, David and Eileen talk about what's really going on when comparison creeps in, how it differs from genuine self-reflection, and how to refocus on your own God-given pace without losing motivation or hope. Together, they unpack why measuring your healing against someone else's timeline has the potential to distort your progress, fuel shame, and pulls you out of the work that's actually in front of you.  If you've ever felt discouraged because you're "not as far along" as someone else, this conversation will help you reframe what real progress looks like. Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group Follow us onInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal Support the show