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Long Game: a Heated Rivalry Podcast

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41 episodes
Language
English
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Date created
2025/12/22
Latest episode
2026/10/04
Average duration
70 min.
Release period
7 days

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Long Game: A Heated Rivalry Podcast is a re-watch and deep-dive podcast dedicated to Heated Rivalry, hosted by Declan and Silvan. In each episode, we revisit key moments across the series, unpacking the slow-burn tension, character development, and emotional beats that make the heated rivalry world so compelling. Through thoughtful discussion, close reading, and a fan-informed lens, we explore themes of competition, intimacy, identity, and growth over time, celebrating not just the heat of the rivalry, but the long game it takes to truly understand these characters and their relationship. New episodes published every Sunday

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Book Club Review: Common Goal Part 1: Happy for Now?
2026/10/04
Declan is joined by Kirsty from the Book Hashira as we move on to Common Goal, the fourth instalment in Rachel Reid’s Game Changers series. This is one of the most divisive books. In Part One, we dive into Eric and Kyle’s relationship and ask whether their romance really feels like a happily-ever-after, or whether “happy for now” might be a better fit.  We explore the book’s significant age gap, Eric’s anxieties about retirement and getting older, and whether the story misses an opportunity to dig deeper into what leaving professional hockey might mean for someone whose life has revolved around the sport. We also unpack Kyle’s lingering feelings for Kip, his difficult past and the unresolved questions surrounding what happened to him at 18. We discuss if Common Goalgives Kyle enough space to work through his own story, and if we are we actually convinced that he wants Eric more than he ever wanted Kip? There’s plenty of discussion about third-act breakups, miscommunication, the evolution of Rachel Reid’s writing across the series, why alot of poeple love Role Model and how Ilya continues his unofficial second career as the Game Changers resident lurker, matchmaker and dispenser of unsolicited relationship advice. Find Kirsty: Instagram: thebookhashira_ Long Game Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/LongGamePodcast?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCC Find us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.pod Write to us: [email protected] Find Declan:  Instagram: declan712 Tiktok: declanmccallion1 Find Silvan: Instagram: Silvates Tiktok: silvates1 Listen to the Podcast on: Apple podcast:  Spotify  Amazon podcast:  Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/VrffkZ_Eix0 Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast on mental health and wellbeing here: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697 hashta Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Common Goal and the Game Changer Series 02:19 Character Development and Themes in Common Goal 05:08 Comparative Analysis of the Game Changer Series 08:18 Standout Characters and Their Arcs 10:22 The Complexity of Eric's Character 13:06 The Third Act Breakup and Its Implications 14:36 Realism in Age Gap Romance 18:45 Power Dynamics in Age Gap Relationships 21:45 The Impact of Past Trauma on Characters 26:29 Unresolved Themes and Character Arcs 34:06 Character Development and Unresolved Threads 38:30 The Impact of Miscommunication in Relationships 42:37 Retirement and Its Emotional Toll 48:06 Unrequited Love as a Plot Device 54:33 Character Arcs and Redemption Themes
Long Game Conversations: Justin Stanek: The Reality of Being a Working Actor
2026/09/27
Silvan is joined by actor and musician Justin Stanek for a conversation about acting, music, Next Door and the reality of pursuing a creative career in Los Angeles. Justin takes us back to where it all began, from community theatre and an unexpected first commercial to packing up his life and moving across the country to LA. He opens up about the less glamorous side of being a working actor: endless auditions, day jobs, rejection, last-minute bookings and learning to confidently say, “I’m an actor.” Of course, we have to talked about River, his character from the Next Door. Justin shares the story of almost playing a completely different character in Next Door, his chemistry read with Nick, developing River with director Caroline Plyler, and why those lingering looks at Kit were absolutely intentional. We also get into the rapidly growing world of vertical filmmaking, what Justin thinks the format gets right, and wrong, and why he believes verticals aren't going anywhere.  We discuss Justin's love for music. We dive into musical theatre, songwriting, finding confidence in his own voice, his love of beautifully sad music, his dream of releasing original material and the musician he'd love to play in a biopic. Plus: Ben Platt, Rachel Zegler, The Last Five Years, Waitress, Phoebe Bridgers, a potentially lost Tori Kelly Vine and our campaign to get Caroline to make a boy-band movie. This was such a fun conversation about taking chances, finding your people and figuring out what kind of artist, and person, you want to be. The next episode of the Long Game podcast will be released on Sunday 27th September 2026. Find Justin: Instagram: justin_stanek TikTok: _jutty_ Long Game Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/LongGamePodcast?