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259- The AGAIN Podcast: You Can't Go Back, But You Can Live Again | Introducing the New Podcast
2026/10/29
What happens when life changes so dramatically that you barely recognize it anymore? Whether you've experienced the death of someone you love, divorce, an empty nest, health challenges, or another unexpected life transition, you may find yourself wondering: How do I begin rebuilding my life when everything has changed?
In this first episode of The AGAIN Podcast, host Michelle Bader Ebersole introduces a new chapter in a journey that began with Widowed 2 Soon in 2021.
After losing her husband in 2020, Michelle began sharing her experiences with grief and widowhood. Over time, she realized something important: grief isn't limited to death. We grieve relationships, identities, expectations, and the lives we thought we would have.
Now, The AGAIN Podcast is expanding the conversation to help anyone navigating grief, loss, and major life changes discover that moving forward doesn't mean forgetting the past.
Why Widowed 2 Soon is becoming The AGAIN Podcast and what this means for longtime listeners.
What Michelle calls "grief stew" and why past losses can resurface when life changes again.
How to begin rebuilding your life without feeling pressured to have everything figured out.
Why moving forward doesn't mean forgetting the people or experiences that shaped your life.
How the five-part AGAIN Method offers practical direction when you're unsure what comes next.
Three encouraging truths to remember when starting over feels overwhelming.
Michelle introduces five steps to help you rebuild your life with intention:
A — Acknowledge: Recognize what happened and how it has affected you.
G — Get to Know Who You Are Now: Rediscover your identity after life changes.
A — Allow Others In: Find connection, community, and meaningful support.
I — Identify What's Next: Begin exploring your hopes, goals, and possibilities.
N — Navigate: Take practical steps toward rebuilding your life, one decision at a time.
You don't have to complete every step today. The AGAIN Method offers a framework for finding your way forward at your own pace.
You can grieve the life you lost and still love the life you're building.
You don't have to know exactly who you're becoming.
You don't have to rebuild your life all at once.
Michelle also shares the encouragement of Psalm 71:20 and the hope of restoration after hardship.
Take a few quiet minutes and complete this sentence:
"One part of my life I'd like to begin rebuilding is…"
Write your answer down. You don't need a complete plan or all the answers. Just identify one area where you're ready to begin.
Consider keeping a journal so you can look back and recognize your growth over time.
Learn about the AGAIN retreat!
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The AGAIN Podcast is for anyone learning to rebuild life after grief, loss, or major change. Through real stories, practical tools, and honest conversations, Michelle Bader Ebersole helps you discover who you are now, find direction, and take meaningful steps toward living again.
You can't go back, but you can live again.
258- She Couldn't Find Grief Support—So She Created The Grief App with Saundra Neperud
2026/10/27
What happens when you desperately need grief support but can't find the help you're looking for?
In this episode of Widowed 2 Soon, host Michelle Bader Ebersole welcomes Saundra Neperud, widow and creator of The Grief App, to share her heartbreaking story of losing her husband, Eric, to advanced colon cancer.
Saundra and Eric had a beautiful love story that brought them together again in midlife. After building a life together, running a historic hotel in Maine, and eventually moving to Spokane, everything changed when Eric received a devastating cancer diagnosis. Just weeks later, Saundra was a widow.
As she navigated the overwhelming emotions, loneliness, and unexpected challenges of widowhood, Saundra struggled to find meaningful grief support. That experience inspired her to create something she wished she'd had: an accessible, practical app to help grieving people feel less alone.
Michelle and Saundra discuss why grief doesn't follow a predictable timeline, the importance of allowing yourself to feel your emotions, and how small tools can help you navigate the hardest days.
In This Episode, We Talk About:
Saundra and Eric's love story and his sudden cancer diagnosis
The challenges of caregiving and losing a spouse so quickly
Feeling isolated and struggling to find grief support
Why grief doesn't follow five predictable stages
How The Grief App was created
Using a three-minute grief wave timer to process difficult emotions
Preserving memories and recognizing moments of happiness
The unexpected secondary losses that come with widowhood
Why it's okay to feel joy and grief at the same time
Finding hope and learning to live again after loss
A Reminder for Your Grief Journey
There is no right or wrong way to feel after losing someone you love. You don't have to rush your grief, hide your emotions, or follow someone else's timeline.
And even when life feels impossibly heavy, there can still be good moments ahead.
