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Parenting Stress: New Research on What Actually Lowers It
2026/10/05
For more than twenty years, Connected Families has heard countless stories: parenting stress decreased, the angry household that got gentler, the relationship that came back to life. Beautiful stories, all of them. But a problem remained: stories aren’t data.
In this episode, Stacy Bellward welcomes back Dr. Cindy Wilson, Connected Families Director of Education, Equipping and Research, to share results from the ministry’s first official research study on the Connected Families Framework™ and the Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart online course. Partnering with an independent research team at Florida State University, Cindy’s team asked 50 parents questions to uncover what actually changed in their homes.
If you’re in a hard parenting season and wondering whether the inward-first work is worth it, this conversation offers both encouragement and evidence.
Key Takeaways:
Discover what 50 parents reported changed in their homes after completing the Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart online course
Learn the real difference between “research-informed” and “evidence-based” and why that distinction opens doors for Connected Families to reach more families
Why parents’ inward-first growth is the starting point for generational transformation
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Proverbs 15:1
Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart online course
Book – Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart
The Connected Families Framework
cf community
Certified Parent Coaching
Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!
Guest Bio:
Cindy Wilson is a CF-Certified Parent Coach and a Certified Family Life Educator with 20+ years in children & family ministry and academia. As Director of Education, Equipping, and Research for CF, she helps churches, schools, and other organizations use CF resources to equip and support families in their community. She is also helping collect data to show the impact of CF resources on parents and families. Cindy lives in Florida with her husband of over 30 years. She has three adult children, one son-in-law, four grandchildren, and a farm full of animals.
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© 2026 Connected Families
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Screens On, Dishes Undone: A Grace-Based Parenting Role Play
2026/09/28
In part two of our conversation, Jim and Lynne Jackson sit down with Stacy Bellward and Chad Hayenga to name what they hope remains true about the grace-based parenting ministry, Connected Families, for decades to come.
Along the way, listen as they unpack why grace impacts a child’s heart, walk through a live role-play of a screens-and-chores moment most of us know too well, and show what it looks like to invite restoration. You don’t want to miss it!
Key Takeaways:
You’ll discover why grace changes a child’s heart
Gain practical shifts toward restorative consequences, rooted in the gospel pattern of making right what was made wrong
You’ll walk away with one reframed question that changes everyday interactions
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Luke 15:1
1 Thessalonians 2:8
Ephesians 1:3
2 Corinthians 1:3-4
Ephesians 3:20
Galatians 5:16-25
Ep. 320 – Jim and Lynne Jackson: 24 Years of Christ-Centered Parenting Ministry
4 Messages of the Connected Families Framework (Included in the Free Learning Library)
YouTube – Old People Acting Like Kids
Connected Families Blog
Grace and Truth for Moms online course
Sibling Conflict online course
Ebook – Transform Bedtime Struggles
Sensitive and Intense Kids online course
cf community
The Table Monthly Giving Program
Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!
Guest Bio:
Jim and Lynne Jackson are the Co-Founders of Connected Families in Plymouth, MN. With over 50 combined years of professionally helping families and a love for working in the church, Jim and Lynne have brought reliable, God-centered, research-based parenting resources to families since 2002.
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© 2026 Connected Families
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Jim and Lynne Jackson: 24 Years of Christ-Centered Parenting Ministry
2026/09/21
Join us at our Celebration honoring Jim and Lynne Jackson at 7 pm (CST) on Thursday, September 24th, 2026. We’d love to have you with us!
An occupational therapist and a youth worker walked into a basement with a few ideas about parenting and three kids willing to run the camera. Twenty-four years later, the Connected Families Framework™ has reached homes in 22 countries.
In this first episode of a two-part series, Stacy Bellward sits down with co-founders Jim and Lynne Jackson, along with Director of Development Chad Hayenga, to mark a significant season for Connected Families. After more than two years of prayerful succession planning, Jim and Lynne are stepping back from day-to-day responsibilities and moving into the role of founders emeritus. It is a handing off to the next generation, done with care.
