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Hosts Jen, Kori, and Zabrina examine how Halloween costumes reflect the narrow, contradictory expectations placed on women and girls. They trace Halloween’s layered traditions, discuss costume play as self-expression and temporary freedom, and question how pop culture sexualizes girls while framing women’s sexuality as both desirable and punishable. Jen, Zabrina, and Kori examine the sexualization of girls and women through Halloween costumes, dress codes, pop culture, and media norms. They weigh personal choice and sexual expression against social pressure, consent, and parents’ responsibility to protect children.   Show Notes Takeaways: - What if the answer is both and neither? - The thing is dressing up in a costume, role-playing, being somebody else, it's always to some degree subversive. - Halloween provides a convenient outlet for some repressed communities such as gay men and trans people. - And that is the joy of Halloween. We can be alter egos. - No one is forcing women to dress in any particular costume. - Dress as you want, however, and as feminists, we would support that. - We are sexualizing our girls at a younger and younger age, which is a problem. - You know, we have to protect our children. “the problem isn't the motive of the girls' dressing. I think the problem is the societal lens.” - “A woman has every right to dress as sleazy as she wants to.” - “That doesn't give men the right to touch them or to do something awful to them” - “we need to be able to walk in that space where we know that no matter what step we take, we're gonna be judged” - “Halloween is a culture production more than anything, and a chance to play at whatever role you want to try on.” - “before you judge, consider who our society has told these young girls to admire” - “it should be up to the parents' discretion. 'Cause we do have to protect our children.” - “why have we erred ... on the side of like violence is the okay thing, sexuality is the thing that is not acceptable?”   Chapters 00:00 The Halloween costume question: choice or cultural pressure? 07:09 How Christian holidays absorbed earlier celebrations 12:10 Why women’s pop-culture icons are often sexy 19:05 Grease and the Madonna-whore double standard 24:04 Sexy Sandy and Halloween’s temporary loophole 26:04 Personal choice versus objectifying beauty standards 27:35 The growing sexualization of girls’ costumes 29:16 Brooke Shields, Britney Spears, and sexualized teen stardom 33:50 Young celebrities and the sexualization of teenagers 34:59 Why finding non-sexy girls’ costumes can be difficult 35:55 School dress codes and the clothes girls can actually buy 38:22 Clothing is not consent, and women choose who gets their attention 40:38 Sexual self-expression, confidence, and Halloween play 44:24 How Halloween commodifies female sexuality 47:44 Sexual liberation, erotic capital, and the cost of judgment 50:15 The double bind: women are judged whichever choice they make 52:11 Whom do we hold up as role models for girls? 54:19 Respecting choice while protecting children 57:13 Why media accepts violence more readily than intimacy 58:42 Closing thoughts and sponsor thanks   References: Bryner, Kelsey, and Sarah Bousquet. “Oversexualization in Hollywood: Brooke Shields - CHILD USA.” Child USA, 18 April 2023, https://childusa.org/oversexualization-in-hollywood-brooke-shields/.  Cerini, Marianna. “History of the Halloween costume.” CNN, 25 10 2020, https://www.cnn.com/style/article/history-of-halloween-costumes.  Firth, Emma. “The marketing of Britney Spears' virginity | The Standard.” Evening Standard, 26 October 2023, https://www.standard.co.uk/lifestyle/britney-spears-memoir-virginity-the-woman-in-me-sex-b1116091.html. Grater, Elizabeth A. “The Rise of "Slut-o-ween": Cultural Productions of Femininity in Halloween Costumes.” Master's Thesis: The Faculty of Columbian College of Arts and Sciences of George Washington University, 2012, pp. 1-84, https://scholarspace.library.gwu.edu/downloads/2b88qc32v?disposition=inline&locale=en Lange, Stephanie. “The Disturbing Story of Brooke Shields.” YouTube, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w5itAKl5LHg. Parsons, Sophie. “Halloween guising Scotland: Meaning and is it different from trick or treating?” The Herald, Newsquest Media Group, 18 10 2021, https://www.heraldscotland.com/news/19655339.halloween-guising-scotland-meaning-different-trick-treating/. Preston, Charles. “Samhain | Celtic Festival, Paganism, Wicca, Halloween, & Bonfires.” Britannica, https://www.britannica.com/topic/Samhain.  Stonehill, Heidi. “Halloween Traditions Explained: Jack-o'-Lanterns, Costumes & More.” Almanac, Yankee Publishing Company, 22 10 2025, https://www.almanac.com/origins-halloween-traditions.   Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : [email protected]   Special Thanks to www.dinnissendesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC.

This episode explores the alarming rise of deepfake technology used for non-consensual sexual imagery, its gendered implications, and the urgent need for awareness and regulation. Experts discuss how AI is transforming the landscape of consent, privacy, and safety, especially for women and children. In this episode, we explore the complex issues surrounding AI-generated content, deep fake technology, and their implications for privacy, consent, and safety. Our guests discuss legal frameworks, ethical considerations, and practical steps to protect individuals and society from emerging digital threats.   Show Notes Takeaways: - Deepfake technology and its evolution - Gendered implications of non-consensual deepfake images - Impact on children and youth - Legal and ethical challenges - Role of social media platforms and regulation - Community and parental responsibilities AI and desensitization to fake content - Legal protections against deep fake abuse - The importance of consent in digital representations - Legislation in Canada addressing deep fake harms - The role of technology developers in safeguarding society - The cultural impact of AI amplifying societal biases - Strategies for education and empowerment around AI risks - The challenge of establishing truth in a post-truth era   Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Deepfake Porn and Its Risks 00:59 Community and School-Based Interventions 01:17 The Power of Awareness and Dialogue 01:26 Closing Thoughts and Call to Action 02:06 What Is Deepfake Technology and How Is It Used? 03:59 The Violation of Consent and Bodily Autonomy 05:58 Gendered Impact: Women as Primary Victims 07:50 Technology's Role in Lowering Barriers to Deepfake Creation 10:01 Deepfake in Schools: A Growing Concern 12:02 Statistics on Deepfake Victimization Among Youth 13:54 Legal and Parental Strategies for Prevention 16:00 Community Risks and Online Grooming Groups 17:52 The Exploitation of Children and Vulnerable Populations 19:59 Platform Policies and Industry Responsibility 21:57 Warning Signs and How to Protect Children 23:59 The Economic Chain Behind Deepfake Technology 26:01 Societal Desensitization and Cultural Factors 27:58 Misogyny, Shame, and the Weaponization of Women's Sexuality 29:54 Deepfake as a Political and Social Weapon 32:00 The Future of Women in Public Life and Deepfake Threats   References: Government of British Columbia. (n.d.). Intimate images protection.  https://www2.gov.bc.ca/gov/content/safety/public-safety/intimate-images  Government of Canada, Department of Justice. (2026). Protecting Victims Act (Bill C-16): Proposed changes to protect victims of sexual and intimate partner violence. https://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/csj-sjc/pl/c16/pcs-mpp.html  Henry, N., & Umbach, R. (2025). “I think it’s disgusting and I hate it”: An exploratory study of Australian young people’s perceptions of AI-generated sexual violence. Sexual Abuse, 37(3), 307–335. https://doi.org/10.1177/10790632241247939  Maddocks, S. (2020). “A deepfake porn plot intended to silence me”: Exploring continuities between pornographic and “political” deep fakes. Porn Studies, 7(4), 415–423. https://doi.org/10.1080/23268743.2020.1757499  Paris, B., & Donovan, J. (2019). Deepfakes and cheap fakes: The manipulation of audio and visual evidence. Data & Society Research Institute.  Sensity. (2019). The state of deepfakes: Landscape, threats, and impact. Sensity AI. (Originally published under the company’s former name, Deeptrace.)  UNICEF. (2026, February 4). Deepfake abuse is abuse: Millions of children fear their images are being manipulated into sexually explicit deepfakes. https://www.unicef.org/press-releases/deepfake-abuse-abu se-millions-children-fear-their-images-are-being-manipulated  Weatherbed, J. (2026, August 19). Meta ran ads for an app promising to “nudify” female politicians. WIRED. https://www.wired.com/story/meta-ran-ads-for-an-app-promising-to-nudify-female-politicians/   Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : [email protected]   Special Thanks to www.dinnissendesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC.

