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In this episode of The Healing Childhood Podcast, we explore the relationship between your inner critic and your core childhood wounds, and how this relationship might be getting in the way of healing your childhood trauma. Drawing on the fascinating work of Jungian analyst Donald Kalsched, we look at how the inner critic can develop as a protective response to painful childhood experiences, such as rejection, neglect, shame and abandonment. But what happens when the very part of you that's trying to protect you starts causing more pain? We'll explore three ways your inner critic might be reinforcing and reopening old childhood wounds, preventing experiences that could help you heal, and creating additional suffering through self-criticism, shame and self-sabotage. Unlocking the Secrets of the Wounded Psyche: Interview with Donald Kalsched: Psychological Perspectives: Vol 51 , No 2 - Get Access _________________________________ 💌 Join the mailing list, where each week we dig deep into a topic not covered here and you’ll have first access to everything new. 🌐 Visit my website for info about working with me one-to-one or in groups: www.alecwilliamstherapy.co.uk ✉️ Get in touch: Contact - Alec Williams Therapy

In this episode of The Healing Trauma Podcast, we explore how childhood trauma can shape the protective patterns we carry into adulthood, from people-pleasing and anxiety to avoidance, anger and our inner critic. We'll look at how these patterns often develop as ways of keeping us safe, why they can continue to influence our emotions, relationships and behaviour long after childhood, and how they can sometimes take us further away from who we really are. You'll also learn three practical steps to help you recognise these old survival responses, understand the childhood wounds behind them, and begin creating more choice and control in how you respond, as you continue your journey of healing childhood. _________________________________ 💌 Join the mailing list, where each week we dig deep into a topic not covered here and you’ll have first access to everything new. 🌐 Visit my website for info about working with me one-to-one or in groups: www.alecwilliamstherapy.co.uk ✉️ Get in touch: Contact - Alec Williams Therapy

In this episode of the Healing Childhood Trauma Podcast, we explore one of the most painful and often overlooked parts of healing childhood trauma: the sense of injustice that can come from having to heal from experiences you never chose or caused. Why is it that, years later, you're the one left picking up the pieces? Why does the responsibility for healing fall on you when you weren't responsible for what happened? We look at how childhood trauma in adulthood can leave people struggling with anger, resentment, frustration and a deep sense of unfairness and why these feelings can be an important part of the healing process. If you're working to recover from childhood trauma, struggling with unresolved childhood wounds, or wondering how to heal trauma that wasn't your fault, this episode might be for you. _________________________________ 💌 Join the mailing list, where each week we dig deep into a topic not covered here and you’ll have first access to everything new. 🌐 Visit my website for info about working with me one-to-one or in groups: www.alecwilliamstherapy.co.uk ✉️ Get in touch: Contact - Alec Williams Therapy

In this episode of the Healing Childhood Trauma podcast, we explore three practical steps that can help you begin healing the deeper wounds you may still carry from early childhood trauma. We’ll look at how painful early experiences can leave behind feelings of rejection, abandonment, not being good enough or being unlovable - and how these wounds can continue to show up in adult life through anxiety, anger, perfectionism, people-pleasing, shutting down and relationship difficulties. You’ll learn how to begin meeting the wounded parts of yourself rather than avoiding them, process some of the emotions and experiences they may still be carrying, and start giving yourself some of what you didn’t receive at the time. Because while you can’t go back and change your childhood, you can begin creating the safety, care, connection and understanding those parts of you may still need today. _________________________________ 💌 Join the mailing list, where each week we dig deep into a topic not covered here and you’ll have first access to everything new. 🌐 Visit my website for info about working with me one-to-one or in groups: www.alecwilliamstherapy.co.uk ✉️ Get in touch: Contact - Alec Williams Therapy

In this episode of the Healing Childhood Trauma podcast, we’re exploring how to break free from the inner critic childhood trauma may have created - that voice telling you you’re not good enough, you’ve messed up, or that everyone else is doing better than you. For many people, a harsh inner critic has its roots in childhood. Criticism, rejection, shame, emotional neglect or other difficult experiences can shape the way we learn to speak to ourselves - and sometimes, that critical voice may even have developed as an attempt to protect us. You'll be walked through three practical steps to help you understand where your inner critic came from, notice it without automatically believing what it says, and begin developing a different relationship with this part of yourself. Because healing isn’t necessarily about getting rid of your inner critic completely. It’s about turning down the volume, loosening its grip, and helping it move out of the driver’s seat - so you can live with greater confidence, self-worth and freedom. _________________________________ 💌 Join the mailing list, where each week we dig deep into a topic not covered here and you’ll have first access to everything new. 🌐 Visit my website for info about working with me one-to-one or in groups: www.alecwilliamstherapy.co.uk ✉️ Get in touch: Contact - Alec Williams Therapy

In this episode of the Healing Childhood Trauma podcast, we explore what core emotional wounds are, how they can continue to affect us in adulthood, and why understanding the wound beneath a protective pattern can be an important part of the healing process. We’ll look at the different types of wounds, unmet needs, emotional triggers and the protective strategies we can develop to avoid experiencing old pain again. You’ll also learn three ways to begin identifying your own childhood wounds today. If you’re interested in childhood trauma healing, inner child work, trauma responses, emotional triggers, attachment wounds and understanding the deeper roots of your patterns, this episode will help you begin looking beyond the symptom and towards what may be sitting underneath it. _________________________________ 💌 Join the mailing list, where each week we dig deep into a topic not covered here and you’ll have first access to everything new. 🌐 Visit my website for info about working with me one-to-one or in groups: www.alecwilliamstherapy.co.uk ✉️ Get in touch: Contact - Alec Williams Therapy

In this episode of the Healing Childhood Trauma podcast, we’re exploring a question that comes up again and again in the healing process: do you really need to dig up your childhood in order to heal? If something from your past is still affecting you today, it can seem obvious that understanding what happened might help. But is revisiting painful childhood experiences always beneficial? Could talking about trauma before you’re ready sometimes make things worse? And is it possible to heal without going back into your past at all? We explore both sides of this debate, including how trauma therapy has evolved, why safety and stabilisation can be so important, and what can happen when painful experiences are opened up without the right support in place. We’ll also look at why safely exploring childhood trauma and childhood wounds can be such a powerful part of trauma healing - helping you connect the dots between your past and present, better understand where your patterns may have come from, develop greater self-compassion, and recognise how the effects of childhood trauma may still be showing up in your life today. _________________________________ 💌 Join the mailing list, where each week we dig deep into a topic not covered here and you’ll have first access to everything new. 🌐 Visit my website for info about working with me one-to-one or in groups: www.alecwilliamstherapy.co.uk ✉️ Get in touch: Contact - Alec Williams Therapy

In this episode of The Healing Childhood Trauma Podcast, you’ll be given a roadmap for how you can most effectively heal childhood trauma in 2026 - understanding where it may still be showing up in your adult life and where your healing might need to go next. We explore six key areas of healing: your nervous system and body, core beliefs, relationship with yourself, identity, core wounds and unmet needs, and relationships and attachment. If you’ve already tried therapy, nervous system regulation, inner child work or other approaches but still feel that something hasn’t quite shifted, this episode will help you step back, look at the bigger picture and think about your next steps. Rather than searching for one perfect way to heal, you’ll come away with a clearer framework for understanding childhood trauma healing - and some practical first steps for deciding where to focus next. _________________________________ 💌 Join the mailing list, where each week we dig deep into a topic not covered here and you’ll have first access to everything new. 🌐 Visit my website for info about working with me one-to-one or in groups: www.alecwilliamstherapy.co.uk ✉️ Get in touch: Contact - Alec Williams Therapy

In this episode of The Healing Childhood Trauma Podcast, we explore whether it’s possible to develop secure attachment as an adult, particularly if childhood trauma meant that safety, consistency, and trust weren’t always present in your earliest relationships. Childhood experiences can shape the expectations we carry into adult relationships. You might fear abandonment, struggle to trust other people, become anxious when someone pulls away, or find yourself creating distance when closeness begins to feel uncomfortable. But does having an anxious, avoidant, or otherwise insecure attachment style mean relationships will always feel this way? By the end of this episode, you’ll have a better understanding of: What secure attachment can look and feel like in adult relationshipsHow childhood trauma and attachment wounds can influence adult relationshipsWhether anxious, avoidant, and insecure attachment styles can change over timeWhat research tells us about developing greater attachment security in adulthoodA simple healing step to help you identify and begin questioning an old relational expectation you may still be carrying from childhood_________________________________ 💌 Join the mailing list, where each week we dig deep into a topic not covered here and you’ll have first access to everything new. 🌐 Visit my website for info about working with me one-to-one or in groups: www.alecwilliamstherapy.co.uk ✉️ Get in touch: Contact - Alec Williams Therapy

Can you heal childhood trauma without forgiving the people who hurt you? In this episode of The Healing Childhood Trauma Podcast, we explore whether forgiveness is actually necessary for childhood trauma healing. We look at why forgiveness can feel deeply freeing for some people, why allowing anger and resentment may sometimes play an important role in trauma healing, and whether it’s possible to recover from childhood wounds without ever forgiving the person responsible. We’ll explore the difference between forgiveness, acceptance and reconciliation, why letting go doesn’t necessarily mean saying what happened was okay, and how boundaries, grief, anger and self-compassion can for some, all form part of the healing process. By the end of this episode, you'll be able to: Understand the difference between forgiveness, acceptance and reconciliation Consider whether you can let go and move forward without forgiving Reflect on what forgiveness - or choosing not to forgive - means for your own healing process Explore what it might mean to become free from the past without minimising what happened. If you’re working through the effects of childhood trauma in adulthood and wondering whether you need to forgive in order to move forward, this episode is for you. _________________________________ 💌 Join the mailing list, where each week we dig deep into a topic not covered here and you’ll have first access to everything new. 🌐 Visit my website for info about working with me one-to-one or in groups: www.alecwilliamstherapy.co.uk ✉️ Get in touch: Contact - Alec Williams Therapy

What if healing from childhood trauma isn’t about becoming a new and improved version of yourself, but finding your way back to who you were all along? Childhood trauma can shape the way we think, feel and behave. Over time, protective responses such as people-pleasing, perfectionism or hiding our needs can become so familiar that we may begin to lose touch with parts of our natural selves. In this episode of the Healing Childhood Trauma Podcast, we explore how early trauma can affect our identity, why authentic parts of ourselves can get pushed into the background, and how we can allow those parts to gradually emerge again. We’ll explore ideas from trauma therapy around the True Self, authenticity and attachment, and look at what childhood trauma healing can mean in practice. Because perhaps healing isn’t always about becoming someone different. Sometimes, it’s about creating the conditions to become more fully yourself. _________________________________ 🌐 Visit my website: www.alecwilliamstherapy.co.uk ✉️ Get in touch: Contact - Alec Williams Therapy

In this episode of the Healing Childhood Trauma Podcast, we explore why grief is such an important part of the healing process. You'll learn how childhood trauma in adulthood can show up as sadness, anger, resentment, anxiety, or emotional triggers, why these feelings often reappear at different stages of life, and how acknowledging your losses can become a powerful step towards healing childhood wounds. Drawing on attachment theory, developmental trauma, and trauma therapy, we discuss why grieving doesn't mean you're stuck in the past. Instead, it can help you move from survival mode towards healing, secure attachment, healthier adult relationships, and greater fulfilment. In this episode, you'll learn: Why grief is a natural response to childhood traumaHow unmet childhood needs continue to affect adulthoodWhy grief can resurface throughout the healing journeyThe difference between processing grief and staying stuck in the pastA simple reflective exercise to support your healing and self-awareness Whether you're beginning to recover from childhood trauma or are already well into your healing journey, this episode offers compassionate, evidence-based insights to help you better understand yourself and move forward with hope. _________________________________ If today's episode resonated with you, start here: 💌 Join the mailing list, where each week we dig deep into a topic not covered here and you’ll have first access to everything new. 🌐 Visit my website for info about working with me one-to-one or in groups: www.alecwilliamstherapy.co.uk ✉️ Get in touch: Contact - Alec Williams Therapy

In this episode of the Healing Childhood Trauma Podcast, we explore one of the most overlooked forms of childhood trauma: neglect. We'll unpack the research that has transformed our understanding of childhood trauma, including a landmark review that challenged the idea that neglect is somehow "less serious" than other forms of childhood maltreatment. You'll discover how childhood neglect can affect the developing brain, nervous system, attachment, relationships, and sense of self, and why so many adults struggle with anxiety, low self-worth, emotional dysregulation, relationship difficulties, and other trauma symptoms despite believing they had a "good" or "normal" childhood. Whether you're trying to understand the effects of childhood trauma, make sense of your own experiences, or begin your healing journey, this episode offers a compassionate, evidence-based perspective on why what didn't happen in childhood can sometimes be just as significant as what did. In this episode, you'll learn: Why childhood emotional neglect is often so difficult to recognise.What the research tells us about the long-term effects of childhood neglect. How unmet emotional needs can shape your mental health, relationships, attachment style, and self-worth in adulthood.Why understanding your childhood experiences can help you make sense of anxiety, relationship difficulties, and other signs of childhood trauma in adults.A practical healing reflection to help you begin connecting the dots between your childhood experiences and your life today. Link to study: https://journals.plos.org/plosmedicine/article?id=10.1371%2Fjournal.pmed.1001349&utm _________________________________ If today's episode resonated with you, start here: 💌 Join the mailing list, where each week we dig deep into a topic not covered here and you’ll have first access to everything new. 🌐 Visit my website for info about working with me one-to-one or in groups: www.alecwilliamstherapy.co.uk ✉️ Get in touch: Contact - Alec Williams Therapy

In this episode of the Healing Childhood Trauma Podcast, we explore how developmental trauma and childhood wounds shape the way we see ourselves, and why self-blame can persist long into adulthood. You'll learn how these unconscious beliefs influence your emotional triggers, relationships, confidence, and inner critic, as well as practical ways to begin questioning and healing them. We'll explore: Why children often learn to blame themselves after trauma, abuse, or neglect.How childhood experiences shape core beliefs that continue into adulthood.The role of attachment, survival, and protective adaptations in self-blame.Why the younger parts of us often continue carrying these beliefs.Practical first steps towards childhood trauma healing and trauma healing.Whether you're beginning your healing journey, exploring self healing childhood trauma, or trying to understand how your past continues to affect your present, this episode offers an evidence-based, compassionate guide to one of the most powerful beliefs trauma can leave behind. Topics covered include: childhood trauma, childhood trauma in adulthood, developmental trauma, childhood trauma healing, trauma responses, emotional triggers, inner critic, attachment wounds, healing childhood trauma, self-blame, shame, and core beliefs. _________________________________ If today's episode resonated with you, start here: 💌 Join the mailing list, where each week we dig deep into a topic not covered here and you’ll have first access to everything new. 🌐 Visit my website for info about working with me one-to-one or in groups: www.alecwilliamstherapy.co.uk ✉️ Get in touch: Contact - Alec Williams Therapy

In this episode of The Healing Childhood Trauma Podcast, psychotherapist and childhood trauma specialist Alec Williams explores how our earliest relationships shape the way we connect with others throughout adult life. You'll learn: What attachment theory is and why it mattersThe four attachment styles: secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganised attachmentHow childhood trauma, neglect, abuse, and inconsistent caregiving influence attachment patternsWhy these survival strategies continue into adulthoodHow attachment styles affect relationships, emotional regulation, trust, intimacy, and feelings of safetyWhy your attachment style is not your destiny - and how healing is possible Topics covered: childhood trauma, attachment styles, attachment trauma, anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, disorganised attachment, secure attachment, developmental trauma, nervous system regulation, relationship trauma, emotional healing, trauma recovery, healing childhood wounds, and childhood trauma in adulthood. _________________________________ If today's episode resonated with you, start here: 💌 Join the mailing list, where each week we dig deep into a topic not covered here and you’ll have first access to everything new. 🌐 Visit my website for info about working with me one-to-one or in groups: www.alecwilliamstherapy.co.uk ✉️ Get in touch: Contact - Alec Williams Therapy