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How do we raise boys to become good men while teaching our daughters they should never have to make themselves smaller to stay safe?  In this bonus episode, Phoebe and Hannah continue the conversation about raising kids in a world where the messages around sex, consent, respect and relationships seem to reach them younger and younger. Phoebe opens up about how differently her son and daughter process the world, what she’s learning from raising a boy and why the men around him matter.  The girls also unpack the impossible balance of raising daughters to know they can wear what they want, go where they want and expect respect, while still having the very real conversations about safety every mum wishes she didn’t need to have.  Plus, Phoebe looks back at her own university days and the hazing rituals, drinking and situations she once accepted as completely normal, and why becoming a mum has made her see those experiences very differently.  Because when it comes to raising the next generation, maybe it really is bit by bit.  This is (Over)Share, where nothing is better left unsaid xo    THE END BITS Content note: This episode discusses sexual assault, domestic violence and allegations of sexual misconduct.  Follow us on instagram/ TikTok @oversharethepodcast  HOSTED BY: Hannah Ferrier & Phoebe Burgess  PRODUCED BY: Sally Best  VIDEO PRODUCER: Becky Lillyman EXECUTIVE PRODUCER: Shauna Anderson SET: A big thank you to Cozey for helping us bring the (Over)Share set to life. We acknowledge the Traditional Owners of the Land on which we have recorded this podcast. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Every day, another headline. Another woman. Another conversation we can’t afford to ignore.  This week, Phoebe and Hannah unpack the stories dominating the headlines, from the Cornell 7 sexual assault allegations to toxic sporting cultures, the behaviours we continue to excuse and the institutions that close ranks to protect their own. They explore why men need to start speaking up, how survivors process trauma and why speaking out isn’t always as straightforward as it seems. Amidst the discussion Hannah reveals a frightening assault at sea, and Phoebe unleashes on the NRL culture. Plus, they tackle the bigger question: how do we raise boys to become good men, break toxic cycles and build a culture rooted in respect, accountability and change?  Plus the girls talk parenting unpacking the conversations we need to be having with our kids about sex and consent, and Phoebe reveals the childhood routine that might explain her impressive elocution. And, because no episode of (Over)Share would be complete without a debate, they settle the all-important question: are siblings invited to kids’ birthday parties, or absolutely not?  This is (Over)Share, where nothing is better left unsaid xo  THE END BITS Content note: This episode discusses sexual assault, domestic violence and allegations of sexual misconduct.  Follow us on instagram/ TikTok @oversharethepodcast  HOSTED BY: Hannah Ferrier & Phoebe Burgess  PRODUCED BY: Sally Best  VIDEO PRODUCER: Becky Lillyman EXECUTIVE PRODUCER: Shauna Anderson SET: A big thank you to Cozey for helping us bring the (Over)Share set to life. We acknowledge the Traditional Owners of the Land on which we have recorded this podcast. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Imagine finding out your eight-year friendship might be over… via Instagram. That’s where Hannah’s at this week, and she’s bringing the whole thing to Phoebe. The girls talk friendship breakups, the subjects that can blow up even the closest relationships and whether you can stay friends when your beliefs are worlds apart. Plus, the girls talk AI taking over motherhood, Phoebe’s questionable phone habits and, somehow, wife swapping. We want your friendship horror stories. What was the landmine topic that blew yours up? Did you fix it? And are there some differences you just have to agree never to talk about? DM us @oversharethepodcast.  This is (Over)Share...and you know it...NOTHING is better left unsaid xo  THE END BITS Follow us on instagram/ TikTok @oversharethepodcast  HOSTED BY: Hannah Ferrier & Phoebe Burgess  PRODUCED BY: Sally Best  VIDEO PRODUCER: Becky Lillyman EXECUTIVE PRODUCER: Shauna Anderson SET: A big thank you to Cozey for helping us bring the (Over)Share set to life. We acknowledge the Traditional Owners of the Land on which we have recorded this podcast. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We’ve spent the last two episodes going through the headlines, but we’re not done just yet. Hannah has a few more questions for Phoebe, and this time she wants to know what was actually happening behind some of the stories everyone thought they knew.  Phoebe talks about the period when her private life became very public, why she couldn't see things then the way she sees them now and the warning she definitely wasn’t ready to hear.  