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Episode Notes About Amy Farner Amy Farner is Executive Vice President and Head of Product at The Josh Bersin Company. She previously led Deloitte Consulting’s survey research and analytics practice and brings over 20 years of experience helping organizations drive results through data, insights, and industry trends. What You’ll Learn in This Episode Why consulting firms are shifting from projects to AI-powered platforms How tools like Lilli, AskGartner, and Galileo are changing the industry What early signals, like higher renewal rates, reveal about AI adoption The difference between access to information and trusted insight How AI is accelerating speed, scale, and personalization in consulting Why SaaS models are becoming more valuable than traditional services How AI is opening access to advisory services for underserved markets The evolving role of consultants in a world of instant information Where human judgment remains essential in decision-making What the next 3–5 years of consulting could look like Key Insights from the Episode The value of consulting is shifting from delivering answers to guiding decisions AI is not replacing consultants, it is redefining where they create value Firms that fail to adapt to AI-enabled delivery models risk being displaced Smaller and mid-sized companies now have access to insights that were once reserved for the enterprise level Communication and strategic thinking are becoming more important than traditional “hard skills” Resources & Links Galileo AI Agent by The Josh Bersin Companyhttps://getgalileo.ai/agent The Josh Bersin Companyhttps://joshbersin.com/ Think First

In today’s environment, leadership requires more than results. It requires connection, clarity, and the ability to lead people through constant change. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why “good” leadership is a hidden liability What employees are really thinking but not saying The six differentiators of exceptional leaders Why Heart skills are critical in today’s workplace How leaders unintentionally create distance by “wearing armor” What it looks like to lead with authenticity and clarity Simple, practical actions you can implement this week Learn more from David Grossman: 📘 Book + resources:https://www.yourthoughtpartner.com/heart-work-modern-leadership?utm_source=deliberateleaderspodcast&utm_medium=pr_podcast&utm_campaign=heartworkbooklaunch 📊 Research study:https://www.yourthoughtpartner.com/hubfs/Heart%20Work%20Modern%20Leadership%20Book/Bonus_Gifts/Bonus%20Gift_The_Grossman_Group_Harris_Poll_Study_Exceptional%20Leadership_v.4_FINAL.pdf?utm_source=deliberateleaderspodcast&utm_medium=pr_podcast&utm_campaign=heartworkbooklaunch 🎤 Speaking & leadership insights:https://www.yourthoughtpartner.com/leadership-speaker?utm_source=deliberateleaderspodcast&utm_medium=pr_podcast&utm_campaign=heartworkbooklaunch 📝 Blog:https://www.yourthoughtpartner.com/blog?utm_source=deliberateleaderspodcast&utm_medium=pr_podcast&utm_campaign=heartworkbooklaunch 🔗 LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/davidgrossmanaprabc/ Think First

The Core Idea Execution problems are often misdiagnosed as strategy issues In reality, teams respond to the energy behind the message, not just the message itself  Why Energy Matters Same strategy + same team ≠ same results The difference is often how the leader shows up Energy sets the tone for how people receive, interpret, and act The Leadership Blind Spot Many leaders default to their natural energy (optimism, urgency, momentum) Strengths can become liabilities when mismatched to the moment Example: positivity can feel dismissive when people need acknowledgment Key Insight Energy is not about personality It’s about intentionality The Three Questions to Lead with Energy What does this moment actually require? Push forward vs. pause Momentum vs. reflection Direction vs. collaboration Am I creating clarity or just intensity? Clarity drives confident action Intensity creates urgency without direction Fast does not equal effective Do people need to be lifted or met where they are? Lift: vision, possibility, forward movement Meet: acknowledgment, validation, presence Misalignment leads to disconnection or stagnation Practical Application Adapt your energy based on the situation: Strategy sessions → vision and momentum Difficult conversations → groundedness and empathy Crisis moments → calm and stability Cultural Impact Your consistent energy becomes your culture: Urgency → reactive teams Positivity without acknowledgment → hidden struggles Calm without movement → complacency The Leadership Shift Stop expressing energy unconsciously Start directing energy strategically Reflection Question What energy are you bringing into your conversations—and is it what’s needed? Call to Action Explore the full framework in Think First: Build a Team That Thinks Like Leaders Think First

In this episode, Allison Dunn shares a personal story about a decision that cost her $250,000 and reshaped the way she coaches leaders today. When she was launching her coaching practice, buying into a franchise felt like the safe and strategic move. It offered structure, systems, and the promise of certainty. But the day before signing the agreement, her dad asked one simple question: What’s your end game here? Instead of pausing to reflect, she pushed forward. That moment became a powerful lesson in leadership and decision-making. Often, the decisions we rush toward are the ones most influenced by fear. And the questions we resist are often the ones we most need to answer. This episode unpacks: Why fear can disguise itself as strategy How leaders outsource their thinking when they rely too heavily on someone else’s formula Why knowing better is not enough to protect you from costly decisions The role cognitive traps play in reactive leadership How to catch yourself before autopilot takes over Allison also gives a preview of her upcoming book, Think First, where she outlines five cognitive traps and five practical methods to help leaders think more clearly, make better decisions, and avoid expensive patterns. Get on the early access list for Think First at: deliberatedirections.com/thinkfirst Think First

How many of your decisions are actually moving the business forward, and how many are just keeping you busy? In this episode, Allison Dunn unpacks why speed is often mistaken for progress and how that habit creates a costly leadership pattern she calls the Speed Tax. You’ll hear: Why fast action creates the illusion of success The 3 hidden costs of moving too quickly: reversal cost, cleanup cascade, and opportunity displacement The difference between motion and momentum Why the brain is wired for quick reactions, not always clear leadership decisions How to use decision architecture to separate one-way door decisions from two-way door decisions The key questions leaders should ask before making important decisions Why fewer, better decisions can create more revenue, stronger teams, and less wasted time This episode is a reminder that leadership is not about making the most decisions. It is about making the right ones with clarity, intention, and direction. Think First

The Bottleneck Tax The average CEO of a $10M+ company spends nearly 60% of their time on decisions their team should be able to make. High-income leaders may unknowingly be paying a six-figure penalty for a culture that depends on them to think. Firefighting feels productive, but it replaces architecture. The Five Hidden Costs of Reactive Leadership 1. The Addition Spiral Adding people, meetings, systems, and process instead of solving at the source. Growth in headcount does not guarantee growth in profitability. 2. The Symptom Loop Solving recurring issues without addressing root causes. Short-term fixes create long-term repetition. 3. Thinking Debt Postponing strategic thinking “until things calm down.” Reactive decisions create 3–5 more decisions later. 4. Innovation Blindness When you focus only on urgent fires, you miss strategic opportunities. Competitors capture ground while you stay busy. 5. Team Dependency Each time you solve a problem for your team, you train them not to solve it themselves. Execution without thinking prevents scale. The Compounding Effect These five costs do not operate independently. They reinforce one another: Dependency increases reactivity Reactivity increases complexity Complexity increases symptom loops Symptom loops increase thinking debt Thinking debt eliminates strategic space But the cycle can reverse. When leaders build thinking capability across the organization: Decision volume drops Strategic time increases Fires reduce Innovation expands Teams operate independently Key Leadership Insight The highest form of leadership is not being the smartest person in the room. It is building a room full of people who know how to think. When thinking becomes cultural, leaders regain the capacity to work on what only they can do. Resources Reserve your copy of Think First at: deliberatedirections.com/thinkfirst Think First

In this episode, you’ll learn: Why expert advice feels so seductive during high-stakes decisions What a “context swap” is and how it silently creates strategic damage The three patterns of the External Wisdom Trap: The Credential Override The Proof Point Illusion The Wisdom Surrender How to filter outside expertise through your own organizational reality The difference between adopting advice and adapting wisdom The powerful leadership question:“What would have to be true for this to work here?” Key Insight: The most effective leaders do not eliminate outside input. They develop the discernment to know what applies to their specific situation and what does not. Resources Mentioned: Think First: Unlock the Possibilities Others Miss Reserve your copy at: deliberate directions dot com/thinkfirst Think First

The Core Problem Most high-performing leaders default to addition mode: • Work more hours • Optimize your calendar • Streamline processes • Move faster It works for a while. Then you hit a ceiling. Efficiency vs. Leverage Efficiency asks: How can I do this faster? Leverage asks: How can I do this once and create value repeatedly? Speed improves output. Structure multiplies impact. Addition Thinking vs. Multiplication Thinking Addition: "I need to answer these customer questions faster." Multiplication: "What would have to be true for customers to not need to ask?" Addition: "I need to review decisions quicker." Multiplication: "What framework allows my team to decide without me?" Addition: "I need to attend this recurring meeting." Multiplication: "What would have to change for this meeting to not need me?" Three Predictable Patterns of Addition Mode The Capacity Ceiling Your business scales only as far as your personal hours allow. The Energy Depletion Addition never ends. More effort produces diminishing returns. The Strategic Displacement You are so busy being productive that you never build the systems that create scale. What Multiplication Looks Like • Creating knowledge bases instead of answering repeat questions • Building decision frameworks instead of approving every call • Designing communication systems instead of attending every meeting • Establishing quality standards instead of reviewing everything Multiplication frees you to focus on strategic impact. Case Study Insight One CEO shifted from addition to leverage thinking. Within six months: • Revenue per employee increased 35% • Personal exhaustion decreased • Focus shifted into his true zone of genius The transformation wasn’t about doing less. It was about building differently. Key Leadership Shift Stop asking: How do I do more? Start asking: What can I build once that creates value repeatedly? Next Step The executive edition of Think First includes the full Leverage Framework to help you identify multiplication opportunities inside your daily addition work. Because the goal isn’t productivity. It’s strategic impact that scales without burning you out. Think First

What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why most leaders unintentionally ask shutdown questions The difference between feasibility-based thinking and possibility-based thinking How hidden assumptions shape strategic direction Why constraints are often beliefs, not facts The power of the question: “What would have to be true?” How to evaluate whether a constraint is fixed or moveable Practical question reframes for hiring, investment, time, and scaling Why the most strategic leaders challenge invisible boundaries Key Concepts Covered: Shutdown questions vs. strategic questions Hidden assumptions in leadership decision-making Exploring space within constraints Challenging default thinking patterns Small tests vs. all-or-nothing decisions The mindset shift from limitation to leverage Practical Questions to Apply Immediately: Is this a fact or an assumption? What would have to be true for this to work? Who is already doing this successfully? What’s the smallest version we could test? What are we doing that no longer deserves our time? Resource Mentioned: The Executive Edition of Think First: Build a Team That Thinks Like Leaders includes the full question framework for surfacing hidden assumptions and expanding strategic thinking. Think First

Main Theme: The toxic trait no one talks about in leadership is unexamined strength. Key Insights: Leadership doesn’t usually fail because something is missing. It fails when something is overused. Strengths become toxic when they are: Out of proportion Out of context Out of awareness Many “toxic” leadership behaviors are rooted in good intentions. Control is often a strategy for stability, not a flaw in character. Psychologists call this the “shadow side” of strengths. Common Strength-to-Shadow Shifts: Decisive → Controlling Reliable → Over-functioning Visionary → Detached Detail-oriented → Perfectionistic Supportive → People-pleasing How This Shows Up on Teams: Fewer ideas are shared Decisions move upward instead of outward Initiative declines Innovation slows People comply instead of contribute Powerful Reflection Questions: Where do decisions slow down without me? Where do people defer instead of decide? Where do I feel tension when outcomes aren’t in my hands? What feedback do I tend to reinterpret instead of explore? Leadership Maturity Progression: Early leadership: Competence Mid-stage leadership: Execution Advanced leadership: Self-regulation Core Question to Carry Forward: What trait of mine is shaping the conditions I’m responding to? Mentioned in This EpisodeAllison Dunn’s upcoming book: Think First: Build a Team That Thinks Like Leaders Reserve your copy at: deliberatedirections.com/thinkfirst Think First