This episode explores the complex and often disturbing world of the manosphere, including its origins, subgroups, and impact on society. The Crones discuss how it influences young men, perpetuates harmful stereotypes, and intersects with issues like mental health, gender roles, and online grooming. This episode explores the complex and organized nature of the manosphere, delving into its tactics, influence, and the dangerous ideologies it promotes. We unpack how these ideas spread, their impact on society, and what can be done to counteract them.   Show Notes Takeaways: Origins and definition of the manosphere Target demographics and grooming tactics Subgroups like men's rights activists and pickup artists Impact on men's mental health and societal roles The intersection with feminism and patriarchy Online influence and radicalization strategies Misleading statistics and pseudoscience used by the movement The role of social media in spreading toxic ideologies Potential solutions and support networks for men The deliberate organization and progression of the manosphere to radicalize young men The influence of pseudo-scientific theories like hypergamy and kleptogamy The role of memes and online content in indoctrination The impact of anti-feminist rhetoric on societal attitudes and violence The connection between online extremism and real-world violence The importance of parental awareness and education in countering harmful content The movement of men going their own way (MGTOW) and its societal implications The historical context of gender roles and custody laws The spread of misogynist and anti-feminist ideologies through mainstream media Strategies for societal and governmental responses to online extremism   Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to the Manosphere and Its Impact 00:11 Introduction to the organized nature of the manosphere 02:59 How content is used to radicalize young men 03:56 What Is the Manosphere? Origins and Main Features 07:01 Target Audience: Young Boys and Grooming Tactics 07:02 The role of memes and humor in indoctrination 10:00 Subgroups: Men's Rights Activists and Pickup Artists 11:57 Pseudo-scientific theories like hypergamy and kleptogamy 15:01 Impact on Men's Mental Health and Societal Expectations 16:58 The influence of anti-feminist rhetoric on violence 19:49 The Concept of the Man Box and Restrictive Masculinity 21:53 Historical context of gender roles and custody laws 25:07 The Red Pill and Its Misinterpretation of Reality 26:58 The movement of men going their own way (MGTOW) 30:00 Misleading Statistics and Pseudoscience in the Movement 31:54 The spread of misogynist ideologies in mainstream media 35:02 The Dangerous Narrative of Women as Liars and Victims 36:56 Government responses and policy recommendations 39:51 Online Grooming and Predatory Strategies 41:55 The importance of parental awareness and education 45:04 The Role of Social Media in Radicalization 46:51 The impact of online extremism on society 49:58 Potential Solutions and Support for Men 51:59 Strategies to push back against harmful ideologies 55:00 Conclusion: Why We Must Address the Manosphere's Influence   References: Aileen, and Dan. Manosphere: Debunked. Acast, 17 March 2026, https://shows.acast.com/manosphere-debunked/about. Podcast. Andoh, Efua. “Rethinking masculinity to build healthier outcomes.” American Psychological Association, 23 September 2025, https://www.apa.org/monitor/2025/11-12/rethinking-masculinity. Accessed 2 August 2026. “APA Guidelines for Psychological Practice with Boys and Men.” American Psychological Association, August 2018, https://www.apa.org/about/policy/boys-men-practice-guidelines.pdf. Accessed 2 August 2026. Bates, Laura. Men Who Hate Women: From incels to pickup artists, the truth about extreme misogyny and how it affects us all. Simon & Schuster, 2020. Colman, Gene C. “Gender Bias in the Family Courts of Canada: Fact or Fantasy?” Gene C. Colman; Family Law Center, 16 March 1999, https://www.complexfamilylaw.com/featured-articles/gender-bias-in-the-family-courts-of-canada-fact-or-fantasy/. Equimundo. “State of American Men 2025.” Equimundo Research Reports, 2025, https://www.equimundo.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/State-of-American-Men-2025.pdf. Migliore, Brianna J. “The Manosphere's Favorite Myths (and the Science They Get Wrong).” Dysregulation Nation, Substack, 02 April 2026, https://dysregulationnation.substack.com/p/the-manospheres-favorite-myths-and. Accessed 30 July 2026. “No Ma'am.” Blogger.com, 03 November 2015, https://no-maam.blogspot.com/. Vien, Dominique. “CONFRONTING ANTIFEMINIST IDEOLOGIES IN CANADA Report of the Standing Committee on the Status of Women.” Government of Canada, June 2026, https://publications.gc.ca/collections/collection_2026/parl/xc71-1/XC71-1-1-451-6-eng.pdf. Weinman & Associates, P.C. “Are the courts gender biased in custody cases?” Weinman & Associates, 12 June 2020, https://www.weinmanfamilylaw.com/blog/2020/06/are-the-courts-gender-biased-in-custody-cases/. “What is the manosphere and why should we care?” UN Women, https://www.unwomen.org/en/articles/explainer/what-is-the-manosphere-and-why-should-we-care. Accessed 30 July 2026.   Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : [email protected]   Special Thanks to www.dinnissendesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC.