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCC Find us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.pod Write to us: [email protected] Find Declan:  Instagram: declan712 Tiktok: declanmccallion1 Find Silvan: Instagram: Silvates Tiktok: silvates1 Listen to the Podcast on: Apple podcast:  Spotify podcast:  Amazon podcast:  Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/g0NBXcO3wdY Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast on mental health and wellbeing here: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Justin Stanek 02:10 The Journey into Acting 05:03 Transitioning to LA Life 08:02 Family Support and Relationships 11:04 The Reality of Being an Actor 14:15 Auditioning and Resilience 17:04 Booking Roles and Project Selection 19:39 Behind the Scenes of Next Door 36:44 Exploring Vertical Filmmaking 40:28 Collaboration with Caroline and New Projects 44:23 Character Development in Next Door 53:11 The Impact of Vertical Filmmaking on the Industry 57:34 Navigating Social Media as an Actor 01:07:35 The Intersection of Music and Acting 01:10:46 Musical Theatre Memories 01:14:49 The Art of Songwriting 01:18:09 Musical Inspirations and Influences 01:24:33 Future Roles and Aspirations 01:30:23 Connecting with the Audience
Book Club Review: Tough Guy Part 2: Ryan & Fabian vs. Shane & Ilya
2026/09/20
Declan is joined with Jenn from The Book Refuge for Part 2 of our deep dive into Tough Guy by Rachel Reid. This time, we’re putting Ryan and Fabian to the ultimate test and discussing how they actually compare to Shane and Ilya? Declan and Jenn go head-to-head across everything that makes a romance work, including chemistry, emotional intelligence, romantic gestures, sex, conflict resolution and, ultimately, whether these couples are built for the long game. We get into why Tough Guy feels so different from Heated Rivalry, how Rachel Reid moves queerness away from being the central conflict, and why Ryan’s anxiety creates a very different kind of obstacle to love. We also unpack Fabian’s patience and occasional impulsiveness, Ryan’s quiet romantic streak, and why the intimacy between them might be one of the most important parts of their story. We discuss Shane and Ilya and which is the romatic one. Why are they so terrible at resolving conflict? And just how much of their relationship is actually communicated through sex? We have ratings, disagreements and Jenn may change Declan’s mind. The next episode of the Long Game podcast will be released on Sunday 27th September 2026. Find Jenn: Instagram: thebookrefuge18 Youtube: TheBookRefuge Patreon: https://l.instagram.com/?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.patreon.com%2Fthebookrefuge%3Futm_campaign%3Dcreatorshare_creator&e=AUDcHdy3h2tYt5j5YUAD8Re3PXU1crwrEij1q-82r98fN984taClIYwUaMLBoe1PQnXUsfy1kbJQXvs4wTt0GnLYX0NObFyxW6nlNS1UcBO3-FyOMD1ZLVw6643uo0WL8EueRlFiJe3shYKbyw Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/LongGamePodcast?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCC Find us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.pod Write to us: [email protected] Find Declan:  Instagram: declan712 Tiktok: declanmccallion1 Find Silvan: Instagram: Silvates Tiktok: silvates1 Listen to the Podcast on: Apple podcast:  Spotify podcast:  Amazon podcast:  Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/_rI4UEwRiR8 Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast on mental health and wellbeing here: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697
Heated Rivalry Book Review: Tough Guy: Part 1 - First Impressions
2026/09/13
Declan is joined by Jenn from The Book Refuge to dive into Tough Guy, the third book in Rachel Reid’s Game Changers series, and it’s quite the change of pace after Heated Rivalry. This time, we’re talking Ryan Price and Fabian Salah, two characters who couldn’t seem more different, but who might be exactly what the other needs. We unpack Ryan’s anxiety and complicated relationship with hockey, Fabian’s unapologetic confidence and queerness, and why their much slower journey towards intimacy makes their relationship feel so different from Shane and Ilya’s. We also get into the book’s exploration of toxic masculinity and hockey culture, the importance of friendship and support, Ryan’s experiences with performance anxiety, and the way Rachel Reid writes intimacy without making sex the end goal. Plus, we ask whether Fabian is always quite as understanding as he thinks he is, discuss why Wyatt might secretly be one of the best characters in the series, and inevitably find several excuses to talk about Shane and Ilya again. Is Tough Guy actually the best-written Game Changers book so far?  The next episode of the Long Game podcast will be released on Sunday 20th September 2026. Find Jenn: Instagram: thebookrefuge18 Youtube: TheBookRefuge Patreon: https://l.instagram.com/?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.patreon.com%2Fthebookrefuge%3Futm_campaign%3Dcreatorshare_creator&e=AUDcHdy3h2tYt5j5YUAD8Re3PXU1crwrEij1q-82r98fN984taClIYwUaMLBoe1PQnXUsfy1kbJQXvs4wTt0GnLYX0NObFyxW6nlNS1UcBO3-FyOMD1ZLVw6643uo0WL8EueRlFiJe3shYKbyw Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/LongGamePodcast?