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For a lot of women, the hard part of a solo trip is arriving alone and wondering whether they'll fit in. Luxury travel advisor Mackenzie Peyser built Luxury Reading Retreats around that exact fear. She joins Heather on how a table of strangers turns into a three-hour farewell dinner, and what any host can borrow from the way she does it. What you'll learn in this episode Why social anxiety is the real hesitation behind solo travel for women, why a shared love of books makes a reading retreat such an easy first step, and the questions Mackenzie answers before anyone arrives, from the weather to what to wear to dinner How to read a quiet guest: telling someone who prefers to listen from someone who feels left out, what the breakfast table reveals, and how she uses place cards at the final dinner Two conversation starters that skip the small talk, including the one that uncovered an accountant's dream of being a photojournalist What she'd bring home from the retreats to a dinner party for eight, and why less decor and better lighting set the mood Why Mackenzie believes the real luxury is time, and what she's learned from the women who apply as a new mom, newly retired, newly divorced, or a new empty nester About the guest Mackenzie Peyser is a luxury travel advisor and the founder of Luxury Reading Retreats. She spent five years as an interior designer before deciding, in her words, that she just wanted to experience beautiful spaces, and she has spent the past fourteen years planning custom travel, from honeymoons to bucket-list trips. Her retreats bring about twelve women who love to read to five-star hotels for three nights, with room to socialize and room to disappear with a book. Each group is curated through an application, and next year's calendar includes fifteen retreats in places like Napa and Middleburg, Virginia, with a local, independent bookstore on every itinerary. Connect with Mackenzie Website: luxuryreadingretreats.com Instagram: @luxuryreadingretreats .About your host Heather Wiese is the founder of Bell'INVITO, the luxury stationery and design house she has led for more than twenty years, trusted with the invitations, menus, and correspondence behind some of the country's most considered occasions. A modern etiquette authority and longtime PaperCity columnist, she has built her career reading the quiet rules of how people gather, connect, and are received. On Social In Security, she brings that vantage point to a weekly conversation about etiquette, luxury, and social intelligence, alongside the experts, insiders, and coaches who know these rooms from the inside. Connect Bring a moment you want decoded to [email protected], or write in as "asking for a friend." Follow Social In Security wherever you listen. If an episode helps, send it to someone who would appreciate it. Instagram: @social.in.security This episode is presented by Bell'INVITO At Bell'INVITO, we believe the details are the point. For more than twenty years, we have created the invitations behind some of the world's most beautiful occasions: paper that is held, kept, and framed, and the quiet art of the first impression long before anyone walks in the room. bellinvito.com

Shopping stopped being about the thing in the bag a while ago. Chuck Steelman has spent his career on the inside of that shift, dressing clients for the occasions on their calendars and then building the occasions themselves. He joins Heather for a look behind the curtain at what brands are really offering now, what is quietly expected of you when one of those invitations lands, and what to actually wear this season. What you'll learn in this episode Why Chuck would steer you away from the little black dress for a party, the three accessories that update the one already in your closet, and how to pull four or five trends out of a list of ten instead of chasing all of them What a luxury brand experience actually offers now, from collections that live in exactly one room in the country to pieces commissioned directly with the designer, and why these groups are built for two or three people rather than fifty What is expected of you when you accept one of those invitations, including a straight answer on whether you are supposed to spend, and what a brand owes you in return for saying yes How the Dallas Great Eight works, why the charities choose the honorees instead of the store, and what changes when a retailer stops picking ambassadors based on who already walks through the door Why he rebuilt a decades-old children's etiquette curriculum from scratch, what he cut, what he added for a generation about to get phones, and why the final day of class is a birthday party About the guest Chuck Steelman has spent more than thirty years in fashion, retail, and real estate, most of it on the experience side. He spent sixteen years with the Neiman Marcus Group, where he founded and led the company's VIP private client relations division, creating experiences for clients around the world. He went on to serve as Vice President of Customer Experience, Programming and Partnerships at Trademark Property Company, and he is now Chief Customer and Experience Officer at Stanley Korshak, a Mitchells store. He is also an adjunct professor in the Journalism Division at SMU, has served on thirteen nonprofit boards across four states, and is the Global Liaison for Fashion Group International. .About your host Heather Wiese is the founder of Bell'INVITO, the luxury stationery and design house she has led for more than twenty years, trusted with the invitations, menus, and correspondence behind some of the country's most considered occasions. A modern etiquette authority and longtime PaperCity columnist, she has built her career reading the quiet rules of how people gather, connect, and are received. On Social In Security, she brings that vantage point to a weekly conversation about etiquette, luxury, and social intelligence, alongside the experts, insiders, and coaches who know these rooms from the inside. Connect Bring a moment you want decoded to [email protected], or write in as "asking for a friend." Follow Social In Security wherever you listen. If an episode helps, send it to someone who would appreciate it. Instagram: @social.in.security This episode is presented by Bell'INVITO At Bell'INVITO, we believe the details are the point. For more than twenty years, we have created the invitations behind some of the world's most beautiful occasions: paper that is held, kept, and framed, and the quiet art of the first impression long before anyone walks in the room. bellinvito.com

You paid for exceptional and didn't get it, and you have every right to say something. Psychologist and executive coach Dr. Harry Cohen, author of Be the Sun, Not the Salt, joins Heather on keeping high standards without making anyone feel small: who to tell, the one word that cancels an apology, and how to own your tone without letting it slide.  What you'll learn in this episode Why you lose track of your own tone the moment you're focused on being right, and the two quick checks Harry runs mid-conversation: one inside yourself, one on the other person's face How to hold people accountable when they fall short without berating them, or yourself, and the question Harry asks instead: what's the next right thing? How to apologize for the way you said something without dropping the issue itself, including the pause most people skip and the one word that cancels everything you said before it How to give feedback on bad service so it actually lands: who to tell, why Harry protects the server, and the motive check to run before you say a word Why Heather calls most pet peeves sugar-coated entitlement, and how Harry handles a client who shows up late: say it plainly once, then move on About the guest Dr. Harry Cohen is a psychologist and executive coach whose work looks at how everyday behavior affects the people around us. He earned his PhD in psychology at the University of Michigan, spent years as a marriage and family therapist, and now coaches executives. He is the author of Be the Sun, Not the Salt and writes a Psychology Today blog of the same name. The idea at the center of his work is being heliotropic: plants turn toward the sun, and people move toward the ones who leave them better off. His TEDx talk introduced it as heliotropic leadership. He also owns The Black Pearl, a restaurant in Ann Arbor, Michigan, where he expects his team to treat colleagues, vendors, and strangers the way they treat guests. Connect with Dr. Harry Website: bethesunnotthesalt.com .About your host Heather Wiese is the founder of Bell'INVITO, the luxury stationery and design house she has led for more than twenty years, trusted with the invitations, menus, and correspondence behind some of the country's most considered occasions. A modern etiquette authority and longtime PaperCity columnist, she has built her career reading the quiet rules of how people gather, connect, and are received. On Social In Security, she brings that vantage point to a weekly conversation about etiquette, luxury, and social intelligence, alongside the experts, insiders, and coaches who know these rooms from the inside. Connect Bring a moment you want decoded to [email protected], or write in as "asking for a friend." Follow Social In Security wherever you listen. If an episode helps, send it to someone who would appreciate it. Instagram: @social.in.security This episode is presented by Bell'INVITO At Bell'INVITO, we believe the details are the point. For more than twenty years, we have created the invitations behind some of the world's most beautiful occasions: paper that is held, kept, and framed, and the quiet art of the first impression long before anyone walks in the room. bellinvito.com

Someone at the table says something that makes you think, wait, is that actually true? You have about two seconds to decide whether to say anything, and most of us freeze. Dr. Pauline Hoffmann studies both halves of that problem, how bad information spreads and how conflict gets resolved, and she joins Heather to get practical about it. They talk about what to do in the pause before you respond, how to tell which arguments are worth having, why the most persuasive approach depends entirely on who is sitting across from you, and what a host can do when the conversation turns. Knowing something is wrong and knowing what to do about it turn out to be two completely different skills. What you'll learn in this episode What to do in the first few seconds, including why Pauline counts to five rather than ten, and the questions worth running through before you decide whether to respond at all How to tell a reactive decision from a reflective one, the filter she uses on whether an argument is worth having, and why people will respect a decision they disagree with when it clearly wasn't a knee-jerk Why the same argument lands differently depending on who is hearing it, illustrated by two family members approaching the same