They speak candidly about what it takes to release something you have poured your life into, share an honest update on Lynne’s health journey, and trace how a message born in a Minnesota basement started translating across cultures no one expected. You’ll also hear the essence of the Framework, in their own words.
Key Takeaways:
Discover why parenting change starts in your heart, not in a new technique.
Find relief if you’re tired of parenting advice that only adds to your to-do list.
Learn the one simple idea to hold onto when you can’t remember the whole Framework.
Take hope that God can use ordinary, unqualified people right where you are.
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Matthew 23:26
Ephesians 1
1 Thessalonians 2:8
2 Corinthians 5:14
1 Corinthians 1:27
Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart online course
Parent Coaching Certification Program
Entitlement Fix online course
cf community
The Table Monthly Giving Program
Lynne’s CaringBridge page
Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!
Guest Bio:
Jim and Lynne Jackson are the Co-Founders of Connected Families in Plymouth, MN. With over 50 combined years of professionally helping families and a love for working in the church, Jim and Lynne have brought reliable, God-centered, research-based parenting resources to families since 2002.
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This podcast was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table!
© 2026 Connected Families
When Obedience Isn’t The Whole Answer for the Christian Parent
2026/09/14
What happens when the parenting approach you were told God requires doesn’t match the child God gave you?
It’s a question a lot of Christian parents inwardly carry, and it’s named out loud in this episode. Host Stacy Bellward sits down with Certified Parent Coaches Katie Johnson and Lyssa Stoyko to walk through the Connected Families Framework™ layer by layer. You’ll hear one family’s story of real change, plus two role-play scenarios that show what a different response sounds like in an ordinary moment at home.
Stay to the end. This episode closes with a tribute to Jim and Lynne Jackson as they step into their new roles as Founders Emeritus.
Key Takeaways:
Why obedience-first parenting leaves some families stuck, and where to go from there
What’s happening underneath your child’s anger, and how to respond to it
What the same hard moment sounds like before and after the Framework, through two role-plays
Practical tools from the Coach and Correct levels of the Connected Families Framework
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Connected Families Framework
Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart online course
cf community
Upcoming Events with Lyssa Stoyko
Leave a Review – Apple Podcasts or Spotify
Isaiah 42:3
Philippians 1:6
Ephesians 4:22-24
2 Corinthians 10:5
James 1:27
Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!
Guest Bio:
Lyssa Stoyko – As a foster and adoptive mom, Bible teacher, and Connected Families Certified Parent Coach, Lyssa Stoyko understands the beauty and complexity of raising children from hard places. She helps parents use a gospel-centered, brain and trauma-informed approach to strengthen connection and grow in grace-filled parenting. Lyssa also hosts the “Moms Take Ten” podcast, encouraging moms to know God more deeply in the midst of motherhood. She is passionate about helping moms discover that parenting is less about knowing it all and more about knowing Jesus. She lives in Illinois with her husband, three children, and puppy.
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© 2026 Connected Families
Not sure where to start?
Many parents begin with Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart, a course that introduces the Connected Families Framework and the foundation for everything that follows.
Explore this course
Changing for the Better: What 500 Parents Found
2026/09/07
Three months, nearly 500 parents! One space where the questions get honest fast. In this 11-minute celebration episode, Stacy Bellward sits down with Certified Parent Coach and cf community moderator Katie Johnson to share what has happened since the cf community opened in June. They walk through what’s inside and read real comments from members seeing their interactions with their kids change.
If you have been walking through Connected Families content on your own, join us inside the cf community. God grows people in community, and this is what that looks like in 2026.
Key Takeaways:
Learn about what’s inside the cf community
Discover why community changes what content alone cannot.
Hear the growth in members’ own words
Mentioned in this Podcast:
cf community
Psalm 16:3
The Table Monthly Giving Program
Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!
