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Giana Darling and Kandi SteinerExplicit
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2025/09/23
Latest episode
2026/09/09
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Talk Spicy to Me is a podcast where bestselling romance authors Kandi Steiner and Giana Darling go rogue and talk all things romance — the good, the bad, the unbearably hot, and everything in between. From behind-the-scenes writing stories and industry myths to swooning over messy book boyfriends and the spiciest reads, nothing is off limits. Grab your favorite drink, curl up in your reading nook, and get ready — it's about to get spicy.
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Why Cozy Romance Is Taking Over w/ Laurie Gilmore | Talk Spicy to Me
2026/09/09
For the Season 3 finale of Talk Spicy to Me, bestselling romance authors Giana Darling and Kandi Steiner are joined by #1 New York Times bestselling author Laurie Gilmore, creator of the beloved Dream Harbor series and The Pumpkin Spice Cafe.
Laurie takes us behind the scenes of her newest release, Big Bad Wolf, a cozy paranormal romance with Little Red Riding Hood vibes, werewolves, slow burn tension, and a few more red flags than readers might expect from Dream Harbor. We're also diving into why cozy romance is having such a huge moment, the surprising overlap between cozy and dark romance readers, how Laurie's Gilmore Girls love influenced her author name, and the incredible journey that turned The Pumpkin Spice Cafe from a side project into a career-changing phenomenon. Plus, Laurie shares how she protects the joy of writing after massive success, what makes a fictional small town feel truly cozy, why her romances are still open door, and which Dream Harbor man she would choose for herself.
TIMESTAMPS
00:00 - Welcome to the Season 3 finale
04:11 - Meet Laurie Gilmore
05:50 - Big Bad Wolf + cozy werewolf romance
11:55 - Did Gilmore Girls inspire "Gilmore"?
23:43 - Why cozy romance is having a huge moment
26:42 - Why readers need cozy books right now
31:48 - What actually makes a romance "cozy"?
36:48 - Where does spice fit into cozy romance?
42:09 - The Pumpkin Spice Cafe phenomenon
45:24 - How The Pumpkin Spice Cafe took off
53:22 - Werewolves, red flags & "touch her and die" energy
1:00:10 - Red Flag, Green Flag: Only One Bed
1:04:29 - Favorite tools for writing a novel
1:13:30 - Talk Spicy to Me Book Club
1:26:40 - Saying goodbye to Season 3
💬 QUESTION OF THE EPISODE: Are you a cozy romance reader, a dark romance reader… or are you happily reading BOTH?
FOLLOW LAURIE GILMORE:
Website: https://www.thelauriegilmore.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lauriegilmore_author/?hl=en
SPONSORS: This season of Talk Spicy to Me is brought to you by Lauren Blakely and Kat Singleton!
Lauren Blakely is the bestselling author of sexy, funny, feel-good romance, including Just Playing for Keeps, a grumpy-sunshine hockey romance with fake dating, viral heartbreak, and a broody tattooed hockey hero.
Follow Lauren Blakely:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurenblakelybooks/
Website: https://laurenblakely.com/
Kat Singleton is the author of In Good Company, a forbidden billionaire romance featuring an ex's brother, private chef, age gap tension, and a dreamy Hamptons setting.
Follow Kat Singleton:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/authorkatsingleton/?hl=en
Website: https://authorkatsingleton.com
BOOK CLUB: We're reading The Hot Shot by Piper Rayne! Join us for the September 9th episode when Giana and Kandi break it all down.
Want more Talk Spicy to Me? Join us on Patreon for early access, exclusive content, surprise book mail, and uncensored After Dark episodes: https://www.patreon.com/c/TalkSpicytoMePodcast
If you loved Season 3, make sure to like, subscribe, and leave us a comment telling us who you want to see on the podcast next season!
#LaurieGilmore #TalkSpicyToMe #CozyRomance #ThePumpkinSpiceCafe #BigBadWolf #DreamHarbor #RomanceBooks #BookTok #KandiSteiner #GianaDarling
What NO ONE Tells You Before Becoming an Author | Talk Spicy to Me
2026/09/02
What do we wish someone had told us before becoming authors?
In Season 3, Episode 8 of Talk Spicy to Me, bestselling romance authors Giana Darling and Kandi Steiner get candid about the realities of building a writing career - from finding your author brand and marketing your books to handling bad reviews, creative burnout, writer's block, and the pressure that comes with turning your passion into a business. Whether you're an aspiring author, indie author, or longtime romance reader curious about what really happens behind the scenes, this episode is packed with honest publishing advice and lessons Giana and Kandi learned the hard way.
💬 Got a question you'd like us to answer on the podcast? Send us a voice message on SpeakPipe → https://www.speakpipe.com/TalkSpicytoMe
TImestamps:
00:00 - Welcome to Talk Spicy to Me
04:34 - The Spice Report
11:20 - Giana's Road to Ruin publishing update
15:04 - Kandi's current writing project
22:21 - Kandi announces Hot Mess
24:34 - What we wish we knew before becoming authors
25:36 - Passion doesn't guarantee readers
29:35 - Slow down before you publish
31:46 - Finding your author brand
35:46 - When writing starts to feel like a job
40:04 - Readers won't experience your book the way you do
41:42 - Bad reviews are inevitable
44:28 - Other authors are NOT your competition
47:42 - Success comes in seasons
52:13 - Don't let your backlist die
53:48 - Stop being rigid with your writing process
56:13 - "I don't believe in writer's block"
57:00 - Balancing art and business
59:43 - Pushing through when writing feels hard
1:00:54 - Why authors need to learn to say no
1:03:22 - Red Flag or Green Flag: stalking
1:05:35 - Reader question: do real people inspire characters?
SPONSORS: This season of Talk Spicy to Me is brought to you by Lauren Blakely and Kat Singleton! Lauren Blakely is the bestselling author of sexy, funny, feel-good romance, including Just Playing for Keeps, a grumpy-sunshine hockey romance with fake dating, viral heartbreak, and a broody tattooed hockey hero.
Follow Lauren Blakely:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurenblakelybooks/
Website: https://laurenblakely.com/
Kat Singleton is the author of In Good Company, a forbidden billionaire romance featuring an ex's brother, private chef, age gap tension, and a dreamy Hamptons setting.
Follow Kat Singleton: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/authorkatsingleton/?hl=en Website: https://authorkatsingleton.com
BOOK CLUB: We're reading The Hot Shot by Piper Rayne! Join us for the September 9th episode when Giana and Kandi break it all down.
