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“We may not know exactly what the issue was. But I think an apology is due.” The season finale. Kofi Dartey and Randolph Adjei sit with the hardest subject they’ve touched: the state of the church, the scandals, and the unhealed leaders behind them. It didn’t go where they expected. It ends with an apology.In this episode: Kofi before Christ: the DJ, the radio show, the party promotionWhy this isn’t a sermon, it’s a bench conversationWhen someone can tell you things, people’s perspective of them becomes flawedElijah calls down fire in one chapter and wants to die in the next“We love being seen as less human than we actually are”“You’re too simple”, when humility confuses the congregationThe locked car: waiting until everyone’s seated before you walk inGifted, saved people with an unrenewed mindThe king and the linguist: African tradition imported into the pulpitThe enemy doesn’t fight you, he gives you an opportunity“By the time you recognise it, what you loved has killed you”Accountability before authority, and after itAn apology to the flockHeal so you don’t bleed Until we as leaders heal, we won’t be able to lead effectively, or for very long. That’s the season. Thank you for sitting on the bench with us. ____________________ The Shepherd's Bench is hosted by Kofi Dartey & Randolph Adjei and brought to you by KAC Studios. Subscribe for new episodes. Season 2 will be available soon. Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @shepherdsbench

"I didn't realise that what seemed like a compliment was actually wounding me." For the first time on The Shepherd's Bench, Kofi Dartey and Randolph Adjei are joined by a guest: Prophet Sharlette Reid. What follows is one of the most honest conversations we've had, about what it costs to be a woman carrying a prophetic calling, where women go when there's nobody to disciple them, and the words spoken over her that she mistook for affirmation. In this episode: A father who raised his daughter and his sons the same"It was only when I came into church that I found the gap"Why so many women condense themselves to the spaces already availableThe same names, the same voices: why conferences recycleThe commission requires multiplying, not one name, one personality, one callingWhy male-on-male discipleship happens naturally, and what that leaves women withThe proximity problem: "I can't speak to him too long, it looks like more than it is"More women in church than men. So where are the women leaders?It has to transcend an event, building systems, not moments"You need someone who can love you for who you are, not what you do"A prayer for the woman who thought she had to change to be loved ____________________ The Shepherd's Bench is hosted by Kofi Dartey & Randolph Adjei and brought to you by KAC Studios. Subscribe for new episodes every 2 weeks. Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @shepherdsbench

"Children don't spell love L-O-V-E. They spell love T-I-M-E." The conversation was too hot to end. In Part II of Missing Millennials, Kofi Dartey and Randolph Adjei go deeper into why an entire generation went quiet, and what it cost them. In this episode: Four kinds of missing: absent, inactive, unequipped, or in position without preparation"We're not here to say our fathers failed", the humility clauseImmigration, night shifts, and children raised by the streetsPrayer warrior on Monday, deacon on Sunday, stranger at homeWhy millennials blame the church for stealing their parentsThe millennial fathers overcompensating for what they never hadChildren spell love T-I-M-E"Don't get education, get a phone", influence without formationBeing successful and managing success are two different thingsWill you still be doing this at 60? The longevity question nobody asksA prayer for Gen Z We love millennials. We love Gen Z. But this one was about the ones we can't find. ____________________ The Shepherd's Bench is hosted by Kofi Dartey & Randolph Adjei and brought to you by KAC Studios. Subscribe for new episodes every 2 weeks. Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @shepherdsbench

Gen Z is hungry. They'll pay £5,000, fly across the world, do whatever it takes to be discipled. And they can't find anyone. In Episode 11 of The Shepherd's Bench, Kofi Dartey and Randolph Adjei ask the question underneath the revival: if this generation is on fire, where is the generation meant to be raising them? In this episode: The Gen Z revival is real, but every big move cries for sturdy leadershipMovements led by 21-year-olds because the 35-year-olds are absent"Is this 18-year-old leading because you couldn't find a 35-year-old?"The boy who becomes the man of the house when his father isn't thereMichael Jackson, a stolen childhood, and what happens when you blow up too earlyWhy they're inheriting our problem, and how that becomes generationalThey'll pay for mentorship and still can't find a mentorEzekiel 22:30, "I sought for a man to stand in the gap"To the millennial who stepped off: God is calling you homeTo the pastor: don't build your ministry at the cost of the people God gave you You don't only give because you had it. Sometimes the biggest motivation is to give because you never did. ____________________ The Shepherd's Bench is hosted by Kofi Dartey & Randolph Adjei and brought to you by KAC Studios. Subscribe for new episodes every 2 weeks. Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @shepherdsbench

