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2025/08/02
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2026/09/30
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The trans-inclusive feminist podcast you need! Just two girls trying to understand, entertain, and educate about today's most relevant issues facing women and LGBT+ people. Hot takes, new research, news, and more!
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Why is politics ALL about TRANS people again??
2026/09/30
Talarico (TX) and several other key Democrats running in the midterms this election have been wishy-washy at best, and outright transphobic at worst, but in any case, trans people are the topic of political conversation YET AGAIN! Instead of talking about the economy, rising prices, the ongoing war, AI, the climate apocalypse, increasing violence against marginalized people, ICE violence in our streets, or the surveillance state we're living under... everyone's just going on and on about TRANS PEOPLE! Why?! What is the strategy here?!
Video link to THIS episode: https://youtu.be/fNlx5nuEPec
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Related:Ancient trans cultures (Part 1): https://youtu.be/YmfI1PKIulYThis bill will erase LGBTQ content online: https://youtu.be/LoLVDzRLk_YAnti-trans amendment struck DOWN: https://youtu.be/J0wRepoDBWw
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00:00 Hook0:00:57 Theme Song0:01:31 Today's topic0:02:29 Plugs / TComfiFits0:05:58 Trans people are visible0:07:21 Fascism hates transness0:09:00 The Final Phobia0:10:11 Musk's attack on dems0:11:34 Distraction: winning strategy0:12:56 Desperation0:14:57 Vote?0:15:43 Career politicians0:17:30 Talarico Panic0:19:50 Rob Sand, transphobe0:21:10 Playing the stats0:23:13 Hopecore0:27:21 Info Wh*res0:28:27 Propaganda: truth & lies0:29:00 The Gender Yap F*p Factory0:30:57 Gina Hinojosa: "Pronouns"0:32:38 Musk's anti-trans crusade0:34:49 Marcy Kaptur: anti-child safety0:35:40 Extreme hate: trans vs gay0:37:26 PRO-trans politicians0:37:37 Tom Steyer: billionaire0:39:04 Ed Markey's pro-trans WIN0:39:49 Trans rights = HUMAN rights0:40:50 We don't trust you - voting0:42:57 Stand for something0:44:35 HRC: Shift the narrative0:45:25 Redirect your outrage (cis men)0:47:30 None of us are free until all of us are0:49:24 The old world is dying0:50:31 It's all a distraction0:51:38 VOTE!0:53:29 Find community0:54:10 Wrap up & goodbye!
#talarico #transphobia #MAGA #politics #election2026 #GenderYap
Fascism and imperialism can only continue to exist in a world that enforces a STRICT gender binary (and hierarchy), and the main goal is POPULATION CONTROL. If trans people are allowed to exist, we pose a direct threat to the story they've been telling us about people's "role" in society for thousands of years. Naturally, it becomes necessary, in order to maintain power, to paint us out as "freaks" and "mentally ill," instead of just "people with a slight variation in gender and possibly biology from other people." Every colonizer targeted trans people FIRST. Today, we're seeing that fight play out again, with politicians of BOTH parties running campaigns on being anti-trans or at least vaguely "not pro-trans." It was a winning strategy for MAGA in 2024, so they're pulling out all the stops (and many many millions of dollars) to try to repeat history.
How testosterone FEMINIZES cis men!
2026/09/23
We've talked a lot about trans people and how hormones affect us... but what about CIS people? Men who take testosterone supplements or injections outside of a doctor's recommendations MAY in fact be unknowingly feminizing themselves!
Video link to THIS episode: https://youtu.be/DhiCVGOE-lw
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Related:What cis people don't understand about transition: https://youtu.be/ukCU6nqqfLYPhysical HRT changes: https://youtu.be/bSaSaYnfXVcEmotional HRT changes: https://youtu.be/gDRwuGUBDSAHistory of trans medicine: https://youtu.be/uP_DGoRqNH8
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00:00 Hook0:01:05 Theme Song0:01:40 Welcome / Topic0:04:00 Bellesa Boutique0:07:13 Effects: Too much T0:10:00 Female pr0state0:10:06 The master plan0:12:22 High T in women0:14:33 Causes of high T0:16:54 How T feminizes0:18:30 Trans the military!0:22:33 What affects hormone levels?0:24:07 Feminization effects0:25:51 Incels are accidentally trans0:27:36 Study: overprescribed T0:31:08 Trans clothes0:33:22 PCOS & Skene's Glands0:35:37 Trans at the doctor0:38:02 Final thoughts / advice
SOURCES:https://www.health.harvard.edu/healthy-aging-and-longevity/testosterone--what-it-does-and-doesnt-dohttps://rmanetwork.com/blog/high-testosterone-women-fertility/https://www.menshealth.com/health/a19536692/testosterone-therapy-effects/
#testosterone #feminization #military #hormones #transgender #TheGenderYap
High testosterone in men is incredibly rare (naturally), but it is ON THE RISE. With the manosphere, Joe Rogan, Pete Hegseth, and the general vibe of the redpill & blackpill movements and a fear of femininity, men have begun DIYing their own accidental transitions by taking testosterone shots and supplements that they do not need, giving themselves a SERIES of side-effects that include depression, anger issues, bodily funtion failures, and... accidentally femininizing themselves.