In this episode, we explore the complex nature of toxic positivity, its origins, and its impact on emotional health. We discuss how societal and cultural pressures encourage us to suppress genuine feelings and the importance of emotional honesty and resilience. In this episode, the panel explores the complexities of toxic positivity, emotional resilience, and the importance of embracing all facets of human experience, including darkness and vulnerability. Kori, Zab and Jen discuss how societal norms, cultural influences, and personal experiences shape our emotional responses and perceptions of positivity.   Show Notes Takeaways: - Toxic positivity often leads to the denial and invalidation of authentic emotions. - Society, especially women, has been conditioned to prioritize pleasantness over honesty. - Mind over matter can be a powerful tool for resilience but can also be misused to dismiss real pain. - Recognizing the difference between healthy optimism and toxic positivity is crucial for mental health. - Acceptance of reality, including mortality, is essential for genuine well-being.   Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the episode and topic of toxic positivity 00:13 Introduction to the complexities of human emotion 02:02 Manifesting versus wishing: understanding the difference 02:03 What is toxic positivity and how does it manifest? 04:13 Personal stories and experiences with toxic positivity 05:02 The role of genuine gratitude in emotional health 06:18 The blame and shame associated with illness and toxic positivity 09:22 Cultural roots and societal conditioning around positivity 09:57 Signs and impacts of toxic positivity 12:02 The importance of emotional honesty and validation 15:00 Cultural influences on emotional expression and positivity 15:21 Optimism versus toxic positivity: recognizing the difference 17:20 The concept of mind over matter and resilience in adversity 20:01 The importance of embracing darkness and sadness 20:12 Historical examples of mind over matter in extreme situations 23:11 Manifestation, positivity, and their intersection with toxic positivity 24:59 How societal norms shape our emotional responses 25:52 Acceptance, mortality, and living within one's reality 29:59 The influence of privilege and capitalism on positivity 35:00 Patriarchy and emotional labor in women 39:58 Community, resilience, and shared hardship 45:01 The role of spiritual beliefs and soul contracts 50:06 Balancing light and darkness in life 55:06 The value of vulnerability and authenticity 59:59 Conclusion: embracing the full spectrum of human experience   References: Bandura, A. (1977). Social learning theory. Prentice Hall. Ehrenreich, B. (2009). Bright-sided: How positive thinking is undermining America. Metropolitan Books. Festinger, L. (1957). A theory of cognitive dissonance. Stanford University Press. Goodman, R. D. (2022). Toxic positivity: Keeping it real in a world obsessed with being happy. Balance. (Popular psychology rather than primary research, but widely cited in discussions of the concept.) Gross, J. J. (1998). The emerging field of emotion regulation: An integrative review. Review of General Psychology, 2(3), 271–299. https://doi.org/10.1037/1089-2680.2.3.271 Hayes, S. C., Strosahl, K. D., & Wilson, K. G. (2016). Acceptance and commitment therapy: The process and practice of mindful change (2nd ed.). Guilford Press. Lerner, M. J. (1980). The belief in a just world: A fundamental delusion. Plenum Press. Mauss, I. B., Tamir, M., Anderson, C. L., & Savino, N. S. (2011). Can seeking happiness make people unhappy? Emotion, 11(4), 807–815. https://doi.org/10.1037/a0022010 Susan David. (2016). Emotional agility: Get unstuck, embrace change, and thrive in work and life. Avery. Wood, J. V., Perunovic, W. Q. E., & Lee, J. W. (2009). Positive self-statements: Power for some, peril for others. Psychological Science, 20(7), 860–866. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1467-9280.2009.02370.x   Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : [email protected]   Special Thanks to www.dinnissendesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC.

Join hosts Zabrina, Kori and Jen while they explore the fascinating science behind menopause, the grandmother hypothesis, and the role of elders in human evolution and society. Discover how ancient wisdom and modern research reveal the importance of community, memory, and intergenerational support.   Show Notes Takeaways: - The grandmother hypothesis and its role in human evolution - The rarity and significance of menopause in nature - The importance of elders in traditional societies - Research on hunter-gatherer communities and food sharing - The evolution of human babies and cooperative breeding - The discovery of menopause in chimpanzees and implications - The cultural significance of the crone and aging women - The impact of modern society on intergenerational support - The importance of community and collective caregiving - The value of wisdom and oral tradition in societies   Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to the grandmother hypothesis and its significance 02:13 Menopause in nature and its evolutionary mystery 03:09 The role of grandmothers in child survival and knowledge transfer 08:16 The evolution of helpless human babies and cooperative breeding 09:50 Sarah Hardy's research on helplessness and brain development 12:19 Humans as cooperative breeders and the village concept 20:32 The role of older female orcas and other species in survival 21:50 Menopause in other species and its evolutionary roots 24:29 Chimpanzees and the evolution of menopause 26:33 Reevaluating the grandmother hypothesis with new evidence 27:10 The societal impact of losing intergenerational support 30:08 Trusting intuition and passing down wisdom 32:02 The importance of cultural transmission and oral knowledge 37:11 The cultural significance of the crone and aging women 40:23 The role of elders as community guides and memory keepers 42:36 The value of women as knowledge keepers beyond motherhood 43:21 The indigenous perspective on elders and community support 45:46 Raising children in community and the importance of collective effort 46:00 Conclusion: Wisdom, community, and the future of society   References: Dunsworth, H. M., et al. (2012). Metabolic hypothesis for human altriciality. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 109(38), 15212–15216. Hawkes, K. (2009). Evaluating grandmother effects. American Anthropologist, 111(2), 230–233.  Hrdy, S. B. (2009). Mothers and others: The evolutionary origins of mutual understanding. Harvard University Press.  Nattrass, S., et al. (2019). Postreproductive killer whale grandmothers improve the survival of their grand offspring. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 116(52), 26669–26673.  Wood, B. M., et al. (2023). Demographic and hormonal evidence for menopause in wild chimpanzees. Science, 382(6669), eadd5473.    Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : [email protected]   Special Thanks to www.dinnissendesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC.

This episode explores the concept of the mental load and invisible labor in household and relationship dynamics, highlighting how these responsibilities are often unevenly distributed and how they impact mental health and gender roles. This episode explores the complex layers of mental load, unpaid labor, and gender roles within households, emphasizing how societal norms influence responsibilities and the importance of recognizing unpaid work. The Crones discuss strategies for equitable division of labor, the impact of gendered expectations, and the emotional toll of caregiving and household management.   Show Notes Takeaways: - Everyone carries mental load, but women often carry a disproportionate share. - Invisible labor includes planning, remembering, and emotional support, not just physical tasks. - Accepting different standards of task completion can reduce conflict. - Open communication about responsibilities can help balance mental load. - Men are increasingly participating in active roles, but unintentional burden still exists.   Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to the concept of mental load and its importance 06:55 — Intro to the episode: feminism, domestic labor, and the mental load 12:38 — Why inclusion matters: heteronormativity, same-gender couples, and feminism 22:36 — “Would you rather?” game: kitchen labor, meal planning, appointments, and laundry 29:41 — Physical chores vs. invisible mental load 32:33 — What mental load includes: life admin, emotional labor, safety, planning, and decision fatigue 37:15 — Why mental load is boundless and hard to see 40:35 — What each person would miss if their family disappeared overnight 43:05 — Who carries the organizing in relationships and friendships 47:00 — Expectations we place on ourselves and what can be let go 49:47 — Menopause, depletion, and why the load feels heavier with age 57:13 — Helicopter parenting, shared caregiving, and microman 61:04 — Why unpaid labor is undervalued in capitalist systems 64:16 — The changing role of fathers and the burden of teaching kids chores 71:14 — Emotional labor, caregiving, and supporting loved ones 75:28 — Aging parents, caregiving, and the burden on women 78:04 — The wage gap, the “mother tax,” and lost earning potential 80:28 — AI, entry-level work, and how mental load affects political participation 82:18 — Same-gender couples and how labor gets divided more intentionally 88:44 — What each person would automate away forever 93:51 — Wrap-up and final thoughts on reducing mental load   References: Aydin, Bursa. “Mental Load: The Invisible Weight Women Carry.” Psychology Times, 16 July 2025, https://psychologytimes.co.uk/mental-load-the-invisible-weight-women-carry/. Dean, L., Churchill, B., & Ruppanner, L. (2022). The mental load: building a deeper theoretical understanding of how cognitive and emotional labor overload women and mothers. Community, Work & Family, 25(1), 13–29. https://doi.org/10.1080/13668803.2021.2002813     “Care in the Time of Coronavirus.” Oxfam Canada, June 2025, https://www.oxfam.ca/publication/care-in-the-time-of-coronavirus/.  “FAQs: What is unpaid care work and how does it power the economy?” UN Women, October 2025, https://www.unwomen.org/en/articles/faqs/faqs-what-is-unpaid-care-work-and-how-does-it-power-the-economy. McLean, Caitlan, et al. “The Management of Cognitive Labour in Same-Gender Couples.” PLoS  ONE, vol. 18, no. 7, July 2023, pp. 1–27. EBSCOhost, https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0287585. McMunn, Anne. “Unpaid labour is a neglected social determinant of health,” The Lancet Public Health. 8, e250-e251                                                                                                                     “Pandemic brings a crisis of care for women.” Global Affairs Canada, 9 February 2026, https://www.international.gc.ca/world-monde/stories-histoires/2021/women-care-crisis-crise-soins-femmes.aspx?lang=eng.     Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : [email protected]   Special Thanks to www.dinnissendesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC.

