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If being left on read makes your stomach drop, your thoughts spiral, or your confidence take a hit - this one is for you. Getting no response can trigger insecurity, overthinking, and anxiety fast. Today’s episode breaks down why it hurts so much and gives you simple, practical tools to stop the spiral before it takes over. In today’s episode, we talk about: Why being left on read feels so personal How insecurity and anxiety feed off silence The dopamine/anxiety cycle behind texting What to do when your brain jumps to worst-case stories Simple boundaries that protect your peace Remember this: Silence is not rejection. And your worth is not measured by response time. You don’t need constant validation to be valuable. Tools we break down in this episode: 1. Muting Notifications Less checking = less spiraling. Your nervous system needs breaks. 2. Setting Honest Boundaries Repeated silence isn’t rejection - it’s information. 3. Intentional Distraction Stopping the spiral is sometimes the most loving thing you can do for yourself. 4. Turning Off Read Receipts Removing pressure creates peace - for you and them. KEY POINT Being left on read doesn’t mean you’re unimportant. It means your brain is craving reassurance, and God already sees you fully. Peace is possible, even when anxiety feels loud. Ready for deeper support? If you want help actually implementing these tools, 1:1 coaching might be your next step. 👉 Learn more at anxiouschristianteen.com/coaching (WRONG LINK GIVEN IN THE EPISODE - SORRY!) This is exactly what I help teen girls with, and I’d love to support you. xo, Kristen 🎧 Be sure to follow or subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! Links & Resources Join the FREE Community: https://anxiouschristianteen.com/community Become an Email Insider: https://anxiouschristianteen.com/insider Book a 1:1 Virtual Coaching Session: https://anxiouschristianteen.com/book Affiliate Links (I make a small commission if you make a purchase.) Get your Dream Planner and save 15% off: www.horacioprinting.com/kristenphillipscoaching

If you’re constantly comparing yourself to other girls, worrying about what people think of you, or feeling like you’re never quite “enough,” this episode is for you. Insecurity, low self-esteem, and self-doubt can quietly fuel anxiety - making your thoughts louder, your peace harder to find, and your confidence feel out of reach. Today’s episode is all about helping you understand why that happens and giving you practical, faith-based tools to start building real confidence that lasts. In today’s episode, we talk about: How insecurity and anxiety are connected Why confidence doesn’t magically appear — and what actually helps build it What to do when your inner critic won’t shut up How social media impacts your mental health more than you realize Faith-based tools to quiet anxiety and strengthen self-esteem Before listening, remember this: Confidence isn’t something you achieve once and keep forever. It’s something you practice - especially when anxiety and comparison show up. You don’t need to be perfect to be confident. You just need the right tools and the right truth. Tools we break down in this episode: Biblical Affirmations (Not Just Positive Thinking) Instead of relying on your own strength, learn how to anchor your confidence in God’s truth. 📖 Ephesians 2:10 📖 2 Timothy 3:16–17 📖 Psalm 28:7 2. Shutting Down Your Inner Critic Learn how to take your thoughts captive and stop insecurity spirals before they take over. 📖 2 Corinthians 10:5 3. Limiting Social Media for Mental Peace Why your brain needs rest  and how constant comparison feeds anxiety and self-doubt. KEY POINT Confidence grows when you stop putting all the pressure on yourself and start trusting God with your identity, your worth, and your future. Peace is possible, even if anxiety has been loud lately. Ready for deeper support? If you want help actually implementing these tools - not just learning about them - 1:1 coaching might be your next step. 👉 Learn more at anxiouschristianteen.com/coaching (WRONG LINK GIVEN IN THE EPISODE - SORRY!) This is exactly what I help teen girls with, and I’d be honored to support you. xo, Kristen 🎧 Be sure to follow or subscribe so you don’t miss anything! Want Support Beyond the Podcast? Links & Resources Join the FREE Community: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/community Become an Email Insider: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/insider Book a 1:1 Virtual Coaching Session: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/book Affiliate Links (I make a small commission if you make a purchase.) Get your 2026 Dream Planner and save 15% off - www.horacioprinting.com/kristenphillipscoaching

