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Mike Samuels spent two years on a business plateau. Revenue was steadily creeping up, he was working 30 to 35 hours a week, and on paper everything was fine. Underneath, he was wrestling with self-doubt and a real values conflict, because the next level meant becoming someone he didn’t want to be: hiring someone to do his job, chasing corporate pitches and living on Zoom calls. So he didn’t go bigger. He stopped measuring himself against everyone else’s version of success and built a business that fits the life he actually wants. Mike started as a personal trainer in 2009, took his business online, and went all in on copywriting in 2016. A decade later, he writes for clients, coaches other copywriters and consultants, runs ultras and has a book on the way. In this conversation we get into: Why boredom, not laziness, is often what quietly kills your drive How he went from copying his mentors to writing in a voice that’s unmistakably his own Chasing excitement instead of setting goals The craftsman versus empire builder choice, and why he chose depth over automation Refusing to self-censor, including publishing an essay on grief after his mum died What ultra running and journaling give him that business never could How getting his money working for him removed the scarcity that keeps so many founders chasing the next deal If you’ve built something that works and you’re privately wondering whether “more” is really what you want, this one is for you. Find Mike Book (out 17 November): backpackbusinessbook.com Instagram: The Coffee Shop Copywriter LinkedIn and Facebook: Mike Samuels

You’ve had a good year, and if you look at the accounts, the clients you’ve helped and the business you’ve built, you’d have to admit it. But there’s no real joy in it. The satisfaction you used to get from a great result has faded, your mornings start slower than they used to, and you find yourself putting off the work you know matters most. You know you’re capable of more and you want to give more, yet the drive that once had you jumping out of bed to build this thing feels like it’s gone quiet. If that sounds familiar, nothing is wrong with you. You’ve simply summited the first mountain. The fear and urgency that got you here have done their job, and now you’re living in a version of success that no longer asks anything of you. In this episode you’ll understand exactly why that hunger has faded, so you can stop wondering whether you’ve become lazy or complacent and start seeing it for what it really is. You’ll learn how you’ve outgrown the identity that built your success, why ambitious men start protecting the lead instead of going after what genuinely excites them, and how to find the next adventure worth committing to. By the end, you’ll know how to bring the excitement back into your business and your life, so that next year becomes the year you go again rather than a repeat of this one.

Last year my accountant sent me a message to congratulate me. He meant it kindly. It sat in my stomach for weeks. The business was fine. Good months, okay months. From the outside it looked like I was pushing hard. On the inside I’d started asking a question I would never have said out loud: am I getting lazy? I’d already done everything you’re supposed to do. Mentors, books, podcasts, new offers, new systems. I bored every successful friend I had trying to work out what they knew that I didn’t. The numbers barely moved. What eventually changed it wasn’t a tactic. It was one reframe from a client, and a decision I’d never made in ten years of running a business. Since then my average monthly revenue has gone up nine times. I love my work again, and I’m actually present when I’m home. In this episode I tell you what that message said, why the things that built your business stop working at a certain point, and what’s really sitting between you and the next level. It’s not another strategy. It’s also the reason this podcast is changing. If your year looks good on paper and you still know you’re playing smaller than you could be, this one’s for you.

You've hired the mentors, read the right books and you're still working incredibly hard. The business is good, but it isn't growing, and you aren't building a life you love. This episode is for the business owner who wants to finish the year strongly but has lost the drive they had in the early days. I explain what's happening in your brain when you plateau: why you can't grow despite wanting to, why you underperform relative to what you know you can do, and what's happening in the brain that is creating this block on your growth. Then I explain what gets you moving again, and how to apply it to your life

You're with your kids, but your head's at work. You're at work, but you're thinking about home. Then something tips you over, you snap at the people you love, and the guilt sits with you all evening. This is a real coaching session with a driven business owner and dad of a young family who wanted to separate his work brain from his family brain. What we found underneath wasn't a focus problem at all. In this episode: Why telling yourself to "switch off" works for a day, then fails How to find what your stress and anger are trying to protect you from Treating the parts of your mind like a team you manage, not enemies you fight The four stages of building a new relationship with difficult emotion Two five-minute practices you can start today

This is how to handle the next stage of growth in your business. The greatest challenge you'll face comes from within and this is a story about how to handle that.

If you keep doing what you're doing you're only going to get more of what you've already got. This is how to change your mental state so you can perform at a higher level

This is how I teach my clients to master their mental weaknesses, and how you can do the same

If you're a business owner who knows they've got more in the tank, this is what you need to be a part of

Today I share 5 quotes that will radically improve the quality of your life if you implement them (plus 2 bonus quotes that came into my head whilst recording)

For twenty years I picked the hardest thing in the room and made sure people could see me do it. I called it ambition. It was an eight year old who didn't feel like he mattered, running every decision I made, and I never once heard it. There's a line usually put on Jung. Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will determine your life, and you'll call it fate. This one is about the thing driving you that you can't see. Where it comes from, why self-awareness doesn't catch it, and what it quietly does to a business once it's built one. Then the part that made me want to record it. Every amplifier a business owner has ever held reflects his inner world back at him. Headcount used to. Now AI does, faster, with no sanity check left in the loop. If your thinking is unclear, AI won't fix it. It multiplies it. Inside: the three ways something ends up in your blind spot, how a financial planner worked out he was creating chaos just so he could solve it, and the one thing I'd train before handing your thinking to a machine. Take the assessment I run with every client at tomfoxley.me.

A client of mine works sixteen hour days. Up at four, in the office by seven, laptop still open at eleven at night. I asked him to rate the quality of that work out of a hundred. He said fifty. Maybe sixty. So we did the arithmetic together. Fifty percent of sixteen hours is eight hours. He's producing one working day and paying for two. Every endurance athlete already understands this pattern. You run every session at the same middling pace, too slow to build the aerobic base and too fast to build speed, and after eight weeks you're tired and no quicker. Coaches call it junk volume. Business owners do junk volume at the desk, and fatigue makes it feel like something happened. In this episode I break down why sixteen hours at full quality was never available to you, what the research on deliberate practice says about the real ceiling, and what changed for Dean McMahon when he stopped working more and started working on far less of the right stuff. Two sets and reps at the end. Find your three hours, and write your not-to-do list. If you recognised your own week in this, book a Mental Performance Blueprint Call at tomfoxley.me. Thirty minutes, no pitch, and if it isn't a fit I'll be the first to say so.

A client showed up early to do a job that wasn't his anymore. Nobody asked him to. He couldn't stop himself. In this episode I break down what was running underneath that habit: busyness as identity, the quiet competitiveness that creeps in between a leader and their own team, and the four-word framework I now use for saying a hard thing without softening it into nothing. If you've ever done someone else's job before they had the chance, stayed visibly busy so nobody would question whether you were working, or softened feedback because you needed to stay the good guy in the room, this one's for you. In this episode: Why busyness becomes an identity, not just a schedule The quiet competitiveness that shows up between a leader and their own team A four-word framework for saying a hard thing without softening it into nothing Book a Mental Performance Blueprint Call at tomfoxley.me.

For about a month, Tom Foxley's tongue felt like it was housing a  small mammal.   He knew from the start he should go to the dentist. But she's  expensive and her waiting room has a specific combination of clinical  smell and Radio 2 that he finds miserable. So he went to his GP  instead — easier, more accessible, felt like doing something.   The GP prescribed medication and a mouthwash. His tongue didn't  improve. His teeth started staining. He'd created a new problem by  treating the original one incorrectly.   When he finally booked the dentist, she physically recoiled at what  he'd been prescribed. Thirty minutes later: teeth back to white,  actual solution in hand. Salt water with a pinch of bicarb. Free.  Thirty seconds. Perfect for the problem.   All of it avoidable if he'd just gone to the right person at the start.   In this episode, Tom maps that experience onto the pattern he sees  most consistently in business owners — something that's been off for  a year or longer, that they know is there, but instead of addressing  directly they reach for the accessible option. Podcasts, books,  breathwork, meditation apps. All decent things in the right context.  But for the specific problem of having outgrown the operating system  running the business, they treat the surface. They don't touch the  thing underneath.   Topics covered: - The tongue story — and why it maps perfectly onto how intelligent    business owners avoid their real problem - What it actually means to outgrow your operating system - Why the drive, focus and ability to push through become less    reliable over time — and what that signals - Why reading about this problem won't move anything — and what does - What a proper diagnostic conversation looks like — and what it isn't