Men ARE invading Women's Sports!
2026/09/16
It turns out, men ARE invading women's sports... but not in the way that you think. Recently, two men who have been accused of DV and other forms of abuse against women have declared themselves eligible to be drafted by the WNBA in the upcoming season... and while the nefarious purpose behind this may not be immediately clear, we dove into the potential cause and ramifications of their declaration in today's episode.
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Related:Trans women in sports -- Myths vs Facts: https://youtu.be/5nCkBlyIXc8The Fight for sports equality: https://youtu.be/OQIrmpt2oR4Trans soccer players!: https://youtu.be/q1t07xnGuj8Disgusting history of gender testing: https://youtu.be/6DpGCl1VrfI
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00:00 Hook0:01:06 Theme Song0:01:41 Welcome / Topic0:04:35 Plugs / Bellessa0:06:47 Article XIII0:08:15 Misogynistic pasts0:10:06 The master plan0:11:38 Lose-lose-lose scenario0:12:44 The issue is cis men0:14:33 Harming women0:15:58 Purpose of propaganda0:17:41 Backfire!0:20:43 WNBA response0:21:42 Not out of the woods...0:23:59 Pick-mes0:25:09 This harms ALL women0:27:09 Final thoughts0:28:43 Wrap up / goodbye!
#WNBA #transphobia #womenssports #patriarchy #MAGA #TheGenderYap
It turns out, men ARE invading women's sports... but not in the way that you think. Recently, Enes Kanter Freedom and Royce White (who have incredibly valid DV/abuse against women accusations against them) have declared themselves eligible to be drafted by the WNBA! The problem is, they are not the masterminds behind this gambit--there is an entire industry behind weaponizing fear of trans people that has taken center-stage in our world, and the Heritage Foundation and the masterminds of the MAGA movement are moving quickly (and surprisingly intelligently) to push forward news stories and lawsuits that end with one clear goal: strip women of all rights and return us to an age before the 1920s.
Transphobes & TERFs: What's the Difference??
2026/09/09
With the recent Drew Afualo discourse and the general upwards trend of transphobia and transmisogyny spreading across the internet, we decided to take it upon ourselves to actually explain the DIFFERENCE between a transphobe and a TERF--and there IS a big one.
Video link to THIS episode: https://youtu.be/uKg41x9CERk
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Related:What transphobes DON'T understand abt Trans People: https://youtu.be/YmrPRrrMX08Why is Blair White LIKE this??: https://youtu.be/eB6UkhkPvB4TERFification of Arielle Scarcella: https://youtu.be/DjM6qRiQgKwChloe used to be Transphobic: https://youtu.be/I26zc9_cKHg
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SHOUTOUTS:Kat Blaque
00:00 Hook0:01:04 Theme Song0:01:39 Welcome / Topic0:03:39 Free spicy toys!0:05:10 Laura learns the diff0:07:06 The dawn of TERFs0:08:49 TERF is "white feminism"0:10:27 Transphobic, not TERF0:12:07 The issue is cis men0:12:50 Transphobia is stupid0:15:12 Casual transphobia0:16:11 Stop saying TERF0:18:50 TERF tactics0:21:02 TERF manipulation0:22:13 Narcissist feminism0:24:18 Sleeper agent TERFs0:27:53 Secret conservatives0:30:26 TERF is a way of life0:31:25 Trans clothes0:33:37 Reality of transphobia0:35:42 LEGAL CSAM?!0:37:57 Radical Feminism0:39:03 FART0:39:34 TERF natural habitat0:41:48 Masks off!0:42:45 Self-sabotage0:44:37 The TERF script0:46:16 Trans distrust0:47:45 Wrap-up / goodbye
#MAGA #TERF #transphobia #drewafualo #whatsthedifference #GenderYap
Anyone can be transphobic. Even a lot of trans people (especially the newly-out) harbor some quiet transphobic resentments and beliefs (some of those 'oh but you're not one of the GOOD trans people' or 'you're doing trans WRONG' people). But casual transphobia is NOT the same thing as being a TERF--a lesson that Laura learned all too well during the week of the Drew Afualo discourse (remember when we were all talking about whether or not trans women have a 'more beautiful' relationship with womanhood?), when a number of her favorite feminists took off their masks and revealed the deep-seated transmisogyny that they harbored within, along with secret conservatism, racism, and a whole host of other views that tend to group together to create the tapestry of TERFdom.