AFTER DARK (Patreon Exclusive) Want the extended, unfiltered conversation? Each week's After Dark mini-episode dives deeper into topics we don't cover on the main feed.
Join the Patreon for early access and bonus content: https://www.patreon.com/c/TalkSpicytoMePodcast
💬 QUESTION OF THE EPISODE: Authors and aspiring authors: what's ONE thing you wish someone had told you before you started writing? Want more Talk Spicy to Me?
#TalkSpicyToMe #GianaDarling #KandiSteiner #AuthorAdvice #IndieAuthor #SelfPublishing #RomanceAuthors #WritingAdvice #PublishingTips #RomanceBooks
Romance Audiobooks: What Readers & Authors NEED to Know ft. Amy Daws | Talk Spicy To Me
2026/08/26
How much does it really cost to produce a romance audiobook and why has duet narration become so popular?
In Season 3, Episode 7 of Talk Spicy to Me, bestselling authors Giana Darling and Kandi Steiner are joined by New York Times bestselling romance author Amy Daws to talk all things audiobooks. From dual vs. duet narration and $10K+ production costs to narrator casting, audiobook rights, royalties, and marketing, they're pulling back the curtain on a side of publishing readers rarely see.
Amy also shares how she built her audiobook audience, why she was working with duet narration before it became the norm, and the virtual narrator event her publisher didn't think would work… that ended up selling 450 tickets.
TIMESTAMPS
00:00 - Welcome to Talk Spicy to Me
00:56 - Life updates & summer vacations
07:55 - Meet Amy Daws
09:49 - Amy hits the New York Times bestseller list
14:28 - The Spice Report
14:51 - Book-to-screen adaptations
23:18 - Let's talk audiobooks
24:41 - Amy's audiobook journey
27:26 - Dual vs. duet narration explained
28:24 - The real cost of producing audiobooks
31:45 - Why audiobook readers can read more
32:33 - Problematic narrators & author responsibility
35:55 - Why audiobooks have exploded in popularity
40:14 - How Amy marketed her audiobooks
44:39 - The Wild West of indie publishing
47:12 - The narrator event her publisher didn't want
52:51 - Affordable audiobook options for indie authors
54:55 - Should you sell your audiobook rights?
57:45 - Audiobooks as passive income
1:01:06 - Amy's #1 tip for your first audiobook
1:09:22 - Red Flag or Green Flag
1:11:23 - Special edition preorder campaigns
1:20:01 - After Dark gets VERY spicy
💬 QUESTION OF THE EPISODE: Do you prefer dual or duet narration in your romance audiobooks? FOLLOW AMY DAWS: Website: https://amydawsauthor.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amydawsauthor/?hl=en SPONSORS: This season of Talk Spicy to Me is brought to you by Lauren Blakely and Kat Singleton! Lauren Blakely is the bestselling author of sexy, funny, feel-good romance, including Just Playing for Keeps, a grumpy-sunshine hockey romance with fake dating, viral heartbreak, and a broody tattooed hockey hero. Follow Lauren Blakely: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurenblakelybooks/ Website: https://laurenblakely.com/ Kat Singleton is the author of In Good Company, a forbidden billionaire romance featuring an ex's brother, private chef, age gap tension, and a dreamy Hamptons setting. Follow Kat Singleton: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/authorkatsingleton/?hl=en Website: https://authorkatsingleton.com BOOK CLUB: We're reading The Hot Shot by Piper Rayne! Join us for the September 9th episode when Giana and Kandi break it all down. AFTER DARK (Patreon Exclusive) Want the extended, unfiltered conversation? Each week's After Dark mini-episode dives deeper into topics we don't cover on the main feed. Join the Patreon for early access and bonus content: https://www.patreon.com/c/TalkSpicytoMePodcast #TalkSpicyToMe #AmyDaws #RomanceAudiobooks #Audiobooks #RomanceBooks #RomanceAuthors #BookPodcast #IndieAuthor
Romance, Murder & Plot Twists: Writing Romantic Suspense w/ Catherine Cowles | Talk Spicy To Me
2026/08/12
In Season 3, Episode 6 of Talk Spicy to Me, bestselling authors Giana Darling and Kandi Steiner are joined by New York Times bestselling author Catherine Cowles to talk all things romantic suspense - from crafting believable villains and planting red herrings to using suspense to push the romance forward. Catherine also gets candid about career milestones, setting boundaries as a woman in publishing, and the reality of going from indie to traditional publishing. Plus: true crime research, romance adaptations, murderous book boyfriends, and whether a cold-blooded killer is actually a red flag.
💬 Got a question you'd like us to answer on the podcast? Send us a voice message on SpeakPipe → https://www.speakpipe.com/TalkSpicytoMe
TIMESTAMPS
00:00 - Welcome to Talk Spicy to Me
00:58 - Life updates & author signings
07:49 - Meet Catherine Cowles
10:45 - The Spice Report
19:07 - Romance adaptations & dream casting
23:16 - Why Catherine writes romantic suspense
24:29 - Balancing romance & suspense
25:40 - Catherine's plotting process
26:27 - Red herrings & tricking readers
28:51 - Finding inspiration for suspense plots
30:37 - Planting clues & creating believable villains
36:22 - Career goals & author milestones
38:44 - Learning to celebrate success
44:54 - Writing from the villain's
POV 51:05 - When true crime research gets TOO real
53:19 - Balancing darkness, emotion & hope
57:03 - Using setting to build suspense
1:03:00 - People pleasing, boundaries & business
1:05:03 - Catherine's advice for romantic suspense writers
1:08:24 - Red Flag or Green Flag
1:13:46 - Indie vs. traditional publishing
1:21:27 - What's coming on After Dark
FOLLOW CATHERINE COWLES:
Website: https://catherinecowles.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/catherinecowlesauthor/?hl=en SPONSORS:
This season of Talk Spicy to Me is brought to you by Lauren Blakely and Kat Singleton! Lauren Blakely is the bestselling author of sexy, funny, feel-good romance, including Just Playing for Keeps, a grumpy-sunshine hockey romance with fake dating, viral heartbreak, and a broody tattooed hockey hero.
Follow Lauren Blakely:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurenblakelybooks/
Website: https://laurenblakely.com/
Kat Singleton is the author of In Good Company, a forbidden billionaire romance featuring an ex's brother, private chef, age gap tension, and a dreamy Hamptons setting.