Everybody cries to their pastor. Who does the pastor cry to?In Episode 10 of The Shepherd's Bench, Kofi Dartey and Randolph Adjei open Matthew 26 and read Gethsemane as a leadership text. Jesus, surrounded by twelve, creates distance in layers: nine stay here, three come further, and then he goes alone, and weeps where nobody can hear him.In this episode: The loneliest room is the one with a queue outside itGethsemane: nine, three, and the little furtherWhy Jesus wouldn't let even Peter, James and John hear him break"My soul is exceedingly sorrowful, even unto death" — anxiety, fear, and the humanity of ChristHow much are leaders actually allowed to share?The line between honest vulnerability and bleeding on your peopleWhen those closest to you fall asleep in your hardest hourEvery man of God has a story — and the compassion no prayer could buildA prayer for the leader who feels aloneYou are not the first to go through it. You will not be the last. And you are not alone. ____________________ The Shepherd's Bench is hosted by Kofi Dartey & Randolph Adjei and brought to you by KAC Studios. Subscribe for new episodes every 2 weeks. Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @shepherdsbench

At six years old, Kofi Dartey joined the counselling queue at his father's church. Five people ahead of him. Little suit, little tie, shiny shoes. When he finally got in, his dad asked what he was doing there. He said: this is the only place I can see you. In Episode 9 of The Shepherd's Bench, Kofi and Randolph Adjei talk about the part of leadership nobody puts on the flyer, the humanity underneath the calling. In this episode: Are leaders born or made? "Even a leader who is born must be raised"What leaders actually lose: it's easy to crucify sin, harder to crucify your freedomThe preacher's collar is a cuff, the bondservant's life isn't his ownPastors' kids: when your dad is everybody's dadThe queue story, and the question it left in his father"There were days we ate from the food bank", what people don't see behind the resultEntitlement, access, and the pastor who's expected to answer at any hourMan of God: you are human, endowed with godly contentWhere control and spiritual manipulation really come from: unaddressed insecurityDon't be so spiritual you're no earthly goodJesus took care of his family before the crossThe three cardinal rules: you are human, you will always be human, remember you're human____________________ The Shepherd's Bench is hosted by Kofi Dartey & Randolph Adjei and brought to you by KAC Studios. Subscribe for new episodes every 2 weeks. Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @shepherdsbench

If bad company corrupts good morals, imagine what good company could do.In Episode 8 of The Shepherd's Bench, Kofi Dartey and Randolph Adjei sit with one of the most underrated essentials of the calling: the company you keep. The people around you aren't just around you, they're shaping your sound, your direction, and what you'll be prophesying a year from now.In this episode: The tent church: Randolph's new launch and why ministries must evolveThe layers of Jesus's company: the multitude, the 70, the 12, the 3"You're in their company, but not their inner circle"The independent spirit: where "I don't need anybody" really comes fromTrauma, church hurt, and the isolation they breed"When they park their cars, they park their brains" why skills stop at the church doorKoinonia: what Acts 2:42 community actually looks likeThe company of prophets: where they come from determines the soundYou'll sing whatever sound you sit aroundThe oil is transferred by association. Choose your company like it's your calling, because it is. ____________________ The Shepherd's Bench is hosted by Kofi Dartey & Randolph Adjei and brought to you by KAC Studios. Subscribe for new episodes every 2 weeks. Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @shepherdsbench Timestamps0:00 Welcome "I was just a bass player"1:16 The tent church: Campus Rush evolves17:36 The layers of Jesus's company: 70, 12, 318:45 "I don't need anybody" the independent spirit19:20 Trauma, church hurt, and isolation21:00 "Park their cars, park their brains23:00 Koinonia, Acts 2:42 community53:50 The company of prophets: the source of the sound54:25 The hostel story: you sing what you sit around56:40 If bad company corrupts, imagine good company57:00 Outro

Is AI a blessing or a crutch? And what happens when a generation starts ChatGPT-ing the sermons they were meant to receive on their knees?In Episode 7 of The Shepherd's Bench, Kofi Dartey and Randolph Adjei pick up the cliffhanger from last week: ChatGPT, AI, and the microwave generation of ministry. AI should be the garnish, not the main course. But in business circles, creative circles, and ministerial circles, the tool is quietly becoming the teacher.From there the conversation goes deep into what can't be automated: the process, the battles, the death to self, and the company that shapes your sound.In this episode: AI is a blessing - but it's a garnish, not the main courseMicrowave sermons: assembling a message without receiving the downloadWhy "deep" preaching is producing confused churches with no transformationYou can't become what you don't understandWhen personal experience becomes doctrine - the six-hour prayer ruleLingo culture: copying style instead of carrying substanceUnderdeveloped leaders: if you can't sustain the platform, the platform will break youA piece of cake: the layers nobody wants to work through"I've anointed you, but you have to die" — oil without processThe power of association (and a taste of next week's conversation)Don't ChatGPT an experience you're meant to get tarrying. ____________________ The Shepherd's Bench is hosted by Kofi Dartey & Randolph Adjei and brought to you by KAC Studios. Subscribe for new episodes every 2 weeks. Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @shepherdsbench

There's a generation of fathers looking for sons to use, and a generation of sons looking for fathers to use right back. In Episode 6 of The Shepherd's Bench, Kofi Dartey and Randolph Adjei sit with the uncomfortable questions: why we're born again but not delivered from tradition, why ministry has become a competition, and what's quietly replacing real encounter with God. In this episode: Born again, but not delivered from tradition... The unrenewed mindThe competitive mindset: "I must build the next biggest church"Why do we assume only the devil can make things growMinistry for honorariums... when preaching becomes a paycheck"You're not advancing the kingdom. You're advancing your ego."Nobody can outdo God. Nobody can outpay God.Why kindness and soft skills don't make you less anointedDon't ChatGPT what you're meant to get on your knees This is Fathers For Sale. A conversation about what the next generation is inheriting - and what it's skipping. ____________________ The Shepherd's Bench is hosted by Kofi Dartey & Randolph Adjei and brought to you by KAC Studios. Subscribe for new episodes every 2 weeks. Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @shepherdsbench

The first move of the enemy isn't to attack you. It's to offer you what you love.In Episode 5 of The Shepherd's Bench, Kofi Dartey and Randolph Adjei unpack what the modern church has confused about marriage, calling, anointing and timing, and what's actually essential underneath it all. In this episode: Why your calling can evolve and how to know when it's time"When you overstay a season, you enter a cycle"Why the church is wasting kingdom talent, turning entrepreneurs, lawyers, and creatives into intercessors and ushersMarriage as a system, not a validationYou don't need a helper when you haven't figured out your lifeJust because oil was poured on your head doesn't mean you've becomeWife or knife? The cost of choosing wrongThis isn't a sermon on singleness, marriage or ministry. It's a redefinition of what the church has been calling essential. ____________________ The Shepherd's Bench is hosted by Kofi Dartey & Randolph Adjei and brought to you by KAC Studios. Subscribe for new episodes every 2 weeks. Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @shepherdsbench

God loves all of us. But He doesn't trust all of us. In Episode 4 of The Shepherd's Bench, Kofi Dartey and Randolph Adjei turn the lens onto leaders themselves - the journey, the gaps, and the dangers nobody warns you about when the anointing starts to grow.In this episode: Why God doesn't trust everyone He lovesGreat preachers, terrible husbands - the gap between gift and characterKingly anointing, shepherdly positioning and the people pretending to be contentWhy people are relocating churches for the wrong reasonsAnointed and immoral. Anointed and disrespectful. The dangers of the anointingWhat can overpower you if you don't deal with it nowThis isn't a sermon to the congregation. It's a conversation between two pastors about the people behind the pulpit. ____________________ The Shepherd's Bench is hosted by Kofi Dartey & Randolph Adjei and brought to you by KAC Studios. Subscribe for new episodes every 2 weeks. Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @shepherdsbench

You can do many things right. Be applauded. Build a great career. And still have failed. In Episode 3 of The Shepherd's Bench, Kofi Dartey and Randolph Adjei return to The Call, this time going deeper into the gap between what you're doing and what you were made to do. The cost of misalignment. The geography of calling. And the test the devil brings everybody. In this episode: How do you actually know you're called? A biblical breakdownPurpose, calling, and career - the three things most people confuseHow money relocates you from the geography of your callingThe three stages every calling moves throughWhy knowing your calling isn't the same as being ready for itApprenticeship ministry and the cost of cutting cornersThis is The Call II. The conversation goes deeper. ____________________ The Shepherd's Bench is hosted by Kofi Dartey & Randolph Adjei and brought to you by KAC Studios. Subscribe for new episodes every 2 weeks. Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @shepherdsbench

What if everything you've built, your career, your relationships, even who you married, was built on the wrong foundation? In Episode 2 of The Shepherd's Bench, Kofi Dartey and Randolph Adjei sit down to unpack The Call - what it is, what it costs, and why so many people running from it are the very ones meant to carry it. In this episode: Why your calling should determine your school, your spouse, and your friends"Mr. Suave" and "Lil T"... Life before the callThe man in the fire and the moment God gets your attentionIs ministry today a genuine pursuit of God, or has it become glamorous?The cost of trading prayer This isn't a sermon. It's a bench conversation. ____________________ The Shepherd's Bench is hosted by Kofi Dartey & Randolph Adjei and brought to you by KAC Studios. Subscribe for new episodes every 2 weeks. Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @shepherdsbench

What happens when a leader walks into a room and realises everything they've built is missing something? Kofi Dartey and Randolph Adjei sit down for the first episode of The Shepherd's Bench. This is an unfiltered conversation about faith, leadership, and what it actually takes to build something that reflects the kingdom.In this episode: First impressions of KAC and the voltage of prayerWhat mature leaders don't know they're missingWhy the curtains being dirty matters more than you thinkBrotherhood, grief, and what keeps people outThis isn't a sermon. It's a bench conversation. ____________________ The Shepherd's Bench is hosted by Kofi Dartey & Randolph Adjei and brought to you by KAC Studios. Subscribe for new episodes every 2 weeks. Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @shepherdsbench