Should YOU try to talk to MAGA?
2026/09/02
Laura recently met a man who felt "duped" by MAGA after voting for them. She took it upon herself to do some damage control and help him deconstruct his beliefs. This is her story, along with our conversation about whether or not we think YOU should be helping ex-MAGA / Trump voters unlearn their ideology (which definitely depends on whether you're cishet and/or White).
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Related:What transphobes DON'T understand abt Trans People: https://youtu.be/YmrPRrrMX08Why is Blair White LIKE this??: https://youtu.be/eB6UkhkPvB4TERFification of Arielle Scarcella: https://youtu.be/DjM6qRiQgKwChloe used to be Transphobic: https://youtu.be/I26zc9_cKHg
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SHOUTOUTS:"How Minds Change" by David McRaney"You Are Not So Smart" podcast
00:00 Hook0:01:05 Theme Song0:01:38 Welcome / Intro0:03:00 Plugs / Pokemon0:04:14 Bellesa0:05:45 Laura's encounter0:08:28 Ally's responsibility0:10:11 Damage control0:12:30 Not on the internet0:15:26 The GOAL0:16:26 Cishet white men0:18:49 TComfiFits0:21:03 Should YOU try?0:23:46 Corn0:25:37 How Minds Change0:28:50 Fight the MAGA rebrand0:30:30 Choose your words0:31:19 Use ideas0:32:35 tl;dr0:34:12 God bless good allies
#MAGA #politics #USA #deconstruct #unlearning #GenderYap
Upon meeting a MAGA voter in Wyoming, Laura took it upon herself to do some damage control and help him deconstruct his beliefs. The thing is... they're feeling unmoored. And if someone on the left doesn't find them, some grifter on the right WILL. She helped educate him on the truth about capitalism and socialism, and how MAGA and conservatives have weaponized fear and hatred of people who are doing no harm (trans people, immigrants, etc) to continue to get away with their particular brand of fascism. In this episode, Laura tells the story of meeting this man and helping him unlearn his beliefs, followed by a conversation about the correct way to do this and whose RESPONSIBILITY it is to put in this work.
What does TRANSmisogyny FEEL like?? (Misogyny Pt 2)
2026/08/26
When you're raised in a patriarchy, it's easy to struggle with femininity and womanhood, because misogyny is all around us. Trans women experience a very specific type called transmisogyny, which is an intersection of misogyny and transphobia. In this episode, Chloe breaks down a number of terrifying experiences with transmisogyny and how it impacts her day-to-day life, both in reality and online. She talks early transition and how things have changed and she passes more and is perceived more often like a woman.
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Related:SWERF & TERF ideology IS misogyny: https://youtu.be/AZmEYOZ4VzkWere trans women socialized as MEN?: https://youtu.be/ZVAFpc163zMWhat creates a "KAREN"?: https://youtu.be/zSQHqvXV5yIIntersex rights ARE women's rights: https://youtu.be/RtpbNnvHBLI
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00:00 Hook0:01:26 Theme Song0:02:01 Welcome! Today's topic0:02:52 Plugs0:03:53 Intellectualizing transmisogyny0:06:01 Experiencing transmisogyny0:07:28 Bus0:10:33 Set on fire0:11:58 We see the truth0:13:11 TComfiFits0:15:26 Surrounded0:16:31 Cis privilege / hate crimes0:18:38 Casual, daily transphobia0:19:51 Attempt empathy0:21:20 Sprung into misogyny0:23:30 Justifying violence0:25:24 SW / Intersectionality0:26:20 Casual misogyny at TJ's0:28:03 Trans girls don't take sh*t0:28:46 Gaslit & dismissed0:31:24 Online hate0:33:19 Gender-affirming misogyny0:34:32 Dating & infantilization0:36:20 Hypers*xualized0:37:03 Rent-free0:42:11 Internalized misogyny0:43:13 Trans in education0:45:10 Projection / blame-shifting0:46:00 Takeaways0:47:52 Count your blessings0:50:03 Wrap-up / goodbye!
#transgender #misogyny #internalized #cisgender #womanhood #GenderYap
Whether people want to admit it or not, almost all women have experienced some type of harrassment, bullying, SA, or violence at the hands of men. Trans women experience a new, full form of that ire, because they're perceived as women but ALSO--cis men feel like it's socially acceptable to harm them, because they're "really a man," and because of the rhetoric around trans people generally, men believe they're "protecting real women" from trans women when they hurt them. Whether it's violence at the hands of men, or casual, everyday hatred from cis men and women alike, trans women experience TRANSMISOGYNY, an intersection of misogyny and transphobia. In this episode, Chloe breaks down a number of terrifying experiences with transmisogyny (including several instances where men tried to unalive her) and how it impacts her day-to-day life, both in reality and online. She's taked less seriously, her feelings and experiences are dismissed, and no matter what she does, the majority of people simply refuse to treat her like a human being.