Join Kori, Zab & Jan as they explore the history, cultural significance, and societal perceptions of menstruation across different cultures and eras. It delves into how menstruation was once revered as a source of power and spirituality, and how it became stigmatized and regulated over time. This episode explores the history, cultural perceptions, and politics of menstruation, highlighting how societal attitudes have evolved and the ongoing challenges women face. Join us as we delve into the myths, marketing, and policy issues surrounding menstrual health.   Show Notes Takeaways: - Many cultures historically viewed menstruation as a spiritual power rather than impurity. - Ancient societies celebrated menstruation with rituals and regarded it as a connection to fertility. - Religious laws, especially in Judeo-Christian traditions, contributed to the perception of menstruation as impure. - Modern society has shifted from reverence to regulation and shame around menstruation. - Understanding the cultural history of menstruation can help challenge current stigmas.   Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to the cultural significance of menstruation 01:14 Menstruation as a universal human experience and its history 02:07 From sacred power to societal regulation 10:22 Cultural beliefs and rituals around menstruation in indigenous societies 13:07 Menstruation as a spiritual connection in Native American cultures 14:30 Menstruation and feminine power in indigenous traditions 18:34 Celebrations and rituals honoring menstruation in different cultures 22:28 The modern shift: from sacred to shame and regulation 27:14 Historical beliefs about menstruation and religious influences 33:39 The impact of religious laws and myths on menstrual perceptions 36:54 The influence of early science and societal beliefs on menstrual stigma   References: American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists. (2023). Vaginitis. American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists. https://www.acog.org Buckley, T., & Gottlieb, A. (Eds.). (1988). Blood magic: The anthropology of menstruation. University of California Press. Douglas, M. (1966). Purity and danger: An analysis of concepts of pollution and taboo. Routledge. Gottlieb, A. (2004). The afterlife is where we come from: The culture of infancy in West Africa. University of Chicago Press. Lerner, G. (1986). The creation of patriarchy. Oxford University Press. Martin, E. (2001). The woman in the body: A cultural analysis of reproduction (Revised ed.). Beacon Press. Office on Women's Health. (2024). Douching. U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. https://www.womenshealth.gov Pliny the Elder. (1855). The natural history of Pliny (J. Bostock & H. T. Riley, Trans.). Henry G. Bohn. (Original work published ca. 77 CE) Smithsonian Institution. (n.d.). Feminine hygiene products. Retrieved from https://www.si.edu The Holy Bible, Leviticus 15:19–33 (New Revised Standard Version or preferred edition). Victoria and Albert Museum. (2026). Sanitary suspenders to Mooncups: A brief history of menstrual products. Retrieved from https://www.vam.ac.uk Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : [email protected]   Special Thanks to www.dinnissendesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC.

This episode explores microfeminism and how small, intentional actions by women challenge gender norms and inequality. Zab, Kori & Jen discuss personal experiences, societal norms, and practical ways to challenge gender stereotypes and promote equality. Show Notes Takeaways: - Microfeminism includes small, intentional actions that challenge gender norms. - Examples include asking about feelings, changing language, and sharing household roles. - Microfeminism can be safer, more sustainable, and less exhausting than traditional activism. - Small acts like calling women first or refusing to hide menstrual products can make a difference. - Men can support microfeminism by challenging stereotypes and sharing unpaid labor.   Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to microfeminism and its significance 02:44 Challenging language and sarcasm in conversations  10:09 Navigating workplace biases and advocating for recognition 21:27 Reclaiming space in social settings 36:33 Raising awareness about household roles and gender expectations 49:54 Interrupting old social norms in public spaces 65:52 Flipping derogatory comments and challenging stereotypes 88:34 Parenting and household labor alignment 107:33 Small actions that model equality 114:30 Microfeminism vs misandry 115:40 Final thoughts: small gestures as sparks for change   References: Catalyst. (2020). Women in leadership: Why it matters.  Hanisch, C. (1969). The personal is political. In Notes from the second year: Women’s liberation. Gender,Labor, and Social Roles                                                                                                                                                  Hochschild, A. R. (1989). The second shift: Working families and the revolution at home. Viking. LeanIn.Org & McKinsey & Company. (2023). Women in the workplace 2023.                                         Mead, M. (n.d.). Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world.  Nelson, Z. (2026). Micro feminism moves: Small actions that create big change [Unpublished manuscript].  Rudman, L. A., & Glick, P. (2001). Prescriptive gender stereotypes and backlash toward agentic women. Journal of Social Issues, 57(4), 743–762.  Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : [email protected]   Special Thanks to www.dinnissendesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC.