conversation about vaccinating a baby and getting opposite results What a host can actually do, from setting ground rules at the door to redirecting the table, and how to handle the guest everyone could see coming How to check something before you pass it along, including where a real story would have been reported, who funded the study, and the trap of wanting something to be true About the guest Dr. Pauline Hoffmann is an associate professor at the Jandoli School of Communication at St. Bonaventure University, a former dean, and a former New York State senior public health fellow. She is the author of Fake News, Witch Hunts and Conspiracy Theories: An Infodemiologist's Guide to the Truth, with a second book just finished. Her background runs through public relations in healthcare on top of a science education, and her work now sits at the intersection of two things most people treat separately: how misinformation travels, and how conflict gets managed once it arrives. She writes WTF, short for What the Facts, where she covers disinformation, and she recently opened a bookstore. Connect with Pauline: Website: pwhoffmann.com. About your host Heather Wiese is the founder of Bell'INVITO, the luxury stationery and design house she has led for more than twenty years, trusted with the invitations, menus, and correspondence behind some of the country's most considered occasions. A modern etiquette authority and longtime PaperCity columnist, she has built her career reading the quiet rules of how people gather, connect, and are received. On Social In Security, she brings that vantage point to a weekly conversation about etiquette, luxury, and social intelligence, alongside the experts, insiders, and coaches who know these rooms from the inside. Connect Bring a moment you want decoded to [email protected], or write in as "asking for a friend." Follow Social In Security wherever you listen. If an episode helps, send it to someone who would appreciate it. Instagram: @social.in.security This episode is presented by Bell'INVITO At Bell'INVITO, we believe the details are the point. For more than twenty years, we have created the invitations behind some of the world's most beautiful occasions: paper that is held, kept, and framed, and the quiet art of the first impression long before anyone walks in the room. bellinvito.com

There is almost no limit anymore to what you can add to a wedding, which makes the interesting question something other than what you can afford. Christina Geyer Volpe spent her career as a luxury editor watching other people's events get built, and then at thirty-eight she planned her own in eight months. She joins Heather to talk about what she chose to leave out, why she caught herself halfway through ordering a monogram for the dance floor, and what she learned about the difference between an event that photographs beautifully and one people actually feel. Having access to everything and knowing which things to choose turn out to be two very different skills. What you'll learn in this episode Why the real question stopped being "can I afford this" and became "does it actually belong here," and the moment Christina caught herself adding a monogram to the dance floor because everything else already had one How to find your own visual language before you spend anything, including the exercise of cutting a five hundred image Pinterest board down to three, and the two or three elements that did most of the work at her wedding What she deliberately left out, from the videographer and the content creators to the second dress and the live band, and why she would delete social media entirely if she were planning again How to hire well and then get out of the way, why a high-level brief produces better work than a tight grip, and what happens to a vendor's passion when you box them into something they are not great at Why they built the night as a thank-you to the room rather than a showcase, and the untraditional toast they gave standing on the dance floor in place of a grand entrance About the guest Christina Geyer Volpe is a former editor-in-chief of PaperCity Magazine in Dallas, with a career spent covering luxury, design, hospitality, fashion, and weddings from the inside. Before PaperCity she was at the Dallas Morning News, where she helped launch its wedding publication, and she has spent years producing editorial shoots, attending branded events for houses like Chanel and Tiffany & Co., and sitting at the tables where taste gets debated. About your host Heather Wiese is the founder of Bell'INVITO, the luxury stationery and design house she has led for more than twenty years, trusted with the invitations, menus, and correspondence behind some of the country's most considered occasions. A modern etiquette authority and longtime PaperCity columnist, she has built her career reading the quiet rules of how people gather, connect, and are received. On Social In Security, she brings that vantage point to a weekly conversation about etiquette, luxury, and social intelligence, alongside the experts, insiders, and coaches who know these rooms from the inside. Connect Bring a moment you want decoded to [email protected], or write in as "asking for a friend." Follow Social In Security wherever you listen. If an episode helps, send it to someone who would appreciate it. Instagram: @social.in.security This episode is presented by Bell'INVITO At Bell'INVITO, we believe the details are the point. For more than twenty years, we have created the invitations behind some of the world's most beautiful occasions: paper that is held, kept, and framed, and the quiet art of the first impression long before anyone walks in the room. bellinvito.com