Trans animals you (probably) don't know about!
2026/08/19
Did you know there are transgender animals? Transsexual plants? The variety of (natural) sexual and gender differences in nature go so far beyond what we previously understood, and we're learning more every day. From mice that completely change sex to trees that change gender from season to season, and how climate change is playing a role in this (no, seriously), check out this episode!
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Related:Intersex rights ARE women's rights: https://youtu.be/RtpbNnvHBLIIs Autogynephilia even REAL?: https://youtu.be/UvmkiZ2JQUYWhat is "transmaxxing"?: https://youtu.be/vLqwdb920c4Ancient trans identities you don't know about: https://youtu.be/YmfI1PKIulY
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SHOUTOUTS/SOURCES:
· https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2921885/
· https://thewatershedproject.org/the-sex-life-of-oysters-how-olympia-oysters-reproduce-under-the-bays-warm-waters/
· https://karger.com/sxd/article-abstract/10/5-6/326/296443/Sex-Reversal-in-Non-Human-Placental-Mammals?redirectedFrom=fulltext
· https://elifesciences.org/digests/53972/understanding-sex-reversal-in-mice
· https://www.news-medical.net/news/20260409/One-letter-DNA-change-switches-sex-development-in-mice.aspx
· https://www.biologyonline.com/articles/sex-reversal-when-males-grew-ovaries-instead-of-testes
· https://indianexpress.com/article/lifestyle/pets-animals/the-finding-nemo-reality-why-some-species-refuse-to-stay-one-gender-for-life-10495740/
· https://www.treehugger.com/animals-can-change-their-sex-4869361
· https://www.nationalgeographic.com/animals/article/frogs-reverse-sex-more-often-than-thought
· https://www.treehugger.com/most-dramatic-examples-sexual-dimorphism-4869746
https://www.genderinclusivebiology.com/newsletter/spawning-males-of-the-bluegill-sunfish-have-3-body-typesgenders-of-distinct-size-and-color-gender-showcase-9-12
00:00 Hook0:00:42 Theme Song0:01:17 Welcome! Today's topic0:02:03 Plugs0:03:35 Terminology of transness0:03:50 Sequential Hermaphroditism0:07:20 Simultaneous Hermaphroditism0:09:27 Protandry/Protogyny0:11:25 Iteroparity/Semelparity0:13:30 Teleosts0:16:57 Environmental Factors0:22:09 Bluestreak Cleaner Wrasse0:24:08 Clownfish0:25:55 Tcomfifits0:28:07 Anglerfish0:30:14 Lysmata Shrimp0:31:43 Sunfish0:35:04 Seahorses0:35:37 Banana Slugs0:36:37 Oysters0:40:04 Frogs0:44:40 Dinosaurs0:48:20 Butterflies/gynandromorphism0:50:29 Copperheads/Parthenogenesis0:53:02 Bearded Dragons0:55:19 Green Sea Turtles0:58:23 PLANTS1:00:49 MAMMALS1:00:55 Lions1:03:08 Mice1:06:36 Humans1:11:04 Sex-gene suppression1:14:11 Bye!!
#transgender #animals #nature #sexchange #gender #GenderYap
Tranimals! They are all around us. From fish to lizards to birds to plants to shrimp to even mammals like lions and mice, it turns out that being transsexual isn't just natural, it's literally all around us. Humans love to think of themselves as being separate from the natural world, but we, too, are just animals, and our place in the natural world of evolution and science holds the key to so many mysteries that we haven't even begun to scratch the surface of. Trans people exist, just like turtles, frogs, birds, butterflies, trees, fish, lions, mice, and SO many other creatures that are capable of doing things you wouldn't even believe.
Misogyny affects cis AND trans women
2026/08/16
When you're raised in a patriarchy, it's easy to struggle with femininity and womanhood, because misogyny is all around us. Trans women and cis women alike are raised in this misogynistic world, but it affects us slightly differently, especially before and after transition. Today we're talking about our own personal experiences with misogyny, how it affected us, and which parts we had to unlearn from what we'd internalized.
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Related:SWERF & TERF ideology IS misogyny: https://youtu.be/AZmEYOZ4VzkWere trans women socialized as MEN?: https://youtu.be/ZVAFpc163zMWhat creates a "KAREN"?: https://youtu.be/zSQHqvXV5yIIntersex rights ARE women's rights: https://youtu.be/RtpbNnvHBLI
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00:00 Hook0:01:06 Theme Song0:01:41 Welcome! Today's topic0:03:14 Plugs0:04:19 Raised in a bubble0:06:29 Cis/trans crossover0:07:26 Impact on boys0:09:34 Sports0:11:39 Football0:16:50 Pink0:18:20 Central CA misogyny0:21:58 SL*T shaming0:23:34 "Don't be girl"0:24:30 Religious influence0:27:40 TComfiFits0:29:51 A woman's role0:33:26 Modesty / grape culture0:37:41 Trans internalized misogyny0:40:59 Women's masculinity0:43:01 Playing small / a girl's girl0:48:04 Troubled Teen (Industry)0:50:51 Audio engineering / hiding0:53:25 Cis internalized misogyny0:54:17 SWs0:56:48 To be continued...
#transgender #misogyny #internalized #cisgender #womanhood #GenderYap
Patriachal misogyny affects us all! We sometimes define our womanhood in opposition to it, rather than by defining it on its own terms. When you're raised in a misogynistic world, it's easy to internalize some of the ideas about what "femininity" and "womanhood" are SUPPOSED to look like, and unfortunately a lot of times that means trauma. SA. DV. Boiling our entire identities down to whether or not we're able to reproduce or conceive children. And that's what patriarchy wants from us. In today's discussion, we break down how trans women and cis women alike are affected by misogyny and how we need to unlearn those beliefs in order to grow into the fullness of our feminine power.
YOU should know about THIS historical trans woman! — Chevalier d’Eon
2026/08/12
What if trans people have ALWAYS been here? Such is the case with Mademoiselle Chevalier d'Eon, a French noble and SPY who personally negotiated the end of the Seven Years War, snuck into Russia by passing herself off as a woman, and ended up a political enemy of the state for revealing French secrets to England... only to make her gender EVERYONE'S business by blackmailing the King of France until he officially recognized her as a woman! This is a wild & true story that you don't want to miss.
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Related:Ancient Trans Indigenous Cultures they don't want you to know!!Part 1: https://youtu.be/YmfI1PKIulYPart 2: https://youtu.be/83RKJp5bPTIPart 3: https://youtu.be/2hvszFkV0sE
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00:00 Hook0:01:04 Theme Song0:01:39 Today's topic0:03:55 Plugs0:05:03 Chevalier d'Eon0:08:11 Trans/Trustworthy?0:11:03 Spycraft!!0:12:54 Dress as a woman0:15:30 Russian Ambassador + WAR0:16:45 Peace Negotiator0:19:58 Top Secret Mission0:21:13 Fast Friends with Alcohol0:24:09 Enemy of the State0:26:50 Kidnapping/Blackmail0:29:20 Political Games/Traitor0:32:00 Re-hired0:33:15 Is she a WOMAN?!0:36:43 Negotiations0:39:02 New Wardrobe0:40:47 Government-recognized gender0:41:45 Trans clothes0:43:56 Public reveal0:48:22 Loss of privilege0:50:21 Let me fight!0:54:28 French Revolution / BROKE0:56:18 Mrs. Cole / Shut-in0:58:16 End of Life0:59:00 Feudalism/Capitalism/Slave Trade1:01:25 Autopsy / Gender reveal1:05:16 Trans people always existed
#transgender #history #chevalier #spy #lgbtq #GenderYap
Trans people have literally always existed. Prior to the *existence* of the United States of America, Mademoiselle Chevalier Charlotte d'Eon, a French noble and SPY made her gender everyone's problem by living the first half of her life as a man (one who personally negotiated the end of the Seven Years War and ended up a political enemy of the state for revealing French secrets to England), and the second half of her life as a woman--having her gender officially recognized by multiple governments. Her story contains twists, turns, scandal, blackmail, alcohol, treason, libel, spycraft, and so, so much more that you have to hear to believe.
Coming out as TRANS (in 2020s America): Chloe's story
2026/08/09
Discovering that you're trans is a long, complicated, confusing process. Chloe was aware that something was... different... about her when she was in kindergarten, but growing up Catholic, being transgender isn't something that's spoken of or allowed. So the process of getting to know yourself takes time. And when you finally come out as transgender, and a trans woman, in the year 2020, mid-quarantine, with a vehemently anti-trans president in Trump... it makes the whole thing a lot harder. Chloe did it the old fashioned way, and fully socially transitioned for over a year before she ever touched a hormone. From there, things just got crazier.
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Related:Why Chloe went 'No Contact' w/ family: https://youtu.be/GflEbGBUAzcChloe was transphobic: https://youtu.be/I26zc9_cKHgBeing a WOMAN in a FRAT: https://youtu.be/pboQ8gkus6UPhysical HRT changes you should know: https://youtu.be/bSaSaYnfXVc
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00:00 Hook0:01:34 Theme Song0:02:08 Intro/Welcome!0:03:54 Social malfunction0:05:08 Questioning / First Attempt0:06:29 Figuring it out0:07:46 Comp-cis / safest choice0:09:13 Science & Spirituality0:11:57 Do you like pants?0:14:12 Dysphoria / the BEST man0:17:40 Zero trans friends0:20:11 Exploring gender0:23:09 Gender envy0:25:56 Chloe / unsupportive partner0:31:25 Parents / Facebook0:34:52 Hormone-free social transition0:37:43 Trans in education0:45:37 Repeatedly coming out0:48:57 'Transing the kids'0:52:54 Hard out here0:54:37 Gay panic
#transphobia #comingoutstory #cisgender #lesbian #lgbtq #GenderYap
Chloe had literally no idea she was trans. She knew she 'wasn't like the other boys,' and knew she didn't quite fit in anywhere. This is NOT the story of how Chloe 'figured out' that she's a transgender woman. It IS the story of how she started the process of coming out and growing into herself once she knew. Starting with a relationship with a very un/supportive partner in 2020, all the way to transitioning like it was the 1970s, and finally working in education as a trans person. The stories are wild, offensive, transphobic, life-affirming, and hilarious, so come along on this wild ride of what it's like to exist while being trans in the 2020s.
Being a WOMAN in a FRAT
2026/08/05
When you're a transgender woman who has no idea that you're trans, you end up trying a lot of things to fit into your assigned gender. When everyone tells you you're a man, but they also tell you that you're TERRIBLE at being a man, you feel the need to be around masculinity in an attempt to learn how to emulate it. Chloe's attempt: join a fraternity and try to gain knowledge of how men behave by observing the entire thing like a nature documentary. What ended up happening... well, just watch.
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Related:Chloe was TRANSPHOBIC: https://youtu.be/I26zc9_cKHgAre trans women socialized as MEN?: https://youtu.be/ZVAFpc163zMChloe goes NO CONTACT w family: https://youtu.be/GflEbGBUAzcOklahoma University scandal: https://youtu.be/o74J4P8fh4wChloe was in a CULT: https://youtu.be/8CICJ_23sHAJK Rowling is a MAN: https://youtu.be/LUI2I9nVoEg
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00:00 Hook0:00:25 Theme Song0:01:06 Intro/Welcome!0:02:55 Why join a frat?0:07:23 HOW join a frat?0:12:26 Chapter Meetings0:13:23 Bro or Brah?0:18:53 Hazing / Ritual0:20:29 Frats are gangs0:23:04 it's gay0:26:44 Psychological torture0:29:40 Bigs & littles0:33:39 Keeping Tabs0:34:23 Early trans signals0:38:19 Self-expression0:41:17 Bitchy gays0:44:54 Girl's Guy - Spycraft0:46:01 Homosexual acceptance0:49:49 Internalized transphobia: Suzy Eddie Izzard0:55:13 Attempting Hypermasc1:00:29 Mothering the bros1:06:13: Wrap-up & Goodbye
#womeninmensfields #fraternity #closeted #lesbian #lgbtq #GenderYap
Chloe had no idea she was a woman, and did that thing that a lot of women do when they're being told from all angles that they're "supposed" to be men: she joined a fraternity in an attempt to become more masculine. It, naturally, did not work at all, and what transpired instead is that she became a spy of sorts, becoming all-too aware of the ways that men think and behave, especially when they don't think there are any women around. This is Chloe's story. This is how a trans woman ends up in a fraternity.
Comphet, Homophobia, & Bi ERASURE: Laura's 'coming out' story
2026/08/02
When you learn you're bisexual at age 5, especially in a homophobic world, people impose a very particular brand on comp-het on you. When you're with women, they act like it isn't real. When you're with men, they act like you've "finally figured it out." And when your parents refuse to acknowledge a full HALF of your identity, it can lead to a lot of problems. This is Laura's story of coming out... and coming out... and coming out...
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Related:Why Laura went 'No Contact' w/ family: https://youtu.be/qkKELz_iZpEWho ACTUALLY started Biphobia?: https://youtu.be/ETt8ViDC2UwTroubled Teen Industry: https://youtu.be/yiBgpzppPqY
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00:00 Hook0:01:10 Theme Song0:01:45 Intro/Welcome!0:02:52 I knew at 50:07:15 Bullying0:10:16 Social Pressure to Hide0:13:17 Middle School dating0:15:57 Coming Out Attempt 10:17:47 Mild acceptance0:19:16 Coming Out Attempt 20:20:25 In the closet--fumbling0:22:00 Problematic lesbianism0:24:15 How men are / FBoy phase0:25:43 Psychadelics & introspection0:28:27 Dating men0:28:59 Coming out attempts 3 & 40:31:28 Final attempt0:33:23 No contact = freedom0:35:09 Recurring Homophobia0:36:19 You never stop coming out0:37:37 Kept in a Box0:39:07 Takeaway / Love
#biphobia #comingoutstory #comphet #lesbian #lgbtq #GenderYap
Laura knew she was bisexual from a VERY early age. At 5, she knew she liked girls. At 6, she knew she liked boys. But society doesn't really accept bisexual people, and bi people are often erased or told to "choose a side," (another version of experiencing comphet) where people will choose one or the other sides of your identity and choose to ignore the rest of it. Straight people want you to be straight. Gay people want you to be gay. And depending on who you're dating, certain friends may pay less attention to you. Parents may reject you or refuse to listen to you or acknowledge your feelings at all.This is Laura's story of coming out as Bisexual... to her friends, and her family, over time. And then doing it again. And again. And again. Because some people just don't listen.