If you’re dealing with anxiety symptoms like overthinking, avoidance, trouble sleeping, headaches, or the constant need for reassurance - this episode is for you. In today’s episode, I’m sharing my top 3 practical tools to help teen girls manage anxiety symptoms in real moments - without drawing attention to themselves and without needing someone else nearby to calm them down. These are tools I regularly teach the teen girls I coach, and they’re designed to work with your brain, your body, and your faith - the way God designed you. 👉 Before listening: If you’re not sure whether what you’re experiencing is actually anxiety, pause this episode and listen to Episode 65, where we talk through how anxiety commonly shows up in teen girls. That episode will help you name what’s going on so you can manage it more effectively. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: Why anxiety tools work best when used early How to calm your nervous system before anxiety spirals The science + faith behind effective anxiety coping skills How to manage anxiety even when your “safe person” isn’t available The 3 Anxiety Tools We Cover: 1️⃣ Breath Work (Including Breath Prayers) Learn how slow, intentional breathing activates your body’s calm-down system and why breath prayers are such a powerful way to combine Scripture with biology. 📖 Featured Scripture: Philippians 4:6–7 (ESV) Psalm 56:3 (ESV) 2️⃣ Journaling for Anxiety Relief We break down why journaling actually helps your brain stop looping — and how to use: • Gratitude journaling (as a daily habit) • Expressive writing (when anxiety is rising) 📖 Featured Scripture: 1 Thessalonians 5:18 (ESV) 3️⃣ Name It to Tame It A simple but powerful technique to reduce emotional intensity, regain clarity, and respond to anxiety instead of reacting to it. 📖 Featured Scripture: 1 Corinthians 14:33 (ESV) Key Point: Anxiety doesn’t mean you’re weak - it means your nervous system is overwhelmed. When you learn how to respond early, you can calm your body, quiet your mind, and reconnect with God’s peace. xo, Kristen 🎧 Be sure to follow or subscribe so you don’t miss anything! Want Support Beyond the Podcast? Links & Resources Join the FREE Community: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/community Become an Email Insider: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/insider Book a 1:1 Virtual Coaching Session: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/book Affiliate Links (I make a small commission if you make a purchase.) Get your 2026 Dream Planner and save 15% off - www.horacioprinting.com/kristenphillipscoaching

Have you ever wondered, “Is this anxiety… or is something else wrong with me?” Maybe your mind won’t slow down, your stomach hurts before school, or you feel overwhelmed for no obvious reason. If that sounds familiar, you’re definitely not alone. In this episode, we’re breaking down the most common anxiety symptoms in teen girls, including emotional, physical, and behavioral signs that often go unnoticed or misunderstood. Anxiety doesn’t look the same for everyone, and today’s conversation will help you recognize what may actually be happening beneath the surface. In this episode, we talk about: Emotional and mental anxiety symptoms like overthinking, perfectionism, fear of failure, and constant worry Physical anxiety symptoms such as headaches, stomachaches, fatigue, trouble sleeping, and racing thoughts Behavioral signs of anxiety, including avoidance, social withdrawal, reassurance-seeking, and school stress Why anxiety can show up differently in you than it does in your friends How faith fits into understanding anxiety - and why struggling doesn’t mean you’re weak spiritually This episode is all about awareness. Once you can name what you’re experiencing, you can start learning how to manage it in healthy, faith-filled ways. ✨ Make sure to come back for the next episode, where I’ll share practical tools and coping skills to help you manage these anxiety symptoms and feel more in control again. xo, Kristen 🎧 Be sure to follow or subscribe so you don’t miss anything! Links & Resources Join the FREE Community: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/community Become an Email Insider:http://anxiouschristianteen.com/insider Book a 1:1 Virtual Coaching Session: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/book   Affiliate Links (I make a small commission if you make a purchase.) Get your 2026 Dream Planner and save 15% off - www.horacioprinting.com/kristenphillipscoaching

Do you ever feel so overwhelmed that you get stuck in your own head? Like your thoughts won’t slow down, your anxiety spirals, and your mind becomes the loudest (and scariest) place to be? You’re not alone. In this episode, we’re talking about what to do when anxiety feels overwhelming and your thoughts won’t stop racing. I’m sharing 3 powerful (but less commonly talked about) Bible verses that can help anchor your mind when anxiety takes over. These verses aren’t quick fixes, but they are steady truths you can come back to when your thoughts feel loud, confusing, and heavy. You’ll learn: Why anxiety often feels like “mental noise” and how God meets you right there How focusing too far into the future can steal peace from the present What kind of peace Jesus actually offers and why it’s different from the world’s version How to refocus on what’s true when your mind is telling you lies If you’ve been feeling stuck in your head, overwhelmed by the future, or desperate for real peace that lasts, this episode is for you. 📖 Bible verses mentioned: Psalm 94:19 Matthew 6:34 John 14:27 xo, Kristen 🎧 Be sure to follow or subscribe so you don’t miss anything! Links & Resources Join the FREE Community: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/community Sign up to be an Email Insider: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/insider Book a 1:1 Virtual Coaching Session: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/book   Affiliate Links (I make a small commission if you make a purchase.) Get your 2026 Dream Planner and save 15% off - www.horacioprinting.com/kristenphillipscoaching

