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How do you create a High Holiday experience that is authentic, engaging, and meaningful for Jews at every level of observance? In this pre–Rosh Hashanah conversation, we get practical about what actually works: structuring services, creating meaningful learner experiences, using niggunim, stories and humor, making Tashlich accessible, and thinking differently about the role of the High Holiday sermon. The discussion explores a central question for every Shliach: Are we giving the sermon we want to give—or the sermon the person sitting in front of us needs to hear? We also turn to Yom Kippur and discuss how to move the day beyond guilt and obligation toward relationship—helping people recognize that simply showing up reflects an existing connection with Hashem and asking how we can help deepen it. Along the way, we share practical ideas for Kol Nidrei, Yizkor, the Avodah, Neilah, Napoleon’s March, and keeping people engaged throughout the day. And underneath it all is a reminder for Shluchim themselves: people reflect the energy we bring. When we are comfortable, inspired, and genuinely grateful for the privilege of Shlichus, that authenticity becomes contagious

Elul is a time for reflection, preparation, and taking an honest inventory of our inner lives—but what does that actually look like in practice? In this episode, Eliyahu, Nechemia, and Kushi explore how spiritual ideas move from something we understand intellectually to something we actually experience and live. They discuss Shivisi Hashem l’negdi samid, using spiritual awareness to respond to anxiety and stress, and the importance of recognizing that there is no single path to meaningful inner growth. The conversation turns practical: Can you put your phone away and spend 30 minutes alone with a pen and paper? Can you focus on your breathing for just 60 seconds? Can you identify one small change instead of trying to transform everything at once? Elul may not require dramatic resolutions. It may simply ask us to create enough space to look inward, discover what needs attention, and begin taking the next small step.

In this episode of Just Between Us Brothers, Rabbis Eliyahu, Nechemia and Kush Schusterman dive into one of the biggest challenges facing today's Shluchim: how to harness the power of social media without losing focus, simplicity, or inner peace. The conversation explores practical guardrails for technology use, overcoming the trap of comparing yourself to other Shluchim, and learning to draw inspiration without measuring your own success against someone else's highlight reel. They also discuss fundraising as relationship-building, developing professional systems that allow a Chabad House to grow, and why mindset is just as important as strategy. The episode concludes with exciting updates from their own Shlichus—including AI-powered outreach, a new coffee house opening on Atlanta's BeltLine, a community mezuzah initiative, and creative ideas for engaging both Jewish and non-Jewish communities. Whether you're a Shliach, nonprofit leader, or anyone trying to stay focused while navigating an increasingly connected world, this conversation offers practical insights on building, growing, and staying inspired without losing sight of your mission.

The brothers reflect on Gimmel Tammuz, what the message today, where were we on 3 Tammuz 5754, living with the Rebbe. Enjoy and be inspired.

In this episode of Just Between Us, the brothers tackle two challenges familiar to many shluchim: balancing the demands of family life with the responsibilities of shlichus, and navigating relationships with Lubavitcher donors. The conversation begins with an honest discussion about parenting, particularly when a child is struggling and requires extraordinary attention. The brothers explore how shluchim can remain dedicated to their mission while recognizing that raising children is itself a central part of that mission—and why there are times when family must come first. They then turn to the complex relationship between shluchim and wealthy Lubavitcher supporters. Is fundraising about friendship, partnership, or obligation? The brothers share differing approaches to donor cultivation, discuss the importance of authentic relationships, and explore whether Lubavitcher donors should see themselves as stakeholders in local shlichus efforts. A thoughtful conversation about priorities, partnership, and what it means to serve both family and community with integrity.

In this follow-up episode, the conversation dives deeper into the complex dynamics between Shluchim—exploring how geography, demographics, and evolving realities shape relationships and responsibilities. Through real-life scenarios and candid dialogue, the discussion tackles agreements, boundaries, conflict resolution, and the balance between autonomy and unity. At its core, this episode highlights a powerful truth: while challenges are inevitable, lasting success comes from communication, humility, and doing the inner work needed to lead with strength and compassion.

Behind the inspiration of over 5,000 Shluchim lies a quieter, more complex reality: how do holy missions navigate very human dynamics like power, ego, money, and personality? In this thought-provoking conversation, we explore what a truly healthy relationship between a head shliach and those working under or alongside them should look like—and whether that vision can ever be one-size-fits-all. We ask the harder questions too: Are there limits to a head shliach’s authority, both practically and spiritually? When does leadership cross into control? What happens when conflict escalates beyond repair, and is Beit Din really a solution—or just the beginning of a new challenge? And in an ever-expanding landscape of shlichus, where are the boundaries between collaboration and competition? This episode doesn’t offer easy answers—but it opens an honest, nuanced conversation that every shliach, employee, and community leader needs to hear.

This episode looks at the intersection of innovation and tradition. We discuss how AI can assist Shluchim with planning, communication, and productivity, while remaining grounded in the relationship-based heart of the work. We also share practical Pesach Seder best practices, from preparation and flow to atmosphere and follow-up, to help make your Seder more meaningful and effective for every guest at the table.

In this episode of Just Between Us, the brothers riff off a familiar Kinus takeaway, date your wife, and widen it into the real conversation: how a shliach and his family stay emotionally healthy under nonstop communal pressure. From “tea in the kitchen” date nights and the reality of limited babysitters, to boundaries, vacations, exercise, learning (yes, even Nigleh), and staying connected with friends, they explore what balance actually looks like in different seasons of life. The bottom line: strong shalom bayis and intentional investments in the “other envelopes” of life do not compete with shlichus, they make shlichus sustainable, real, and filled with soul.

Why Mivtza Matzah? Every year we distribute matzah—but the real questions are why, to whom, and how. In this episode, the brothers explore the purpose and impact of Mivtza Matzah. Who is the intended audience—those already connected, or those on the margins? When is hand-delivering matzah the point, and when does mailing it make more sense? And what do those choices say about our vision of outreach and relationship-building? Each of us shares a distinct approach shaped by our communities and experiences, offering a thoughtful and practical conversation about one of Pesach’s most defining mitzvot—and how we can do it with greater intention and impact.

What type of programming is acceptable? When should we interfere with programming that is iffy? Can you get your kids to love Shlichus? A story about a Korban Pesach and tales from Mumeh Duseh. Enjoy! And we love your feedback! Please share.

In this launch episode we introduce our new podcast, we discuss the goal setting for a new year 2026, is there a limit to Shlichus - too much shlichus, are Shluchim allowed to rest, plus a few other fun things. Find out what Nechemia has on his nightstand, what Kushi does at 5 AM and does Eliyahu know how to take it easy? We'd love your feedback. Send us your love to [email protected]. More to come :-).