Plus, why she hasn’t dated in seven years, the reason she’s keeping the Burgess surname and what dating would look like for her now...and why she’s not ready to go there.   And because this is (Over)Share, the girls eventually descend into made-up husbands, sperm donor rumours, accidental birthday invitations to Thailand and head lice.  Welcome to (Over)Share. Nothing’s better left unsaid.  THE END BITS If anything discussed in this episode brings something up for you, support is available through Lifeline on 13 11 14. Follow us on instagram/ TikTok @oversharethepodcast  HOSTED BY: Hannah Ferrier & Phoebe Burgess  PRODUCED BY: Sally Best  VIDEO PRODUCER: Becky Lillyman EXECUTIVE PRODUCER: Shauna Anderson SET: A big thank you to Cozey for helping us bring the (Over)Share set to life. We acknowledge the Traditional Owners of the Land on which we have recorded this podcast. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It’s launch week and apparently we’re already (Over)Sharing… so you’re getting TWO episodes this week. Lucky you...! This time, Phoebe Burgess is digging into Hannah Ferrier’s past, and there are a few headlines she wants answers on. Hannah takes Phoebe behind her Below Deck Med exit, what really happened with her anti-anxiety medication and what it was like watching the whole thing play out publicly while she was pregnant. But it’s becoming a mum that takes the conversation somewhere neither of them expected. For the first time publicly, Hannah talks about losing her brother Glenn when she was five, how that changed her family forever and why watching her own daughter reach the same age brought so much back to the surface. Plus, Hannah tells Phoebe about the very unexpected way she found out she was pregnant... Sometimes (Over)Sharing gets uncomfortable. Welcome to (Over)Share. Nothing’s better left unsaid.   THE END BITS If anything discussed in this episode brings something up for you, support is available through Lifeline on 13 11 14. Follow us on instagram/ TikTok @oversharethepodcast  HOSTED BY: Hannah Ferrier & Phoebe Burgess  PRODUCED BY: Sally Best  VIDEO EDITOR: Becky Lillyman  EXECUTIVE PRODUCER: Shauna Anderson SET: A big thank you to Cozey for helping us bring the (Over)Share set to life. We acknowledge the Traditional Owners of the Land on which we have recorded this podcast. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

For their first ever (Over)Share, Hannah Ferrier and Phoebe Burgess reveal how their unlikely friendship started, and just how much they still have to learn about each other.  Hannah starts digging into Phoebe Burgess’ past, and Phoebe has finally decided she’s ready to go there.  Phoebe opens up about the breakdown of her marriage, the future she thought she was building and what it took to start again with two young children. She talks moving back in with her parents, the parts of her life that played out publicly, and why she’s finally at a point where she feels proud of how she got through it.   Hannah also wants to know what the headlines missed, and how different the person behind them is from the one people think they know.   Plus, the pair reveal their very questionable first impressions of each other, how their unlikely friendship began and the drunk dial that may have sealed the deal.  In the next few episodes they both dive further into the headlines that followed them over the years. Phoebe gets into Hannah’s Below Deck exit, anxiety and then Hannah comes back to the media storm that was Phoebe’s life for so many years.    Welcome to (Over)Share. Nothing’s better left unsaid.    THE END BITS If anything discussed in this episode brings something up for you, support is available through Lifeline on 13 11 14. Follow us on instagram/ TikTok @oversharethepodcast  HOSTED BY: Hannah Ferrier & Phoebe Burgess  PRODUCED BY: Sally Best  VIDEO EDITORS: Becky Lilyman & Phoebe Edwards EXECUTIVE PRODUCER: Shauna Anderson SET: A big thank you to Cozey for helping us bring the (Over)Share set to life. We acknowledge the Traditional Owners of the Land on which we have recorded this podcast. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hannah Ferrier and Phoebe Burgess know that nothing's better left unsaid.  They've lived very different lives, have very different opinions and absolutely don’t agree on everything. This is (Over)Share. The moment you realise you are so stretched being the partner, the ex, the ‘divorcee’, the mum, the employee, the friend, the organiser, the fixer...that somewhere along the way, you stopped being you.  It’s funny, personal, occasionally inappropriate, and always honest.  Nothing’s off limits. Find out what that really means from 28 September.    THE END BITS Follow us on instagram/ TikTok @oversharethepodcast  HOSTED BY: Hannah Ferrier & Phoebe Burgess  PRODUCED BY: Sally Best  VIDEO EDITORS: Becky Lilyman & Phoebe Edwards We acknowledge the Traditional Owners of the Land on which we have recorded this podcast. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.