Does your heart race when you walk into a room full of people? Do you overthink what to say, worry about being judged, or replay conversations long after they’re over? If social situations make you anxious, you are not alone - and you’re definitely not broken. Social anxiety is incredibly common for teen girls, and there are practical ways to build confidence and feel calmer in social settings. In today’s episode, we’re talking about what social anxiety is, why it affects teen girls so strongly, and 5 simple, realistic tips to help you feel more confident around others. What Is Social Anxiety? Social anxiety is the fear of being judged, rejected, embarrassed, or misunderstood in social situations. It can show up as: Overthinking conversations Feeling nervous at lunch or in group settings Avoiding social situations - even when you want friends Physical symptoms like a racing heart, shaky voice, or sweaty palms Being socially anxious doesn’t mean you’re weak or awkward - it means your nervous system is on high alert. Teen girls experience social anxiety more intensely for several reasons: Brain development Strong emotions Constant social connection Pressure to fit in The good news? As your brain grows, and as you practice healthy skills, confidence can grow too. 5 Tips to Boost Confidence in Social Settings Box Breathing to Calm Anxiety Fast (check out Episode 60 for step-by-step instructions.) Practice Social Skills in Safe Spaces Start Small and Build Gradually Limit Caffeine and Screen Time Give Yourself Grace xo, Kristen 🎧 Be sure to follow or subscribe so you don’t miss anything! Links & Resources Join the FREE Community: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/community Become an Email Insider: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/insider Book a 1:1 Virtual Coaching Session: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/book   Affiliate Links (I make a small commission if you make a purchase.) Get your 2026 Dream Planner and save 15% off - www.horacioprinting.com/kristenphillipscoaching

Becoming more open about your faith as a teen girl can feel absolutely terrifying. There’s already so much judgment, exclusion, and pressure to fit in - so the idea of giving people one more reason to target you can feel overwhelming. In this episode, we talk honestly about what it looks like to live out your faith when fear wants to keep you quiet. If you believe in God but struggle to speak up, set boundaries, or make faith-filled choices in real life, this episode is for you. You’ll hear: Why faith without action leads to anxiety, shame, and inner conflict How fear of judgment can keep teen girls silent about their beliefs Why God doesn’t wait for you to feel “qualified” before He calls you Simple ways to grow confident in your faith 3 Tips for Stepping Out in Faith Embrace feeling unqualified and recognize the enemy’s lies meant to silence you Know God’s Word with a simple, realistic daily Bible habit  Rely on the Holy Spirit for wisdom, especially in gray areas and tough decisions You don’t have to be fearless to live out your faith, you just have to be obedient. And obedience grows confidence! xo, Kristen 🎧 Be sure to follow or subscribe so you don’t miss anything! Links & Resources Join the FREE Community: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/community Grab your Free Guide: “5-Minute Calm: A Guide to Overcome Anxiety” https://sendfox.com/kristenphillipscoaching Book a Free Connection Call: https://tidycal.com/kristenphillipscoaching/15-minute-meeting Book a 1:1 Virtual Coaching Session: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/book   Affiliate Links (I make a small commission if you make a purchase.) Get your 2026 Dream Planner and save 15% off - www.horacioprinting.com/kristenphillipscoaching

Do you feel like every conversation with a friend, crush, or family member turns into a misunderstanding? 😔 If you’re constantly feeling unheard, frustrated, or unsure how to say what you really mean, this episode is for you. Teenagers are still developing communication skills, which means misunderstandings, hurt feelings, and confusion are incredibly common - especially in friendships and relationships. But communication struggles don’t automatically mean the relationship is over. In this episode, we talk about: Why communication feels so hard as a teen How unclear communication can damage trust and connection Signs your relationship may be struggling (and when it’s worth paying attention) 3 practical communication tips every teen girl can use right away You are not bad at relationships - you’re learning how to navigate them! Better communication is possible. xo, Kristen 🎧 Be sure to follow or subscribe so you don’t miss anything! Links & Resources Join the FREE Community: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/community Grab your Free Guide: “5-Minute Calm: A Guide to Overcome Anxiety” https://sendfox.com/kristenphillipscoaching Book a Free Connection Call: https://tidycal.com/kristenphillipscoaching/15-minute-meeting Book a 1:1 Virtual Coaching Session: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/book   Affiliate Links (I make a small commission if you make a purchase.) Get your 2026 Dream Planner and save 15% off - www.horacioprinting.com/kristenphillipscoaching