This episode explores the complex and nuanced issues surrounding trans athletes in sports, focusing on biological, hormonal, and societal factors. We delve into recent IOC rulings, scientific research gaps, and the broader implications for fairness and inclusion. This episode dives into the complex and often controversial topic of trans athletes in sports, examining biological, ethical, and societal perspectives. We explore how policies are shaped, the science behind physical advantages, and the importance of inclusive, evidence-based approaches.   Show Notes Takeaways: - The IOC's new rules require genetic testing for Y chromosomes in female athletes. - Hormonal and chromosomal factors complicate the assessment of athletic advantage. - There is a significant lack of research on trans bodies and athletic performance. - Policies often target trans women, raising concerns about fairness and discrimination. - Chromosomal anomalies like SRY can affect eligibility and are often misunderstood. - A more inclusive approach might involve rethinking gender categories altogether. - The science of gender and performance is evolving, but gaps remain. - Trans athletes face risks of misclassification and unfair bans due to imperfect tests. - Societal biases and political agendas influence sports policies. - Creating fair and inclusive sports environments requires nuanced, science-based policies.   Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to trans athletes and recent IOC rulings 01:59 Understanding gender identity, cisgender, and trans terminology 04:06 Biological factors influencing athletic performance 05:53 The IOC's genetic testing protocols and their implications 08:00 Hormones, testosterone, and athletic advantage 10:00 Chromosomal anomalies and their impact on eligibility 11:47 The science gaps and research challenges 14:02 Societal and political considerations in sports policies 16:01 Potential models for inclusive sports categories 18:06 Gender-neutral bathrooms and societal perceptions 19:57 The future of trans inclusion and fairness in sports References: “About — Chris Mosier.” Chris Mosier, https://www.thechrismosier.com/about-1. Accessed 24 June 2026. Basina, Marina. “What are normal testosterone levels? Ages, males, females, and more.” Medical News Today, https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/323085#typical-levels. Accessed 24 June 2026. Batista, Rafael Loch, and et. al. “Androgen insensitivity syndrome: a review - PMC.” PMC, Archives of Endocrinology and Metabolism, 23 March 2018, https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10118986/. “Biological Foundations of Gender: Genes, Hormones, and Behavior.” Biological Foundations of Gender, Gender Studies, 23 September 2025, https://gender.study/?print-my-blog=1&post-type=post&statuses%5B0%5D=publish&rendering_wait=0&columns=1&font_size=normal&image_size=full&links=include&show_site_title=1&show_site_tagline=1&show_site_url=1&show_date_printed=1&show_title=1&show_url=1&show_da. Daftardar, Ishan. “Scientific Analysis Of Michael Phelps's Body Structure » ScienceABC.” ScienceABC, https://www.scienceabc.com/sports/michael-phelps-height-arms-torso-arm-span-feet-swimming. Accessed 24 June 2026. “Gender & Athletic Ability: Are Men Really Better Athletes Than Women?” Cathe Friedrich, 23 October 2016, https://cathe.com/gender-athletic-ability-men-really-better-athletes-women/. Hamilton, Blair, et al. “Strength, power and aerobic capacity of transgender athletes: a cross-sectional study.” Open Access, Br J Sports Med, 2024, https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/bjsports/early/2024/04/10/bjsports-2023-108029.full.pdf. Hunter, Sandra K., and Jonathon W. Senefeld. “Sex Difference in Human Performance.” The Physiological Society, The Journal of Physiology, 06 August 2024, https://physoc.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1113/JP284198. “International Olympic Committee announces new Policy on the Protection of the Female (Women's) Category in Olympic Sport.” Olympics.com, 26 March 2026, https://www.olympics.com/ioc/news/international-olympic-committee-announces-new-policy-on-the-protection-of-the-female-women-s-category-in-olympic-sport. Accessed 24 June 2026. Joyner, Michael J., et al. “Evidence on Sex Differences in Sport Performance.” Journal of Applied Physiology, 2025, https://journals.physiology.org/doi/full/10.1152/japplphysiol.00615.2024. “Lia Thomas.” Wikipedia, wikipedia.org, 17 June 2026, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lia_Thomas. “Mixed-sex sports.” Wikipedia, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mixed-sex_sports. Accessed 24 June 2026. “Puberty and Transitioning for Trans and Non-Binary Youth.” Kids Help Phone, 18 June 2019, https://kidshelpphone.ca/get-info/puberty-transitioning-trans-non-binary-youth/. Ro, Christine. “The sports where women outperform men.” BBC, 1 August 2024, https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20240731-the-sports-where-women-outperform-men. Rohmer, Robert B., and Glynne Walley. “Androgen insensitivity syndrome.” Wikipedia, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Androgen_insensitivity_syndrome. Accessed 24 June 2026. Sonksen, Peter H., et al. “Why do endocrine profiles in elite athletes differ between sports?” Springer Nature Link, Clinical Diabetes and Endocrinology, 07 February 2018, https://doi.org/10.1186/s40842-017-0050-3. Soriano, Daniel. “Semenya hurt over IOC's women's category stance.” Inside the Games, 28 March 2026, https://www.insidethegames.biz/articles/semenya-voices-hurt-over-coventrys-trans-stance. Stechyson, Natalie. “She won boxing gold. Now Imane Khelif has filed a harassment complaint over claims she's a man or transgender.” CBC, https://www.cbc.ca/sports/olympics/summer/boxing/boxing-harassment-imane-khelif-1.7292457. Accessed 24 June 2026. “Testosterone — What It Does And Doesn't Do.” Harvard Health, https://www.health.harvard.edu/healthy-aging-and-longevity/testosterone--what-it-does-and-doesnt-do. Accessed 19 April 2026. The Associated Press. “Cycling governing body bans female transgender athletes from women's races.” CBC Sports, CBC.ca, 14 July 2023, https://www.cbc.ca/sports/olympics/summer/cycling/cycling-transgender-female-ban-1.6906815. Webb, Karleigh, et al. “These 29 trans athletes have won major competitions or titles - Outsports.” OutSports, 6 December 2024, https://www.outsports.com/2024/12/6/22948400/transgender-trans-athlete-championship-national-world-title/. Accessed 24 June 2026. “What are Gonads? Definition, Function, and Types.” biology insights, 22 July 2025, https://biologyinsights.com/what-are-gonads-definition-function-and-types/. “X and Y Chromosome Variations.” AXYS, Genetic.org, 2026, https://genetic.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/AXYS-General-Brochure-Update-5-26.pdf. Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : [email protected]   Special Thanks to www.dinnissendesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC.