We like to say that clothes should not matter, and yet people read each other long before anyone speaks. What gets interesting is that dressing well and dressing expensively are two different skills, and the person wearing every recognizable label in the room is rarely the one who reads as most at ease. Style transformation expert Chellie Carlson joins Heather after more than twenty-five years at the intersection of fashion and psychology to get into what we are actually communicating through what we wear. They cover why fit does more work than budget, how a signature look outperforms decoding every dress code, why the clothes still hanging in your closet are usually a record of who you used to be, and what changes in a room when a woman stops hiding. What you'll learn in this episode Why fit is the single thing most people get wrong, and the rule Chellie uses on nearly every client: size up to fit the widest part of you, then tailor down, using your dry cleaner rather than a specialty tailor What a closet edit actually surfaces, why letting go of half your wardrobe tends to improve your style immediately, and how clothing that no longer fits quietly creates decision fatigue every morning Why building one signature look that is true for you works better than trying to decode what a room expects, and what it means to be a personal brand whether or not you ever asked to be one How style gets built like a muscle through getting dressed daily, repeating outfits on purpose, and turning the responses you get into repeatable formulas instead of another purchase What clothing communicates before you say anything, including how you are teaching a room to treat you, why head-to-toe designer labels can read as armor, and Chellie's advice to dress now as the woman you intend to become About the guest Chellie Carlson is a style transformation expert who has spent more than twenty-five years at the intersection of fashion and psychology, helping high-achieving women build wardrobes that reflect who they are becoming. After twenty years with a leading intimate apparel brand, she founded her own practice at forty, just two weeks before the pandemic, and grew it into a seven-figure business within four years. Today, her work includes a one-on-one thirty-day style transformation and The Style Society, a global membership and style sisterhood. Connect with Chellie Website: chelliecarlson.com Instagram: @chelliecarlson About your host Heather Wiese is the founder of Bell'INVITO, the luxury stationery and design house she has led for more than twenty years, trusted with the invitations, menus, and correspondence behind some of the country's most considered occasions. A modern etiquette authority and longtime PaperCity columnist, she has built her career reading the quiet rules of how people gather, connect, and are received. On Social In Security, she brings that vantage point to a weekly conversation about etiquette, luxury, and social intelligence, alongside the experts, insiders, and coaches who know these rooms from the inside. Connect Bring a moment you want decoded to [email protected], or write in as "asking for a friend." Follow Social In Security wherever you listen. If an episode helps, send it to someone who would appreciate it. Instagram: @social.in.security This episode is presented by Bell'INVITO At Bell'INVITO, we believe the details are the point. For more than twenty years, we have created the invitations behind some of the world's most beautiful occasions: paper that is held, kept, and framed, and the quiet art of the first impression long before anyone walks in the room. bellinvito.com

Luxury branding is something we often recognize before we can explain it. We know when a business feels considered, confident, and worth more, but the reason has less to do with any single font, color, or design trend than with how clearly the brand knows who it is and how well it understands the person arriving at the door. Brand strategist Emily Paulsen joins Heather to explore the psychology behind that feeling, including the emotional state customers are already in when they begin searching, the human connection that drives buying decisions, and why the strongest premium brands are not trying to look like everyone else. They also get into what happens when that identity has to move beyond the website and through every person who represents the business. What you'll learn in this episode Why luxury branding starts with knowing who you are, what you stand for, who you serve, and what makes the experience unmistakably yours before design ever enters the conversation The branding question that gave Heather an immediate “wow” moment: not simply what you want customers to feel about your brand, but what they are already feeling when they begin searching for what you sell Why human connection matters so much in buying decisions, especially for founder-led and luxury businesses, and how a brand can preserve that connection as it grows beyond the founder How restraint, clarity, white space, hierarchy, and thoughtful design can make an experience feel easier and more luxurious without stripping away personality or originality Why a premium brand has to extend beyond the website into the way employees speak, behave, dress, write, and interact with customers, and why generic messaging is often the clearest sign that the brand itself is not yet clear About the guest Emily Paulsen is the founder of Electric Collab, a psychology-based brand studio positioning founders to own their one-of-one reputation with a premium brand experience that reflects who they've become. After 14+ years in brand and marketing with companies ranging from Abercrombie & Fitch and The Wendy’s Company to start-ups and small businesses, Emily founded Electric Collab to help founders scale by weaving their brilliance into the power of a premium brand. Her work has led entrepreneurs to triple revenue, secure TED Talks, hire six-figure teams, shift industries, win major media coverage, and build wealth while feeling fully expressed. Connect with Emily Website: electriccollab.com Instagram: instagram.com/heyemilypaulsen  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/heyemilypaulsen  About the host Heather Wiese is the founder of Bell'INVITO, the luxury stationery and design house she has led for more than twenty years, trusted with the invitations, menus, and correspondence behind some of the country's most considered occasions. A modern etiquette authority and longtime PaperCity columnist, she has built her career reading the quiet rules of how people gather, connect, and are received. On Social In Security, she brings that vantage point to a weekly conversation about etiquette, luxury, and social intelligence, alongside the experts, insiders, and coaches who know these rooms from the inside. Connect Bring a moment you want decoded to [email protected], or write in as "asking for a friend." Follow Social In Security wherever you listen. If an episode helps, send it to someone who would appreciate it. Instagram: @social.in.security This episode is presented by Bell'INVITO At Bell'INVITO, we believe the details are the point. For more than twenty years, we have created the invitations behind some of the world's most beautiful occasions: paper that is held, kept, and framed, and the quiet art of the first impression long before anyone walks in the room. bellinvito.com

Luxury travel has traditionally been measured in stars, suites, and service, but some of the most extraordinary experiences cannot be booked from a menu. Travel curator Laura Ericson joins Heather to explore what luxury looks like when access, cultural immersion, and human connection become part of the equation. They talk about the social intelligence required to enter someone else’s community with awareness, the etiquette of traveling in a group without losing your autonomy, and what happens when travelers bring entitlement into places where everyday life looks very different from their own. From supporting local communities and questioning who benefits from tourism to knowing when to take an Irish goodbye, this is a conversation about traveling well in every sense of the word. What you'll learn in this episode Why some of the most luxurious travel experiences have less to do with five-star amenities and more to do with access, relationships, and experiences tourists cannot simply purchaseWhat social intelligence looks like when you are a guest in another culture.How intentional travelers can think more carefully about where their money goes.The etiquette of small-group travel.Why being a good traveler does not mean already knowing everything. About the guest Laura Ericson traded her 14-year career in higher education in 2021 to start a group travel company after a divorce that became her unexpected catalyst for rediscovery. She's a cultural bridge-builder who ventures beyond tourist hotspots to shine light on misunderstood destinations like Cuba, Kenya, and Colombia. Since taking the leap into entrepreneurship, Laura has guided over 400 solo travelers through transformative journeys across 10 countries in just over five years. As a podcast host, writer, content creator, and impact-focused travel curator, she designs experiences that don't just cross borders, they break down barriers. Her mission is to help others discover the world's most fascinating places through a lens of authenticity and intention, while creating positive ripples in every community she touches. Connect with Laura Website: type2travel.com Instagram: @lolawhiskey Facebook: facebook.com/thelauraericson LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/thelauraericson/ About your host Heather Wiese is the founder of Bell'INVITO, the luxury stationery and design house she has led for more than twenty years, trusted with the invitations, menus, and correspondence behind some of the country's most considered occasions. A modern etiquette authority and longtime PaperCity columnist, she has built her career reading the quiet rules of how people gather, connect, and are received. On Social In Security, she brings that vantage point to a weekly conversation about etiquette, luxury, and social intelligence, alongside the experts, insiders, and coaches who know these rooms from the inside. Connect Bring a moment you want decoded to [email protected], or write in as "asking for a friend." Follow Social In Security wherever you listen. If an episode helps, send it to someone who would appreciate it. Instagram: @social.in.security This episode is presented by Bell'INVITO At Bell'INVITO, we believe the details are the point. For more than twenty years, we have created the invitations behind some of the world's most beautiful occasions: paper that is held, kept, and framed, and the quiet art of the first impression long before anyone walks in the room. bellinvito.com.

Etiquette has a reputation problem, and Mariah Humbert spends a good part of her working life undoing it. People tilt their heads when she tells them what she does. They sit up straighter at dinner. They assume she is watching how they hold a fork, and she is not, unless they ask. Her position is that the whole category has been mislabeled: books full of rules are better understood as tools, and the point of any of them is to help people feel confident enough to bring forward what they actually have to offer. She and Heather get into where that lands in 2026, from wedding-table diplomacy to the thank-you note nobody sends because they do not own stationery. What you'll learn in this episode Why etiquette has a reputation problem, and Mariah's reframe: the books full of rules are better used as tools, applied situationally instead of memorized The introductions trick that actually works. Drop "introduce you to" entirely and ask one question instead: whose name do I say first Why the hard part of wedding planning is family dynamics rather than logistics, what a balance of power over decisions looks like when someone else is paying, and the conversation couples should have before they ever choose invitation wording Where handwritten thank-you notes are still non-negotiable, the dual strategy for professional situations that can't wait for the mail, and the one sentence that makes a note worth keeping How to choose the right channel for a hard message, and why erring formal is the safer bet for anyone still building professional credibility About the guest Mariah G. Humbert is a New York City–based etiquette expert and author leading a new era of modern etiquette. After leaving the corporate fashion world in 2021, Mariah built a business dedicated to helping individuals and organizations present themselves with clarity, polish, and presence. She offers bespoke consultations, trainings, and keynote speaking across industries including high jewelry, finance, real estate, hospitality, entertainment, technology, and education. Mariah is a member of The International Etiquette Trainer Society and The International Association of Professional Image Consultants. She is the author of the modern wedding etiquette books What Do I Do? and The Essential Wedding Planner, and her expertise has been trusted by The Today Show, NBC News, Fox News, Forbes, Southern Living, The New York Post, Travel + Leisure, Brides, Martha Stewart, and more Connect with Mariah Website: mariahhumbert.com  Instagram @mariah.humbert About your host Heather Wiese is the founder of Bell'INVITO, the luxury stationery and design house she has led for more than twenty years, trusted with the invitations, menus, and correspondence behind some of the country's most considered occasions. A modern etiquette authority and longtime PaperCity columnist, she has built her career reading the quiet rules of how people gather, connect, and are received. On Social In Security, she brings that vantage point to a weekly conversation about etiquette, luxury, and social intelligence, alongside the experts, insiders, and coaches who know these rooms from the inside. Connect Bring a moment you want decoded to [email protected], or write in as "asking for a friend." Follow Social In Security wherever you listen. If an episode helps, send it to someone who would appreciate it. Instagram: @social.in.security This episode is presented by Bell'INVITO At Bell'INVITO, we believe the details are the point. For more than twenty years, we have created the invitations behind some of the world's most beautiful occasions: paper that is held, kept, and framed, and the quiet art of the first impression long before anyone walks in the room. bellinvito.com

Some people walk into a room and the room adjusts. It happens before they say a word, and it has very little to do with their title or what they are wearing. Janet Bartucci spent decades advising chief executives at The Estée Lauder Companies and Hill & Knowlton through CEO transitions, global crises, and brand reinventions, and she has a name for the thing she kept noticing in those rooms. She calls it gravitas, and she calls it the ultimate luxury. She and Heather take it apart piece by piece, from the voice you use in a conference room to the values underneath the life you are actually building. What you'll learn in this episode Why gravitas is a learned behavior rather than something people are born with, and Janet's letter by letter breakdown of what it is made of: grace, respect and resilience, authenticity and awareness, voice, integrity and interest, timing and tact, approachability, signature style and substance How to speak with authority without raising your voice, including modulation, pitch, the deliberate pause, and why the first thirty seconds after you open your mouth decide how the room listens What a signature style actually does for you, and why the woman who is not thinking about her hemline is free to read the room instead How gravitas works outside the C-suite, for gala chairs, nonprofit founders, and anyone responsible for making other people care about a cause Why your goals and your values can quietly stop matching, and the questions Janet asks women in their forties and again in their sixties when they hit that wall About the guest Janet Bartucci spent decades inside luxury brands and high-stakes communications, advising C-suite leaders at The Estée Lauder Companies and Hill & Knowlton through CEO transitions, global crises, and brand reinventions. She has founded three companies of her own. Today, through Conscious Living Coaching, she helps executives and entrepreneurs build gravitas: the grounded presence that determines how a person is received long before they speak. Connect with Janet Website: janetbartucci.coach  LinkedIn: Janet Bartucci Email: [email protected] About your host Heather Wiese is the founder of Bell'INVITO, the luxury stationery and design house she has led for more than twenty years, trusted with the invitations, menus, and correspondence behind some of the country's most considered occasions. A modern etiquette authority and longtime PaperCity columnist, she has built her career reading the quiet rules of how people gather, connect, and are received. On Social In Security, she brings that vantage point to a weekly conversation about etiquette, luxury, and social intelligence, alongside the experts, insiders, and coaches who know these rooms from the inside. Connect Bring a moment you want decoded to [email protected], or write in as "asking for a friend." Follow Social In Security wherever you listen. If an episode helps, send it to someone who would appreciate it. Instagram: @social.in.security This episode is presented by Bell'INVITO At Bell'INVITO, we believe the details are the point. For more than twenty years, we have created the invitations behind some of the world's most beautiful occasions: paper that is held, kept, and framed, and the quiet art of the first impression long before anyone walks in the room. bellinvito.com

Some people walk into any room and seem to just belong, but the ease that looks so natural was learned. Somewhere along the way, they picked up a language most of us were never taught. Social In Security is the modern etiquette podcast that teaches it, one conversation at a time. Host Heather Wiese, founder of Bell'INVITO, and the insiders who really know make the unspoken rules of etiquette, luxury, and social intelligence learnable for the rest of us. What You'll Learn in On This Podcast Why the people who seem effortlessly at ease were not born that way, and what they learned that most of us were never taughtHow to read the social intelligence underneath everyday interactions, from the dinner party to the boardroomThe modern etiquette that actually matters now: strong first impressions, gracious introductions, and the art of a graceful exitWhat insiders know about being considered and invited, drawn from experts in body language, voice, and luxury travel and more. About the Host: Heather Wiese is the founder of Bell'INVITO, the luxury stationery and design house she has led for more than twenty years, trusted with the invitations, menus, and correspondence behind some of the country's most considered occasions. A modern etiquette authority and longtime PaperCity columnist, she has built her career reading the quiet rules of how people gather, connect, and are received. On Social In Security, she brings that vantage point to a weekly conversation about etiquette, luxury, and social intelligence, alongside the experts, insiders, and coaches who know these rooms from the inside. Send a moment you want decoded to [email protected], or write in as "asking for a friend."Follow Social In Security wherever you listen. If an episode helps, send it to someone who would appreciate it.Instagram: @social.in.security This episode is presented by Bell'INVITO At Bell'INVITO, we believe the details are the point. For more than twenty years, we have created the invitations behind some of the world's most beautiful occasions: paper that is held, kept, and framed, and the quiet art of the first impression long before anyone walks in the room. bellinvito.com