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A year ago, a simple question took over TikTok: if you were alone in the forest, would you rather encounter a bear or a man? Women overwhelmingly chose the bear. Some found it funny, some found it offensive, and many missed the point. In this episode of Good Is In The Details, we start with the bear and follow it somewhere bigger with Soraya Chemaly, journalist, activist, and author of All We Want Is Everything: How We Dismantle Male Supremacy. Why did that answer resonate so widely? What gender assumptions shape how we read women's caution, and how we dismiss it? And what does it mean that women still navigate bias in ordinary moments, like the walk to the car at night or a solo trip to an unfamiliar city, while many men never have to think about it? In this episode: Why the bear-or-man question struck a nerve The gender assumptions hiding in everyday situations The mental load of safety that often goes unnoticed How online spaces foster hostility towards women About the guest: Soraya Chemaly is a journalist, activist, and author whose work focuses on the words we use, the images we make, and how to act to build a better world. Her books include All We Want Is Everything and The Resilience Myth. Learn more at sorayachemaly.com Philosophy Resources, Media, and Contact: GoodIsInTheDetails.com Bonus content, Philosophy deep dives, and Behind-The-Scenes: Patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails Previous episodes mentioned: "Masculinity, Red Pill, and The Anger Economy" with Raphael Gomez and "The Hidden Resume" with Kate Mangino Book Recommendation mentioned in this episode (GIID Amazon Affiliate link): The Trajedy of Heterosexuality by Jane Ward  Get your "Contemplation Mode On" mug by Good Is In The Details

Introducing COLLIN GOSSELIN: The Real Story Behind One of America’s Most-Watched Families from On Purpose with Jay Shetty. Follow the show: On Purpose with Jay Shetty Collin Gosselin opens up about what it was really like growing up in the spotlight of Jon & Kate Plus 8, sharing his personal account of life behind the camera. He recounts his experiences with family isolation, allegations of physical abuse, time spent in a basement room, and his twenty-month stay in an institution he says he never needed to be in. Collin also details how a smuggled note led to a reunion with his father, how he is working to rebuild his life today, and why he is finally choosing to speak publicly about his past. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty Instagram Teen Accounts: Built-in protections for teens. Learn More. At https://chase.com/sapphirereserve JAY'S DAILY WISDOM DELIVERED STRAIGHT TO YOUR INBOX Join 900,000+ readers discovering how small daily shifts create big life change with my free newsletter. Subscribe here: https://news.jayshetty.me/subscribe Check out our Apple subscription to unlock bonus content of On Purpose! https://lnk.to/JayShettyPodcast What We Discuss: 00:00 Welcome To On Purpose And Disclaimer 01:43 Inside the Gosselin Household 03:50 Faking Reality On Camera 05:15 The Normalization Of Constant Filming 06:35 The Turning Point 09:06 Modern Child Exploitation 12:35 Pushing Back And Early On-Camera Resistance 17:02 Earliest Memories Of In-Home Abuse 20:37 Targeted Isolation And Homeschooling 25:21 Child Protective System Flaws 35:11 Advocacy In The Face Of Public Backlash 36:55 The Attempted Runaway 44:03 Institutionalization At Age 11 48:16 Twenty Months In Inpatient Confinement 53:53 The Official Admission Records 59:12 The Harsh Reality of Living in Isolation 01:04:45 The Smuggled Letter And Custody Battle 01:08:37 Reconnecting And Healing 01:11:26 Repairing The Father-Son Relationship 01:14:00 Turning Pain into Purpose 01:17:14 False Diagnoses & His Dream of Joining The Marines 01:24:41 Legal Defamation Threats 01:26:16 Where Does He Stand With His Siblings? 01:30:20 Who is Collin Today? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices DISCLAIMER: Please note, this is an independent podcast episode not affiliated with, endorsed by, or produced in conjunction with the host podcast feed or any of its media entities. The views and opinions expressed in this episode are solely those of the creators and guests. For any concerns, please reach out to [email protected].

The First Amendment protects you from the government, not from your boss, your university, or a social media platform. J.P. Messina, philosophy professor at Purdue and author of Private Censorship (Oxford University Press), joins us to untangle what "free speech" actually means when most modern censorship isn't coming from the state at all. We dig into cancel culture, the difference between government censorship and private consequences for speech, why professors increasingly self-censor in the classroom out of fear of public backlash, and what John Stuart Mill's On Liberty still has to teach us about the value of open inquiry. A conversation about philosophy, ethics, and free speech in the age of deplatforming. Hosted by Gwendolyn Dolske, Ph.D. and Rudy Salo Click here to learn more about Professor Messina's work. Philosophy Resources, books, media, and more at GoodIsInTheDetails.com

How do we build stronger relationships with our children, especially when we're tired, overwhelmed, or simply seeing a situation through adult eyes? In this special Podapalooza mini-episode, Gwendolyn talks with speech-language pathologist and The Language of Playhost Dinalynn Rosenbush about how our understanding of child development is changing the way we parent. Dinalynn shares practical ways parents can use play, curiosity, and connection to better understand what a child is communicating. What happens, for example, when we resist telling a crying child that something is "no big deal" and become curious about why it feels like a very big deal from their perspective? And what can an exhausted parent do when a child asks to play at the end of a long workday? The conversation also takes a philosophical turn. We examine the assumptions inherited from previous generations, the danger of treating "that's how I was raised" as sufficient evidence for how children should be raised, and the generalizations we make about who children are supposed to be. Instead, what happens when parents remain open to new research about children's brains, communication, and development—and remain curious about the unique little human in front of them? A warm, practical conversation about parenting, child development, family relationships, emotional wellness, communication, and the surprising power of play. Learn more about Dinalynn's work: The Language of Play More Philosophy Resources, Media, Books, and Podcasting Tools: GoodIsInTheDetails.com Get your "Curiosity Mode On" mug inspired by Good Is In The Details.

We're taught that perseverance is always a virtue, but what if the very trait we celebrate is quietly costing us our sense of meaning? Michael Scarano, a healthcare veteran turned speaker and coach, joins us to unpack what he calls "toxic perseverance": pushing forward not from purpose, but from unexamined beliefs formed by trauma and unmet needs. We dig into the real difference between healthy resilience and burnout, how to tell if you're persevering toward something or just running from stopping, and what Aristotle's idea of eudaimonia, a genuinely flourishing life, not just a productive one, has to do with any of it. The conversation also opens up into a candid discussion of ADHD, how the condition shapes the brain differently, and why it's finally getting more accurate attention in medicine and media.  Check out Michael Scarano's Ted Talk Learn more about Michael's work and his book on Toxic Perserverance Philosophy Books, Resources, Recommendations: GoodIsInTheDetails.com Get your "Contemplation Mode On" mug

Honesty might be the character trait we claim to value most, but what does it actually mean to be honest, and how is that different from simply telling the truth, or "being authentic"? Philosopher Christian Miller, author of The Honesty Crisis, joins us to untangle these distinctions and make the case that honesty is eroding faster than we realize, from deepfakes and AI-written schoolwork to the quiet ways social media rewards dishonesty that flatters our own side. We dig into virtue ethics and what it actually takes to be an honest person in practice, not just in principle, including a great real-world case study from Rudy's own world of contract law, where the professional "rule" is to draft every agreement in your client's favor while staying strictly honest. That tension opens up a bigger conversation about whether honesty is ever context-dependent, and what that means for how we behave online, where the rules, and the witnesses, are different. Before the interview, Gwen and Rudy also talk through a few legal questions raised by the ongoing Lindsay Clancy trial, which has drawn significant public attention. It's less about the case itself and more about the exercise: using tools from past episodes on misinformation, conspiracy thinking, and justice to think more critically about how a case like this gets covered; which is, at its core, exactly what this podcast is for. More Philosophy Resources, Book Recommendations, and Podcast News: https://www.goodisinthedetails.com Get your "Contemplation Mode On" coffee mug Learn more about Professor Miller's work: ChristianbMiller.com

What if the United States was never immune to cult thinking, but was built on it? Journalist Jane Borden joins Gwendolyn and Rudy to unpack her book Cults Like Us: Why Doomsday Thinking Drives America, tracing a direct line from Puritan doomsday belief to modern conspiracy theories, self-help culture, and our national obsession with strongmen and influencers. We dig into how to actually define a cult (without being hyperbolic about it), the surprising overlap between cults and conspiracy theories, why doomsday predictions are so effective for cult leaders, and what role the justice system plays when belief crosses into control. We also explore why cult stories captivate us the way true crime does and, most importantly, what actually happens in the moment someone's critical thinking finally breaks through the isolation a cult creates. A conversation about American history, critical thinking skills, and the psychology of belief that might change how you see the news, your feed, and the country itself. Philosophy Resources, Jane Borden's book Cults Like Us, and Gifts for Book Lovers: GoodIsInTheDetails.com Join our Patreon, book club, and get exclusive behind-the-scenes: Patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails Learn more about Jane Borden's Work: https://www.janeborden.com Get your "In My Intellectual Curiosity Era" Tote Listen to Rudy Salo on the podcast Deliberations, season 4.

How do echo chambers influence our beliefs? How do you know what is true on the internet? Why does misinformation spread so quickly online? What is an echo chamber, and how does confirmation bias influence the way we evaluate information? In this episode of Good Is In The Details, Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome sociologist Matthew Facciani, author of Misguided: Where Misinformation Starts, How It Spreads, and What To Do About It, for an engaging conversation about the psychology and sociology of misinformation. Together they explore: • What misinformation is, and why it's so persuasive • Why our social identities often matter more than facts • How echo chambers and online communities reinforce existing beliefs • The role of confirmation bias in shaping what we think is true • Why intelligent people can still believe false information • Practical critical thinking strategies for evaluating claims and sources • How to recognize credible evidence and challenge your own assumptions • Ways to become a more thoughtful consumer of news, social media, and online information Rather than simply asking what people believe, this conversation examines why we believe it. Drawing from sociology, psychology, philosophy, and critical thinking, Matthew Facciani explains how our need for belonging, identity, and certainty can make us vulnerable to misinformation, and what we can do to become better thinkers. Whether you're interested in media literacy, critical thinking, online behavior, confirmation bias, or simply want to become more confident in evaluating information on the internet, this episode offers practical tools for navigating today's complex information landscape. Guest: Matthew Facciani, sociologist and author of Misguided: Where Misinformation Starts, How It Spreads, and What To Do About It If you enjoy conversations that encourage curiosity, evidence-based reasoning, and philosophy for everyday life, subscribe to Good Is In The Details and leave a review. Your support helps more listeners discover thoughtful conversations about ethics, psychology, science, education, and the ideas shaping our world. https://www.goodisinthedetails.com

The mixtape structural metaphor ushers in a philosophical lens. Because a mixtape (as every Gen X person who ever made one knows) is a curated act of autobiography. It's how you tell someone the truth about yourself when you don't yet have the courage to say it out loud. It's the thing you hand to someone and say: here is who I am, track by track, in the order I chose. That is exactly what memoir does. And in this conversation, Nicole, Gwendolyn, and Rudy explore what it means to tell that truth, on the page, in a life, in a body that lived multiple lives inside one. In this episode of Good Is In The Details, Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo sit down with Nicole Morrison , educator, author, founder of Nicole Morrison Strategies, and creator of The FoundHers Table, for a conversation that begins with music and ends somewhere much deeper: in the territory of what it costs to tell your own story, and what it gives you back. What we explore in this episode: The mixtape as a Gen X artifact: what making a mixtape actually was, why it mattered, and how that act of curation maps onto the act of writing a memoir The role of music in memory and identity: how songs hold entire chapters of a life, and why Nicole structured her memoir around that experience of listening What it means to write memoir as a form of subjective truth: not the objective facts of what happened, but the lived, felt, interior reality of what it was like to be inside a particular life at a particular moment. As Gwendolyn notes from her training in existentialism: the memoir is a philosophical act, a claim that the subjective experience of a life has value and deserves to be witnessed How writing is a form of therapy, and how memoir specifically, as an act of articulating what you've lived, can help both the writer who tells the story and the reader who recognizes themselves in it. Coming out — twice — and what that experience reveals about the relationship between identity, community, and the courage it takes to choose your truth when that truth might cost you everything What it means to live multiple lives inside one body, and how the Gen X generation, raised in a world that was changing faster than it could protect its children, developed a particular relationship to reinvention, self-reliance, and the construction of identity The process of writing this book: how Nicole found the structure, how the vignette form emerged, what it means to write about people you love in ways that might hurt them, and how you decide what goes in and what stays out What Nicole has learned from the act of telling her own story about the stories other people are carrying silently, and why she believes that giving people language for what they've been carrying alone is among the most important things a writer can do. This episode is for the Gen X-er who made mixtapes for people who didn't fully understand them. For the person who came out late, or twice, or not yet. For anyone who has wondered whether the story they've been living is really theirs. And for everyone who has ever suspected that the most honest thing they could do, for themselves and for others, is to sit down and write the truth, finally, without apology. It is June. Pride Month. The month when the books that tell the truth about queer lives are celebrated, recommended, shared, and pressed into the hands of people who need them. This book and this conversation belong in that tradition. Guest: Nicole Morrison: educator, writer, coach, and author of Growing Up Happy in a Lonely World: A Mixtape Memoir. Founder of Nicole Morrison Strategies and creator of The FoundHers Table, where she helps people find clarity, courage, and purpose. She lives in North Dakota with her family, where she divides her time between teaching, coaching, writing, and dancing in the kitchen to 90s mixtape magic. https://www.goodisinthedetails.com 💛 patreon.com/goodisinthedetails 📚 Growing Up Happy in a Lonely World by Nicole Morrison — available on Amazon Get Good Is In The Details inspired tote!

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome Casey Berman: former attorney, founder of Leave Law Behind (the leading coaching program helping attorneys transition into non-legal careers), multipreneur, strategy consultant, speaker, and author, for a discussion about work, identity, happiness, and the courage it takes to choose a different life. Casey knows this territory from the inside. He lived it. And he has spent years helping thousands of attorneys find what he calls their Unique Genius, the specific intersection of talent and joy that, when aligned with their work, produces not just professional success but the deeper contentment that a career in law, for many, was never able to provide. What we explore in this episode: The reality of life inside the legal profession, the hours, the pace, the stress, the culture, and why so many attorneys feel trapped even when their career looks successful from the outside What you can actually do with a law degree that doesn't involve practicing law, and why the answer is far broader and more interesting than most law students are ever told: consulting, compliance, legal technology, entrepreneurship, writing, business development, policy, education, coaching, and more than 100 documented alternatives The specific steps Casey recommends for assessing whether your unhappiness is situational (the wrong firm, the wrong practice area, the wrong city) or fundamental (the wrong career entirely), and why getting that diagnosis right is the most important first step How to get feedback from the people in your life, family, friends, colleagues, mentors, to identify what you are genuinely good at, what lights you up, and where your skills create value outside a courtroom or a contract review Bertrand Russell and The Conquest of Happiness, and why Russell's argument that most human unhappiness is self-generated and rooted in the wrong relationship to work maps precisely onto what Casey has observed in the legal profession for over a decade What Russell wrote about the sunk cost of identity: why we must be willing to let go of what we have invested in, emotionally, financially, intellectually, when it's clear it is not our talent or our strength, and why it is not only acceptable but necessary to grieve the self you thought you would be Rudy's perspective as a lawyer who stayed, and his advice for law students: do not let go of what makes you happy, because the time you spend on those things (screenwriting, acting, podcasting) will make you a better lawyer, not a worse one Casey's thoughts on the role of AI in law, what this means for the profession and those going into law. The philosophy of the examined career: what Socrates, Russell, and Casey Berman all agree on about the relationship between self-knowledge, honest feedback, and the possibility of genuine happiness in your work Books Mentioned in this episode (with Amazon Affiliate link): The Conquest of Happiness by Bertrand Russell The Million Dollar One Person Business by Elaine Pofeldt The Ancient Art of Thinking For Yourself: The Power of Rhetoric in Polarized Times by Robin Reames Guest: Casey Berman: founder of Leave Law Behind, the leading coaching program helping attorneys identify and transition into fulfilling non-legal careers. Multipreneur, strategy consultant, speaker, and storyteller. Former attorney. His work has been featured across major media and podcast platforms. Based in San Francisco. Good Is In The Details is hosted by Gwendolyn Dolske, Ph.D. and Rudy Salo — a philosophy, books, and ideas podcast exploring the examined life in the spirit of Socrates. 📱 @GoodIsInTheDetailsPod  💛 patreon.com/goodisinthedetails

In this episode of Good Is In The Details, Gwendolyn Dolske sits down with Karen Olson — founder and CEO emeritus of Family Promise, a national nonprofit organization dedicated to helping homeless and low-income families, whose organization has trained and mobilized over one million volunteers over the past thirty years to provide services to homeless families, and author of Meant for More: Following Your Heart and Finding Your Purpose, to have the conversation about homelessness that most people are too uncomfortable, too misinformed, or too distant to have.  The myths Karen dismantles in this conversation: The homeless are lazy. The homeless are addicted and choose not to get help. Homelessness is an individual failure rather than a systemic one. The people on the street are strangers with no history and no future. Karen has spent thirty years learning the truth. Family Promise has helped more than a quarter of a million people annually, and in that work Karen has come to know her clients the way most of us know our neighbors: by name, by story, by the specific combination of circumstances and choices and bad luck and systemic failure that brought them to where they are.  She calls them her friends. In a culture that speaks of homeless people as a mess to be cleaned up, as a problem to be managed, as a category rather than a collection of individuals with names and histories and futures, Karen Olson calls them her friends. And she means it. What we explore in this episode: Who is actually homeless in America, and why the answer will surprise you. Children. Veterans. Families. People who work full-time jobs that pay less than the cost of a roof over their head The drug and alcohol addiction myth, what Karen has actually observed about addiction and homelessness, why addiction makes it harder for people to accept help, and the conditions under which she has watched people move away from it when genuine opportunity is offered The policy dimension: how government decisions about mental health treatment, addiction services, affordable housing, and the minimum wage are not separate from the homelessness crisis, they are its architecture Why the cost of living has outpaced income for entire categories of employment, and what that means for who ends up on the street Why this book is not about guilt or moral obligation, it is a gentle but firm call to action, an invitation rather than an indictment, asking simply: what if the smallest acts of kindness aren't small at all?  Why kindness toward yourself is where the work of kindness toward others begins, and how that insight connects to the deepest traditions of moral philosophy  A deeper exploration of Kant's ethics and how they apply to homelessness, compassion, and our obligations to one another is coming to Patreon (exclusively for members of The Examined Life). This book is about human connection. It is about recognizing the invisible and understanding that sometimes the smallest acts of kindness aren't small at all.  And it is about the most Socratic thing a person can do: stop, pay attention, learn someone's name, and let that moment change you. Guest: Karen Olson — founder and CEO emeritus of Family Promise, a national nonprofit organization dedicated to helping homeless and low-income families, whose organization has trained and mobilized over one million volunteers over the past thirty years. Recipient of the 1992 Points of Light Award from President George H.W. Bush, the New Jersey Governor's Pride Award in Social Services, and the Jefferson Award from the American Institute for Public Service. Profiled by CBS News. Featured in Courage Is Contagious by Congressman John Kasich. Author of Meant for More: Following Your Heart and Finding Your Purpose.  Good Is In The Details is hosted by Gwendolyn Dolske, Ph.D. and Rudy Salo — a philosophy, books, and ideas podcast exploring the examined life in the spirit of Socrates. 💛 patreon.com/goodisinthedetails — The Examined Life: Kant's Ethics and the Philosophy of Compassion — coming soon, exclusively for paid members Get Karen's book (Amazon Affiliate link): Special Shoutout: https://drrobinbuckley.com/podcast/ Covenant House Information

Critical thinking, happiness, career goals, and...how we understand moving about our cities.  What assumptions do we hold onto about our purpose?  In this episode of Good Is In The Details, Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo sit down with Paul Comfort — Senior Vice President at Modaxo Americas, former CEO of the Maryland Transit Administration and Transloc, host of the award-winning Transit Unplugged podcast, and author of the forthcoming book Find Your X Factor — for a conversation that moves seamlessly from Socratic self-knowledge to the engineering of communities, and argues that both are expressions of the same fundamental question: what does it mean to live well, together? The episode begins where Paul's book begins, with the inward turn. Find Your X Factor is a guide to identifying your authentic skill set, your genuine talents, and the voice inside you that knows what kind of work would allow you to fully express who you are rather than chasing the career someone else told you to want. Gwendolyn hears in this an unmistakably Socratic echo: the ancient Greek philosopher who insisted that the examined life, the life turned inward toward honest self-knowledge, was the only foundation for genuine happiness. Paul Comfort, it turns out, has been teaching Socrates to transportation executives for years without using the word. And then the conversation does something unexpected. Because Paul's own story, the story of how he discovered his X Factor, leads directly to public transportation. To the buses, trains, metros, and ferries that move millions of people every day in ways that most of us take entirely for granted, or dismiss entirely, or never use at all. And once you understand public transit through a philosophical lens, you cannot see it the same way again. What we explore in this episode: What the X Factor actually is, and how the process of identifying your authentic skill set and inner voice connects directly to Aristotle's concept of eudaimonia and the Socratic imperative to know yourself before you can know anything else worth knowing Why infrastructure is not a static reality but a designed choice and what it means philosophically and politically that we can choose differently How public transportation serves as a moving connection weaving people, places, and possibilities together, and why that vision of transit as civic infrastructure rather than welfare service changes the entire conversation about investment and access  The philosophy of access and independence: what it means for someone who cannot afford a car, or is too young, too old, or physically unable to drive, to have genuine mobility, and how the presence or absence of good transit determines whether those people can fully participate in the life of their community Why better transit infrastructure produces measurable improvements in public health, from reduced traffic stress and car maintenance burden to the physical benefits of walking to a stop, to the cognitive benefits of time spent reading or thinking rather than driving The argument that infrastructure investment is a moral argument, not just an economic one, and what philosophy says about a society's obligation to design its shared spaces for everyone, not just those with the most resources Why public transit is not only for people who struggle, and how we lost the sense of wonder that children still feel when they board a train or a bus or a plane for the first time, and what it would mean to get it back The engineering of awe: what it means to look at a subway system, a suspension bridge, or an airport terminal and feel genuine amazement at what human cooperation and ingenuity can accomplish, and why recovering that sense of wonder is itself a philosophical act What Paul Comfort's career reveals about the relationship between personal purpose and public good, and how finding your X Factor might just lead you to work that makes the world more just, more connected, and more navigable for everyone in it This is the episode for anyone who has ever felt stuck between who they are and what they're supposed to be, and anyone who has ever looked at a city and wondered whether it was built for people like them. The answer to both questions, it turns out, begins in the same place. Guest: Paul Comfort — Senior Vice President, Modaxo Americas. Former CEO, Maryland Transit Administration and Transloc. Host, Transit Unplugged podcast. Author of Find Your X Factor (forthcoming) and The Innovative Transit Leader: Drive Change and Organizational Excellence. A leading voice in the public transportation industry with deep executive and thought leadership credentials across transit systems in North America and globally.  Good Is In The Details is hosted by Gwendolyn Dolske, Ph.D. and Rudy Salo — a philosophy, books, and ideas podcast exploring the examined life in the spirit of Socrates. Learn more about Paul's work: https://paulcomfort.org Philosophy Resources, Book Club, and Support the pod: https://www.patreon.com/c/GoodIsInTheDetails Get in touch: https://www.goodisinthedetails.com Get your copy of Interview with Intention

What can Star Wars teach us about happiness, attachment, and the search for meaning? In this episode of Good Is In The Details, we explore the philosophy behind one of the most influential cultural phenomena of our time, Star Wars, through the lens of Eastern philosophy with Professor Noble (One With The Force: 18 Universal Truths in Star Wars). From the Jedi's emphasis on detachment to the dangers of fear and desire, we examine how ideas rooted in Buddhist and Eastern thought shape the moral universe of Star Wars. At the heart of the conversation is a powerful insight: clinging to what is temporary can lead to suffering. We discuss: The connection between Eastern philosophy and Star Wars Why attachment can lead to suffering and destructive choices How fear, desire, and control shape human behavior The philosophical meaning of balance and letting go What Star Wars reveals about happiness and the human condition This episode invites listeners to think more deeply about: What is happiness? Why do we cling to things that don't last? How can philosophy help us live better lives? By connecting pop culture with philosophical insight, this conversation shows how timeless ideas about suffering, impermanence, and self-awareness continue to resonate in modern storytelling. 🎧 Listen now to explore how Star Wars brings ancient philosophy into everyday life, and what it can teach us about letting go. Learn more about Dr. Noble's work and get her book: https://www.kristanoble.com Click here for Podcasting Tips and Philosophy Resources

What happens when local journalism disappears, and how does it affect democracy, critical thinking, and informed citizens? Is local journalism disappearing, and what does that mean for democracy? In this episode of Good Is In The Details, we speak with journalist Liz Farmer about the decline of local press, the economics of modern media, and why journalism is essential for an informed public. As news consumption increasingly shifts toward national outlets, social media, and algorithm-driven content, many communities are losing access to local reporting. But what happens when citizens no longer have reliable information about their own cities, policies, and elected officials? We explore: The "death of local news" and its real-world impact How journalism helps citizens understand public policy and government spending Why local reporting is essential for informed voting and civic engagement The role of journalism in developing critical thinking skills How echo chambers and media consolidation narrow public understanding What is lost when readers stop engaging deeply with information Drawing from her work covering state and local fiscal policy, Liz Farmer explains how journalists translate complex issues—like budgets, taxes, and public spending—into accessible knowledge for everyday citizens. This episode asks an urgent question: Can democracy function without a well-informed public? If you've ever wondered: Why is local journalism important? What is happening to local news in the U.S.? How does media affect democracy and voting? Why is critical thinking declining? How do we evaluate sources and credibility? This conversation offers a powerful and timely perspective. 🎧 Listen now to understand why journalism, and the ability to think critically about information, matters more than ever. Learn more about Liz Farmer's work: https://www.farmersfieldonline.com Be part of our community on Patreon where the Philosophy continues...https://www.patreon.com/c/GoodIsInTheDetails Sharpen your podcast skills with Interview with Intention on Amazon. Get in touch: https://www.goodisinthedetails.com To explore more episodes, recommended readings, and podcast resources, click here Resources for donating: https://kffhealthnews.org and https://www.propublica.org

In 1990, 55% of American adults reported having sex weekly. By 2024 that number had fallen to just 37%, and among adults aged 18–29, the share reporting no sex at all in the past year has doubled, from 12% to 24%. We are in the middle of a sex recession. And most of us have no idea why, or what to do about it. In this special episode of Good Is In The Details (recorded live at Podapalooza, a one-day podcast matching event) host Gwendolyn Dolske sits down with Xanet Pailet: nationally recognized sexuality educator and coach, somatic sexologist, and bestselling author of Living an Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure, a former NYC healthcare lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades before experiencing her own sexual healing and dedicating her career to helping others do the same. It's philosophy of intimacy, and genuinely useful psychology all in one conversation. What we explore in this episode: What's actually driving the sex recession, from smartphones and "bedtime procrastination" to the collapse of in-person socializing (young adults in 2024 spend less than half as much time with friends as they did in 2010) and what it means for our relationships. Why inadequate sex education and overexposure to pornography are creating unrealistic expectations and disconnecting people from genuine intimacy, and what healthy sexual education actually looks like. How bad early sexual experiences create lasting somatic patterns that shut people down, and what it takes to heal them. The common thread running through every healthy, intimate long-term relationship, and why most couples never talk about it. How to get unstuck in a long-term relationship that has lost its spark: practical, evidence-based, and compassionate strategies from a coach who has helped hundreds of couples. Why sexual expression is inseparable from emotional needs, and what happens to both partners when those needs go unaddressed for years. Whether you're in a long-term relationship that's lost its spark, navigating your own relationship with desire and intimacy, or simply trying to understand why an entire generation seems to be opting out of sex, this episode will give you a new framework for thinking about one of the most fundamental human experiences. About the format: This episode was recorded at Podapalooza — a live podcast matching event where hosts and guests connect in real time, no pre-research, no prepared talking points. What you hear is a genuinely spontaneous conversation. Sometimes the most honest episodes are the unplanned ones. Guest: Xanet Pailet: nationally recognized sexuality educator and coach, bestselling author of Living an Orgasmic Life, certified Somatica Sex and Intimacy Coach, Somatic Sexologist, Holistic Pelvic Care Practitioner, Tantra Educator, and Somatic Experiencing Trauma practitioner. Faculty at 1440 Multiversity, Ecstatic Living Institute, and the Somatica Institute. Based in Asheville, North Carolina. Good Is In The Details is hosted by Gwendolyn Dolske, Ph.D. and Rudy Salo — a philosophy, books, and ideas podcast exploring the examined life in the spirit of Socrates. Learn more about Xanet's work: https://www.passionateintimacyretreats.com Join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/c/GoodIsInTheDetails Get your copy of Interview with Intention on Amazon Get starting on your own podcast with Gwendolyn's class on thinkific: "How to Create Your Podcast" Best Books in Philosophy, Gifts for Book Lovers, Philosophy Resources for the classroom: https://www.goodisinthedetails.com From "The Curious Collection": "in My Curiosity Intellectual Era" tote.