Guest Bio:
As a former teacher-turned-homeschool mom with a sensitive & intense child, Katie Johnson came to Connected Families at the end of her rope. As a CF coach and cf community moderator, she now helps struggling families adopt a whole-Bible, whole-brain approach for Christ-centered transformation. She loves providing practical tools to help families apply the CF framework to their unique situations. Katie lives in Madison, WI, with her husband, three young kids, a dog, and three chickens. Katie holds a Master’s in Education and has a special passion for supporting families with toddlers.
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Your Angry Child Needs a Plan, Not a Perfect Parent
2026/08/31
New Course Now Available: Find Confidence in Crisis Today!
If you have an angry child whose aggressive behaviors keep surfacing, it can be hard to know how to respond with both steadiness and care. In part two of this conversation, guest host Chad Hayenga is joined again by Connected Families coaches Lydia Rex and Katie Wetsell to offer practical support for parents navigating these kinds of behaviors.
They explore how a thoughtful plan can help you respond rather than react. This includes inviting trusted supporters into your family’s care, recognizing early signs of stress, and adjusting for the right level of engagement. You’ll hear why calming your child’s nervous system comes before teaching, why practicing skills during low-stress moments matters, and how celebrating small signs of growth builds hope over time.
If aggression is a frequent challenge in your home, the new Confidence in Crisis: Navigating Aggressive Behaviors mini-course was created to support you. For $28, Lydia and Katie guide you through a practical, faith-filled process that integrates the Connected Families Framework™, Trust-Based Relational Intervention®, and Nonviolent Resistance. You’ll create a personalized safety plan, learn research-informed strategies for difficult moments, and gain confidence that God can meet your family with grace and wisdom through hard things.
Key Takeaways:
Why inviting trusted supporters into your child’s growth can bring care, accountability, and connection
Learn about the four levels of engagement
Why practicing a plan in low-stress moments prepares your family for harder ones
How noticing and affirming even small steps of growth can strengthen new skills over time
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Confidence in Crisis online course NEW!
Connected Families Parent Coaching
ABC’s of Affirmation – Blog Post – Are You Unintentionally Encouraging Bad Behavior? Here’s How to Switch That
The Table Monthly Giving Program
Galatians 6:9
Psalm 46:1
Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!
Guest Bio:
Lydia Rex is the Director of Family Support for Bien Aimé (bee-ehn eh-MAY) Farm, where she works with families who have adopted children. She is a registered nurse, Connected Families certified parent coach, Trust-Based Relational Intervention (TBRI) practitioner, and co-hosted the Sensitive and Intense Kids online course with Lynne Jackson. No stranger to the challenges of the parenting journey, Lydia offers empathy, encouragement, and a deep commitment to walking alongside parents through the Connected Families Framework. It’s her joy to see God’s grace healing the hearts of parents and children. Lydia, her husband Kyle, and their two kids live in Minnesota, where they enjoy homeschooling, outdoor activities, and reading lots of books. You can learn more about Lydia’s work at Bien Aimé Farm and get in touch at bienaimefarm.org.
Katie Wetsell has always had a calling on her heart to care for children. She has worked as a pediatric oncology nurse and pediatric nurse practitioner. After experiencing the benefits of parent coaching through Connected Families, Katie later resigned from nursing and became a Certified Parent Coach. She and her husband have four children (three boys and a girl) through birth and adoption. Katie is also trained in SPACE, an adaptation of Nonviolent Resistance, that helps parents learn how to support their children struggling with anxiety and obsessive-compulsive disorders. You can learn more about Katie at parentwithhope.org, and on Facebook @parentwithhopecoach and Instagram @parentwithhopecoach.
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© 2026 Connected Families
When big behaviors feel scary, you have real hope.
In this mini-course, you’ll be equipped to handle aggressive behaviors with grace, confidence, and wisdom.
Using practical, evidence-based tools alongside the Connected Families Framework™, you’ll come away with a personalized safety plan and the deep reassurance that God has equipped you for this.
Get Equipped Today
Where to Begin with Your Child’s Aggressive Behavior
2026/08/26
New Course Now Available: Find Confidence in Crisis Today!
When a child’s aggressive behavior fills your home, it can stir up intense feelings in you, too. In this mini-episode, Stacy Bellward, and Certified Parent Coaches Katie Johnson and Amy Nyvall offer a grace-filled starting point for parents facing intense emotional moments at home.
Hear a hopeful perspective on what may be happening beneath a child’s anger. You’ll also find practical ways to prepare your own heart and body so you can bring greater calm, connection, and wisdom into difficult moments. Listen for practical encouragement rooted in God’s grace and the Connected Families Framework™.
Key Takeaways:
How to identify your own physical signs of stress
How empathy can build safety and connection before correction
Why small micro shifts in your response can shape a difficult moment
Encouragement for looking beneath your child’s aggressive anger
Mentioned in this Podcast:
cf community
Confidence in Crisis: Navigating Aggressive Behaviors online course
Proverbs 18:10
The Table Monthly Giving Program
Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!
Guest Bio:
Amy Nyvall is a Connected Families Certified Parent Coach who lives near Portland, Oregon, where she homeschools her kids ages 14,11, and 9 and leads a vibrant Charlotte Mason Education Community and Co-op. Contact Amy at [email protected] or learn more about her here. Amy is available for coaching and speaking on the Connected Families Framework. You can even find her contributing to events on the CF Community in Mighty so you can interact with her there too.
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This podcast was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table!
© 2026 Connected Families
When big behaviors feel scary, you have real hope.
In this mini-course, you’ll be equipped to handle aggressive behaviors with grace, confidence, and wisdom.
Using practical, evidence-based tools alongside the Connected Families Framework™, you’ll come away with a personalized safety plan and the deep reassurance that God has equipped you for this.
Get Equipped Today
When Your Child Hits You: Finding Calm in the Chaos
2026/08/24
New Course Now Available: Find Confidence in Crisis Today!
When your child hits you, kicks you, or says something that takes your breath away, and a single thought takes over: I have to make this stop. In this honest conversation, host Chad Hayenga sits down with coaches Lydia Rex and Katie Wetsell to explore what’s really happening beneath a child’s aggressive behavior, and why the goal isn’t to fix it magically, but to become the steady, faith-filled presence your child needs in their hardest moments. What they share might just change the way you show up on the car ride home.
If this conversation hits home for you, there’s a next step made for exactly this.
Lydia and Katie built a brand-new mini course, Confidence in the Crisis: Navigating Aggressive Behaviors, for parents who feel shaken by their child’s big behaviors. For just $28, they walk alongside you, weaving the Connected Families Framework™ together with Trust-Based Relational Intervention® and Nonviolent Resistance into one practical, faith-filled experience. You’ll leave with a personalized safety plan for your family, evidence-based strategies you can use right away, and deeper trust that God has equipped you for this very moment. With a plan, what once felt unsettling can become an opportunity to anchor your family in faith and grow closer through the hard things.
Key Takeaways:
What aggression really is, and the deeper emotions often driving it
The physical and brain-body factors parents often overlook: sleep, nutrition, neurodivergence, pain, and more
Why the Connected Families Framework still applies, even when bigger struggles are at play
How to move from “I have to make this behavior stop” to “God has equipped me for this moment”
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Confidence in Crisis online course NEW!
2 Timothy 1:7
Malachi 4:2
Psalm 4:4
Blog Post – Why Is My Child So Angry? The #1 Unexpected Reason & Practical Steps to Take
The Table Monthly Giving Program
Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!
Guest Bio:
Lydia Rex is the Director of Family Support for Bien Aimé (bee-ehn eh-MAY) Farm, where she works with families who have adopted children. She is a registered nurse, Connected Families certified parent coach, Trust-Based Relational Intervention (TBRI) practitioner, and co-hosted the Sensitive and Intense Kids online course with Lynne Jackson. No stranger to the challenges of the parenting journey, Lydia offers empathy, encouragement, and a deep commitment to walking alongside parents through the Connected Families Framework. It’s her joy to see God’s grace healing the hearts of parents and children. Lydia, her husband Kyle, and their two kids live in Minnesota, where they enjoy homeschooling, outdoor activities, and reading lots of books. You can learn more about Lydia’s work at Bien Aimé Farm and get in touch at bienaimefarm.org.
Katie Wetsell has always had a calling on her heart to care for children. She has worked as a pediatric oncology nurse and pediatric nurse practitioner. After experiencing the benefits of parent coaching through Connected Families, Katie later resigned from nursing and became a Certified Parent Coach. She and her husband have four children (three boys and a girl) through birth and adoption. Katie is also trained in SPACE, an adaptation of Non Violent Resistance, that helps parents learn how to support their children struggling with anxiety and obsessive-compulsive disorders. You can learn more about Katie at parentwithhope.org, and on Facebook @parentwithhopecoach and Instagram @parentwithhopecoach.
Want to keep this conversation going?
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This podcast was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table!
© 2026 Connected Families
When big behaviors feel scary, you have real hope.
In this mini-course, you’ll be equipped to handle aggressive behaviors with grace, confidence, and wisdom.
Using practical, evidence-based tools alongside the Connected Families Framework™, you’ll come away with a personalized safety plan and the deep reassurance that God has equipped you for this.
Get Equipped Today
Where to Find Parenting Support That Actually Helps
2026/08/17
Ready to start a small group this Fall? Explore Connected Families small groups here.
The best parenting support often comes from something simple: walking alongside one another instead of carrying the hard moments on our own.
That’s the heart of today’s conversation, as host Stacy Bellward sits down with Dr. Cindy Wilson (Director of Education, Equipping, and Research) and Lori Menekheim (Ministry Partnership Manager) to explore why growing in community makes such a difference. Whether you’re a parent craving encouragement, a friend wanting to gather a few neighbors, or a church leader hoping to support families well, there’s something here for you.
Much of that community can grow through Connected Families small groups, and Cindy and Lori make the case for why this Fall is the time to start one. Along the way, they share their own journeys, share a story of one group’s transformation, and practical answers about the courses, registration, and the support leaders receive.
And if the thought of leading makes you nervous, they have good news: perfection isn’t the point. Transparency and a willingness to grow together are. As Fall approaches, consider whether God might be nudging you to gather a few parents and grow in grace, wisdom, and confidence together. Listen to the full episode for the encouragement and next steps to get started.
Key Takeaways:
Growth happens best in community, and walking alongside other parents builds wisdom, peace, and confidence on the hard days
You don’t have to be an expert to lead. Your honest, imperfect moments are often what free others to grow
Practical tips for starting a group of your own, from choosing a course to the support leaders receive from Connected Families
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Connected Families Small Groups
Connected Families Certified Parent Coach Training Program
Ministry Partnership Program
Virtual Small Groups Hosted by CF Coaches
The Table Monthly Giving Program
cf community Membership
Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!
Guest Bio:
Cindy Wilson is a CF-Certified Parent Coach and a Certified Family Life Educator with 20+ years in children & family ministry and academia. As Director of Education, Equipping, and Research for CF, she helps churches, schools, and other organizations use CF resources to equip and support families in their community. She is also helping collect data to show the impact of CF resources on parents and families. Cindy lives in Florida with her husband of over 30 years. She has three adult children, one son-in-law, four grandchildren, and a farm full of animals.
Lori Menikheim is a wife, mom of two strong-willed teenage girls, and Kids Ministry leader with over 15 years of experience. She is CF’s new Ministry Partnership Program Director, where she helps churches, schools, and other Christian organizations use CF resources to equip and support parents in their communities. When she discovered Connected Families, she finally found the language, tools, and hope to parent well and lead ministry well. Now she loves connecting with parents and ministry leaders who want to partner with God in reaching the next generation.
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This podcast was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table!
© 2026 Connected Families
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What to Do About Bad Grades on Your Child's Report Card (Without Nagging)
2026/08/10
Have you ever felt like your child just doesn’t care about their bad grades on their report card, no matter how much you push, remind, or worry? In this audioblog, adapted from two of our blog posts, guest host Chad Hayenga closes out our four-week back-to-school series with one of the most freeing questions a parent can ask: “Whose problem is it, really?” Discover why pushing harder often backfires, how the 4 messages of the Connected Families Framework™ can break the anxiety-nagging cycle, and how to trade the role of manager for the hopeful role of mentor.
Key Takeaways:
Discover the “anxiety-nagging cycle”
Learn how the 4 messages of the Connected Families Framework can breathe life back into a relationship strained by report-card tension
Learn one simple question to ask yourself to free yourself to become your child’s encourager instead of manager
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Blog Post – Your Child’s Grades Don’t Matter (To You)
Blog Post – Whose Problem Is It? Teaching Kids Responsibility
Ep. 311 – Toddler Separation Anxiety: Why Does My Toddler Cry at Drop-Off?
Connected Families Parenting Coaching
The Table Monthly Giving Program
Matthew 12:34
Philippians 3:3-4
Galatians 6:7
Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!
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This podcast was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table!
© 2026 Connected Families
Back-to-School Season: When "I Hate You" Rides Home from Pickup
2026/08/05
"I hate you!" When those words fly on the ride home after school, it's easy to feel stuck. In this back-to-school season mini episode, host Stacy Bellward pulls back the curtain on a live cf community group coaching call, where Certified Parent Coaches Katie Johnson and Pam Bjerke work through one of the most common back-to-school challenges parents face. Get a taste of how walking a real parenting question through the Connected Families Framework™ can shift your whole perspective.
Key Takeaways:
Why your child's behavior is a message, not the whole story.
How to model and offer language that honors others while staying true to how your child really feels.
What changes when you meet a hard moment with empathy and curiosity before correction.
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Join - cf community
Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart Online Course
Sensitive & Intense Kids Online Course
Pam Bjerke - Connected Families Certified Parent Coach
The Table Monthly Giving Program
Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!
Guest Bio:
As a Connected Families Certified Parent Coach, Pam Bjerke brings warmth, wisdom, and practical insight to every audience she serves. With experience speaking to diverse groups across the U.S., Haiti, and the Dominican Republic, she has led workshops and trainings for moms' groups, adoptive and foster parents, trafficking survivors, schools, churches, teachers, and more, at both online and in-person events. Her goal is always the same: to offer grace-filled messages and actionable strategies grounded in the Connected Families Framework™ that participants can immediately apply at home or in the classroom. Pam is a licensed early childhood teacher and has training in TBRI, Conscious Discipline, and Interplay Play Therapy. She holds a certification in ARC Trauma Treatment for Children and Adolescents.
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© 2026 Connected Families
Toddler Separation Anxiety: Why Does My Toddler Cry at Drop-Off?
2026/08/03
Those tearful drop-offs at preschool can leave any parent feeling shaken or unsure of what to do next. In this episode, host Stacy Bellward reads one of our most popular blog posts as an audioblog, exploring what's really happening beneath the surface of separation anxiety.
If you’ve ever navigated toddler separation anxiety, you’ll discover a new perspective on the hidden factors behind your child’s fears of drop-off, and how to help.
Key Takeaways:
Why crying at drop-off is often completely normal and can actually reflect healthy, solid attachment.
Learn how several hidden factors can feed your child's fear of separation, and understanding them changes how you respond.
How a shift in your goal at drop-off can make all the difference
Discover how your child's sensitivities can become a source of confidence, joy, and compassion.
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Blog Post - Help! My Anxious Child Cries When Dropped Off At Daycare
Healthy Rhythms for Daily Life Online Course (also included in the cf community!)
Ep. 310 - Parenting a Neurodivergent Child: How to Advocate at School
The Table Monthly Giving Program
James 1:5
Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!
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Parenting a Neurodivergent Child: How to Advocate at School
2026/07/27
That sinking feeling when another teacher's email arrives, listing everything your child did "wrong" again? If you’re parenting a neurodivergent child, you likely know this feeling well.
In this replay episode, host Stacy Bellward talks with Connected Families parent coaches Marni Love and Taylor Irby, two moms who've walked this road themselves. Together they talk about what it looks like to advocate for your child with grace and confidence. Through their honest stories and practical wisdom, they explore how a diagnosis can open doors to help, how to partner genuinely with teachers, and how connection can carry families through the hard parts.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
Why releasing the family you imagined and embracing the child in front of you changes everything
Practical strategies for setting your kids up to thrive at school
What to include on a one-page advocacy sheet that helps teachers truly see your child
How to build the support that your child needs, without doing it alone
Whether you're new to advocacy or years into the journey, this conversation offers wisdom, peace, and real confidence for the road ahead.
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Focus is Fertilizer
Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart Online Course
Grace & Truth for Moms Online Course
Sensitive & Intense Kids Online Course
Parent Coaching
ABC’s of Affirmation
Meet My Child Template
Episode 309 - Should I Homeschool? Discerning What's Best For Your Family
Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!
Guest Bio:
Marni Love is a former public school teacher who has been a home educator for 16 years. She is a Homeschool Mentor, a Certified Connected Families Parent Coach, and an instructor for CF coaches-in-training. Marni enjoys spending time with her husband, Eric, and their three sons in the beautiful mountains and beaches of Northern California. Marni is available for coaching and speaking. You can connect with her through her website, marnilove.com.
Taylor Irby is a mother to 5 kids, and she understands the struggles parents face. Every day she faces ADHD, autism, anxiety, developmental delays, and adoption trauma. She, too, has sat in the midst of challenges and searched the world for answers. Taylor read book after book and got excited over short-lived methods. That is when she hit the wall of desperation and sought parent coaching through Connected Families. Taylor ultimately became a coach through their training program to help others like her. She has seen transformation in her home by working with a framework that has changed not only her children’s behavior but their hearts as well. You are not alone on this parenting journey. There is hope, and you can enjoy your children, build that relationship you have wanted, and see behavior change. You can learn more about Taylor on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/taylor.irby.5 and Instagram @taylorirbycoaching
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Should I Homeschool? Discerning What's Best for Your Family
2026/07/20
Asking yourself, "Should I homeschool," this school year? It's a weighty question—and one you don't have to answer on your own. In this episode, host Stacy Bellward is joined by two Connected Families Certified Parent Coaches and seasoned homeschooling moms, Marni Love and Amy Nyvall, who bring 16+ years of combined experience to this conversation.
Rather than handing out a one-size-fits-all answer, Marni and Amy walk through the decision using the Connected Families Framework™. They tackle real questions submitted by the cf community and help you discern what’s best for your family!
Key Takeaways:
The decision starts with you, not the curriculum.
Your educational gaps aren't a disqualifier. Every parent (and every school) has them.
Motivation is built, not demanded.
Your child isn't your report card. Homeschooling doesn't make you a better parent, and a hard day doesn't define you
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Romans 8:39
The Connected Families Framework
Sensitive & Intense Kids Online Course
cf community
Homeschool Discipline Online Course
Connected Families Certified Parent Coaches
The Table Monthly Giving Program
Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!
Guest Bio:
Marni Love is a former public school teacher who has been a home educator for 16 years. She is a Homeschool Mentor, a Certified Connected Families Parent Coach, and an instructor for CF coaches-in-training. Marni enjoys spending time with her husband, Eric, and their three sons in the beautiful mountains and beaches of Northern California. Marni is available for coaching and speaking. You can connect with her through her website, marnilove.com.
Amy Nyvall is a Connected Families Certified Parent Coach who lives near Portland, Oregon, where she homeschools her kids ages 14,11, and 9 and leads a vibrant Charlotte Mason Education Community and Co-op. Contact Amy at [email protected] or learn more about her here. Amy is available for coaching and speaking on the Connected Families Framework. You can even find her contributing to events on the CF Community in Mighty so you can interact with here there too.
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Lonely Motherhood No More: Finding Connection, Joy, and Support
2026/07/13
We were never meant to walk the parenting journey alone. In this heartwarming and eye-opening episode, host Cindy Wilson (Director of Education, Equipping, and Research at Connected Families) sits down with Crystal Wilson, the Director of Global Fundraising Strategy at Compassion International. Together, they explore the universal heartbeat of motherhood and the essential, life-giving power of Christian community.
If lonely motherhood has been weighing on you, and you're longing to build deeper, more authentic relationships right where you are, this conversation offers a beautiful reminder of how God wired us for connection, grace, and mutual support.
Key Takeaways:
Discover the universal heart of parenthood from mothers around the world
Learn practical steps to overcome isolation
Discover powerful stories of how local churches worldwide are partnering with organizations to bring joy
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Acts 2
Galatians 6:2
Matthew 16:18
Compassion International
Compassion’s Survival Program
Connected Families Ministry Partnership Program
The Table Monthly Giving Program
Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!
Guest Bio:
Crystal Wilson is a dynamic leader whose life purpose is to serve the world's most vulnerable by connecting them with life-changing resources. She currently serves as Director of Global Fundraising Strategy at Compassion International, leading global and multicultural fundraising strategies fueled by her faith, entrepreneurial mindset, and passion for Christ. A graduate of the University of Michigan with a Bachelor of Arts in Communications, Crystal spent 15 years in the automotive industry leading high-performing PR and marketing teams for major brands including Cadillac, Lincoln, and Nissan. Licensed to preach the gospel at age 24, she launched and led a young adult ministry for over five years under her father, Rev. Dr. David L. Roberson, Senior Pastor of New Hope Missionary Baptist Church, and also served as Director of Children's Church at Life Changers International Church. She is a co-founder of THRIVE!, Compassion's Employee Resource Group that supports and empowers working mothers. Above all, Crystal's most treasured roles are wife to Cameron Wilson and mom to Cameron Ray (14) and Christian David (11).
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© 2026 Connected Families
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Mamibictoria 2026/09/17
Connection before Correction
I cannot speak highly enough of Connected Families. We have been learning from multiple resources CF provides for the past 10 years and now that our d...
TimsTeamNashvegas 2025/09/23
Grounded in truth!
As a biblical counselor I’m always looking for helpful resources that point to the truth. This podcast has been an amazing resource for me as I naviga...
fellow human :) 2025/08/01
fellow mom :)
Connected Families has consistently encouraged me with their resources, and this podcast is no exception. Wise, helpful, practical! I’m grateful.
Archibaldm 2025/03/27
Life changing
Where would my family be without Connected Families? We needed these truths. We need these truths. We need this grace and encouragement as parents. Co...
apreelmac 2025/03/05
One of the BEST VOICES out there in the parenting space!
I have followed Connected Families blog and podcast for several years now. I am homeschooling two active, spirited, sensitive and possibly neurodiverg...
Choulistic 2025/03/02
So timely
Stacy, you said this episode is messed up, but I actually listened twice because it’s so comforting and important to know that I’m not alone.
Fragiumily 2024/10/11
Exactly what I’ve been needing
So grateful to God for leading my to this resource. They answer so many questions I have as a parent from a sound biblical perspective. But the thing ...
Beks Mitchell 2024/10/02
Wonderful!
Simply refreshing every time. Connected Families has completely changed the trajectory of our family. Beyond thankful.
laura_lew 2024/08/06
Inspiring & Practical
I love all of Connected Families resources because they are all both inspiring to me to love my kids well and teach them diligently AND practical abou...
mjbowdeygarcia 2024/07/08
“My child is not my report card!”
This phrase has come up a few times from y’all when I needed to hear it. Thank you for this truth! Many, many episodes of your Truth-filled podcast ha...
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