Follow Kat Singleton:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/authorkatsingleton/?hl=en
Website: https://authorkatsingleton.com
BOOK CLUB: We're reading The Hot Shot by Piper Rayne! Join us for the September 9th episode when Giana and Kandi break it all down.
AFTER DARK (Patreon Exclusive) Want the extended, unfiltered conversation? Each week's After Dark mini-episode dives deeper into topics we don't cover on the main feed. Join the Patreon for early access and bonus content: https://www.patreon.com/c/TalkSpicytoMePodcast
How Bestselling Romance Authors Build Unforgettable Worlds w/ Ava Rani | Talk Spicy to Me
2026/08/05
In Episode 5 of Talk Spicy to Me, hosts Giana Darling and Kandi Steiner are joined by USA Today bestselling author Ava Rani for a deep dive into one of the most important (and often overlooked) aspects of storytelling: world building in romance novels. Whether you're writing fantasy romance, dark academia, sports romance, mafia romance, small-town romance, or contemporary romance, this episode is packed with practical advice on creating immersive settings, weaving sensory details into your scenes, and making your fictional world feel like a character of its own.
The conversation also covers Ava's exciting four-book publishing deal, the importance of setting in series, balancing description with pacing, research tips for writers, and a thoughtful discussion about comparison, confidence, and finding joy in the writing journey. 💬 Got a question you'd like us to answer on the podcast?
Send us a voice message on SpeakPipe → https://www.speakpipe.com/TalkSpicytoMe
Timestamps
00:00 - Welcome to Talk Spicy to Me
02:22 - Kandi's Knoxville signing & Close Quarters special edition
05:39 - Sponsors: Lauren Blakely & Cat Singleton
06:59 - Introducing Ava Rani
11:02 - Ava's new Legacy series & four-book publishing deal
13:15 - Spice Report: Reality TV, TikTok obsessions & Will Ferrell
20:01 - Confidence, authenticity & why people judge confident women
28:19 - What makes world building feel immersive?
31:37 - Building romance, plot & setting together
33:12 - Why Book One builds the foundation of a series
37:48 - How to balance world building without slowing the story
39:30 - Using sensory details to make readers feel transported
44:02 - History, culture & creating unforgettable fictional worlds
51:38 - What authors actually cut during edits
57:11 - Finding the right balance in genre-specific world building
1:00:04 - World-building process: maps, Pinterest, playlists & research
1:10:17 - Red Flag, Green Flag: Sex in Public
1:13:07 - Listener Question: Dealing with comparison as an author
1:22:39 - Where to find Ava Rani & After Dark preview
FOLLOW AVA RANI:
Website: https://www.authoravarani.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/authoravarani
SPONSORS:
This season of Talk Spicy to Me is brought to you by Lauren Blakely and Kat Singleton!
Lauren Blakely is the bestselling author of sexy, funny, feel-good romance, including Just Playing for Keeps, a grumpy-sunshine hockey romance with fake dating, viral heartbreak, and a broody tattooed hockey hero.
Follow Lauren Blakely:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurenblakelybooks/
Website: https://laurenblakely.com/
Kat Singleton is the author of In Good Company, a forbidden billionaire romance featuring an ex's brother, private chef, age gap tension, and a dreamy Hamptons setting.
Follow Kat Singleton:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/authorkatsingleton/?hl=en
Website: https://authorkatsingleton.com AFTER DARK (Patreon Exclusive)
Want the extended, unfiltered conversation? Each week's After Dark mini-episode dives deeper into topics we don't cover on the main feed. Join the Patreon for early access and bonus content: https://www.patreon.com/c/TalkSpicytoMePodcast
The Truth About Creative Burnout w/ Giana Darling & Kandi Steiner | Talk Spicy to Me
2026/07/29
Welcome back to Talk Spicy to Me! In Episode 4 of Season 3, bestselling romance authors Giana Darling and Kandi Steiner are getting honest about burnout, motherhood, creativity, author life, and the pressure to keep producing when your brain and body are begging for a break.
This week, Giana and Kandi dive into what burnout really feels like, how it starts with overwhelm, the warning signs they've learned to look for, and the habits that help them protect their creativity before they hit a wall. They talk about the difference between pushing through and fully burning out, why social media comparison can make everything worse, and how authors, readers, and creators can start taking real care of themselves again.
They also chat about the beautiful chaos of motherhood, clingy baby phases, childcare struggles, the mom sisterhood, finding little pockets of writing time, and why having friends in the same life stage can feel so grounding.
If you've ever felt creatively drained, overwhelmed by your to-do list, exhausted by social media, or like the thing you love has started to feel like one more thing you have to do, this episode is for you.
💬 Got a question you'd like us to answer on the podcast? Send us a voice message on SpeakPipe → https://www.speakpipe.com/TalkSpicytoMe
TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 - Welcome to Talk Spicy to Me
06:34 - Introducing today's burnout conversation
06:42 - Season sponsors: Kat Singleton + Lauren Blakely
07:36 - Spice Report
23:53 - Let's talk about burnout
24:13 - What burnout really means
26:30 - Burnout vs. overwhelm
28:35 - Why burnout can derail creative careers
30:57 - Warning signs of burnout
36:39 - Avoidance as a burnout red flag
39:03 - How social media feeds burnout
43:47 - Keeping joy in your creative career
50:43 - Comparison, jealousy, and author friendships
52:54 - Practical ways to prevent burnout
54:37 - Making space for things that are just for you
1:01:20 - How to refill your creative well
1:02:24 - There is no one right way to build a career
1:03:20 - How to come back from burnout
1:06:19 - Reader burnout, ARC pressure, and bookish social media 1:08:17 - It's okay to change, pivot, or take a break
1:09:40 - Share your burnout experience with us
1:10:31 - After Dark Preview: Dating hall of shame
1:10:47 - Red Flag, Green Flag
1:14:21 - Reader question: writing to market vs. writing what lights you up
1:17:22 - Art first, business second
1:18:16 - Patreon, book club pick, and closing
SPONSORS: This season of Talk Spicy to Me is brought to you by Lauren Blakely and Kat Singleton!
Lauren Blakely is the bestselling author of sexy, funny, feel-good romance, including Just Playing for Keeps, a grumpy-sunshine hockey romance with fake dating, viral heartbreak, and a broody tattooed hockey hero.
Follow Lauren Blakely:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurenblakelybooks/\
Website: https://laurenblakely.com/
Kat Singleton is the author of In Good Company, a forbidden billionaire romance featuring an ex's brother, private chef, age gap tension, and a dreamy Hamptons setting.
Follow Kat Singleton:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/authorkatsingleton/?hl=en
Website: https://authorkatsingleton.com
BOOK CLUB PICK: Read along with us! Our Talk Spicy to Me book club pick is The Hot Shot by Piper Rayne. We'll be discussing it on our September 9th episode, including favorite moments, favorite characters, and of course, the spice.
AFTER DARK: Join us on Patreon for this week's After Dark episode, where we're talking about the dating hall of shame and the dates that went completely off the rails.
Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more romance author conversations, behind-the-scenes author life, spicy book talk, romance writing advice, reader questions, and unfiltered conversations about the romance industry.
What It's REALLY Like Being Married to a Romance Author | Talk Spicy To Me
2026/07/22
Welcome back to Talk Spicy to Me! In Episode 3 of Season 3, bestselling romance authors Giana Darling and Kandi Steiner are joined by two very special guests: their husbands, Haden and Jack. In this episode, Giana and Kandi pull back the curtain on what it's really like being married to a romance author. Haden and Jack share how they were first introduced to the romance book world, what surprised them most about the size and passion of the reader community, and what it's like watching their wives build careers in the romance industry.
They also get into the hilarious misconceptions people have about spicy romance authors, including the assumption that steamy scenes are autobiographical, what it's like attending book signings as "the husband," and how much they are actually involved in the business side of their wives' author careers. Plus, Giana and Kandi talk current obsessions in the Spice Report, including the World Cup, The Bear, House of the Dragon, and balancing TV time with parenthood. Kandi also shares her new forbidden sports romance, Illegal Formation, and the group plays Red Flag, Green Flag with the messy trope of dating your best friend's ex. If you love romance books, author behind-the-scenes conversations, spicy book talk, romance tropes, and getting a peek at the real-life relationships behind your favorite romance authors, this episode is for you.
💬 Got a question you'd like us to answer on the podcast? Send us a voice message on SpeakPipe → https://www.speakpipe.com/TalkSpicytoMe
TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 - Welcome to Talk Spicy to Me
03:05 - Patreon shoutout + After Dark episodes
03:33 - Season sponsors: Lauren Blakely + Kat Singleton
04:23 - Introducing the husbands: Haden and Jack
05:10 - Proposal nerves and engagement stories
07:18 - Spice Report
07:42 - World Cup obsession + taking a baby to the game
11:11 - The Bear, House of the Dragon, and TV obsessions
15:25 - Kandi's shameless plug: Illegal Formation
16:33 - Why authors feel awkward asking friends for help
18:09 - How Haden and Jack entered the romance world
19:26 - Haden's first romance signing experience
21:00 - Jack finding out Kandi was a romance author
23:36 - Being recognized as the romance author husband
25:34 - What surprised the husbands about romance readers
30:30 - Are spicy romance scenes autobiographical?
34:53 - What romance trope fits their marriages?
39:08 - How involved are the husbands in the author business?
42:10 - What it's like working with your spouse
46:40 - Separating work, marriage, and the romance business
49:46 - The pressure of being a full-time author family
51:40 - Do the husbands benefit from spicy romance?
52:26 - Haden has read all of Giana's books
55:48 - What readers may not know about Giana and Kandi
59:20 - Jack on Kandi's work ethic and generosity
1:00:47 - Why supportive partners matter
1:02:19 - Talk Spicy to Me Book Club Pick: The Hot Shot by Piper Rayne
1:03:47 - Red Flag, Green Flag: dating your best friend's ex
1:07:03 - Reader question: writing third-act breakups
1:09:46 - Where to find the husbands + closing
BOOK CLUB PICK: Read along with us! Our next Talk Spicy to Me book club pick is The Hot Shot by Piper Rayne. We'll be discussing it on the September 9th episode, including favorite moments, favorite characters, and, of course, the spice.
The Hot Shot: Tropes: Best Friend's Older Brother/Little Sister's Best Friend, Fake Dating, Athlete (Sports Romance), Found Family, Single Guardian Follow Piper Rayne:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/authorpiperrayne/?hl=en
Website: https://piperrayne.com/
SPONSORS: This season of Talk Spicy to Me is brought to you by Lauren Blakely and Kat Singleton! Lauren Blakely is the bestselling author of sexy, funny, feel-good romance, including Just Playing for Keeps, a grumpy-sunshine hockey romance with fake dating, viral heartbreak, and a broody tattooed hockey hero.
Follow Lauren Blakely: I
nstagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurenblakelybooks/
Website: https://laurenblakely.com/
Kat Singleton is the author of In Good Company, a forbidden billionaire romance featuring an ex's brother, private chef, age gap tension, and a dreamy Hamptons setting.
Follow Kat Singleton:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/authorkatsingleton/?hl=en
Website: https://authorkatsingleton.com
AFTER DARK (Patreon Exclusive) Want the extended, unfiltered conversation? Each week's After Dark mini-episode dives deeper into topics we don't cover on the main feed. Join the Patreon for early access and bonus content: https://www.patreon.com/c/TalkSpicytoMePodcast
Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more romance author conversations, publishing behind-the-scenes, spicy book talk, romance tropes, and author interviews.
The Truth About Being a Hybrid Author w/ S.J. Tilly | Talk Spicy to Me
2026/07/15
Welcome back to Talk Spicy to Me! In Episode 2 of Season 3, bestselling romance authors Giana Darling and Kandi Steiner are joined by the hilarious, wildly talented, and always chaotic S.J. Tilly for a deep dive into what it really means to be a hybrid author.
In this episode, Giana, Kandi, and S.J. talk about the realities of balancing indie publishing and traditional publishing, how Kindle Unlimited helped change the game for indie romance authors, why going traditional can help authors reach new readers, and what authors need to know before signing print-only deals, planning book tours, or handing over any part of their brand. They also get into the importance of advocating for yourself as an author, fighting for your covers and creative control, learning the business side of publishing, and why author friendships and community are some of the most valuable tools in the industry.
Plus, because it's Talk Spicy to Me, there's plenty of chaos along the way: motherhood updates, dental horror stories, SJ Tilly's Jurassic Park obsession, dinosaur fossils, digital closets, Rivals on Disney+, romance author deadline spirals, spicy red/green flags, and a reader question about the hardest part of writing a book. If you're a romance reader, aspiring author, indie author, traditionally published author, or just nosy about the behind-the-scenes world of romance publishing, this episode is for you!
TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 - Welcome to Talk Spicy to Me
03:29 - Season sponsors: Lauren Blakely + Kat Singleton
04:32 - Introducing S.J. Tilly
05:40 - SJ's iconic one-word chapter
12:09 - Spicy Hot Salsa
21:40 - What is a hybrid author?
22:31 - SJ Tilly's indie-to-hybrid publishing journey
24:45 - Why being indie first can help authors go traditional
25:20 - The biggest benefit of traditional publishing
30:10 - Kindle Unlimited, Amazon, and indie authors
31:41 - Why authors want to reach every kind of reader
33:15 - The difficult side of being a hybrid author
35:08 - Traditional publishers, creative control, and author branding
38:20 - Print-only deals and author advances
40:09 - Questions to ask before signing a publishing deal
41:07 - Authors are running empires
42:20 - Why author friends and industry community matter
46:24 - New Release Spotlight: Upgraded by Abby Millsaps
47:29 - The reality of book tours
1:02:21 - The biggest takeaway: advocate for yourself
1:07:03 - Why preorders matter for authors
1:09:04 - Special editions, sprayed edges, and limited print runs
1:13:01 - After Dark preview
1:13:42 - Red Flag or Green Flag
1:16:11 - Reader question: What's the hardest part of writing a book?
1:16:43 - SJ Tilly on beginnings, endings, and writing chronologically
1:21:37 - The chaos of finishing a book
1:23:33 - Long chapters, long books, and author style
1:24:34 - After Dark: romance author group chat exposed
1:25:12 - Where to find SJ Tilly
1:25:38 - SJ Tilly's Bonded Soul series and upcoming releases
FOLLOW SJ TILLY: Website: https://sjtilly.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sjtillyauthor/?hl=en
SPONSORS: This season of Talk Spicy to Me is brought to you by Lauren Blakely and Kat Singleton! Lauren Blakely is the bestselling author of sexy, funny, feel-good romance, including Just Playing for Keeps, a grumpy-sunshine hockey romance with fake dating, viral heartbreak, and a broody tattooed hockey hero.
Follow Lauren Blakely:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurenblakelybooks/
Website: https://laurenblakely.com/
Kat Singleton is the author of In Good Company, a forbidden billionaire romance featuring an ex's brother, private chef, age gap tension, and a dreamy Hamptons setting.
Follow Kat Singleton:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/authorkatsingleton/?hl=en
Website: https://authorkatsingleton.com
This episode's featured book is Upgraded by Abby Millsaps, a Formula 1, ex-boyfriend's dad, forbidden romance with tension, found family, and plenty of high-speed drama on and off the track.
Follow Abby Millsaps: https://authorabbymillsaps.com/
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Queer Joy, MM Romance & Happily Ever After w/ Chip Pons | Talk Spicy To Me
2026/07/08
Welcome back to Talk Spicy to Me and welcome to SEASON THREE! 🌶️
We're kicking off the new season with the amazing Chip Pons, USA Today bestselling author of contemporary gay romance, including Winging It With You and Dearly Departed. In this episode, Giana Darling and Kandi Steiner sit down with Chip to talk all things queer love, queer joy, MM romance, found representation, grief, romance tropes, reader expectations, and the power of happily ever afters.
This conversation dives deep into why joyful queer stories matter, how romance can help readers feel seen, the difference between fantasy and realism in spicy books, and why queer characters deserve love stories where their sexuality isn't the source of trauma. Chip also opens up about his own journey, the stories that shaped him, writing grief through a softer lens, and why joy is at the center of his work.
Plus, we're bringing back some favorite Talk Spicy segments, including the Spice Report and Red Flag, Green Flag, along with a listener question about why indie authors might still want an agent for things like audio rights, foreign rights, and contract protection.
If you love romance books, queer romance, MM romance, contemporary romance, author interviews, bookish conversations, and behind-the-scenes publishing talk, this episode is for you.
TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 - Welcome back to Talk Spicy to Me
1:44 - Season 3 life updates, motherhood, and postpartum chats
5:04 - Season 3 sponsors: Lauren Blakely and Kat Singleton
7:40 - Introducing Chip Pons
9:14 - Celebrating Chip's USA Today bestseller news
9:38 - Kandi's Blindside adaptation news
10:27 - Chip's book tour, family, and Dearly Departed inspiration
13:27 - Welcome to the Spice Report
19:20 - Talking all things queer love and joy
22:03 - Chip's background and why he centers joy
27:10 - What "queer joy" means in romance
31:47 - The book community, acknowledgements, and connection
34:24 - Being an own voices author in queer romance
38:13 - Why joyful books can still be emotional
41:35 - MM romance, FF romance, and reader expectations
43:41 - Representation, publishing trends, and reader habits
44:48 - Sponsor spotlight: C.K. Darling
45:51 - Why readers connect with queer romance
50:54 - Romance books, fantasy, realism, and sex education
54:37 - How romance books can change perspectives
56:05 - Book tours, reader connection, and writing for community
1:01:31 - A powerful reader story about wanting more for yourself
1:06:06 - Red Flag, Green Flag: Pet Names
1:11:56 - Listener question: Why indie authors may still want an agent
1:15:23 - After Dark Patreon episode teaser
1:16:19 - Where to find Chip Pons
1:16:35 - Closing out Season 3, Episode 1
Follow Chip Pons:
Instagram/Threads: https://www.instagram.com/booksovrbros
Website: https://www.chippons.com/
SPONSORS:
This season of Talk Spicy to Me is brought to you by Lauren Blakely and Kat Singleton!
Lauren Blakely is the bestselling author of sexy, funny, feel-good romance, including Just Playing for Keeps, a grumpy-sunshine hockey romance with fake dating, viral heartbreak, and a broody tattooed hockey hero.
Follow Lauren Blakely:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurenblakelybooks/
Website: https://laurenblakely.com/
Kat Singleton is the author of In Good Company, a forbidden billionaire romance featuring an ex's brother, private chef, age gap tension, and a dreamy Hamptons setting.
Follow Kat Singleton:
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/authorkatsingleton/?hl=en
Website: https://authorkatsingleton.com
This episode also includes a sponsor spotlight for C.K. Darling's Embers of Fate, a cozy, witty, spicy small-town romance with forced proximity, found family, a protective hero, and a man who falls first.
Follow C.K. Darling
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/ckdarlingauthor/
Website: https://ckdarling.com/
Building Author Friendships & Writing Community | Talk Spicy to Me
2026/03/18
Welcome back to Talk Spicy to Me: The podcast where two bestselling romance authors go rogue and talk all things romance: the good, the bad, the unbearably hot, and everything in between.
In this season finale episode, Kandi and Giana discuss the realities of life in the publishing trenches, the importance of genuine author friendships, what really happens at writing retreats, and answer reader questions about writing and the romance genre.
The podcast will return this summer after Giana begins maternity leave.
Timestamps:
00:00 – Season finale announcement & Giana starting maternity leave early
01:36 – Life in the indie publishing trenches
08:45 – Season sponsors: Lena Hendrix & Willow Aster
10:07 – The Spice Report (current reads, shows, and obsessions)
27:58 – Kandi's word of the year: "Rooted"
30:11 – Industry advice: building genuine friendships
32:25 – Why meeting in person matters ("vibe checks")
43:56 – What really happens at writing retreats
52:58 – How to organize your own writing retreat
01:08:17 - Sponsor: Brittanee Nicole
01:12:59 – Red Flag / Green Flag trope discussion
01:18:11 – Reader question: why write romance?
01:23:29 – Book club discussion: Deep Pockets by Nana Malone
01:35:29 – Final Bump-Date
BOOK CLUB PICK
Deep Pockets by Nana Malone
Tropes for that book: Mafia/Assassin romance, Best friend's sister, Age Gap, Forced Proximity, Enemies to Lovers
Link: https://www.amazon.com/Deep-Pockets-Forced-Proximity-Romance-ebook/dp/B0DDGX814Q
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nanamalonewriter/
Website: https://nanamalone.com/
Join us for the Deep Pockets deep dive on March18th.
SEASON SPONSORS
Brittanee Nicole
Darling Daffodils Farm :https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/808533/darling-daffodils-farm-a-hope-harbor-novel-by-brittanee-nicole/
Website: https://www.brittaneenicole.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/authorbrittaneenicole/
Lena Hendrix
Chasing the Sun (Star Harbor, Book 1)
Link: https://geni.us/chasingthesun1
Website: https://www.lenahendrix.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/authorlenahendrix
Willow Aster
What It Takes (Windy Harbor Series, Book 2)
Link: https://geni.us/WhatItTakes
Website: https://www.willowaster.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/willowaster/
WHERE TO FIND EVERYONE
Talk Spicy to Me
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talkspicytomepodcast
Spotify/Apple: @talkspicytomepodcast
Youtube: @talkspicytomepodcast
HOSTS
Giana Darling
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gianadarlingauthor
Website: https://gianadarling.com/
Kandi Steiner
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kandisteiner
Website: https://kandisteiner.com/
🔥 AFTER DARK (Patreon Exclusive)
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The Anatomy of a Romance Bestseller w/ Liz Tomforde | Talk Spicy to Me
2026/03/11
Welcome back to Talk Spicy to Me: The podcast where two bestselling romance authors go rogue and talk all things romance: the good, the bad, the unbearably hot, and everything in between.
In Season 2, Episode 9, the hosts are joined by bestselling romance author Liz Tomforde to break down the anatomy of a bestseller.
They also share personal updates, reality TV obsessions, and the importance of author friendships while navigating pregnancy, publishing, and the chaos of a writing career.
Liz Tomforde
Upcoming Release: In Her Own League
https://liztomforde.com/in-her-own-league
Website - https://liztomforde.com/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/liztomforde.author/
💬 Got a question you'd like us to answer on the podcast? Submit it here → Send us a voice message on SpeakPipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/TalkSpicytoMe
TIMESTAMPS
00:00 – Welcome to Talk Spicy to Me
01:05 – Pregnancy updates & baby shower weekend
02:06 – Prenatal classes and unexpected anxiety
03:07 – Why friendships matter in pregnancy and writing
04:15 – Season sponsors: Lena Hendrix & Willow Aster
05:20 – Surprise guest reveal: Liz Tomforde
17:39 – The Spice Report
17:45 – Kandi's obsession: Below Deck
21:38 – Giana's obsession: Bridgerton
25:46 – Liz's obsession: Love Is Blind
28:57 – The Anatomy of a Bestseller
32:49 – Why characters are the heart of a great romance
37:49 – Avoiding self-insert characters
38:89 – Writing empathy into character choices
40:14 – Purposeful pacing and emotional tension
44:45 – Building highs and lows in storytelling
46:26 – Adding compelling elements beyond the romance
51:03 – Conflict as the "bones" of a bestseller
01:17:50 – Red Flag / Green Flag
01:22:28 – Reader Question
BOOK CLUB PICK
Deep Pockets by Nana Malone
Tropes for that book: Mafia/Assassin romance, Best friend's sister, Age Gap, Forced Proximity, Enemies to Lovers
Link: https://www.amazon.com/Deep-Pockets-Forced-Proximity-Romance-ebook/dp/B0DDGX814Q
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nanamalonewriter/
Website: https://nanamalone.com/
Join us for the Deep Pockets deep dive on March18th.
SEASON SPONSORS
Lena Hendrix
Chasing the Sun (Star Harbor, Book 1)
Link: https://geni.us/chasingthesun1
Website: https://www.lenahendrix.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/authorlenahendrix
Willow Aster
What It Takes (Windy Harbor Series, Book 2)
Link: https://geni.us/WhatItTakes
Website: https://www.willowaster.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/willowaster/
WHERE TO FIND EVERYONE
Talk Spicy to Me
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talkspicytomepodcast
Spotify/Apple: @talkspicytomepodcast
Youtube: @talkspicytomepodcast
HOSTS
Giana Darling
Intagram: https://www.instagram.com/gianadarlingauthor
Website: https://gianadarling.com/
Kandi Steiner
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kandisteiner
Website: https://kandisteiner.com/
🔥 AFTER DARK (Patreon Exclusive)
Want the extended, unfiltered conversation?
Each week's After Dark mini-episode dives deeper into topics we don't cover on the main feed.
Join the Patreon for early access and bonus content:
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Listen, watch, and don't forget to subscribe for weekly episodes, author conversations, and honest discussions about romance, publishing, and storytelling craft.
Boundaries, Burnout & Publishing Deals w/ Shanora Williams | Talk Spicy to Me
2026/03/04
Welcome back to Talk Spicy to Me: The podcast where two bestselling romance authors go rogue and talk all things romance: the good, the bad, the unbearably hot, and everything in between.
This week, we're joined by New York Times and USA Today bestselling author Shanora Williams for an honest, vulnerable conversation about boundaries, burnout, publishing contracts, and whether you can actually balance it all as a modern author.
Shanora Williams
New York Times & USA Today bestselling author known for emotionally immersive romance across contemporary and high-stakes worlds.
Upcoming Release: Mayhem and the Mortal: https://www.shanorawilliams.com/mayhemandthemortal
Website - shanorawilliams.com
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/reallyshanora/
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Shanora-Williams/author/B00BHQUULU
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TIMESTAMPS
00:00 – Welcome to Talk Spicy to Me
01:01 – Chaos, travel, deadlines & overwhelm
02:56 – Season Sponsors: Lena Hendrix & Willow Aster
04:10 – Introducing Shanora Williams
07:02 – Indie vs Traditional Publishing Speed
09:11 – Protecting Yourself in Publishing Contracts
10:27 – Why You Shouldn't Accept Every Deal
11:43 – Turning Down a Major Publisher (And Why It Paid Off)
12:44 – The Spice Report
13:27 – Interview with the Vampire
18:50 – Night of the Seven Kingdoms
21:26 – Wuthering Heights Film Adaptation
22:20 – Can You Actually Balance It All?
25:51 – Productivity Guilt & Burnout
27:11 – "Rest Is Productive"
31:07 – The Irregular Life of an Author
37:10 – Series Deep Dive: Anna B. Doe
40:10 – Motherhood & Writing with Three Kids
45:40 – The Invisible Load Women Carry
49:00 – Delegation & Building a Support System
01:13:49 – Red Flag / Green Flag
01:17:40 – Reader Question: Steamy Scenes
BOOK CLUB PICK
Deep Pockets by Nana Malone
Tropes for that book: Mafia/Assassin romance, Best friend's sister, Age Gap, Forced Proximity, Enemies to Lovers
Link: https://www.amazon.com/Deep-Pockets-Forced-Proximity-Romance-ebook/dp/B0DDGX814Q
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nanamalonewriter/
Website: https://nanamalone.com/
Join us for the Deep Pockets deep dive on March18th.
SEASON SPONSORS
Anna B Doe
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annabdoe/
Website: https://www.annabdoe.com/
Lena Hendrix
Chasing the Sun (Star Harbor, Book 1)
Link: https://geni.us/chasingthesun1
Website: https://www.lenahendrix.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/authorlenahendrix
Willow Aster
What It Takes (Windy Harbor Series, Book 2)
Link: https://geni.us/WhatItTakes
Website: https://www.willowaster.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/willowaster/
WHERE TO FIND EVERYONE
Talk Spicy to Me
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talkspicytomepodcast
Spotify/Apple: @talkspicytomepodcast
Youtube: @talkspicytomepodcast
HOSTS
Giana Darling
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gianadarlingauthor
Website: https://gianadarling.com/
Kandi Steiner
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kandisteiner
Website: https://kandisteiner.com/
🔥 AFTER DARK (Patreon Exclusive)
Want the extended, unfiltered conversation?
Each week's After Dark mini-episode dives deeper into topics we don't cover on the main feed.
Join the Patreon for early access and bonus content:
https://www.patreon.com/c/TalkSpicytoMePodcast
Listen, watch, and don't forget to subscribe for weekly episodes, author conversations, and honest discussions about romance, publishing, and storytelling craft.
Why Raw & Messy Romance Hits Harder w/ Ambar Cordova | Talk Spicy to Me
2026/02/25
Welcome back to Talk Spicy to Me: The podcast where two bestselling romance authors go rogue and talk all things romance: the good, the bad, the unbearably hot, and everything in between.
In Season 2, Episode 5, hosts Kandi Steiner and Giana Darling are joined by special guest Ambar Cordova for a deeply honest conversation about messy characters, third-act breakups, reader reactions, and why raw, emotionally complicated romances hit harder
Please note: Due to technical difficulties, audio quality may not be up to par in the first half of the episode. We appreciate your patience.
Ambar Cordova
•NEWSLETTER: acordovabooks.com/newsletter
•FACEBOOK: facebook.com/acordovabooks
•FACEBOOK READER GROUP: facebook.com/groups/735186988190607
•INSTAGRAM: Instagram.com/acordovabooks
•TIKTOK: tiktok.com/@authorambarcordova
•WEBSITE: www.acordovabooks.com
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TIMESTAMPS
00:00 – Welcome to Talk Spicy to Me
01:31 – Pregnancy updates & writing while sick
02:46 – Balancing indie and traditional publishing
05:17 – Patreon shoutouts: Ghost Pepper Goddesses
06:23 – Season sponsors: Willow Aster & Lena Hendrix
07:28 – Introducing Ambar Cordova
11:20 – The Spice Report
19:06 – Motherhood, high-risk pregnancies & body changes
21:31 – Discovering romance in 2020
22:16 – Writing the stories you wish existed
23:41 – Reader reactions to messy characters
31:38 – Writing as therapy & emotional processing
37:45 – Why women write men who show up
40:19 – Writing slow-burn spice & emotional tension
42:52 – The third-act breakup debate
46:17 – Why flawed heroines get more hate
50:00 – Sunshine heroines who are secretly struggling
52:15 – The miscommunication trope discussion
58:05 – S.J. Sylvis
59:19 – Red Flag / Green Flag: When he texts you constantly
01:05:11 – TSTM Book Club: Deep Pockets by Nana Malone
01:07:03 – Reader Question: Special Editions
BOOK CLUB PICK
Deep Pockets by Nana Malone
Tropes for that book: Mafia/Assassin romance, Best friend's sister, Age Gap, Forced Proximity, Enemies to Lovers
Link: https://www.amazon.com/Deep-Pockets-Forced-Proximity-Romance-ebook/dp/B0DDGX814Q
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nanamalonewriter/
Website: https://nanamalone.com/
Join us for the Deep Pockets deep dive on March18th.
SEASON SPONSORS
S.J. Sylvis
Overtake: A Rivals to Lovers F1 Romance (Vanstone Racing)
Tropes: Rivals to Lovers/Enemies to Lovers, F1 Romance, Workplace Romance, Forced Proximity,
link: mybook.to/vanstoneracing1
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/authorsjsylvis/?hl=en
Website: https://www.sjsylvis.com/
Lena Hendrix
Chasing the Sun (Star Harbor, Book 1)
Link: https://geni.us/chasingthesun1
Website: https://www.lenahendrix.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/authorlenahendrix
Willow Aster
What It Takes (Windy Harbor Series, Book 2)
Link: https://geni.us/WhatItTakes
Website: https://www.willowaster.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/willowaster/
WHERE TO FIND EVERYONE
Talk Spicy to Me
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talkspicytomepodcast
Spotify/Apple: @talkspicytomepodcast
Youtube: @talkspicytomepodcast
HOSTS
Giana Darling
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gianadarlingauthor
Website: https://gianadarling.com/
Kandi Steiner
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kandisteiner
Website: https://kandisteiner.com/
🔥 AFTER DARK (Patreon Exclusive)
Want the extended, unfiltered conversation?
Each week's After Dark mini-episode dives deeper into topics we don't cover on the main feed.
Join the Patreon for early access and bonus content:
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Listen, watch, and don't forget to subscribe for weekly episodes, author conversations, and honest discussions about romance, publishing, and storytelling craft.
How to Build an Indie Author Career From Scratch | Talk Spicy to Me
2026/02/18
Welcome back to Talk Spicy to Me: The podcast where two bestselling romance authors go rogue and talk all things romance: the good, the bad, the unbearably hot, and everything in between.
In Season 2, Episode 6, hosts Kandi Steiner and Giana Darling share life updates, celebrate publishing milestones, and break down exactly what they would do differently if they were building an indie author career from scratch today.
💬 Got a question you'd like us to answer on the podcast? Submit it here → Send us a voice message on SpeakPipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/TalkSpicytoMe
00:00 – Welcome to Talk Spicy to Me
00:55 – Travel episode & Kandi's ski trip in Deer Valley
02:31 – Learning to ski
04:38 – Season sponsors
05:18 – Spice Report
18:03 – Main Topic: Building an indie career from scratch
18:34 – Step 1: Identify your author identity
20:37 – Step 2: Start with a series of standalones
22:28 – Series strategy & saving the fan favorite for last
23:42 – Step 3: Market research & branding
25:52 – Recovering covers & packaging pivots
27:40 – Thinking like a business person
29:16 – Testing covers, blurbs & ads
31:02 – New Release Spotlight: Safe Haven by Kristen Proby
32:00 – Courses & free resources
36:11 – Write more than one book
37:45 – Rapid release strategy
39:02 – Newsletter & reader funnel
41:20 – Film everything (sell the journey)
42:43 – Building super fans
44:02 – Stay positive in the community
45:36 – Sponsor spotlight: Piper Rayne
46:34 – Red Flag / Green Flag: Office Romance
50:32 – Reader Question: Special edition book process
NEW RELEASE SPOTLIGHT
Safe Haven by Kristen Proby
Hockey romance, best friends to lovers, found family, and a protective hero.
Link: https://amzn.to/4gkydGd
SEASON SPONSORS
Piper Rayne – The Hot Shot
Link: https://www.amazon.com/Hotshot-Piper-Rayne-ebook/dp/B0F3FP2WHQ
Lena Hendrix
Chasing the Sun (Star Harbor, Book 1)
Link: https://geni.us/chasingthesun1
Website: https://www.lenahendrix.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/authorlenahendrix
Willow Aster
What It Takes (Windy Harbor Series, Book 2)
Link: https://geni.us/WhatItTakes
Website: https://www.willowaster.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/willowaster/
WHERE TO FIND EVERYONE
Talk Spicy to Me
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talkspicytomepodcast
Spotify/Apple: @talkspicytomepodcast
Youtube: @talkspicytomepodcast
Hosts
Giana Darling
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gianadarlingauthor
Website: https://gianadarling.com/
Kandi Steiner
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kandisteiner
Website: https://kandisteiner.com/
AFTER DARK (Patreon Exclusive)
Want the uncensored conversation?
Join the Patreon for bonus episodes, extended conversations, and exclusive content:https://www.patreon.com/c/TalkSpicytoMePodcast
Listen, watch, and don't forget to subscribe for weekly episodes, author conversations, writing advice, and unapologetically honest romance talk.
Meet Cutes & First Impressions | Talk Spicy to Me
2026/02/11
Welcome back to Talk Spicy to Me: The podcast where two bestselling romance authors go rogue and talk all things romance: the good, the bad, the unbearably hot, and everything in between.
In Season 2, Episode 5, hosts Giana Darling and Kandi Steiner catch up on life updates, celebrate major career milestones, and dive deep into one of the most important (and underrated) moments in romance writing: The Meet Cute!
💬 Got a question you'd like us to answer on the podcast? Submit it here → Send us a voice message on SpeakPipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/TalkSpicytoMe
00:00 – Welcome to Talk Spicy to Me
01:23 – Life updates & Kandi's 10-year publishing anniversary
03:03 – Why authors struggle to celebrate success
05:56 – Season sponsor spotlight: Willow Aster & Lena Hendrix
10:35 – Valentine Vaults: favorite Valentine's Day memories
15:12 – Why your partner should also be your best friend
17:47 – Generational shifts in parenting & partnership
19:06 – What is a "meet cute"?
23:29 – How meet cutes shape a story from page one
26:47 – Tips for writing a strong meet cute
35:54 – Favorite meet cute examples in romance
46:40 – Writing exercise: crafting your meet cute
49:32 – Sponsor spotlight: Jessica Prince
51:14 – Red Flag / Green Flag: Insta-love
59:03 - Reader Question: What's your favorite part about being an author?
BOOK CLUB PICK
A.L. Jackson
From Here to Eternity (Moonlit Ridge, Book 1)
Link: https://geni.us/FHTEAmznOP
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aljacksonig
Website: https://www.aljacksonauthor.com/
Join us for the From Here to Eternity discussion on February 18th.
SEASON SPONSORS
Jessica Prince
Beautifully Broken Pieces
Link: https://geni.us/BeautBrokenPieceebook
Website: https://authorjessicaprince.com/
Lena Hendrix
Chasing the Sun (Star Harbor, Book 1)
Link: https://geni.us/chasingthesun1
Website: https://www.lenahendrix.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/authorlenahendrix
Willow Aster
What It Takes (Windy Harbor Series, Book 2)
Link: https://geni.us/WhatItTakes
Website: https://www.willowaster.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/willowaster/
WHERE TO FIND EVERYONE
Talk Spicy to Me
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talkspicytomepodcast
Spotify/Apple: @talkspicytomepodcast
Youtube: @talkspicytomepodcast
Hosts
Giana Darling
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gianadarlingauthor
Website: https://gianadarling.com/
Kandi Steiner
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kandisteiner
Website: https://kandisteiner.com/
AFTER DARK (Patreon Exclusive)
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This week: Reality TV
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Two of my favorite romance authors in one place!
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