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCC Find us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.pod Write to us: [email protected] Find Declan:  Instagram: declan712 Tiktok: declanmccallion1 Find Silvan: Instagram: Silvates Tiktok: silvates1 Listen to the Podcast on: Apple podcast:  Spotify podcast:  Amazon podcast:  Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/S22mVMWG5JA Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast on mental health and wellbeing here: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697 00:00 Introduction to Tough Guy and the Series 02:15 Character Dynamics and Emotional Connections 05:18 Themes of Mental Health and Anxiety 08:09 Exploring Hockey Culture and Masculinity 10:03 Ryan and Fabian: A New Kind of Relationship 13:05 The Role of Support Systems in Mental Health 16:08 Fabian: The Antithesis of Traditional Masculinity 19:04 Concluding Thoughts on Character Growth and Relationships 26:59 Exploring Representation in MM Romance 30:10 Feminine Characters and Their Importance 34:44 Diversity in Character Types 38:00 The Complexity of Relationships 41:41 Character Flaws and Growth 47:50 Missed Opportunities for Character Development 52:27 Character Development and Relationship Dynamics 55:00 Exploring Career Choices and Personal Growth 58:38 Navigating Sexual Performance Anxiety 01:06:51 The Complexity of Identity and Relationships
Alex Cross: The Story Behind Echoes of Us & Becoming Us
2026/09/06
Declan and Silvan are joined by author Alex Cross, creator of Echoes of Us, Becoming Us, When We Ignite and From Our Ashes. Alex takes us right back to the beginning of her writing journey, from growing up as a chronic daydreamer and discovering fanfiction, to writing her first novel on her phone while nap-trapped with her daughter. We talk about the leap from fanfiction to publishing, learning the industry as she went, and why releasing Echoes of Us was such an unexpectedly emotional experience. Of course, we get into Atticus and Noah. Alex opens up about creating the complicated relationship at the heart of Echoes of Us and Becoming Us, why forgiveness and second chances provoke such strong reactions from readers, and her decision to portray addiction, recovery and grief with all of their messiness. She also shares just how deeply she inhabits her characters while writing, and why sometimes stepping back out of their world can be harder than expected. We also talk about the huge role music plays in her writing, the songs that define Atty and Noah, finding the perfect voices for the audiobooks, her love of dark romance, and the characters who have completely ignored her plans and seemingly written themselves. Alex gives us an early glimpse at what’s coming next, Between Here y alla, her upcoming Spanglish MM romance featuring a Colombian main character, Latin culture, plenty of Bad Bunny and a story she describes as a very, very long book. Plus, somehow we end up discussing brownies, Basque cheesecake, ‘la chancla’ and why being a professional chef doesn’t necessarily mean you want to cook at home. Spoiler warning: This episode contains significant discussion of Echoes of Us and Becoming Us, including major plot points. The next episode of the Long Game podcast will be released on Sunday 13th September 2026. Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/LongGamePodcast?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCC Find us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.pod Write to us: [email protected] Find Alex on: Her website: www.alexcrossauthor.com/ instagram: alexcrossauthor Tiktok: alexcrossauthor Find Declan:  Instagram: declan712 Tiktok: declanmccallion1 Find Silvan: Instagram: Silvates Tiktok: silvates1 Listen to the Podcast on: Apple podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/long-game-a-heated-rivalry-podcast/id1863459680?i=1000786733601 Spotify podcast:  Amazon podcast:  Watch it on youtube:  Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast on mental health and wellbeing here: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697 Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:30 Alex Cross: The Journey to Writing 02:37 The Impact of Dyslexia and ADHD on Writing 05:54 Transitioning from Fanfiction to Original Works 08:29 The Emotional Rollercoaster of Publishing 11:39 Character Development and Reader Reactions 14:37 Exploring Themes of Forgiveness and Healing 17:28 Content Warnings and Revisions 20:41 The Importance of Realism in Writing 23:20 Mental Health and Writing Process 32:41 The Emotional Toll of Writing 36:12 Method Acting in Writing 40:52 Balancing Writing and Family Life 45:15 Reader Interpretations and Author Intentions 50:24 The Realism of Addiction and Recovery 56:45 Resilience in Character Development 58:36 Character Connections and Personal Reflections 01:04:32 The Role of Music in Storytelling 01:13:40 The Audiobook Experience 01:15:45 Exploring New Genres 01:17:53 The Dark Romance Trend 01:21:31 Teasing the Next Book 01:26:34 Cultural Representation in Writing 01:35:30 Engaging with Fans on Social Media 01:39:53 Using Platforms for Advocacy 01:41:55 Where to Find Alex Cross
Heated Rivalry Book Review: Part 14 - Bonus Chapter: My Dinner with Hayden
2026/08/30
