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What happens when the hospital says your loved one is ready to go home, but you know it isn't safe? Or when a doctor says no to a treatment you believe they need? In this personal episode of Desperately Seeking Senior Living, Valerie Lynn shares lessons from advocating for her younger sister following a pancreatic cancer diagnosis, along with real-life stories from families navigating complicated healthcare decisions. From understanding power of attorney to asking better questions, finding overlooked resources, and knowing when to push back, you'll learn how to advocate with confidence without taking away your loved one's independence. Because sometimes the difference between desperate and doable is knowing what question to ask next. ❤️   Subscribe for practical dementia and senior care tips that help families go from desperate to doable. 📌 Download this episode's Doable Download for a printable summary, caregiver resources and bonus tip:  https://mailchi.mp/04a607dbf0ea/doable_download 📌 Need help navigating senior living or care options? Clear Path Senior Living Solutions helps families find assisted living, memory care, and other senior care resources. Connect with us here: https://linktr.ee/Desperatelyseekingseniorliving 🎙️ About Desperately Seeking Senior Living Hosted by Valerie Lynn Borgman, Certified Senior Advisor (CSA), Certified Placement and Referral Specialist (CPRS), and Dementia Capable Care Certified professional, this podcast helps families navigate senior living, assisted living, memory care, dementia care, caregiving and aging-related challenges. Helping families go from Desperate to Doable.

In this episode of Desperately Seeking Senior Living, Valerie Lynn explores the “line in the sand” - the point when living independently may need to look a little different. From falls and driving to showering, housekeeping, medications and home safety, you’ll learn why your definition of “needs help” may be very different from your loved one’s. Instead of starting with “You’re not safe at home,” Valerie shares questions that can help families understand what their loved one values, identify the changes that should trigger action, and make a plan before a crisis forces the conversation. Because getting help doesn’t have to mean giving up independence...and planning ahead can make aging decisions feel a lot less desperate and a lot more doable. Subscribe for practical dementia and senior care tips that help families go from desperate to doable. 📌 Download this episode's Doable Download for a printable summary, caregiver resources and bonus tip:  https://mailchi.mp/c37e7a696434/doable_download 📌 Need help navigating senior living or care options? Clear Path Senior Living Solutions helps families find assisted living, memory care, and other senior care resources. Connect with us here: https://linktr.ee/Desperatelyseekingseniorliving 🎙️ About Desperately Seeking Senior Living Hosted by Valerie Lynn Borgman, Certified Senior Advisor (CSA), Certified Placement and Referral Specialist (CPRS), and Dementia Capable Care Certified professional, this podcast helps families navigate senior living, assisted living, memory care, dementia care, caregiving and aging-related challenges. Helping families go from Desperate to Doable.

When Jessica Guthrie’s mom, Constance, was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease at just 65 years old, Jessica was only 26. Nearly 12 years later, Jessica has experienced the caregiving journey through changing routines, wandering, researching memory care, hiring in-home caregivers, moving back into her childhood home, hospice and now providing around-the-clock care for her mom in the advanced stages of Alzheimer’s. In this deeply personal conversation, Jessica returns to Desperately Seeking Senior Living to share what that journey has really looked like - including the things she wishes she had known earlier. ✓ Why Jessica ultimately left her life in Texas and moved home to Virginia ✓ How routines and a familiar environment helped her mom ✓ Why dementia caregiving requires trying, adjusting and trying again ✓ Her experience researching memory care and in-home care ✓ What families should know when hiring caregivers ✓ Why the energy caregivers bring into the room matters ✓ The reality of caring for someone with advanced Alzheimer’s ✓ How Jessica thinks about hospice and the end of life ✓ The unexpected people who became part of her caregiving support system ✓ Why an Alzheimer’s diagnosis doesn’t mean joy, connection and making memories have to end Jessica also shares a powerful reminder for family and professional caregivers: you are the thermostat. The energy you bring into the room can help set the temperature for the person receiving care. And perhaps her most important message? A diagnosis is not the end. It can be an invitation to get closer, be present, continue making memories and keep finding moments of joy with the person you love. @jessica_c_guthrie Subscribe for practical dementia and senior care tips that help families go from desperate to doable. 📌 Download this episode's Doable Download for a printable summary, caregiver resources and bonus tip: https://mailchi.mp/a2883ee40d91/doable_download 📌 Need help navigating senior living or care options? Clear Path Senior Living Solutions helps families find assisted living, memory care, and other senior care resources. Connect with us here: https://linktr.ee/Desperatelyseekingseniorliving 🎙️ About Desperately Seeking Senior Living Hosted by Valerie Lynn Borgman, Certified Senior Advisor (CSA), Certified Placement and Referral Specialist (CPRS), and Dementia Capable Care Certified professional, this podcast helps families navigate senior living, assisted living, memory care, dementia care, caregiving and aging-related challenges. Helping families go from Desperate to Doable.