Resources & Connections
The Grief App — Created by Saundra Neperud website
Find the App in all App Stores
Information about the AGAIN retreat
Go here to see a list of all the areas we have Widow Goals Groups
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Connect with Michelle on Facebook
Book a free coaching consultation call with Michelle HERE
Click HERE to learn about the Widow Goals Support Program
Click HERE to order Michelle’s book Widow Goals: Steps to Finding Peace When You Lose Your Spouse
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook Leader Guide
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257- Widow Goal #7: Focus on Today
2026/10/20
What if you didn't have to figure out the rest of your life today? What if all you needed to do was take the next small step?
When you're grieving, even the simplest tasks can feel overwhelming. The future seems uncertain, the past can be painful, and just getting through the day can feel like an accomplishment.
In this heartfelt solo episode of Widowed 2 Soon, Michelle Bader Ebersole, author of Widow Goals: Steps to Finding Peace When You Lose Your Spouse, continues her series exploring the lessons from her book.
This episode focuses on Chapter 7, "Focus on Today," and the freedom that comes when we stop trying to figure out tomorrow and begin trusting God with what is right in front of us.
Drawing from her personal journey through widowhood, Michelle shares how grief affects our ability to think clearly, make decisions, and manage everyday responsibilities. She introduces the power of micro goals—small, achievable steps that help us begin moving forward, even when life feels overwhelming.
Through biblical encouragement, practical strategies, and personal reflections, Michelle reminds listeners that healing doesn't require having everything figured out. Sometimes, progress looks like getting out of bed, taking a walk, or simply making it through the next ten minutes.
You don't have to rebuild your entire life today. You just have to take the next step.
Instead of asking yourself, "How am I going to get through the rest of my life?" try asking:
What is one small thing I can accomplish today?
What worry about tomorrow can I surrender to God?
Where have I seen God's provision, even in a small way?
What is one victory I can celebrate this week?
Remember: Small steps are still steps forward.
Michelle also shares exciting updates about her growing AGAIN ministry, including the upcoming AGAIN Retreat and her expanded coaching programs designed to help people rebuild their lives after grief, loss, and major life changes.
While Widow Goals continues to support women navigating widowhood, AGAIN carries the message of hope and healing to an even broader audience.
Whether you're newly widowed, years into your grief journey, or navigating another life-changing loss, there's hope for what comes next.
Learn more about Michelle's books, coaching, and upcoming AGAIN Retreat:
https://michellebaderebersole.com/again-retreat/
If this episode encouraged you, consider sharing it with someone who needs a reminder that they don't have to figure everything out today.
You can't go back, but you can live again 🩵.
Information about the AGAIN retreat
Go here to see a list of all the areas we have Widow Goals Groups
Click HERE to apply to be a Widow Goals Group Leader
Connect with Michelle on Facebook
Book a free coaching consultation call with Michelle HERE
Click HERE to learn about the Widow Goals Support Program
Click HERE to order Michelle’s book Widow Goals: Steps to Finding Peace When You Lose Your Spouse
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook Leader Guide
Click here to be sent an email on the anniversary of your spouse's passing, wedding anniversary, and more
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256- Widow Goals Retreat Recap and What's Next
2026/10/13
Michelle Bader Ebersole shares a heartfelt recap of the fourth Widow Goals Retreat and reflects on why community matters so deeply after loss.
From worship, small groups, breakout sessions, and meaningful conversations to the ropes course, zip lining, line dancing, and Widow’s Prom, the retreat was filled with connection, laughter, courage, and healing. Michelle shares some of the moments that stood out most, including the “You Are Chosen” crown ceremony and the joy of watching women arrive as strangers and leave with real friendships.
She also talks about the unexpected ways women found Widow Goals through social media, the podcast, word of mouth, and conversations that seemed to happen at exactly the right time.
This episode also gives a glimpse into what is next. Michelle introduces AGAIN, a new chapter focused on helping women rebuild after grief, loss, trauma, or major life change, and shares details about the first AGAIN Retreat coming August 19–22, 2027, near Portland, Oregon.
At the heart of both Widow Goals and AGAIN is the same message: healing takes community, hope can return, and joy can exist alongside grief.
You can’t go back, but you can live again. 🩵
Pictures from the recent WG retreat
Information about the AGAIN retreat
Go here to see a list of all the areas we have Widow Goals Groups
Click HERE to apply to be a Widow Goals Group Leader
Connect with Michelle on Facebook
Book a free coaching consultation call with Michelle HERE
Click HERE to learn about the Widow Goals Support Program
Click HERE to order Michelle’s book Widow Goals: Steps to Finding Peace When You Lose Your Spouse
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook Leader Guide
Click here to be sent an email on the anniversary of your spouse's passing, wedding anniversary, and more
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255- Widowed 2 Soon: Healing is Your Job
2026/10/06
In this solo episode, Michelle Bader Ebersole shares a life update as she prepares to head to the Widow Goals Water Walking Faith Retreat—and gives a peek into what’s next for the podcast and the growing AGAIN mission.
As life continues to change, Michelle reflects on entering a new season with her kids growing up, what God has been stirring in her heart, and why she feels more excited than ever about helping people rebuild after life doesn’t go according to plan.
She also shares something she learned early in her own grief journey: healing became her job.
Healing doesn’t mean forgetting, moving on, or pretending everything is okay. It means being willing to feel what you feel, ask for help, find safe people, learn about grief, and keep taking the next step—even when you would rather find a way around the pain.
Because as much as we wish there were a shortcut through grief, there isn’t.
A behind-the-scenes update as Michelle prepares for the Widow Goals Water Walking Faith Retreat
The beauty of bringing widows together for healing, friendship, faith, and community
Adjusting to a new season as Michelle’s children grow up and life continues to change
What’s ahead for Widowed 2 Soon and the growing vision for AGAIN
Why Michelle feels called to expand the conversation beyond widowhood and talk about rebuilding after many kinds of loss and life change
The Scripture behind AGAIN and the hope found in Psalm 71:20
The AGAIN framework: Acknowledge, Get to Know Who You Are Now, Allow Others In, Identify What’s Next, and Navigate Your New Life
A first look at the AGAIN Retreat coming August 19–22, 2027
Why Michelle decided to treat healing like it was her job after Luke died
The importance of counseling, grief resources, community, and allowing yourself to actually feel
Why there is no shortcut through grief
A simple Goodwill moment that became a reminder about gratitude, judgment, and giving people grace
“I decided to treat healing like it was my job.”
“There is no shortcut through grief.”
And maybe most importantly:
You can’t go back, but you can live again. 🩵
Connect with Michelle on Facebook
Book a free coaching consultation call with Michelle HERE
Join the Widow Goals Online Community and get Michelle’s Widow Goals Course use code podcast for a free month
Click HERE to learn about the Widow Goals Support Program
Click HERE to order Michelle’s book Widow Goals: Steps to Finding Peace When You Lose Your Spouse
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook Leader Guide
Click HERE to apply to be a Widow Goals Group Leader
Click here to be sent an email on the anniversary of your spouse's passing, wedding anniversary, and more
Click HERE to review Widow Goals on Amazon
Go here to see a list of all the areas we have Widow Goals Groups
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254- When Grief Came Twice in One Day with Sharmen McCollum
2026/09/29
Sharmen McCollum lost her husband, Rob, and her mother on the same day. In this episode of Widowed 2 Soon, Michelle Bader Ebersole talks with Sharmen about the life she and Rob built together, the day everything changed, and the long road of healing that followed.
Sharmen shares honestly about recovering from her own injuries while grieving, the people who showed up for her, and the loneliness and questions that came afterward. She also talks about how journaling, grief support, and Scripture have helped her take the next step.
If you are wondering how to keep going when life changes in an instant, Sharmen’s story offers a reminder that you do not have to walk through grief alone.
In this episode:
The life Sharmen and Rob shared
Losing her husband and mother on the same day
Recovering physically while grieving
Accepting help from family and friends
Finding support through journaling, counseling, and faith
Book a free coaching consultation call with Michelle HERE
Join the Widow Goals Online Community and get Michelle’s Widow Goals Course use code podcast for a free month
Learn More About Michelle’s Widow Coaching Program Here
Click Here to Register for the Widow Goals Fall Retreat
Click HERE to learn about the Widow Goals Support Program
Click HERE to order Michelle’s book Widow Goals: Steps to Finding Peace When You Lose Your Spouse
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook Leader Guide
Click HERE to apply to be a Widow Goals Group Leader
Follow Hayley's Parent Loss Goals Ministry Here on IG
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Click HERE to review Widow Goals on Amazon
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253- Widow Goal #6: Re-enter Social Spaces with Confidence
2026/09/23
Re-entering social spaces after losing your spouse can feel incredibly vulnerable. Places and gatherings that once felt completely normal can suddenly feel awkward, overwhelming, or even painful.
In this mini-episode of Widowed 2 Soon, Michelle Bader Ebersole walks through Goal 6 from her book, Widow Goals: Steps to Finding Peace When You Lose Your Spouse: Re-enter Social Spaces with Confidence.
Michelle shares honestly from her own experience of stepping back into the world after Luke died—from a large family gathering where she suddenly felt very aware of being “the widow,” to an everyday trip to Walmart, to a girls’ night that became unexpectedly painful.
She also talks about something people who haven’t experienced deep loss may not understand: acknowledging someone’s grief is almost always better than pretending it isn’t there.
And re-entering the world doesn’t mean your grief is over. Grief doesn’t disappear because time has passed, because you're smiling again, or even because you've begun a new relationship or remarried.
The goal isn’t to force yourself to be “back to normal.” It’s to begin taking small, intentional steps toward community again.
Join the Widow Goals Online Community and get Michelle’s Widow Goals Course use code podcast for a free month
Learn More About Michelle’s Widow Coaching Program Here
Click Here to Register for the Widow Goals Fall Retreat
Click HERE to learn about the Widow Goals Support Program
Click HERE to order Michelle’s book Widow Goals: Steps to Finding Peace When You Lose Your Spouse
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook Leader Guide
Click HERE to apply to be a Widow Goals Group Leader
Follow Hayley's Parent Loss Goals Ministry Here on IG
Here on FB
Click here to be sent an email on the anniversary of your spouse's passing, wedding anniversary, and more
Click HERE to review Widow Goals on Amazon
Go here to see a list of all the areas we have Widow Goals Groups
Follow Michelle on TikTok
Follow me on Instagram
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https://www.instagram.com/widowgoals
See my videos on Youtube
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252- Widow Goal #5: Don't Be Surprised by Anxiety
2026/09/15
Anxiety can show up in grief when you least expect it—even if you’ve never struggled with anxiety before.
In this solo episode, Michelle Bader Ebersole continues her Widow Goals: Steps to Finding Peace When You Lose Your Spouse mini-series with a conversation about anxiety after loss. Michelle shares how anxiety showed up for the first time after her husband Luke died and how trauma can cause our bodies and minds to react to situations years later as though the loss is happening all over again.
Through personal stories, practical tools, and Scripture, Michelle reminds widows that anxiety after loss isn’t something to be ashamed of or surprised by. She shares grounding techniques, the importance of having trusted people to call, and ways to recognize the fearful thoughts that can quickly spiral into worst-case scenarios.
Michelle also talks about the fear that can come with loving again—including her own fear of becoming widowed a second time when she became engaged to Joel.
At the center of the conversation is Philippians 4:6–7 and the reminder that when fear feels overwhelming, we can bring what we’re carrying to God.
Why anxiety can appear for the first time after losing your spouse
How trauma can make a fear feel physically real
Michelle’s first experience with anxiety after Luke died
How witnessing death can affect the nervous system long afterward
A later experience in downtown Portland that unexpectedly brought Michelle back to the trauma surrounding Luke’s death
Grounding techniques for bringing yourself back into the present
How automatic negative thoughts can turn one fear into an entire worst-case story
Why health concerns and fears surrounding our children can become especially intense after loss
The importance of identifying people you can call when anxiety spikes
Philippians 4:6–7 and using prayer and thanksgiving when fear takes over
The fear of loving again after widowhood
Michelle’s fear of being widowed twice when she became engaged to Joel
Practical steps for responding to anxiety instead of allowing it to control you
Join the Widow Goals Online Community and get Michelle’s Widow Goals Course use code podcast for a free month
Learn More About Michelle’s Widow Coaching Program Here
Click Here to Register for the Widow Goals Fall Retreat
Click HERE to learn about the Widow Goals Support Program
Click HERE to order Michelle’s book Widow Goals: Steps to Finding Peace When You Lose Your Spouse
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook Leader Guide
Click HERE to apply to be a Widow Goals Group Leader
Follow Hayley's Parent Loss Goals Ministry Here on IG
Here on FB
Click here to be sent an email on the anniversary of your spouse's passing, wedding anniversary, and more
Click HERE to review Widow Goals on Amazon
Go here to see a list of all the areas we have Widow Goals Groups
Follow Michelle on TikTok
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https://www.instagram.com/widowgoals
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251- You Can’t Go Back, But You Can Live Again
2026/09/08
In this deeply personal episode, Michelle Bader Ebersole shares what it was like to experience her 23rd wedding anniversary after the death of her husband, Luke—and how she has learned that honoring the love and life they shared does not prevent her from embracing the beautiful life she has now.
She reflects on a recent personal retreat at Menucha, overlooking the same Columbia River Gorge where Luke’s celebration of life was held. What began as time set aside to unplug, pray, and seek God became a powerful moment of clarity about the next chapter of her calling.
Michelle also introduces AGAIN, a new retreat, podcast, and framework created to help people rebuild after life-altering loss and change. Whether you have experienced death, divorce, betrayal, abandonment, trauma, or the loss of the future you imagined, this message is for you:
You can’t go back—but you can live again.
Join the Widow Goals Online Community and get Michelle’s Widow Goals Course use code podcast for a free month
Learn More About Michelle’s Widow Coaching Program Here
Click Here to Register for the Widow Goals Fall Retreat
Click HERE to learn about the Widow Goals Support Program
Click HERE to order Michelle’s book Widow Goals: Steps to Finding Peace When You Lose Your Spouse
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook Leader Guide
Click HERE to apply to be a Widow Goals Group Leader
Follow Hayley's Parent Loss Goals Ministry Here on IG
Here on FB
Click here to be sent an email on the anniversary of your spouse's passing, wedding anniversary, and more
Click HERE to review Widow Goals on Amazon
Go here to see a list of all the areas we have Widow Goals Groups
Follow Michelle on TikTok
Follow me on Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/widowed2soon_/
https://www.instagram.com/widowgoals
See my videos on Youtube
Subscribe to our YouTube Channel
250- Widow Goal #4: Remember to Take Care of Yourself
2026/09/01
In this episode of Widowed 2 Soon, Michelle Bader Ebersole continues the Widow Goals series by exploring Goal #4: Remember to Take Care of Yourself. After the loss of a spouse, self-care often feels unimportant—or even impossible. When you're simply trying to survive, things like rest, nutrition, movement, and joy can easily fall to the bottom of the list.
Michelle shares practical ways to begin caring for yourself again, even in small steps. From creating a simple morning routine to making time for activities that bring joy, she reminds listeners that taking care of yourself isn't selfish—it's necessary. Just as flight attendants instruct passengers to put on their own oxygen mask first, widows and widowers must learn to refill their own cup before they can effectively care for others.
In the second half of the episode, Michelle welcomes attendees to the upcoming Widow Goals Fall Retreat and shares what they can expect throughout the weekend. From inspiring speakers and breakout sessions to line dancing, pool time, worship, and meaningful conversations, this retreat is designed to provide healing, encouragement, and opportunities to build lasting friendships with others who truly understand the grief journey.
Why self-care is essential during grief recovery
How survival mode can impact your physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being
Simple daily habits that can help you begin caring for yourself again
The importance of creating a life-giving morning routine
Why journaling can be a powerful tool for healing and reflection
How scheduling self-care increases the likelihood that it actually happens
Ways to identify and prioritize activities that bring you joy
What attendees can expect at the Widow Goals Fall Retreat
How community and connection play a vital role in healing after loss
What is one area of self-care you have neglected recently?
What activity brings you joy and helps you feel refreshed?
What is one small step you can take this week to better care for yourself?
How can you create space in your schedule for rest, healing, and connection?
Create a simple morning routine that includes time with God.
Schedule one self-care activity on your calendar this week.
Focus on nourishing your body with water and healthy food.
Start a journal and write about where you are today in your grief journey.
Reach out to another widow or widower and make a connection.
Join the Widow Goals Online Community and get Michelle’s Widow Goals Course use code podcast for a free month
Click Here to Register for the Widow Goals Fall Retreat
Click HERE to learn about the Widow Goals Support Program
Click HERE to order Michelle’s book Widow Goals: Steps to Finding Peace When You Lose Your Spouse
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook Leader Guide
Click HERE to apply to be a Widow Goals Group Leader
Follow Hayley's Parent Loss Goals Ministry Here on IG
Here on FB
Click here to be sent an email on the anniversary of your spouse's passing, wedding anniversary, and more
Click HERE to review Widow Goals on Amazon
Go here to see a list of all the areas we have Widow Goals Groups
Follow Michelle on TikTok
Follow me on Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/widowed2soon_/
https://www.instagram.com/widowgoals
See my videos on Youtube
Subscribe to our YouTube Channel
249- Widow Goal #3: Let The Tears Flow Freely
2026/08/25
In this episode of the Widow Goals series, Michelle Bader Ebersole talks about Goal #2 from Widow Goals: Let the Tears Flow Freely.
Grief isn’t something you can skip over, stuff down, or outrun. Eventually, you have to go through it. Michelle shares why allowing yourself to feel the pain—rather than constantly trying to hold it together—is an important part of healing.
She shares a personal story about unexpectedly breaking down in the grocery store after Luke died and why she eventually stopped worrying about what other people thought when the tears came.
Michelle also talks about Psalm 56:8 and the beautiful reminder that God sees every tear we cry. Our tears aren't a sign that we're failing at grief. They are evidence that we loved, that we hurt, and that we are allowing ourselves to process what has happened.
You'll also hear why immediately trying to stop someone from crying isn't always helpful, how we can create space for children and teenagers to grieve honestly, and why healing deserves intentional time and attention.
Why stuffing grief can actually delay healingWhat it means to go through grief instead of around itWhy Michelle decided to treat healing like it was her jobThe grocery store moment that brought unexpected tearsWhy your healing matters more than what strangers thinkWhat Psalm 56:8 teaches us about how God sees our tearsWhy we don't always need to stop someone from cryingHelping children and teenagers express grief in healthy waysCreating safe places where you don't have to pretend you're okayUsing journaling and prayer to process the emotions you don't know how to say out loudBook a free grief coaching consultation call with Michelle HERE
Join the Widow Goals Online Community and get Michelle’s Widow Goals Course use code podcast for a free month
Learn More About Michelle’s Widow Coaching Program Here
Click Here to Register for the Widow Goals Fall Retreat
Click HERE to learn about the Widow Goals Support Program
Click HERE to order Michelle’s book Widow Goals: Steps to Finding Peace When You Lose Your Spouse
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook Leader Guide
Click HERE to apply to be a Widow Goals Group Leader
Follow Hayley's Parent Loss Goals Ministry Here on IG
Here on FB
Click here to be sent an email on the anniversary of your spouse's passing, wedding anniversary, and more
Click HERE to review Widow Goals on Amazon
Go here to see a list of all the areas we have Widow Goals Groups
Follow Michelle on TikTok
Follow me on Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/widowed2soon_/
https://www.instagram.com/widowgoals
See my videos on Youtube
248- Widow Goal #2: Call On Your Tribe
2026/08/18
In this episode of the Widow Goals Series, Michelle Bader Ebersole talks about one of the most important things a widow can do after loss: build her tribe.
Michelle shares how she began creating a support system while her husband Luke was sick—and how that community became a lifeline after he died. From meals and rides to prayer, check-ins, and simply having someone willing to sit beside you in the hardest moments, the right people can help carry you when you don't have the strength to carry yourself.
She also talks about something many widows struggle with: actually asking for help. People often say, “Let me know if you need anything,” but when you're grieving, figuring out what you need—and then asking for it—can feel overwhelming.
Book a free grief coaching consultation call with Michelle HERE
Join the Widow Goals Online Community and get Michelle’s Widow Goals Course use code podcast for a free month
Learn More About Michelle’s Widow Coaching Program Here
Click Here to Register for the Widow Goals Fall Retreat
Click HERE to learn about the Widow Goals Support Program
Click HERE to order Michelle’s book Widow Goals: Steps to Finding Peace When You Lose Your Spouse
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook Leader Guide
Click HERE to apply to be a Widow Goals Group Leader
Follow Hayley's Parent Loss Goals Ministry Here on IG
Here on FB
Click here to be sent an email on the anniversary of your spouse's passing, wedding anniversary, and more
Click HERE to review Widow Goals on Amazon
Go here to see a list of all the areas we have Widow Goals Groups
Follow Michelle on TikTok
Follow me on Instagram
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https://www.instagram.com/widowgoals
See my videos on Youtube
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247- Widow Goal #1 : Get Out of Bed
2026/08/11
Widow Goals Series Kickoff: Get Out of Bed
In this episode of Widowed 2 Soon, Michelle Bader Ebersole kicks off a brand-new Widow Goals series, going back to the heart of the message that started it all.