Welcome to Part 1 of our trans episodes, we explore the complex science of gender, sex, and biological variations, aiming to demystify trans identities and challenge societal perceptions. Join us for an in-depth discussion on how biology, culture, and identity intersect. This episode explores the complex science behind testosterone levels, gender transition, and athletic performance, highlighting the gaps in current research and the importance of nuanced understanding in sports and gender identity.   Show Notes: Takeaways - Gender is a spectrum, not a binary. - Chromosomal variations are common and often undiagnosed. - Testosterone and estrogen levels influence physical and emotional traits. - Society's gender roles are performative and culturally constructed. - Understanding biology helps reduce stigma around trans identities. - Differences between sex and gender - Chromosomal variations and their impact - Hormonal influences on gender expression - Societal roles and gender performance - Biological diversity and trans identities Testosterone levels across age and gender - Impact of puberty blockers on physical development - Scientific gaps in trans athlete research - Physical advantages in sports related to biology - The role of hormone therapy in gender transition -Legal and ethical considerations in sports   Chapters: 00:00 Exploring Femininity and Gender Roles 03:09 Understanding Trans Identity and Gender Definitions 09:17 Navigating Gender Fluidity and Societal Norms 16:40 The Spectrum of Gender Expression 27:09 Cultural Perspectives on Gender 32:05 Chromosomal Variances and Their Implications 40:26 Understanding Testosterone in Women 47:10 The Complexity of Hormonal Testing in Athletes 56:07 The Role of Puberty Blockers in Trans Youth 01:05:42 Navigating Gender Identity and Medical Interventions 01:12:42 The Role of Schools in Supporting Trans Students 01:16:58 The Science of Puberty Blockers and Trans Youth 01:21:27 The Need for Research on Trans Athletes   References: “About — Chris Mosier.” Chris Mosier, https://www.thechrismosier.com/about-1. Accessed 24 June 2026. Basina, Marina. “What are normal testosterone levels? Ages, males, females, and more.” Medical News Today, https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/323085#typical-levels. Accessed 24 June 2026. Batista, Rafael Loch, and et. al. “Androgen insensitivity syndrome: a review - PMC.” PMC, Archives of Endocrinology and Metabolism, 23 March 2018, https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10118986/. “Biological Foundations of Gender: Genes, Hormones, and Behavior.” Biological Foundations of Gender, Gender Studies, 23 September 2025, https://gender.study/?print-my-blog=1&post-type=post&statuses%5B0%5D=publish&rendering_wait=0&columns=1&font_size=normal&image_size=full&links=include&show_site_title=1&show_site_tagline=1&show_site_url=1&show_date_printed=1&show_title=1&show_url=1&show_da. Daftardar, Ishan. “Scientific Analysis Of Michael Phelps's Body Structure » ScienceABC.” ScienceABC, https://www.scienceabc.com/sports/michael-phelps-height-arms-torso-arm-span-feet-swimming. Accessed 24 June 2026. “Gender & Athletic Ability: Are Men Really Better Athletes Than Women?” Cathe Friedrich, 23 October 2016, https://cathe.com/gender-athletic-ability-men-really-better-athletes-women/. Hamilton, Blair, et al. “Strength, power and aerobic capacity of transgender athletes: a cross-sectional study.” Open Access, Br J Sports Med, 2024, https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/bjsports/early/2024/04/10/bjsports-2023-108029.full.pdf. Hunter, Sandra K., and Jonathon W. Senefeld. “Sex Difference in Human Performance.” The Physiological Society, The Journal of Physiology, 06 August 2024, https://physoc.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1113/JP284198. “International Olympic Committee announces new Policy on the Protection of the Female (Women's) Category in Olympic Sport.” Olympics.com, 26 March 2026, https://www.olympics.com/ioc/news/international-olympic-committee-announces-new-policy-on-the-protection-of-the-female-women-s-category-in-olympic-sport. Accessed 24 June 2026. Joyner, Michael J., et al. “Evidence on Sex Differences in Sport Performance.” Journal of Applied Physiology, 2025, https://journals.physiology.org/doi/full/10.1152/japplphysiol.00615.2024. “Lia Thomas.” Wikipedia, wikipedia.org, 17 June 2026, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lia_Thomas. “Mixed-sex sports.” Wikipedia, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mixed-sex_sports. Accessed 24 June 2026. “Puberty and Transitioning for Trans and Non-Binary Youth.” Kids Help Phone, 18 June 2019, https://kidshelpphone.ca/get-info/puberty-transitioning-trans-non-binary-youth/. Ro, Christine. “The sports where women outperform men.” BBC, 1 August 2024, https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20240731-the-sports-where-women-outperform-men. Rohmer, Robert B., and Glynne Walley. “Androgen insensitivity syndrome.” Wikipedia, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Androgen_insensitivity_syndrome. Accessed 24 June 2026. Sonksen, Peter H., et al. “Why do endocrine profiles in elite athletes differ between sports?” Springer Nature Link, Clinical Diabetes and Endocrinology, 07 February 2018, https://doi.org/10.1186/s40842-017-0050-3. Soriano, Daniel. “Semenya hurt over IOC's women's category stance.” Inside the Games, 28 March 2026, https://www.insidethegames.biz/articles/semenya-voices-hurt-over-coventrys-trans-stance. Stechyson, Natalie. “She won boxing gold. Now Imane Khelif has filed a harassment complaint over claims she's a man or transgender.” CBC, https://www.cbc.ca/sports/olympics/summer/boxing/boxing-harassment-imane-khelif-1.7292457. Accessed 24 June 2026. “Testosterone — What It Does And Doesn't Do.” Harvard Health, https://www.health.harvard.edu/healthy-aging-and-longevity/testosterone--what-it-does-and-doesnt-do. Accessed 19 April 2026. The Associated Press. “Cycling governing body bans female transgender athletes from women's races.” CBC Sports, CBC.ca, 14 July 2023, https://www.cbc.ca/sports/olympics/summer/cycling/cycling-transgender-female-ban-1.6906815. Webb, Karleigh, et al. “These 29 trans athletes have won major competitions or titles - Outsports.” OutSports, 6 December 2024, https://www.outsports.com/2024/12/6/22948400/transgender-trans-athlete-championship-national-world-title/. Accessed 24 June 2026. “What are Gonads? Definition, Function, and Types.” biology insights, 22 July 2025, https://biologyinsights.com/what-are-gonads-definition-function-and-types/. “X and Y Chromosome Variations.” AXYS, Genetic.org, 2026, https://genetic.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/AXYS-General-Brochure-Update-5-26.pdf. Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : [email protected]   Special Thanks to www.dinnissendesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC.

In this episode, Kori leads the squad as they explore the complex history and social significance of gossip, its evolution from a trusted form of communication to a stigmatized activity, and its potential as a tool for social bonding, protection, and empowerment. Join us as we challenge stereotypes and reclaim gossip as a positive force for community and connection.   Show Notes Takeaways: - History of gossip from the 16th century to today - Gossip's role in women's social networks and safety - The evolution of gossip from a trusted communication to a stigmatized activity - The use of gossip in social learning, trust, and accountability - Historical punishments for women accused of gossiping, including public shaming and   violence - The concept of whisper networks and their role in exposing predators like Harvey Weinstein - The importance of women’s communication for community building and safety - Reclaiming gossip as a pro-social, empowering activity - The influence of media in shaping perceptions of gossip and communication - The significance of women supporting each other through shared stories and experiences Chapters 00:00 Gossip and Its Social Implications 03:45 Introduction and Technical Setup 04:11 Understanding Gossip: Modern Perceptions and Stigma 12:30 The Historical Evolution of Gossip 20:10 Gossip as a Tool for Safety and Connection 21:10 The Silencing of Women: Historical Context 27:36 The Impact of Gossip on Women's Lives 31:28 Witch Trials and the Fear of Female Power 37:57 Gossip as a Tool for Connection and Empowerment 38:48 The Whisper Network: A Protective System 41:18 The Impact of Investigative Journalism 43:24 The Disappointment of Fallen Idols 44:27 Ghislaine Maxwell and Gendered Justice 45:01 The Role of Female Spies in History 46:06 Women Talking: A Cinematic Reflection 50:00 The Power of Women’s Conversations 53:20 Reclaiming Gossip as a Positive Force References: Dunbar, R. I. M. (2004). Gossip in evolutionary perspective. Review of General Psychology, 8(2), 100–110. Federici, S. (2018). Witches, witch-hunting, and women. PM Press. Feinberg, M., Willer, R., & Schultz, M. (2014). Gossip and ostracism promote cooperation in groups. Psychological Science, 25(3), 656–664. Foster, E. K. (2004). Research on gossip: Taxonomy, methods, and future directions. Review of General Psychology, 8(2), 78–99. Kantor, J., & Twohey, M. (2019). She said: Breaking the sexual harassment story that helped ignite a movement. Penguin Press. Robbins, M. L., & Karan, A. (2020). Who gossips and how in everyday life. Social Psychological and Personality Science, 11(3), 397–405. Toews, M. (2018). Women talking: A novel. Bloomsbury Publishing.   Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : [email protected]   Special Thanks to www.dinnissendesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC.

This episode explores the deeply rooted and complex issue of female genital mutilation (FGM), its cultural origins, health consequences, and the ongoing efforts to eradicate it. Hosted by Zabrina, Kori, and Jen, the discussion aims to educate and inspire action against this human rights violation.   Show Notes Takeaways: - Definitions and classifications of FGM - Global prevalence and cultural origins - Health risks and long-term consequences - Survivor stories and emotional impact - Efforts to educate, prevent, and provide support   Chapters: 00:00 A Shocking Story: The Rat Incident 00:16 Understanding Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) 02:58 Understanding Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) 04:55 Cultural Context and Prevalence of FGM 05:37 Types and Classifications of FGM 08:07 Health Risks and Complications of FGM 11:32 Historical Origins and Social Drivers of FGM 15:15 Societal Pressures and Personal Stories 18:59 Healthcare Challenges and Education on FGM 22:23 Advocacy and Changing Cultural Practices 25:27 The Role of Women in Cultural Practices 28:38 Modernization and Medicalization of FGM 31:36 Consequences of FGM on Women's Health 34:00 Cultural Norms and Male Perspectives 38:55 Cultural Identity and the Impact of Immigration 42:04 Understanding the Impact of FGM 45:02 Generational Trauma and Community Change 47:58 Education and Advocacy for Women's Rights 50:50 Confronting Harmful Practices with Compassion   References: BMJ Global Health. (2020). FGM and maternal health outcomes.  Nature. (2023). Global burden estimates related to female genital mutilation.  BBC Africa. (n.d.). FGM: For the love of Fatmata [Video]. YouTube.  AS/IS. (n.d.). How I survived female genital mutilation [Video]. YouTube. SWPictures. (n.d.). The cutting tradition [Video]. YouTube. FGM: Denouncing The Cut [Video]. (n.d.). YouTube.  FGM: A Scourge That Persists In Gambia, But Mentalities Are Slowly Changing [Video]. (n.d.). YouTube.  Hibo’s Story [Video]. (n.d.). YouTube.  Hussein, L. (n.d.). FGM Survivor: Leyla Hussein’s Story [Video]. YouTube. Hussein, L. (n.d.). Cruel cut [Video]. YouTube.  The Girl Who Said No to FGM [Video]. (n.d.). YouTube.  The Unknown Pandemic: Female Genital Mutilation/cutting [Video]. (n.d.). YouTube.  World Health Organization. (2023). Female Genital Mutilation (FGM). https://www.who.int UNICEF. (2023). Female genital mutilation: A global concern. https://www.unicef.org UNFPA. (2022). Female genital mutilation dashboard. https://www.unfpa.org    Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : [email protected]   Special Thanks to www.dinnissendesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC.

In this engaging episode our hosts explore the societal perceptions of women's facial expressions, especially Resting Bitch Face (RBF), and how these perceptions impact women's experiences in healthcare, professional settings, and social interactions. It delves into cultural differences, gender stereotypes, racial biases, and the importance of self-advocacy.   Show Notes Takeaways: - The science behind facial expressions and social cues - Cultural differences in interpreting resting face - Gender bias and societal expectations around women and men - The impact of resting face on women's professional and personal lives - Unconscious biases and their influence on perception Societal perceptions of women's facial expressions - Impact of RBF on women's healthcare experiences - Cultural differences in expressing emotions - Racial and gender biases in social and medical contexts - Strategies for self-advocacy and authenticity   Chapters: 00:01 Introduction to Murder of Crones Podcast 00:49 Exploring RBF 05:28 Personal Experiences with RBF 11:00 Cultural Perspectives on Facial Expressions 14:04 The Burden of Smiling 16:18 RBF: A Double Standard 18:47 Cultural Expectations and Gender Norms 20:39 Unconscious Bias and Social Perception 29:16 The Impact of RBF on Professional Life 35:59 Navigating Health and Communication Challenges 36:49 The Impact of RBF on Women's Health 39:45 Systematic Dismissal of Women's Pain 44:13 Advocating for Women's Health in Medical Settings 47:03 Intersectionality in Healthcare Disparities 53:01 Understanding Neurodiversity and Gender Bias 54:25 Understanding Neurodivergence in Women 55:54 Cultural Perspectives on Facial Expressions 01:00:46 The Impact of RBF Across Cultures 01:05:27 Breaking Gender Norms and Embracing Authenticity 01:08:28 The Social Media Landscape and Its Effects 01:11:16 Concluding Thoughts on Performance and Identity   References: B, Nikki. “The "Bitch” Penalty: Why Assertive Women Pay the Price in Industry.” Linked In, 5 March 2026, https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/bitch-penalty-why-assertive-women-pay-price-industry-nikki-bens-vzvqc/. Carpenter, Kalyn. “Getting real about women's health - Fatal delays and the misdiagnosis epidemic.” Curious Health, 7 March 2024, https://curioushealth.io/getting-real-about-womens-health-fatal-delays-and-the-misdiagnosis-epidemic/. Accessed 5 April 2026. Christopher, Watkins D., et al. “Social Transmission of Leadership Preference: Knowledge of Group Membership and Partisan Media Reporting Moderates Perceptions of Leadership Ability From Facial Cues to Competence and Dominance.” Frontiers in Psychology, vol. 10, no. 2996, 2020. National Library of Medicine, https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6971406/. Cooke, Martin, and Tasha Shields. “Anti-Indigenous racism in Canadian healthcare: a scoping review of the literature.” International Journal for Quality in Health Care, vol. 36, no. 3, 2024. Oxford Academic, https://academic.oup.com/intqhc/article/36/3/mzae089/7749614?login=false. Grossman, Samantha. “The Insidious Sexism of 'Resting Bitch Face.'” This Week, 10 January 2019, https://theweek.com/articles/815496/insidious-sexism-resting-bitch-face. Harris Dr., Felecia C. “The Resting "Bitch" Face: Exploring The Intersection of African American Women, Race, Class, Sexuality. Gender and Reality TV.” University of North Carolina at Charlotte, 2016. Digital Commons, https://digitalcommons.winthrop.edu/sewsa/2016/fullschedule/5/. Khazan, Olga. “Why Some Cultures Frown on Smiling.” The Atlantic, 27 May 2016, https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2016/05/culture-and-smiling/483827/. Mehrotra, Palasha Krishna. “The Unsmiling Indian.” Man's World, https://www.mansworldindia.com/lifestyle/the-unsmiling-indian. R, Rathi. “Resting Bitch Face: Why Are Only Women Accused Of Having It?” Feminism in India, 1 August 2017, https://feminisminindia.com/2017/08/01/resting-bitch-face-women/. Salamon, Maureen. “The dangerous dismissal of women's pain.” Harvard Women's Health Watch, 2025. Harvard Health Publishing, https://www.health.harvard.edu/pain/the-dangerous-dismissal-of-womens-pain. “The Science Behind an Expressive Face and Its Signals.” Science Insights, 25 November 2025, https://scienceinsights.org/the-science-behind-an-expressive-face-and-its-signals/. Strinic, Andrea, et al. “Multiple-group membership: warmth and competence perceptions in the workplace.” Journal of Business and Psychology, vol. 36, 2020, pp. 903-920. Springer Nature Link, https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10869-020-09713-4.   Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : [email protected]   Special Thanks to www.dinnissendesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC.

What happens when traditional gender roles meet modern feminism? In this episode of Murder of Crones, Kori, Jen, and Zab unpack the rise of the Tradwife movement—looking beyond the aesthetic to question power, choice, and control. Is it genuine empowerment, or a return to limiting roles shaped by religion and politics? Are Tradwives anti-feminist… or feminism in action? Listen in and decide.   Show Notes Takeaways: The traditional wife model: roles, aesthetics, and cultural significance Power dynamics and submission within Tradwife relationships The ideological underpinnings: religion, politics, and white nationalism Social media's role in glamorizing and monetizing Tradwife culture Feminism’s perspective: choice, autonomy, and societal implications The intersection of Tradwives with conservative policies and social agendas The economic realities and risks for women adopting this lifestyle Critique of hustle culture and capitalism within the Tradwife aesthetic Future challenges: legislation, social acceptance, and diversity of choice Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: the rise and cultural aesthetic of Tradwives 02:00 - Social media's influence on Tradwife culture 03:13 - Initial reactions: admiration, confusion, alarm 03:38 - Tradwives as a step backward for feminism 04:01 - Wealth and visibility in Tradwife portrayals 05:03 - Traditional model: roles, submission, and gender dynamics 06:49 - Visual aesthetics and curated femininity 07:46 - Morphed and adapted social media presence 08:38 - Gender differences and role delineation 09:04 - Trust and decision-making in Tradwife relationships 10:11 - The importance of partnership vs hierarchy 11:00 - Vulnerabilities: losing skills, economic insecurity 12:06 - Historical context: 1950s family ideals 13:16 - Religious and conservative political influences 14:37 - Social media promotion and the glamorization of domestic skills 16:12 - Economic autonomy and potential risks for women 17:18 - The appeal amid burnout and social chaos 18:29 - Declining marriage rates and social trends 19:25 - The racial and nationalist undertones of procreation drives 21:17 - Impact on children and religious influences on gender roles 22:39 - Religious and conservative currents in the Tradwife movement 25:41 - The intersection with politics, legislation, and social policy 28:49 - Submission, obedience, and power structures in relationships 36:32 - The branding and monetization of Tradwife influencers 44:51 - Social media as a marketing platform and industry for Tradwives 55:21 - The dangerous undercurrents: white nationalism, religious fundamentalism 60:27 - Feminism and choice: navigating autonomy vs societal pressures 62:41 - The importance of political engagement and education 64:29 - The role of legislation and the need for social vigilance 66:01 - The importance of critical thinking and empathy in education 66:39 - Closing thoughts and acknowledgments   This episode provides a nuanced perspective on a controversial social phenomenon—balancing respect for individual choice with a critique of underlying societal and political currents. Whether you see the Tradwife lifestyle as empowerment or regression, understanding its complexities is essential.   Reference:                                                                                                                           Bilezikian, G. (1985). Beyond sex roles: What the Bible says about a woman’s place in church and family. Baker Academic. Butler, J. (1990). Gender trouble: Feminism and the subversion of identity. Routledge. Hochschild, A. R., & Machung, A. (2012). The second shift: Working families and the revolution at home (Revised ed.). Penguin Books. (Original work published 1989) Nock, S. L. (1998). Marriage in men’s lives. Oxford University Press. Pateman, C. (1988). The sexual contract. Stanford University Press. Perel, E. (2006). Mating in captivity: Unlocking erotic intelligence. HarperCollins. Rubin, G. (1975). The traffic in women: Notes on the “political economy” of sex. In R. Reiter (Ed.), Toward an anthropology of women (pp. 157–210). Monthly Review Press. Schwartz, P. (1994). Peer marriage: How love between equals really works. Free Press. Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : [email protected] Special Thanks to www.dinnissindesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC.

Welcome back for part 2 of Sex Myths. In this episode, we explore common myths about sex and desire in long-term relationships, aiming to shed light on the realities that often go unspoken. Our conversations unravel misconceptions that can hinder intimacy, offering insight and encouragement for enduring love lives.   Show Notes  Takeaways: The myth that love naturally sustains desire over time How desire evolves with age and changes in life circumstances The impact of societal expectations and myths about aging and sexuality The role of emotional safety, distance, and separation in maintaining desire The influence of societal norms, porn, and cultural stories on expectations The significance of communication and honesty about intimacy The effects of parenthood and life transitions on sexuality Challenging the idea that sexual frequency equals health The importance of individual external lives and separate interests How myths about sexual performance and aging can create unnecessary stress Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction to the myths surrounding long-term sex and desire    02:17 - Why silence and shame impact ongoing intimacy                          04:46 - The myth that desire fades as love endures                                        10:05 - How opening relationships doesn't necessarily restore desire      13:54 - The historical and cultural context of sexuality in different eras        17:28 - Impact of societal beliefs about spontaneous desire                          22:19 - The challenge of keeping the spark alive and the myth of eternal passion                                                                                                                  26:40 - The effectiveness of date nights and creating space for eroticism  29:47 - Differentiating closeness and desire, and the importance of healthy separation                                                                                                35:10 - How desire fluctuates with life phases and age                                    43:06 - Common misconceptions that low desire signals relationship failure                                                                                                                    47:30 - The influence of porn, fantasy, and societal narratives on expectations                                                                                                      50:01 - The myth that aging ends eroticism and desire Note: For a more comprehensive understanding, we recommend reading Esther Perel’s work, which guides much of our discussion today. The episode emphasizes that desire and intimacy in long-term relationships are dynamic, and myths only serve to create unnecessary pressure. Honest communication, ongoing self-awareness, and redefining societal narratives are key to sustaining a healthy, passionate love life as the years go by. References Basson, R. (2001). Using a different model for female sexual response to address women’s problematic low sexual desire. Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, 27(5), 395–403. https://doi.org/10.1080/009262301753148637 Baumeister, R. F., Catanese, K. R., & Vohs, K. D. (2001). Is there a gender difference in strength of sex drive? Personality and Social Psychology Review, 5(3), 242–273. https://doi.org/10.1207/S15327957PSPR0503_5 Bogaert, A. F. (2004). Asexuality: Prevalence and associated factors. The Journal of Sex Research, 41(3), 279–287. https://doi.org/10.1080/00224490409552235 Hamilton, L. D., & Meston, C. M. (2013). Chronic stress and sexual function in women. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 42(7), 1349–1359. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-012-0044-0 Leitenberg, H., & Henning, K. (1995). Sexual fantasy. Psychological Bulletin, 117(3), 469–496. https://doi.org/10.1037/0033-2909.117.3.469 Lindau, S. T., Schumm, L. P., Laumann, E. O., Levinson, W., O’Muircheartaigh, C. A., & Waite, L. J. (2007). A study of sexuality and health among older adults. New England Journal of Medicine, 357(8), 762–774. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa067423 Muise, A., Schimmack, U., & Impett, E. A. (2016). Sexual frequency predicts greater well-being. Social Psychological and Personality Science, 7(4), 295–302. https://doi.org/10.1177/1948550615616462 Perel, E. (2006). Mating in captivity: Unlocking erotic intelligence. HarperCollins.   Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : [email protected]   Special Thanks to www.dinnissendesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC.