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It's great to have hope during a marriage or during a divorce. But how do you know when it's real or false hope, or even delusion? My guest in this episode is Dr. Ginny Wright, a discernment counselor, who explains the differences between hope, false hope and delusion. We also talk about hopelessness, when it's valid, and when it just feels that way.

Most people go into a divorce hoping that things will be professional and that they will be treated with respect. Sadly, that's not always the case. Sometimes an ex can play dirty. What does that look like and what can you do if it's happening to you? My guest is Tulsa OK based divorce attorney, Megan Beck, who talks about 8 ways a spouse can play dirty in divorce, and offers advice if you're the victim.

Feel like your divorce is turning into a war or has the potential to do that? My guest in this episode is Colleen Breems, Divorce Attorney and Partner at Beermann, who talks about how a divorce can quickly go south. We also offer tips on keeping a divorce on track and handling the war if it's already happening.

What does it mean to be living your best life during and after divorce? That's something that only you can answer. But, if you're someone who is trying to figure things out, my guests and I are here to help. They are financial advisors, Allison Alexander and Michael Goldstein of Savant Wealth Management. The three of us (all who went through divorces) talk finances-specifically how to live your best life no matter what your budget is.

Feel like you're being judged by some people for getting divorce? Do you ever judge people? Everyone judges. It's just what we do, according to my guest, Brittany Baker, LCSW and therapist. In this episode, we talk about why people judge, how it feels to be judged, and what to do if you're feeling judged.

If you are going through a gray divorce, this is a great episode for you! My guest is Patrick Wanzer, CPA, who is a Tax Representation Consultant who helps people with any issues they might have with the IRS. Patrick offers advice on avoiding tax problems and what to do if you have concerns about your taxes.

We know you want a good divorce outcome and we wish that for you! That's why my guest and I offer 7 things you can do to get one! My guest is Wendy Hernandez, a veteran Arizona based divorce attorney and brand new author of her book, "Legally Ending Love." These 7 things are all in your control! You don't want to miss this! Get Wendy's book here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1735440612

"The Ozempic Divorce." Heard of it? It's a hot topic right now, as people are going on GLP1s, losing weight and ending up divorced because the significant weight change affected their marriage. My guest in this episode is Divorce Coach, Jenine Marie Powell, who talks about this scenario and other weight-related issues and how they could change a relationship. But Jenine and I also get into your body during divorce, and what you can do to stay healthy.

Deciding what to do with your rings after divorce is hard. My guest in this episode is Anne Gabel, who has been a diamond and jewelry buyer since 2011. Anne shares her expert information to help you determine what your diamond is worth and if now is the right time to sell.

This is a wonderful episode for someone who is just starting the divorce process. My guest is divorce attorney, David Heiman, and our comprehensive conversation starts with tips on filing for divorce. We then get into securing temporary orders, and give you a glimpse of what to expect in the divorce process.

It's normal and understandable to be emotional during your divorce. But what happens if your emotions get the best of you in mediation or in court, or even while meeting with your attorney and making decisions? Emotions like anger, fear and resentment can cost you! My guest is divorce attorney, Katherine Miller, who explains what "regulating our emotions" looks like and why it's important for a better outcome and a better post-divorce life.

Anger is a pretty powerful emotion. While it's understandable and normal to feel anger in divorce, it can be detrimental if you let it interfere with your decision making. My guest in this episode is divorce coach, Mardi Winder, and we talk about the effects of letting anger control you while you're trying to make decisions in your divorce. We also offer tips on managing anger and getting into the best headspace during your divorce. Read the article Mardi wrote on this topic here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/the-effects-of-anger-in-decision-making-during-divorce/

It's pretty normal to make mistakes during a divorce. But there are certain mistakes that if you make them, there's really nothing you can do to fix them. My guest in this episode is divorce attorney, Catherine Becker Good. Catherine explains what these mistakes are and how to avoid making them.

Liz Felt Wakeman is a divorce attorney in IL. She is my guest in this episode, where she explains the changes in child support laws taking effect in January of 2027. We talk about how they might affect your case.

When I was first separated, and I met with a couple of divorce attorneys, I had no idea what to expect. Even more stressful, I didn't know what to ask. My guest in this episode is Tiffany M. Hughes, a Chicago based divorce attorney, who provides questions to ask and tells us why they are important, and how asking them can help you get a better outcome.