Just when you thought we we were finished with Heated Rivalry, Rachel Reid has one more dinner waiting for us. In Part 14, Declan and Silvan dive into the bonus chapter, My Dinner with Hayden, as Shane and Ilya attempt something arguably more challenging than professional hockey, namely hosting Hayden and Jackie for a civilised dinner party. We unpack the tension between Ilya and Hayden, Ilya’s surprising talent as a host, and whether this fan-favourite bonus chapter actually adds anything to the story. We also take a closer look at Hayden’s reaction to discovering Shane and Ilya’s relationship, the pressure Shane feels to keep their love hidden, and why Ilya seems increasingly ready to stop hiding altogether. And, of course, we need to talk about the sex scene, including a few lines that gave us the ick, what the chapter says about trust and safer sex, and why its final moments might actually provide a more fitting ending to Heated Rivalry than the original final chapter. Plus, we discuss the women of the Game Changers universe, the missed opportunity with Jackie, and where we’re heading next as we finally say goodbye to Heated Rivalry (for now) and prepare to meet Ryan and Fabian in Tough Guy. The next episode of the Long Game podcast will be released on Sunday 6th September 2026. Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/LongGamePodcast?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCC Find us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.pod Write to us: [email protected] Find Declan:  Instagram: declan712 Tiktok: declanmccallion1 Find Silvan: Instagram: Silvates Tiktok: silvates1 Listen to the Podcast on: Apple podcast:  Spotify podcast:  Amazon podcast:  Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/0peXxjKP0pg Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast on mental health and wellbeing here: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to 'My Dinner with Hayden' 01:52 Exploring the Timeline Confusion 04:56 Character Dynamics and Dinner Party Tensions 07:50 The Role of Female Characters 10:56 Hayden's Perspective on Shane's Coming Out 13:33 The Weight of Secrecy in Relationships 16:43 Contradictions in Character Development 31:07 Ilya's Readiness vs. Shane's Fear 33:41 The Complexity of Love and Career 37:33 Metamorphosis: Ilya's Transformation 37:56 Exploring the Sex Scene 43:49 The Shift in Safe Sex Practices 48:58 Contrasting Endings: A Reflection on Growth 52:19 Looking Ahead: The Future of the Series
Heated Rivalry Book Review: Part 13 - The End of Heated Rivalry
2026/08/23
Declan and Silvan make it to the end of Heated Rivalry, but does Shane and Ilya’s story get the ending it deserves? In Part 13, we dive into Chapter 27 and the epilogue, as Shane and Ilya begin to imagine what a future together might actually look like. We explore Ilya’s changing idea of “home,” the significance of Shane finally letting him further into his life, a semi-proposal disguised as a joke, and why the possibility of keeping their relationship secret for another ten years already feels impossible. We also compare the book’s ending with the TV adaptation, including what the show adds to Shane’s relationship with his family and if the final chapter left us wanting something more. Does the epilogue provide the emotional payoff the book needs? And is Heated Rivalry really a complete story, or does it only fully work when viewed alongside The Long Game? We are definitely not finished with Shane and Ilya, or the Game Changers series. The next episode of the Long Game podcast will be released on Sunday 30th August 2026. Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCC Find us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.pod Write to us: [email protected] Find Declan:  Instagram: declan712 Tiktok: declanmccallion1 Find Silvan: Instagram: Silvates Tiktok: silvates1 Listen to the Podcast on: Apple podcast:  Spotify podcast:  Amazon podcast:  Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/C7Y2Qtgn2dc Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697 chapters 00:00 Introduction to Heated Rivalry and Chapter 27 Overview 02:14 Exploring the Emotional Core of the Story 05:09 Themes of Home and Belonging 07:48 The Symbolism of Water and Vodka 09:42 Humor and Affection in Relationships 12:27 Reflections on the Book's Conclusion and Epilogue 22:17 The Role of the Epilogue in Storytelling 23:40 Emotional Arcs and Character Development 25:18 The Importance of Character Perspectives 28:52 Public Perception and Relationship Dynamics 30:40 The Challenges of Keeping Secrets in Relationships 33:18 Future Aspirations and Relationship Goals 37:08 Contrasting Endings: Satisfaction and Expectations 41:21 The Role of Charity in Character Development 44:10 Concluding Thoughts on the Book and Future Directions
Heated Rivalry Book Review: Part 12 - Getting Caught
2026/08/16
Declan and Silvan finally reached that chapter. In Part 12 of our Heated Rivalry deep dive, we tackle Chapter 26, and despite our best intentions, manage to spend an entire episode on just one chapter. We start with the newly announced Season 2 casting and the conversation surrounding Harris, body representation and the expectations fans bring to adaptations. Then it’s back to the cottage, where Shane and Ilya are happier, more open and more in love than we’ve seen them before. Right up until David catches them together on the dock. We unpack how differently this pivotal moment plays out in the book and TV series, why the adaptation gives Shane’s reaction so much more emotional weight, and what it means for him to have his choice about coming out suddenly taken away. We also look at Shane’s parents’ reaction, Ilya being introduced as his “lover”, the importance of Scott Hunter’s story, and the beautifully understated moment when Shane finally gets to call Ilya his boyfriend. We discuss Rachel Reid’s growth as a writer, whether Ilya fell in love first, Shane’s relationship with control, queer relationships moving fast, why you should never abandon your friends for a new partner, and whether Declan should read The Count of Monte Cristo live on TikTok. One chapter. One hour. We regret nothing. The next episode of the Long Game podcast will be released on Sunday 23rd August 2026. Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCC Find us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.pod Write to us: [email protected] Find Declan:  Instagram: declan712 Tiktok: declanmccallion1 Find Silvan: Instagram: Silvates Tiktok: silvates1 Listen to the Podcast on: Apple podcast:  Spotify podcast:  Amazon podcast:  Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/3ls4YLinsgE Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697 Chapters 00:00 Casting Controversies and Expectations 06:17 Character Development and Writing Style 17:38 Comparative Analysis of Prose and Characterization 24:04 Contrasting Lifestyles: Ilya vs. Shane 25:27 Exploring Voyeurism and Risk in Relationships 27:56 The Sweetness of Love: Building Emotional Connections 29:38 The Impact of Being Caught: A Turning Point 31:07 Passive Protagonists: The Need for Action in Relationships 33:23 The Struggle for Control: Coming Out and Acceptance 34:41 Humor vs. Tension: Different Reactions to Stress 37:50 Validation and Growth: The Importance of Support 39:45 Parental Perspectives: How Families View Relationships 43:15 Character Perception: Ilya Through the Eyes of Others 46:14 Naming Relationships: The Significance of 'Lovers' 49:19 The Nature of Love and Attraction 51:45 Character Dynamics and Relationships 54:58 Parental Perspectives and Emotional Awareness 57:56 The Importance of Communication 01:02:16 Navigating Change and Personal Growth 01:05:32 Inspiration and Bravery in Relationships 01:07:44 The Rush of New Love 01:10:19 Support and Understanding in Relationships
Scarlett Drake on Writing Oleander: Behind the MM Romance Phenomenon
2026/08/09
Declan and Silvan are joined by one of the most talked-about voices in MM romance. In this special interview, we're joined by bestselling author Scarlett Drake to discuss the phenomenal success of Oleander, her haunting queer reimagining of Great Expectations.  Scarlett shares the twelve-year journey that took her from posting fanfiction on Wattpad to becoming one of the genre's most celebrated independent authors, and how self-publishing changed her life. We take a deep dive into Oleander, exploring the inspiration behind the novel, its gothic atmosphere, the symbolism of the title, and the complex relationship between Jude and Cas. Scarlett opens up about writing morally complicated characters, depicting trauma responsibly, and why she believes Cass deserves empathy despite his flaws. We also discuss readers' divided reactions to the ending, the challenges of adapting classic stories for a modern queer audience, and the lasting influence of The Song of Achilles and A Little Life. Scarlett also gives us an exciting first look at her next project: a dark, gothic MM retelling of a popular classic. We chat about her writing process, visualising scenes like films, balancing creativity with a day job, and her advice for aspiring authors hoping to publish their own stories. There may be some spoilers when discussing the characters, so join us for a insightful conversation with Scarlett.  The next episode of the Long Game podcast will be released on Sunday 16th August 2026. Find Scarlett: Insta: https://www.instagram.com/scarlettedrake?utm_source=qr Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/scarlettedrake?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator Amazon: https://www.amazon.co.uk/stores/Scarlett-Drake/author/B09C6HH6FC?_encoding=UTF8&ref=ap_rdr&shoppingPortalEnabled=true Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCC Find us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.pod Write to us: [email protected] Find Declan:  Instagram: declan712 Tiktok: declanmccallion1 Find Silvan: Instagram: Silvates Tiktok: silvates1 Listen to the Podcast on: Apple podcast:  Spotify podcast:  Amazon podcast:  Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/Z73ROmlKrlU Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697
Heated Rivalry Book Review: Part 11 - The infamous BJ
2026/08/02
Declan and Silvan break down the Heated Rivalry book review in part 11. We dive into one of the most talked-about chapters and it is every bit as steamy as its reputation suggests. We explore how Rachel Reid balances intimacy with emotional depth, discussing why these scenes feel so much more than just spice. From playful video game rivalry and unforgettable chemistry to conversations about consent, vulnerability and communication, we unpack what makes this chapter such a turning point for Shane and Ilya. We also compare the book with the TV adaptation, looking at the emotional weight behind Ilya's fears, Shane's growing certainty, and the subtle differences that completely change how key moments land. Along the way, we discuss masculinity, queer relationships, hookup culture, and why Rachel Reid's writing continues to evolve as the novel progresses. We reach one of the most emotional milestones in the entire story as Shane and Ilya finally say the words readers have been waiting years to hear. We break down the meaning behind their confession, the heartbreaking conversation about Ilya's mother, and why this chapter perfectly captures the blend of humour, tenderness and emotional honesty. The next episode of the Long Game podcast will be released on Sunday 9th August 2026. Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCC Find us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.pod Write to us: [email protected] Find Declan:  Instagram: declan712 Tiktok: declanmccallion1 Find Silvan: Instagram: Silvates Tiktok: silvates1 Listen to the Podcast on: Apple podcast:  Spotify podcast:  Amazon podcast:  Watch it on youtube:  Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Heated Rivalry Book Review 01:27 Exploring Emotional and Physical Intimacy 04:58 The Importance of Shared Interests in Relationships 08:22 The Evolution of Writing in Heated Rivalry 12:11 Consent and Communication in Intimate Relationships 16:11 The Dynamics of Hookup Culture 19:12 Character Depth and Self-Perception 21:17 Navigating Emotional Vulnerability 25:02 Conclusion and Final Thoughts 30:12 The Butterfly Effect in Drafting Decisions 34:41 Family Dynamics and Their Impact 38:33 Testing Boundaries in Relationships 45:01 Confessions of Love and Vulnerability 52:02 Humor and Intimacy in Relationships 53:06 Creating Meaningful Connections Through Charity
Heated Rivalry Book Review: Part 10 - Eight Burgers, One Loon & One Huge Revelation (Chapter 24)
2026/07/26
Declan and Silvan are at The Cottage in Part 10 of our Heated Rivalry book review. We unpack one of the funniest chapters in the novel, from eight burgers and "stupid Canadian wolfbird" to the effortless comedy Rachel Reid gives Ilya throughout these scenes. Beneath the laughter lies one of the book's most important emotional turning points. We explore Shane's hesitation about coming out, what it means for Ilya to feel like a secret and how Rachel Reid captures the complicated balance between love, fear and vulnerability. We also compare these moments with Jacob Tierney's television adaptation, discussing why certain scenes feel even more powerful on screen and how subtle changes in body language transform the emotional impact. The conversation also dives into Ilya's lifelong role as a caretaker, the heartbreaking story of his mother, and why we found ourselves wanting even more of his perspective during these pivotal moments. Along the way, we debate whether Heated Rivalry is ultimately Shane's story or whether Ilya deserves more narrative space. Plus, we share our thoughts after our first Belfast listener meetup and thank everyone who came along to make it such a memorable day. The next episode of the Long Game podcast will be released on Sunday 2nd August 2026. Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCC Find us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.pod Write to us: [email protected] Find Declan:  Instagram: declan712 Tiktok: declanmccallion1 Find Silvan: Instagram: Silvates Tiktok: silvates1 Listen to the Podcast on: Apple podcast:  Spotify podcast:  Amazon podcast:  Watch it on youtube:  Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Cottage Chapter 02:31 Humor and Levity in the Story 05:10 Adaptation Insights: Book vs. TV Show 08:11 Creative Trust in Adaptations 09:25 Superhero Fatigue and Audience Expectations 09:44 The Need for Quality LGBTQ+ Stories 10:34 Character Dynamics: Shane and Ilya 10:46 Exploring Shane's Internal Struggles 13:44 The Impact of Micro-Rejections 16:29 Ilya's Caretaking Role and Its Consequences 24:33 The Caretaker Role of Ilya 27:13 Contrasting Upbringings: Ilya vs. Shane 30:15 Character Development: The Evolution of Shane 35:00 Emotional Intimacy vs. Physical Connection 39:18 Navigating Grief and Vulnerability 43:55 The Balance of Humor and Seriousness 47:58 The Writer's Responsibility: Depth in Storytelling 57:29 Community Connection: Reflections on the Meetup
Heated Rivalry Book Review: Part 9 - Rimmedgate
2026/07/19
Declan and Silvan break down the start of Shane and Ilya’s cottage escape in Part 9 of our Heated Rivary Book review. This week we are joined by Bri, who is a long-time listener of the podcast. Together, we explore why this chapter feels like such a turning point in their relationship, from the emotional significance of Shane inviting Ilya into his most personal space to the honesty, vulnerability and quiet intimacy that begin to replace years of secrecy.  We also discuss Scott Hunter's impact on Shane and Ilya's future, the differences between Rachel Reid's novel and the TV adaptation, and why the later chapters of Heated Rivalry showcase some of Reid's strongest writing. As always, the conversation takes plenty of unexpected detours, including nostalgic pop culture references, discussions about Rachel Reid's brilliant blend of romance, humour and spice and one surprisingly passionate debate that inspired the title of the podcasrt episode. This has us questioning whether one particular scene in the book is actually believable. Vote for the podcast at the British Podcasting Awards - Listener’s choice here: https://www.britishpodcastawards.com/voting?fbclid=IwcGRvZgNmZGlkFlCkmoMrnAekl9q_Oiq5pW6ccq4aTDBleHRuA2FlbQEwAGFkaWQBqzYyDxIeMXNydGMGYXBwX2lkCjY2Mjg1NjgzNzkAAR6krBNj0vQ0HQJgGsYBmJQII6iHsj-9a3oWRYbYE6c90gTbrJOT84ROk3cl7g_aem_Iv3xITo7m3Dit1c_OhL32w&utm_medium=paid&utm_source=fb&utm_id=120249403576740433&utm_content=120249403588300433&utm_term=120249403577610433&utm_campaign=120249403576740433 The next episode of the Long Game podcast will be released on Sunday 26th July 2026. Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCC Find us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.pod Write to us: [email protected] Find Declan:  Instagram: declan712 Tiktok: declanmccallion1 Find Silvan: Instagram: Silvates Tiktok: silvates1 Listen to the Podcast on: Apple podcast:  Spotify podcast:  Amazon podcast:  Watch it on youtube:  Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697 Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 01:31 Discussion of Chapter 23 Overview 03:33 Character Development and Dialogue Analysis 07:45 Exploring Relationship Dynamics 11:11 Significance of Ilya's Commitment 14:50 Self-Defense Mechanisms in Relationships 18:17 Shane's Character and Hockey Obsession 21:00 Contextualizing Scott and Kip's Relationship 23:22 Ilya's Bravery and Public Persona 26:33 Exploring Racy Scenes in the Chapter 27:27 Evolving Relationships: Intimacy and Humor 31:58 Exploring Sexual Dynamics in MM Romance 41:10 Symbolism of the Cottage: A Reflection of Self 45:50 Emotional Intimacy: The Journey of Connection
Heated Rivalry Book Review: Part 8 - I’m coming to the Cottage
2026/07/12
Declan and Silvan dive into Part 8 of the Heated Rivalry book review. We explore how Rachel Reid uses crisis as the catalyst for emotional growth in Shane’s injury. We compare the novel with the TV adaptation, unpack why Shane and Ilya react so differently in each version, and discuss the psychology behind fear, avoidance, and the moment Ilya realises he cannot walk away. As always, we go off on a few tangents, like why third-act breakups frustrate us, whether redemption after cheating can ever work in romance, and how therapists naturally gravitate towards different characters. We also reflect on why finding the right therapist matters, how sensory memories shape our emotions, and why Shane's relationship with hockey changes as his life evolves. We finally reach one of the most iconic moments in the series, Scott and Kip's iconic kiss. We talk about why this scene carries so much emotional weight, what it means for Shane and Ilya's future, and why a single act of courage can create hope for everyone who follows. Vote for the podcast at the British Podcasting Awards - Listener’s choice here: https://www.britishpodcastawards.com/voting?fbclid=IwcGRvZgNmZGlkFlCkmoMrnAekl9q_Oiq5pW6ccq4aTDBleHRuA2FlbQEwAGFkaWQBqzYyDxIeMXNydGMGYXBwX2lkCjY2Mjg1NjgzNzkAAR6krBNj0vQ0HQJgGsYBmJQII6iHsj-9a3oWRYbYE6c90gTbrJOT84ROk3cl7g_aem_Iv3xITo7m3Dit1c_OhL32w&utm_medium=paid&utm_source=fb&utm_id=120249403576740433&utm_content=120249403588300433&utm_term=120249403577610433&utm_campaign=120249403576740433 The next episode of the Long Game podcast will be released on Sunday 19th July 2026. Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCC Find us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.pod Write to us: [email protected] Find Declan:  Instagram: declan712 Tiktok: declanmccallion1 Find Silvan: Instagram: Silvates Tiktok: silvates1 Listen to the Podcast on: Apple podcast:  Spotify podcast:  Amazon podcast:  Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/gN7qrF8-by8 Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Heated Rivalry Podcast 01:44 Character Development and Emotional Conflicts 06:47 Plot Devices in MM Romance 10:43 The Impact of Cheating in Romance 15:51 Shane's Injury: Book vs. TV Show 18:41 Therapeutic Perspectives on Characters 25:50 Concluding Thoughts on Relationships and Conflict 26:16 The Complexity of Relationships 30:44 Catalysts for Change 34:38 Growth Through Time 38:25 The Power of Touch 46:12 Doubts and Fears 54:26 Hope and Sacrifice
Heated Rivalry Book Review: Part 7 - Shane’s glasses and the skype call
2026/07/05
Declan and Silvan go deeper into our Heated Rivalry deep dive in Part 7. We unpack one of the novel's most intimate and emotionally revealing chapters. What begins with a simple Skype call quickly becomes something far more significant, as Shane and Ilya move beyond physical attraction into a longing for domesticity, comfort, and a shared everyday life. We explore why Shane's glasses become such an unexpectedly powerful symbol, the psychology behind long-distance relationships, love languages, and the growing emotional vulnerability between two men who are trying desperately not to fall in love. We also compare Rachel Reid's novel with the TV adaptation, discussing Ilya's relationship with his father, complicated grief, and why the show adds new emotional layers to his character. We debate whether Shane's past experiences with other men strengthen or weaken the story, examine the subtle dom/sub dynamic developing between the pair, and ask what it really means to crave someone's presence more than their body. The conversation drifts into pop culture, internet boyfriends, glasses becoming unexpectedly attractive, and why being someone's weighted blanket might just be the ultimate love language. This is the quiet calm before everything changes. Request our meet up details on 19th July in Belfast here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfgNJIFlK10E3J7vjhrvgP6t6UFhcBfS0lqNVHyaTRFWL57XA/viewform?usp=publish-editor The next episode of the Long Game podcast will be released on Sunday 12th July 2026. Listen to the Grief episode from Silvan’s Podcast he references:  Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495?i=1000611164149 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/57DNPWy7iSvLKeeWcmJrsd Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCC Find us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.pod