Is Ashley St. Clair GRIFTING??
2026/07/29
Ashley St Clair was a conservative, MAGA influencer who got her start at age 17. She was funneled through the alt-right incubator, spewing hatred across the internet (transphobic, racist, nationalist rhetoric) until she finally had her second baby with Elon Musk. After exposure to him and witnessing his increasing radicalization and harm (after after he turned on HER), she left the movement and has become a prominent voice against the Right and the tactics that MAGA uses. The question of the day is... is it real? Or is she just "grifting to the left" purely out of self-interest?
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Related:Why is Blaire White LIKE this??: https://youtu.be/eB6UkhkPvB4The TERFification of Arielle Scarcella: https://youtu.be/DjM6qRiQgKwOk to OUT closeted Conservatives?: https://youtu.be/FZDmxBjMLEU
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SHOUTOUTS:Matt Bernstein on YT: @MattBernstein1 Juniper (guest on A Bit Fruity Pod):Kill The Computer:https://open.spotify.com/show/6jH7ZL5LkzFuBtv7R9TgDgIll Conceived:https://open.spotify.com/show/3Eu94TUvqT5Hbn2qj2Sb2WJune's Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/junlper.beer
Brian Reed: https://questioneverything.substack.com/p/watch-ashley-st-clair-called-me-slimy @KatBlaque @lifelivedtrans @Ashleytheebarroness @HopeGiselle.
00:00 Hook0:01:25 Theme Song0:02:00 Intro/Welcome!0:05:58 Who is Ashley St. Clair?0:09:37 Conservative Influencer Development0:11:43 Leopards Eating Faces0:13:41 Deconstruction or Revenge?0:15:57 Dunking on the Right0:17:56 Apologies0:23:27 Is it a grift?0:25:07 Only acceptable terms0:26:59 Unlearning takes time0:28:29 Genuine hate or cult mentality?0:34:02 Uplift others or do it for the $$?0:38:19 How much money?0:42:18 Growth or perfection?0:48:24 All a distraction0:50:45 Christopher Reeve0:54:40 Ne0Naz! or idiot?0:57:42 "Not that deep"1:00:45 Don't platform narcissists1:05:54 Patriarchy & useful idiots1:10:28 What has she done for us?1:13:46 Reform or consequences?1:17:20 Her purpose1:18:54 Cults & abuse1:21:49 Final Points1:26:06 People to follow (instead)1:27:21 Last Word / Conclusion
#conservatives #grifting #transgender #ashleystclair #maga #debates
Laura PASSIONATELY defends the "she's definitely a grifter" perspective while Chloe takes the "she's not perfect but I think she IS learning" side. We debate long and hard about the correct way to be a good ally, what she SHOULD be doing, and the evidence both for and against her shift to the left being genuine or not. Regardless, the facts about her checkered past remain: she was a conservative, MAGA influencer who rose to popularity incredibly quickly & was funneled through the alt-right incubator, working with Turning Point USA, the Babylon Bee, and other right-wing organizations specifically designed to spew hatred across the internet (transphobic, racist, & nationalist rhetoric). Once she had her second baby with Elon Musk and broke a deal by announcing publicly that the baby was his (because he notoriously likes to keep his private philandering lifestyle incredibly secretive), he turned against her and weaponized his base to levy incredible hatred at her. She finally broke ranks and switched sides, speaking out against big tech, billionaires, and the entire MAGA ideology, explaining that by doing some reading and learning, she was able to see the error in her ways. The question still remains... is any of it REAL??
Debunking Trans Propaganda: Violence & Cherry Picking (Pt 3)
2026/07/26
There is a prevalent belief in TERF and "gender critical" circles, and a narrative being pushed by right-wing grifters and people with ulterior motives, that being trans causes people to be MORE VIOLENT than all other demographics of people. It's something Blaire White, Joe Rogan, JK Rowling, and basically every trans-hating person have been pushing ever since the Charlie Kirk shooting. So we're here to go over the ACTUAL stats and prove that trans people, on the whole, are the LEAST violent demographic of people that exist.
