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68 episodes
Language
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Tenderfire MediaExplicit
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Date created
2020/01/09
Latest episode
2022/06/21
Average duration
49 min.
Release period
7 days
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Dear Jessamyn is a weekly podcast encompassing real, raw, and rarely sugar-coated conversations about relationships and loving outside the box. Hosted by romantic partners — award winning writer and yogi, Jessamyn Stanley and Tenderfire Media founder ashe danger phoenix — listeners receive intimate access into the lives of a polyamorous queer couple navigating life.
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319 In A Hetero Relationship, How Do I Connect To My Queerness?
2022/06/21
This week, Jessamyn and ashe are calling in joy and levity and spirit presence happy good and bright and meant to be and always was and here.
Episode mentions: Out of the Closet, Logic, Kathryn Budi, Asha Patel Designs collab, Tenderfire Media’s newest podcast I Hate It Here, Planet Earth, The Planet Podcast
This episode was recorded on stole Ohlone land.
Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media
Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley.
Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts
Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media
Janie Leopard does our episode art
Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff
Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff
https://fruitsnack.bandcamp.com/ does our theme music.
Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify.
There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com
You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review.
318 Have You Ever Dated a Narcissist?
2022/06/14
Have you ever dated someone with an STD? Is it selfish to pursue a relationship with a married person? This week’s Deary is an Aquarius with some impactful queries.
Episode mentions: Words of Wisdom by Ram Dass, Dharmacosm, Ekhart Tolle's Power of Now audiobook, Letters to a Young Poet by Rainer Maria Rilke and DSM5’s definition of Narcissistic Personality Disorder
This episode was recorded on stolen Ohlone land.
Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media
Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley.
Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts
Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media
Janie Leopard does our episode art
Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff
Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff
https://fruitsnack.bandcamp.com/ does our theme music.
Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify.
There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com
You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review.
No one should be in jail for weed.
Tags: love, relationships, trivia, Harriet the Spy, Michelle Trachtenberg,astrology,jessamyn stanley,RV,camper,traveling,ULTA,skincare,skin,eczema, Nickelodeon, astrology,Roe v Wade, supreme court, abortion
317 Does Your Roommate Clap Cheeks In Front of You?
2022/06/07
Wait, there’s a platypus controlling you? What? ANYWAY. This week, Jessamyn and ashe are diving into their favorite things (RE: the first sentence of this description), giving last week’s trivia answer (hint: Durham native), responding to some listener feedback and answering a Deary with a Queery.
Episode mentions: Pauli Murray, Barbara Lau and Ep. 312: Does Your Therapist Know Your Astrology
Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media
Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley.
Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts
Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media
Janie Leopard does our episode art
Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff
Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff
https://fruitsnack.bandcamp.com/ does our theme music.
Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify.
There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com
You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review.
No one should be in jail for weed.
316 How Did This Happen? Eczema, Chick-Fil-A and Janie Gibbs
2022/05/31
There’s something in the air this week as Jessamyn and ashe record after the partial solar eclipse. Our hosts review 315’s trivia answer (hint: Cancerian Black genius immigrant) and talk about recent skincare adventures. Also, fu*k the Supreme Court.
This episode mentions Ashe’s white guilt from Ep. 313 and Harriet The Spy.
This episode was recorded on stolen lands of the Kiauwee Confederacy.
Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media
Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley.
Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts
Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media
Janie Leopard does our episode art
Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff
Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff
https://fruitsnack.bandcamp.com/ does our theme music.
Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify.
There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com
You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review.
No one should be in jail for weed.
315 Can You Enter A New Season Without Your Partner?
2022/05/24
Jessamyn answers a DM about her relationship with her other partner, and what it’s like to start a new phase of her life with physical distance between them. Also introducing a new segment…
CW: Suicide and suicidal ideations at 5:41 and 10:16.
This episode mentions: Haus of Phoenix, @HungryHUngryHeejin, Four Agreements
Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media
Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley.
Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts
Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media
Janie Leopard does our episode art
Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff
Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff
https://fruitsnack.bandcamp.com/ does our theme music.
Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify.
There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com
You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review.
No one should be in jail for weed.
314 How Do You Tantrum?
2022/05/17
What does it look like to be luxurious with time? Jessamyn and ashe are here with updates from camper on the East Coast, continuing conversations about conflict. This week we’re also introducing our newest segments: Our Favorite Things and Trivia! Hey quick reminder: No One Should Be In Jail For Weed.
This episode mentions the We Go High Shop, Song Exploder, Waxahachee and Radiotopia
Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media
Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley.
Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts
Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media
Janie Leopard does our episode art
Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff
Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff
Fruit Snack does our theme music.
Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify.
There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com
You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review.
No one should be in jail for weed.
313 What's Your Conflict Animal?
2022/05/10
When was the last time you thought about what makes you mad and what that was actually about? This week Jesssamyn and ashe are individually reflecting on the context of their internal and relationship conflicts, and yes, what their conflict animals mean.
Mentions
Conflict is Not Abuse: Overstating Harm, Community Responsibility, and the Duty of Repair by Sarah SchulmanThe Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom by Don Miguel Ruiz with Janet MillsDear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media
Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley.
Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts
Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media
Janie Leopard does our episode art
Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff
Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff
Fruit Snack does our theme music.
This episode also contains music from: bomull, Viriya, Vicki Vox, Soara, Iso Indies and Tyra Chantey
Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify.
There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com
You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review.
No one should be in jail for weed.
312 Does Your Therapist Know Your Astrology?
2022/05/03
Does your therapist know your Big Three, Myers-Briggs and attachment style? Jessamyn and ashe discuss the importance of openness with your therapist. There’s also some conversation about capitalism. Cue the O’Jays.
Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media
Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley.
Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts
Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media
Janie Leopard does our episode art
Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff
Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff
Fruit Snack does our theme music.
This episode also contains music from: Particle House, Cody High, DAJANA, Arc De Soleil and Mimmi Bangoura
Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify.
There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com
You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review.
No one should be in jail for weed.
311 What's Your November?
2022/04/26
It's April, but we thought we should ask. Jessamyn and Ashe discuss what's new in paradise, all of Jessamyn’s recent travel and answer Tyler The Creator's question; What's Your November? Do you know where you are on your journey?
Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media
Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley.
Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts
Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media
Janie Leopard does our episode art
Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff
Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff
Fruit Snack does our theme music.
This episode also contains music from: SINY, Shy5, DAJANA, Tyler the Creator and The Whites
Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify.
There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com
You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review.
No one should be in jail for weed.
310 Can A Monogamous Person Be Wild?
2022/04/19
Jessamyn and Ashe ponder a question from a Deary: Can a monogamous person find as much adventure and challenge as a polyamorous person can?
Upon reflection during What's New In Paradise, Jessamyn also shares that she may be asking for more vulnerability from Ashe than she typically offers from herself.
Got a question? Head to Dearjessamyn.com/queery and you may hear it play on the show!
Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media
Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley.
Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts
Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media
Janie Leopard does our episode art
Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff
Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff
Fruit Snack does our theme music.
This episode also contains music from: Mimmi Bangoura, DAJANA, Particle House and King Sis
Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify.
There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com
You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review.
No one should be in jail for weed.
309 When Fire Meets The Ocean
2022/04/12
We’re taking some time to spring clean today! It’s time to reflect on the past; think on where you've been and what you're carrying and what you're going to bring forward this season.
Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media
Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley.
Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts
Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media
Janie Leopard does our episode art
Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff
Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff
Fruit Snack does our theme music.
Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify.
There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com
You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review.
No one should be in jail for weed.
Replay - 106 Am I Poly Or Am I Bored
2022/04/05
In this replay episode from May 2020, Jessamyn and ashe ask; Are you dreaming of the day quarantine is over, and you can finally head over to your friend's house so you can ruin your friendship with sex? We are too. What a different world!
I mean, what else are we thinking about these days? Ashe and Jessamyn finish their conversation about compersion, having sex with friends, having good communication with friends later and deciding that you don't need to do that anymore, and ultimately, loving yourself. I know you are shocked at that one.
In this episode, we mention an entirely fake hookup app that we made up because we think it should exist. And then we realized that hookup apps are somewhat a thing of the past, or at least they should be right now, please. Stay safe out there, y'all. We're in this together means, please stay home if you can and be careful with your precious life. And everyone else's.
Got a question? Head to Dearjessamyn.com/queery and you may hear it play on the show!
Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media
Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley.
Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts
Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media
Janie Leopard does our episode art
Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff
Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff
Fruit Snack does our theme music.
Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify.
There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com
You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review.
No one should be in jail for weed.
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AJMB18 2022/06/16
Love it
Love Ashe and Jessamyn and the way they let us see both the good and the bad of their life. I often feel so seen and understood when listening to them...
Rabertron 2022/05/25
If you enjoy Where Shall We Begin…
This show is not what you might be expecting. It is more and beyond. When I listen to it I have a very similar experience as I do when listening to th...
wheres_my_weenie 2022/04/03
Love listening to Jessamyn and ashe!!
I’m a queer with a dog in Richmond, VA, and really appreciated the shoutout to my city in the most recent episode - Where’s a Queer Supposed to Live?
Dmbgirl27 2022/03/08
Love y’all so much!
I found this podcast because I found Jessamyn via yoga things years ago. I did not think I’d find this podcast relatable but I was so wrong. I’ve lear...
divinitycracked 2022/03/04
An exploration
Really grateful for the consistency of authenticity from y’all
Budding Realist 2021/12/18
Radically Radiant
Am beyond grateful for conversations that encourage and shed light on being imperfect. Also, the authentic quality of the conversations between Jessam...
emcglee 2021/11/23
Gem of a podcast
I’m so grateful to have found this podcast. Not only do I love the dynamic between Ashe and Jessamyn, but Ive learned so much about myself and my rela...
Brittanii805 2021/11/05
ASMR for my soul
Let me just say. I love y’all for a multitude of reasons. Your voices are so soothing and listening to your podcast just eases my mind.
andrew_girvan 2021/10/10
Yes, yes, yes
Welcome to the concourse of souls.
I laugh, I nod, I snap. I resonate with my whole being.
Bearing witness to Ash and Jessamyn, holding their musing...
KLHappy 2021/09/01
Here for all this!
Loving these conversations so much.
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