Why “what got you here” can quietly limit your next stage of leadership How strengths form, get rewarded, and become invisible defaults The concept of Autopilot Excellence and why success makes it dangerous How changing context exposes outdated leadership patterns Real examples of strengths turning into constraints: Decisiveness creating instability Detail orientation causing analysis paralysis Relationship focus avoiding necessary conflict Strategic thinking drifting into abstraction Operational excellence becoming micromanagement The three hidden costs leaders pay: The Blind Spot Tax The Pattern Lock The Scaling Ceiling How to use the feeling of your strength as a signal to pause and choose Why awareness, not personality change, unlocks scalable leadership A practical reframing for decisive, strategic, relational, and operational leaders Introduction to the Think First framework for interrupting default patterns Think First

Episode NotesWhat’s really happening when your team keeps asking you questions Fast answers feel efficient in high-pressure environments Over time, those answers become “thinking bypasses” Teams follow the path of least resistance when clarity lives with the leader Three hidden patterns that quietly reshape your culture The Certainty Loop Teams return to the fastest source of certainty, reinforcing dependency instead of reasoning. The Leadership Tax Micro-decisions accumulate, slowing execution and turning leaders into bottlenecks. The Inversion of Roles Leaders drift into problem-solving while teams drift away from ownership. Why this isn’t a delegation problem Reactive answers remove productive friction Judgment and prioritization skills don’t develop Teams stop anticipating and start waiting The shift that changes everything Stop providing answers Start providing a thinking process Five questions that build thinkers instead of dependents What options have you already considered? What outcome matters most here? What constraint are we solving for? What information is missing? What do you recommend and why? The core idea behind Think First Leaders don’t scale by thinking for people They scale by building systems that help people think clearly Next step Early access to the executive edition of Think First Visit deliberatedirections.com/thinkfirst Think First

The shocking truth: Only 4% of the world’s money is physical—the rest is belief and confidence. The leadership link: Your relationship with money reveals how you lead. Scarcity breeds control and hesitation; abundance fuels trust and growth. White-knuckle leadership: How fear around money leads to micromanagement, missed opportunities, and burnout. Three mindset shifts to rewire your relationship with money: The Pre-Decision Question – “Is this decision rooted in flow or grip?” Audit Your $20 Tasks – Free yourself to focus on $200/hour thinking. The Circulation Exercise – Make one strategic financial move from confidence, not fear. Takeaway: Money is energy in motion. When you let it flow strategically, your leadership—and your business—expand in return. 👉 Reflection question: Where in your leadership are you gripping instead of flowing? 👉 Share this episode with a fellow leader who could use a mindset reset around money. Think First

In this episode of The Deliberate Leaders Podcast, Allison explores how Gen Z and Millennials are reshaping what influence and expertise look like in modern leadership. You’ll discover: Why good ideas often get ignored (and how to fix it) The key difference between opinions and expertise Three communication shifts that make people lean in How to build your “expertise bank” for long-term credibility The mindset that transforms how you show up in every meeting Key Takeaway: You don’t need a new title or more years of experience to be heard—you just need to communicate your insight deliberately. Ready to elevate your leadership voice? Subscribe to the Deliberate Directions newsletter for weekly insights on leading with intention: 👉 https://deliberatedirections.com/newsletter Think First

Vulnerability has become a leadership buzzword — but it’s often misunderstood.Key idea: Vulnerability without boundaries isn’t strength. It’s exposure.Learn the difference between sharing lessons and sharing wounds.Hear stories of two leaders — James and Diana — who represent both extremes.Discover the guiding rule: “If it still hurts when you tell it, it’s not ready to share.”Explore how to model authenticity that empowers your team, not burdens them.Use the self-check question: “Am I sharing this to serve them, or to relieve myself?”Bonus takeaway: “You can be the lighthouse or the storm, but you can’t be both.”💡 Featured Paradox: Vulnerability that connects vs. vulnerability that collapses trust. 💬 Quote to Remember: “Share from the scar, not the wound.” Think First