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DEBUNKING Trans Propaganda Pt1: https://youtu.be/K36eaTs0yXIDEBUNKING Trans Propaganda Pt2: https://youtu.be/U_LafA3Nq0kDEBUNKING 15 Transphobic Beliefs: https://youtu.be/nDGOugn-rGoSWERF & TERF Ideology IS misogyny: https://youtu.be/AZmEYOZ4Vzk
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00:00 Hook0:00:57 Theme Song/TW0:03:12 PART 6: "BAD" trans ppl0:03:41 Jealousy0:06:58 Autogynephilia0:10:25 Breastfeeding0:11:30 Trolley Problem0:12:40 Exaggeration0:14:07 Consumerism0:16:48 Male Domination0:17:40 Drag0:19:11 Female Enslavement0:21:02 Indigenous Trans ppl0:23:33 TERFs are racist0:24:42 Female Oppression0:27:29 Blatant Racism0:33:11 PART 7: "Violence"0:33:28 Out of Context0:36:18 ICE0:39:44 Hurt the TERF0:42:44 Mass Sh00tings0:43:59 JKR0:46:34 "Trans allies"0:51:26 The end...?0:52:53 Outro
#violence #ideology #transgender #transwomen #indoctrination #propaganda
TERFs and "gender criticals" believe and push a lot of strange things. And, of course, it's easy to find an example of any type of person who did something wrong if you're LOOKING for that. So this week, we're covering a number of examples of "bad" trans people, trans people who committed violence, and the general rhetoric that the "gender criticals" (just TERFs with a funny name) push en masse to try to convince people to be terrified of us. In our last two "debunking propaganda videos, we talked about how they think being trans is a "social contagion" (a belief that has been disproven after being first proposed in 2015 and gaining steam in 2016), and then the idea that trans identity is a "cult," the harmful idea that having autism both makes you 'more vulnerable' to trans ideology (because you aren't smart enough to think for yourself) and 'causes' you to transition, and bizarre, pseudoscientific beliefs about puberty blockers, brain changes, and identical twins. These ultra right-wing grifters (who are often RACIST as well as transphobic) are wildly misinformed, and have ulterior motives that largely align with patriarchal ideas that we should all be reduced purely to our biology. We watch several of their propaganda videos and look at their memes and DEBUNK their Nazi ideology with facts, logic, and statistics.
Why is Blaire White LIKE this??
2026/07/22
Blaire White is a prominent transgender influencer who also happens to be Gender Critical and TERFy... she spews anti-trans rhetoric and makes content bullying other trans women for their appearance, while also being racist, conservative, MAGA, and being a token trans person for the Right to weaponize. But... Why?? How did she become this way? Where did she start? Who is funding her? What did she experience that made her shut off her emotions and turn against her own community?
Follow us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/cw/TheGenderYapPodcast 😍Link to video version of this episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eB6UkhkPvB4 The TERFification of Arielle Scarcella: https://youtu.be/DjM6qRiQgKwEpstein LINKED to Trans movement: https://youtu.be/KEv4fmCampIIs AUTOGYNEPHILIA even REAL?: https://youtu.be/UvmkiZ2JQUYWe used to be Transphobic!(Pt1): https://youtu.be/I26zc9_cKHg
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SHOUTOUTS: @TheRightOpinion @Avatar_Brandy
00:00 Prologue0:02:16 Theme Song0:02:51 Intro/Welcome!0:04:56 Blaire's CONTENT0:08:04 Disinformation Purveyor0:10:00 Losing Trust0:13:52 Propaganda Pipeline0:17:58 Blaire White: LIAR0:22:45 Avatar Brandy: Firsthand0:32:54 Brandy REACTION VID0:36:17 Blaire White: ORIGINS0:39:32 Transmaxxer??0:40:30 Baby Blaire0:44:52 BW: CONNECTED0:51:42 Turn to Christ0:53:41 Blaire's SPONSORS1:00:20 Why is she LIKE this??1:04:57 Trauma Response?1:06:08 Trapped1:07:32 Spirituality Grift1:09:58 Empathy for Baby Blaire1:12:15 Appearance-based1:14:05 Male Protection1:15:57 Detached1:18:42 Path to Redemption?1:21:08 Hi, Blaire!1:23:53 Epilogue
#conservatives #grifters #transgender #rosicrucian #4chanstories #propaganda
Blaire White was raised in a cult and was being groomed to become a politician by her ultra-conservative father, who also abused her (in more ways than she's willing to speak about). She found community in the transmaxxer page on 4Chan and fully believes that being trans, for her, is a direct result of the trauma she experienced. She also has wildly misinformed views about "passing," and has internalized the idea that she has no inherent value unless she is beautiful (transmisogyny is strong with this one). She bullies trans women online. She spews false information, damaging rhetoric, pseudoscience, and ragebait across the internet, which her ultra-MAGA, conservative followers lap up like the homophobic trans chasers that they are. They hate us but they love her because she hates us, too. Laura dove DEEP into the archives of the internet and pieced together the whole puzzle, including WHERE her sponsors are based, who they're connected to, why she makes the type of content that she does, and how she became the way that she is. If you've ever wondered, "Why is Blaire White LIKE THIS??", we've got the answer for you here.
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