Before Widow Goals became a nonprofit, a book, retreats, support groups, and a growing community of widows, it started with one simple desire: to help widows take the next step when life feels impossible.
Over the coming weeks, Michelle will be revisiting the 30 goals from her book, Widow Goals: Steps to Finding Peace When You Lose Your Spouse, sharing what she has learned since writing them and offering practical encouragement for wherever you are in your grief.
And Goal #1 starts about as simple—and as hard—as it gets:
Get out of bed.
Michelle shares what those earliest days after losing Luke were really like, when even getting up in the morning could feel overwhelming. She talks about why grief can make the smallest things feel impossible and reminds widows that healing doesn’t happen in neat stages or on a predictable timeline.
This episode is especially for the widow who is still in survival mode. Michelle shares practical ways to make mornings a little easier, why having someone check in can help, the importance of sleep and caring for your body, and why putting even one small thing on the calendar can give you something to hold onto.
She also talks about one of the things that has made the biggest difference in her own journey: community with other widows who truly understand.
You don’t have to have the next year figured out. You don’t even have to have tomorrow figured out.
Sometimes the goal really is just to get out of bed.
And that counts.
Michelle also shares a glimpse of what’s ahead with Out of the Fog and Into the Light: Rebuilding Your Life When Everything Changes and how the lessons she first learned through widowhood are becoming part of an even bigger message about rebuilding after life doesn’t go the way you planned.
Book a free grief coaching consultation call with Michelle HERE
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Learn More About Michelle’s Widow Coaching Program Here
Click Here to Register for the Widow Goals Fall Retreat
Click HERE to learn about the Widow Goals Support Program
Click HERE to order Michelle’s book Widow Goals: Steps to Finding Peace When You Lose Your Spouse
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook Leader Guide
Click HERE to apply to be a Widow Goals Group Leader
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246- Honoring Luke's Legacy at His 30-Year Class Reunion
2026/08/04
In this solo episode of Widowed 2 Soon, Michelle Bader Ebersole shares the unexpected journey of attending—and speaking at—her late husband Luke's 30-year high school class reunion.
As soon as the invitation arrived, she wrestled with whether she should go. Would it be awkward? Would she know anyone? Would it stir up more grief than she was ready for? What she experienced instead was a beautiful reminder that courage often leads to unexpected blessings.
Michelle shares the emotions of walking into a room filled with people who loved Luke, the funny and awkward conversations that came with introducing herself as his widow, and the honor of standing before his classmates to share about the man they remembered and the incredible perseverance that defined his life long after high school.
This episode is an honest conversation about grief, courage, and choosing to step into difficult moments instead of avoiding them. Whether you're facing a reunion, a wedding, a family gathering, or another milestone after loss, Michelle hopes this episode encourages you to keep showing up—even when it's hard.
She also shares why having support matters, reflects on the many ways God met her throughout the evening, and gives an update on the upcoming Widow Goals Retreat in Dallas this October.
Why Michelle almost didn't attend Luke's 30-year class reunionThe emotions of walking into a room filled with Luke's classmatesFunny, awkward, and meaningful conversations from the eveningThe story behind the speech honoring Luke's life and legacyWhat the night taught Michelle about courage, grief, and healingWhy bringing a trusted friend can make difficult events more manageableDetails about the upcoming Widow Goals Retreat and the August 5 price increaseClick Here to Register for the Widow Goals Fall Retreat
Book a free grief coaching consultation call with Michelle HERE
Join the Widow Goals Online Community and get Michelle’s Widow Goals Course use code podcast for a free month
Learn More About Michelle’s Widow Coaching Program Here
Click HERE to learn about the Widow Goals Support Program
Click HERE to order Michelle’s book Widow Goals: Steps to Finding Peace When You Lose Your Spouse
Click HERE to
order the Widow Goals Workbook
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook Leader Guide
Click HERE to apply to be a Widow Goals Group Leader
Follow Hayley's Parent Loss Goals Ministry Here on IG
Here on FB
Click here to be sent an email on the anniversary of your spouse's passing, wedding anniversary, and more
Click HERE to review Widow Goals on Amazon
Book Michelle as a speaker
Go here to see a list of all the areas we have Widow Goals Groups
Click Here to apply to be a guest on Widowed 2 Soon
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245- The Power of Widow Community: How Friendship, Faith, and Shared Grief Bring Hope
2026/07/28
What happens when eleven widows spend a weekend together?
There are tears. There is laughter. There are stories only another widow could truly understand. And somewhere in the middle of it all, healing begins.
In this special episode of Widowed 2 Soon, Michelle Bader Ebersole sits down with several women during a Widow Goals retreat in Lincoln City, Oregon, to talk about the incredible power of widow community. Together, they share honest conversations about grief, rebuilding life after loss, and why no widow should have to walk this journey alone.
Whether you're newly widowed or years into your journey, this episode is a reminder that hope is real—and healing often begins when someone simply says, "Me too."
Why widow community can be one of the greatest gifts after loss.
How friendship helps replace isolation with hope.
The impact retreats and support groups can have on healing.
Why laughter isn't a sign you've forgotten your spouse—it's a sign you're living again.
How faith and shared experiences create lifelong connections.
Encouragement for widows who feel alone or aren't sure where to turn next.
If you've ever wondered whether community really makes a difference after the loss of a spouse, this episode is your answer. These women prove that while grief changes us forever, it doesn't get the final word. Healing is possible. Friendship is powerful. And there is still so much life to be lived!
Book a free grief coaching consultation call with Michelle HERE
Join the Widow Goals Online Community and get Michelle’s Widow Goals Course use code podcast for a free month
Click Here to Register for the Widow Goals Fall Retreat
Click HERE to learn about the Widow Goals Support Program
Click HERE to order Michelle’s book Widow Goals: Steps to Finding Peace When You Lose Your Spouse
Click HERE to
order the Widow Goals Workbook
Click HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook Leader Guide
Click HERE to apply to be a Widow Goals Group Leader
Follow Hayley's Parent Loss Goals Ministry Here on IG
Here on FB
Click here to be sent an email on the anniversary of your spouse's passing, wedding anniversary, and more
Click HERE to review Widow Goals on Amazon
Book Michelle as a speaker
Go here to see a list of all the areas we have Widow Goals Groups
Click Here to apply to be a guest on Widowed 2 Soon
Follow Michelle on TikTok
Follow me on Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/widowed2soon_/
https://www.instagram.com/widowgoals
See my videos on Youtube
Subscribe to our YouTube Channel
Podcast reviews
Read Widowed 2 Soon; Advice on Faith, Mental Health, and Dating Again podcast reviews
Patti 1000 2026/04/09
Finding Joy, Again
Michelle was an amazing host! Telling my story to someone who has been on her own grief journey, and found her purpose because of it, she listened, an...
Kegr88 2026/03/08
Authentic, caring and sharing the love of God
Michelle is a lovely and knowledgeable host. Her heart for her listeners is authentic and caring. In sharing God’s presence in our hurting we can have...
Steve Gamlin 2025/11/19
Even the Angels Tuned In for This One...
There are times in life when our angels guide us to make a connection. When Michelle heard of my story and asked me to be on her show, my answer was i...
MGraceLA 2025/11/14
Kind and Generous Host Allows for Authentic Stories
Michelle is so kind and generous. She's a wonderful host and we had so much fun talking about organizing! She made it super easy to jump on her show, ...
Lara Silverman 2025/10/04
Amazing interview and wisdom
Michelle is absolutely fantastic. We connected on a personal level as well as a spiritual level and she asks such insightful questions and has SO much...
Mama W. 2025/06/09
So Healing
I stumbled upon Michelle’s podcast several months ago, and I have been helped so much by listening to the experiences of others. Though I am 10 years ...
LisaWoolery 2025/01/04
Encouraging for widows
It is so helpful to hear the stories of other widows to help me on my own journey. Michelle is a thoughtful interviewer and discusses topics that prop...
cyndisell 2024/11/13
Lilly Akota
Great podcast
JayneeBentley 2024/07/28
Binge worthy
I’ve been a widow coming up on one year. My sweet husband died on August 1, 2023, when he had a heart attack during a heart cath. This podcast is the ...
MommyofBoys32 2024/02/18
Love this podcast
Thank you for this podcast. I lost my husband unexpectedly 6 months ago and I love listening to these God-centered episodes. It has been so helpful to...
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