Write to us: [email protected] Find Declan:  Instagram: declan712 Tiktok: declanmccallion1 Find Silvan: Instagram: Silvates Tiktok: silvates1 Listen to the Podcast on: Apple podcast:  Spotify podcast:  Amazon podcast:  Watch it on youtube:  Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697 Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Event Announcement 01:01 Chapter 20: The Significance of Glasses 10:54 Ilya's Family Obligations and Grief 18:34 Intimacy and Vulnerability in Relationships 28:06 Exploring Control and Trust in Relationships 29:40 Navigating Long-Distance Relationships 32:55 The Complexity of Emotional Connections 35:10 Understanding Love Languages 43:24 Character Backstories and Their Impact 49:01 The Realities of Romance vs. Fiction 54:13 The Sweetness of Longing and Love #podcast #podcastclips #heatedrivalryedit #silvates #connorstorrie #hudsonwilliams #shortsfeed #shortreels #silvates #mmromance #mlm #heatedrivalry  #gamechangernovel #heatedrivalrybook #bookclub
Heated Rivalry Book Review: Part 6 - Coming out
2026/06/28
Declan and Silvan unpack Part 6 of the Heated Rivalry novel. Here, Shane finally says the words he's spent years avoiding, and everything between him and Ilya begins to change. We examine one of the novel's biggest emotional turning points as Shane comes out to Ilya, leading to a conversation that's surprisingly understated and deeply significant. We explore why Rachel Reid's character writing feels so authentic, how the TV adaptation chooses what to keep (and what to reinvent), and why this moment marks a new stage in Shane and Ilya's relationship. We also dive into Ilya's devastating family story, discussing the quiet reveal of his mother's death, his father's Alzheimer's, and how grief, trauma and emotional masking shape the person he becomes. Along the way we compare the novel with the TV series, debate Jacob Tierney's adaptation choices, and explain why Connor Storrie's unforgettable Russian monologue may be one of the show's finest moments. Request our meet up details on 19th July in Belfast here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfgNJIFlK10E3J7vjhrvgP6t6UFhcBfS0lqNVHyaTRFWL57XA/viewform?usp=publish-editor The next episode of the Long Game podcast will be released on Sunday 5th July 2026. Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCC Find us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.pod Write to us: [email protected] Find Declan:  Instagram: declan712 Tiktok: declanmccallion1 Find Silvan: Instagram: Silvates Tiktok: silvates1 Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/JadlJGRj9JQ Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Chapter 17 01:40 Shane's Coming Out Moment 09:24 Character Dynamics and Adaptation 14:25 Exploring Emotional Responses 24:18 The Impact of Grief and Loss 39:18 Navigating Grief and Emotional Defense Mechanisms 41:19 Shifting Tones: From Heavy to Light 42:10 Exploring Intimacy and Vulnerability 44:28 Understanding Complex Relationships 47:11 Proactive Communication in Relationships 49:35 The Complexity of Family Dynamics 51:15 The Absence of Monologues: A Narrative Choice 54:17 The Emotional Weight of Unexpressed Feelings 58:51 Cultural Identity and Language Barriers 01:02:42 The Struggle for Love and Acceptance 01:04:33 Intimacy Through Shared Spaces 01:08:37 The Obsession with Winning vs. Love 01:11:43 The Fear of Losing Someone 01:14:24 Taking Action in Relationships 01:14:43 Missed Opportunities in Narrative

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4.9 out of 5
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★★★★★
Bdan32 2026/09/04
Thank you
This has quickly became a favorite! Really enjoy the honesty and due-diligence. Please don’t spend thirteen episodes on every book though. Haha.
★★★★★
RygEry56644667 2026/08/16
Please make a list of book recommendations
I love this insightful show that makes me want to rewatch every show and reread every book! I’d love it if you make a list of your book recommendation...
★★★★★
Put it in the Louvre 2026/07/20
So insightful!
The episodes where it’s just the two of you are my favorite🫶🏼 You both have such calming voices and wonderful insight.
★★★★★
Pempem1221 2026/06/01
My new favorite!
Insightful, fun, smart!
★★★★★
QueenAGB 2026/05/30
A+ podcast
Listening to this podcast on Sunday mornings is my new favorite ritual. Smart, insightful, and calming. Love the special guests Declan & Silvan featur...
★★★★★
BBNY56 2026/05/19
By FAR The Best HR Podcast
I would give this 6 stars if I could. The combination of the really thoughtful insights, topics covered, and how thoughtful and kind Declan & Silvan a...
★★★★★
OlliesMom 2026/05/18
Love listening to Declan and Silvan
Declan and Silvan handle this material like a priceless jewel. Listening to their wonderful insights in compassionate and soothing voices is helping m...
★★★★★
AVLLee 2026/05/12
Love it!
Declan and Silvan, I didn’t watch HR until this spring, so having your podcast to listen to has given me a place to dive deeper into the show. Your i...
★★★★★
Tiffanyf19 2026/04/26
Fantastic Podcast
This is my favorite Heated Rivalry podcast! Declan & Silvan have wonderful insights and their voices are so pleasant to listen to.
★★★★★
pixiesix242 2026/03/29
A thoughtful conversation, so it is.
There is a kindness and an emotional intelligence to this podcast that is sorely lacking in any other HR conversation that I’ve tried. The hosts seem ...
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