If you’ve ever wondered how to calm anxiety fast, this episode is for you. I’m sharing a step-by-step tutorial on my go-to anxiety breathing technique - box breathing - and explaining why it works from a biological, God-designed perspective. We’ll talk about how breathing helps regulate your nervous system, why this technique is effective because of anatomy and physiology (not spirituality), and how learning to care for your body is part of honoring God. You’ll also learn exactly how to do box breathing, when it helps the most, and why it may not work as quickly as you expect and what to do instead. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why anxiety is a biological response, not a personal failure How breathing directly impacts your nervous system Step-by-step instructions for box breathing How to use breathing to help calm anxiety and emotions Common reasons breathing techniques don’t work right away How to pair breathing with faith You are not broken because you struggle with anxiety. You are learning how to care for the body and mind God gave you. xo, Kristen 🎧 Be sure to follow or subscribe so you don’t miss anything! Links & Resources Join the FREE Community: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/community Become an Anxious Christian Teen Insider: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/insider Book a Free Connection Call: https://tidycal.com/kristenphillipscoaching/15-minute-meeting Book a 1:1 Virtual Coaching Session: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/book  Affiliate Links (I make a small commission if you make a purchase.) Get your 2026 Dream Planner and save 15% off - www.horacioprinting.com/kristenphillipscoaching

Do you struggle with anxiety, overthinking, or worrying about what other people think? Confidence can feel impossible as a teen girl - but it doesn’t have to be. In this episode of Anxious Christian Teen, we’re talking about how building confidence can actually help reduce anxiety. I’m sharing 3 practical, realistic tips you can start using right now to grow confidence and feel more at peace. In this episode, you’ll learn: How learning a new skill helps calm anxiety and overthinking How to challenge negative self-talk and your inner critic Why healthy relationships matter for confidence and emotional health If you’re looking for teen anxiety help, want to stop overthinking, or need Christian confidence tips for teen girls, this episode is for you. xo, Kristen 🎧 Be sure to follow or subscribe so you don’t miss anything! Links & Resources Join the FREE Community: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/community Become an Anxious Christian Teen Insider: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/insider Book a Free Connection Call: https://tidycal.com/kristenphillipscoaching/15-minute-meeting Book a 1:1 Virtual Coaching Session: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/book  Affiliate Links (I make a small commission if you make a purchase.) Get your 2026 Dream Planner and save 15% off - www.horacioprinting.com/kristenphillipscoaching

Do you ever wish you could feel confident but anxiety keeps getting in the way? Many teen girls struggle with anxiety, overthinking, and self-doubt, even when they seem confident on the outside. In today’s episode, we’re breaking down the top 5 most common causes of anxiety in teen girls and how they quietly impact confidence, emotions, and everyday life. This episode is all about awareness because once you can name what’s triggering your anxiety, you’re one step closer to calming it. We talk about: Fear of failure and the pressure to be perfect Fear of judgment and constantly worrying what others think Comparison, especially through social media Self-doubt and negative self-talk Disorganization and feeling overwhelmed by life, school, and schedules You’ll learn how each of these struggles can show up as anxiety, overthinking, or avoidance, and why none of this means something is “wrong” with you. ✨ Good news: In the next episode, I’ll be sharing practical, doable tips for how to deal with each of these anxiety triggers in real life! If you’re a teen girl who wants: Less anxiety and overthinking Confidence that lasts Peace instead of pressure Help from a Christian perspective …this episode is for you. xo, Kristen 🎧 Be sure to follow or subscribe so you don’t miss anything! Links & Resources Join the FREE Community: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/community Become an Anxious Christian Teen Insider: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/insider Book a Free Connection Call: https://tidycal.com/kristenphillipscoaching/15-minute-meeting Book a 1:1 Virtual Coaching Session: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/book  Affiliate Links (I make a small commission if you make a purchase.) Get your 2026 Dream Planner and save 15% off - www.horacioprinting.com/kristenphillipscoaching

Are you a teen girl who struggles with anxiety? Do you constantly worry about what other people think of you? Are you sick of drama, gossip, and constant conflict in your friend group? Do you struggle with self-control - acting impulsively because you feel like everything needs to be fixed right now? Whether it’s your negative thoughts, the overwhelm you’re carrying, the tension in your relationships, or the “messes” you feel responsible for, it can all feel urgent and impossible to ignore. I am so excited you’re here - welcome to Anxious Christian Teen - the podcast that will help you experience less anxiety and more peace, build lasting confidence, cultivate healthier relationships, and grow your faith in Jesus. Hey, I’m Kristen - a Teen Confidence Coach and your go-to big sis in faith. When I was a teen, I struggled deeply with insecurity. I overthought everything - what I wore, what I drove, how I came across. I always felt like the “second choice,” and I never felt like I truly fit in. That's until I discovered the answer I'd been searching for - learning about my true identity in Christ. That realization became a turning point for my personal healing and the spark that would create my passion for helping young women like you. If self-doubt and fear of failure have been weighing you down, this show will help you rise above them. You’ll learn practical tools to strengthen your confidence and create healthier, more fulfilling relationships. So grab your coziest hoodie, your favorite loaded tea, and let’s hang out for a while! xo, Kristen 🎧 Be sure to follow or subscribe so you don’t miss anything! Links & Resources Join the FREE Community: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/community Become an Anxious Christian Teen Insider: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/insider Book a Free Connection Call: https://tidycal.com/kristenphillipscoaching/15-minute-meeting Book a 1:1 Virtual Coaching Session: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/book  Affiliate Links (I make a small commission if you make a purchase.) Get your 2026 Dream Planner and save 15% off - www.horacioprinting.com/kristenphillipscoaching  

As 2025 comes to a close, I wanted to pause and speak directly to you - the listener who has shown up, trusted the process, and grown alongside me this year. This episode is a heartfelt year-end wrap-up where I reflect on the journey of Coaching for Teen Girls, thank you for sticking with me through the learning curve, and share a glimpse of what’s coming in 2026. We’re celebrating what God has done so far, looking ahead to an exciting new season for the podcast, and grounding everything in my 2026 word of the year: abide (rooted in John 15:4). Podcast Milestones We’re Celebrating: 🎉 Launched on 7/1/25 🎧 Nearly 4,000 downloads 🌍 Listened to around the world 🏆 Ranked in the Top 5% globally in the Kids & Family category 📊 Ranked #44 in Top Christian Teen Podcasts 🎙️ 57 episodes released—and just getting started If you’re a teen girl looking for Christ-centered support for anxiety, I’d love for you to join my FREE Facebook community: Christian Anxiety Support for Teen Girls 👇 anxiouschristianteen.com/community You can go ahead and request to join now - approvals begin January 1st, 2026. Scripture for the Year “Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me.” John 15:4 (ESV) Thank you for following along and trusting this space. 2026 is bringing clarity, deeper support, and a stronger focus on helping anxious teen girls grow in faith and confidence. We’re just getting started! xo, Kristen Links & Resources Sign up for weekly love notes and grab your FREE Guide: “5-Minute Calm: A Guide to Overcome Anxiety” https://sendfox.com/kristenphillipscoaching Join the FREE Facebook Community: http://anxiouschristianteen.com/community Book a Free Connection Call: https://tidycal.com/kristenphillipscoaching/15-minute-meeting Book a 1:1 Virtual Coaching Session: https://kristenphillips.thrivecart.com/session-beta/   Affiliate Links (I make a small commission if you make a purchase.) Get your 2026 Dream Planner and save 15% off - www.horacioprinting.com/kristenphillipscoaching 

Tough conversations can feel so awkward - especially as a teen. Whether you’re trying to speak up to a friend, explain your feelings to your parents, or advocate for yourself with a teacher, coach, or youth leader, knowing how to communicate makes all the difference. In this episode, we’re talking about how to identify and strengthen your communication skills so you can walk into difficult conversations with more confidence, clarity, and calm. As teens grow, parents often step back and encourage more independence - and that means you start handling harder conversations on your own. If that feels intimidating, I’ve got good news! Communication is a skill you can practice and improve. If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation wishing you’d said something differently - or avoided speaking up altogether - this episode will give you tools to feel more prepared next time. xo, Kristen Big news coming soon 👀 A January relaunch is on the way and it includes: A new podcast name A brand-new website A supportive Facebook community for teen girls 💌 Join my email list HERE to be the first to know!

In today’s special Christmas episode, we’re slowing down and talking about what it really means to soak up the season. If you’ve felt distracted, overwhelmed, or like Christmas is flying by - this episode is your reminder to pause, breathe, and embrace the moments God has given you. We’ll cover 4 powerful (and practical!) ways to be fully present this Christmas, from unplugging from your phone to reconnecting with loved ones to celebrating the birth of Jesus with intention. If this episode encourages you, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts! It helps more girls find a safe, faith-filled space just like this.   Links & Resources Grab your Free Guide: “5-Minute Calm: A Guide to Overcome Anxiety” HERE Book a Free Connection Call HERE  Book a 1:1 Virtual Coaching Session HERE   Affiliate Links (I make a small commission if you make a purchase.) Get your 2026 Dream Planner and save 15% off - www.horacioprinting.com/kristenphillipscoaching xo, Kristen