What happens when caregiving collides with the workplace? In this episode of Desperately Seeking Senior Living, Valerie sits down with caregiving strategist and Alzheimer's advocate Jessica C. Guthrie to explore the business side of caregiving. Together, they discuss the challenges millions of working family caregivers face while balancing careers, caring for aging loved ones and navigating systems that aren't always designed to support them. Jessica shares why empathy in leadership isn't just compassionate - it's essential. The conversation also explores the Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA), psychological safety in the workplace and how employers, healthcare professionals and senior living providers can become stronger partners for family caregivers instead of unintentionally creating additional barriers. Whether you're a family caregiver, an employer, a manager or a senior living professional, this episode offers valuable insight into understanding caregivers and creating workplaces and care systems where caregivers feel seen, supported and empowered. In this episode, you'll learn: Why working family caregivers often struggle in silence How empathy from managers can transform the employee experience What employers should understand about caregiver support How healthcare and senior living professionals can better partner with families Why caregivers deserve systems that work - not just sympathy Be sure to join us next month when Jessica returns to share her deeply personal caregiving journey and the experiences that shaped her mission to make family caregivers visible and valued. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! To connect with us & get your FREE GUIDE  goto - https://linktr.ee/Desperatelyseekingseniorliving Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen wherever you listen to podcasts!  THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!!  @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable

For more than 20 years, Ed Taylor helped care for his grandmother through dementia - long before he ever considered himself a caregiver. In this episode of Desperately Seeking Senior Living, Ed shares the realities of family caregiving, including navigating cognitive decline, managing crises, making difficult care decisions and balancing caregiving responsibilities with work and everyday life. Together, we discuss caregiver burnout, power of attorney, hospice, family dynamics and the challenges many families face when trying to do it all on their own. Ed reflects on his "superhero cape" mindset that kept him carrying the weight of caregiving for years and explains why accepting help ultimately allowed him to return to his most important role: being a grandson. Whether you're currently caring for a loved one with dementia or preparing for the future, this conversation offers practical insights, honest reflections, and encouragement for every family caregiver. In this episode, we discuss: • Recognizing when caregiving has moved into crisis mode • Why power of attorney should be established before it's needed • Managing difficult family and sibling dynamics • The emotional impact of dementia on caregivers • Hospice myths and realities • How to know when it's time to ask for help • Why caregivers must prioritize their own well-being CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! To connect with us & get your FREE GUIDE  goto - https://linktr.ee/Desperatelyseekingseniorliving Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen wherever you listen to podcasts!  THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!!  @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable

You moved your loved one into assisted living, signed the paperwork and finally exhaled… then came the phone call no family wants to receive: “We can no longer meet their care needs.” In this episode, Valerie breaks down why assisted living communities sometimes ask residents to move, what families need to know about aging in place, licensing and discharge notices and how to advocate if this happens to someone you love. This is an emotional topic that leaves many families feeling shocked, guilty or blindsided - but understanding the why behind these decisions can help families feel more prepared a little less overwhelmed and help make things a little more doable. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show?  Guest Application Email us at [email protected] with your senior living questions. www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode!  THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!!  @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable

You can do everything “right” and still walk away feeling unsure - and that doesn’t mean you failed. This episode gently walks you through the difference between something being wrong and something simply not being right for you. Because senior living isn’t just about care on paper - it’s about how that care feels, how it’s communicated, and how your family experiences it day to day. If you’ve ever had that gut feeling that something’s off, this will help you understand why -and remind you that trusting yourself is part of making this journey doable. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show?  Guest Application Email us at [email protected] with your senior living questions. www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode!  THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!!  @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable

Getting a call that your dad is being discharged from the hospital can send you straight into panic mode - especially when you know there’s no safe plan waiting at home. In this episode, we talk about why hospitals move so quickly, what “medically stable” really means, and the one powerful phrase that can help you slow things down safely. If you’ve ever felt rushed, pressured, or unsure during a discharge conversation, this episode will help you feel more prepared and more confident. You’re not being difficult - you’re advocating. ...and hopefully this episode makes it a little more doable! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show?  Guest Application Email us at [email protected] with your senior living questions. www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode!  THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!!  @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable

You tried everything. You rearranged your life, asked for help and honored your loved one’s wish to stay at home by bringing in in-home care. But what happens when it still isn’t working? In this episode of Desperately Seeking Senior Living, host Valerie Lynn walks through the moment many families quietly reach: when in-home care no longer provides the safety, consistency or peace of mind it was supposed to bring. We talk about the hidden limits of in-home care, the warning signs families often ignore and why caregiver exhaustion is not a badge of honor...it’s a sign. If you’re feeling stuck in the cycle of “something still isn’t right,” this episode is for you!   CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show?  Guest Application Email us at [email protected] with your senior living questions. www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode!  THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!!  @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable

Making decisions about senior living can feel overwhelming - especially when you’ve promised a loved one they could stay at home. When care needs change, families often feel rushed, guilty and afraid that one move means forever. In this episode, I reframe senior living decisions through a gentler, more realistic lens: buying time. I walk through the path most families take - from in-home care to respite or short-term stays - and explain why needing more support doesn’t mean you failed or broke a promise. This conversation is about slowing the moment down, easing the pressure and remembering that clarity often comes after you give yourself permission to pause. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show?  Guest Application Email us at [email protected] with your senior living questions. www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode!  THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!!  @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable

Holidays bring up big emotions, long-held traditions, and a whole lot of pressure... and when you suddenly notice changes in someone you love, it can feel like the world shifts under your feet. In this episode, we break down whether it’s safe to wait until after the holidays to move to assisted living, or whether the signs are telling you it’s time to act now. With clear, doable checklists and gentle guidance, you’ll walk away knowing exactly what to look for, what matters most, and how to protect both your loved one and your peace of mind. Because you’re not alone....and together, we can make this season just a little more doable. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show?  Guest Application Email us at [email protected] with your senior living questions. www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode!  THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!!  @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable

In this episode, caregiver coach and dementia-care trainer Kat Verdi joins Valerie to break down what families need to know about independent living, assisted living, memory care, and buy-in communities across the Garden State. From understanding the real differences between care types to asking the right “what if” questions before signing a contract, Kat shares compassionate, practical advice based on more than a decade of hands-on experience. You’ll walk away knowing how to spot red flags, what to expect financially, and why transparency is key on both sides. Whether you’re just beginning to explore options or already deep in the process, this conversation will help you move from confusion to clarity - and, as always, help make it doable. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show?  Guest Application Email us at [email protected] with your senior living questions. www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode!  THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!!  @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable

If you’ve ever tried to figure out senior living or care options in Washington State, you know just how overwhelming it can be. From 55+ communities to assisted living, memory care, adult family homes, and in-home care — there’s a lot to untangle. In this episode, I sit down with Morgan Nelson to break it all down. Together, we explore why Washington is considered one of the best-equipped states for senior care, how to tell when it’s time to transition from home, and what families can do to prepare before they’re in crisis mode. We also get honest about guilt, burnout, and the emotional side of making these decisions. Whether you’re helping a loved one or planning for your own future, this episode will help you feel more informed, less alone, and a lot more doable as you navigate your next steps. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show?  Guest Application Email us at [email protected] with your senior living questions. www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode!  THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!!  @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable

You know that feeling when you’re doing everything right for your aging parent and it still feels impossible to keep up? That’s where today’s episode comes in. I’m joined by Kara JVA from the PACE program—an all-inclusive care model that helps older adults live safely at home while still receiving medical care, social support, and even transportation. We dig into eligibility, bust common myths, and share real-life examples of how PACE changes lives for both seniors and their families. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, this conversation is your reminder that help is out there—and it might be closer than you think. https://www.npaonline.org/ CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show?  Guest Application Email us at [email protected] with your senior living questions. www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode!  THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!!  @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable

In this episode, we explore senior living in Missouri with Erin Dwyer of Senior Care Authority, who shares her vast knowledge of the state’s senior care options, including the challenges families face when funds run low. We discuss the financial limitations of Medicaid in Missouri, the differences between assisted living and skilled nursing, and how planning ahead can help families make the best decisions. Erin also sheds light on the work being done to pass the Family Choice Act, which aims to give families more control and transparency in their care decisions. Plus, we dive into the complexities of online lead aggregators and how they can complicate the search for the right care. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show?  Guest Application Email us at [email protected] with your senior living questions. www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode!  THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!!  @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable