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Sam, Chris, and James discuss what it means to be “unashamed” in sexual addiction recovery. Shame thrives in secrecy, silence, and judgment and that speaking openly breaks isolation. They explore how context and boundaries matter when sharing, distinguishing healthy vulnerability from “vomiting,” and noting that relapse often intensifies shame. Sam shares how he’s become able to admit recent relapse without spiraling, crediting safe community, repeated honest conversations, trauma therapy, and a spiritual experience that helped him accept he is still good even when he relapses. The group encourages listeners to cultivate emotionally safe relationships, face fear within that community, and find a personal “why” for living unashamed. Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! [email protected] Timestamps: 00:00 Welcome and Series Setup 01:04 What Unashamed Means 02:33 Shame Thrives in Silence 05:14 Sharing With Boundaries 07:00 Sobriety and Confidence 09:10 Sam Journey to Openness 11:12 God Moment Breakthrough 12:53 How to Get Unashamed 18:14 Cultivating Safe Community 19:27 Find Your Why 22:37 Brotherhood and Acceptance 25:24 Closing and Support the Show

In this episode of Unashamed Unafraid, Sam and Mason welcome Drew Boa, author of Outgrow Porn and founder of Husband Material Ministries, who explains inner child work as understanding sexual temptation and intolerable emotional pain as implicit “body memory” rather than mature adult desire. Drew shares how recognizing his own sexual imprinting and connecting it to childhood trauma replaced self-hatred with self-compassion and inviting Jesus into wounded places. Using the cave rescue documentary as an analogy, he outlines a process of locating, loving, and leading multiple “inner boys,” emphasizing connection over control, co-regulation, curiosity-based questions, and identifying attachment needs beneath cravings, framing porn as a pacifier and a protest while encouraging courageous, hope-filled “redemptive risks.” Connect with Drew Boa:https://www.husbandmaterial.com/https://www.drewboa.com/outgrow-porn  Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! [email protected] Timestamps: 00:00 Recovery Check In03:23 Meet Drew Boa06:01 What Is the Inner Child09:10 Drew Story And Imprinting12:33 Rescue The Boy Within17:20 When Pain Triggers Relapse21:14 Befriending Questions23:55 Porn As Pacifier and a Protest28:25 Face, Feel and Co Regulate32:49 Hope And Redemptive Risk34:32 Where To Find Drew36:37 Wrap Up And Subscribe

In this Live Unashamed episode of Unashamed Unafraid, the hosts discuss the impact of sharing honest, raw stories in sexual addiction recovery and how storytelling combats the shame that fuels isolation and acting out. They explain that people connect through stories, and that naming taboo experiences with courage and vulnerability can break shame and bring healing. Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! [email protected]:00 Why Story Matters 03:23 Writing Your Story 05:02 Sharing With Sponsor 06:53 Timeline And The Good 10:39 Josh On Sharing 15:28 Chris on Going Public 18:15 Hope And Next Steps 19:44 Send Us Your Story

In this episode of Unashamed Unafraid, we return with Roxanna Johnson for a second recording as she explains how spouses are changed by the “dance” of addiction, why both partners have parallel recovery paths, and how hope can emerge over years of work. She teaches surrender as releasing control to God, addressing fear and hypervigilance, and emphasizes grieving, emotional regulation, movement with breath, journaling, and a step-by-step surrender practice, urging those struggling with addiction to “see” and validate their spouse’s pain while seeking the God who knows their name. Roxanna is the author of Forgotten in the Battle with Sexual Addiction, The Journey of a Spouse. *Check out Roxy's book on AmazonTo connect with Roxy, send her an email: [email protected] or visit her Website, Facebook and Instagram Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! [email protected]:00 Welcome and Check In04:35 Spouses Need to Heal Too08:07 The Recovery Dance13:15 Surrendering Control17:29 Fear and Trusting God22:00 How to Support Your Wife27:26 Grief and Healing30:57 Six Steps to Surrender38:14 God Knows Your Name43:33 Closing and Resources

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Nathan Maxwell returns after a lost recording to share updated perspectives on recovery and marriage. He recounts early exposure to pornography in fourth grade, his parents’ divorce, his half-brother’s suicide, and how shame and suppressed grief fueled compulsive porn use and a growing need for validation from various sexual partners. Nathan describes how religious culture, lack of sex education, and scrupulosity shaped a belief that God hated him, contributing to misery and suicidal ideation. Recovery began when a church member introduced him to Unashamed, Unafraid, 12-step meetings, and boot camp. Nathan now lives with a changed view of God as a loving Father, and ongoing growth through setbacks and sobriety since November 2024. Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! [email protected] Timestamps: 00:00 Guidebook Update 01:32 Nathan Returns 03:24 Roots of Addiction 17:14 Bootcamp Breakthrough 19:01 Learning Gods Love 26:33 Golden Nuggets of Recovery

**Click here to buy tickets to the Utah Coalition Against Pornography Help, Hope, and Healing Conference on March 14th, 2026.Make sure to use the code ucap2026 for $10 off your ticket! In this episode of Live Unashamed, the hosts discuss the importance of slowing down in the journey of recovery from sexual addiction. They explore how rushing through recovery can lead to overwhelming feelings and failure, whereas taking time to pause, reflect, and integrate new practices can lead to more sustainable progress. The conversation covers practical strategies such as focusing on one or two recovery tools at a time, practicing mindfulness and stillness, and building self-awareness of emotional states. Tune in to learn how taking it slow can help you achieve lasting recovery. Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! [email protected]:00 Introduction and Warm Welcome01:35 Today's Topic: Slowing Down in Recovery02:07 The Importance of Slowing Down06:31 Practical Steps to Slow Down07:42 Integrating New Learnings12:52 The Power of Stillness and Meditation20:40 Final Thoughts and Viewer Engagement

This episode dives deep into the raw truth that sobriety is vital, shame is a battle, and authentic recovery requires honesty and courage. Listen as Troy shares his powerful story, struggles, and how God's grace rewrites everything. Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! [email protected] Timestamps: 00:00 - Why sobriety must be at the heart of recovery 02:10 - The destructive power of pornography and shame’s role 03:21 - Personal admission: the struggle of honest recovery 05:19 - Sobriety vs. recovery: understanding the difference 07:58 - Troy’s childhood, exposure, and early struggles with addiction 10:45 - The cycle of addiction and the power of honesty 14:14 - Crowning moment: finally coming clean after years of hiding 16:58 - The courage it takes to attend your first recovery group 18:28 - Defining true sobriety: what it really means to be free 22:35 - The role of shame, pride, and accountability in lasting change 28:30 - How shame can be the enemy of long-term sobriety 33:11 - Different perspectives on God: from Santa to Loving Guide 40:44 - Practical steps: trying differently when stuck in recovery 42:51 - Embracing honesty: the key to living unashamed

In this episode of Live Unashamed, we discuss a pivotal quote from The Stick of Joseph podcast about resisting temptation not by direct confrontation but by turning towards positive actions and thoughts. Our conversation covers the importance of connection with others, honesty, and creating a lifestyle centered around connection and healing. Listen as we share our experiences and practical advice on turning the light up in recovery. Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! [email protected]:00 Introduction and Personal Reflections01:52 The Power of Brotherhood in Recovery02:43 Discussing a Thought-Provoking Quote04:11 Applying the Quote to Recovery05:08 Strategies for Managing Temptation07:47 The Importance of Connection and Honesty10:34 Building a Lifestyle of Recovery20:09 Final Thoughts and Viewer Engagement

In this enlightening episode of Unashamed Unafraid, we delve into the challenging yet transformative journey of porn addiction recovery with Dr. Trish Leigh, a cognitive neuroscientist. Dr. Leigh shares her unique approach of using EEG technology to understand and regulate the brain's functioning, helping individuals overcome compulsive sexual behaviors. She discusses the impact of dopamine dependency and the importance of unwiring, rewiring, and hardwiring the brain for long-term recovery. This episode is packed with insights and practical strategies for anyone struggling with or supporting someone through porn addiction recovery. To connect with Dr. Leigh:WEBSITE AND YOUTUBE: https://drtrishleigh.com/ / https://www.youtube.com/@DrTrishLeigh FOR BRAIN BASED CONDITIONS: https://www.youtube.com/@SupernormalbyDrTrishLeigh/videos FOR PARTNERS: https://www.youtube.com/@sanityafterbetrayal / https://sanityafterbetrayal.com/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/drtrishleigh/ BOOK: https://drtrishleigh.com/book/ Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! [email protected]:00 Introduction to Unashamed Unafraid01:16 Meet Dr. Trish Leigh: Cognitive Neuroscientist02:16 Understanding Porn Addiction and Brain Function03:09 The Recovery Process: Begin, Continue, and End04:16 Using EEG Technology in Recovery08:10 The Impact of Dopamine on Addiction12:17 Unwiring and Rewiring the Brain24:20 Strain Brain vs. Drain Brain26:22 Building a Strong Relationship26:49 The Impact of Porn on Brain Development28:16 Understanding Feedback Loops29:04 Implementing Brain Rewiring Strategies31:16 The Role of Neuroplasticity33:37 The Science Behind Brain Changes35:17 The Importance of Dopamine Regulation39:21 Using Technology for Brain Health42:55 Final Thoughts and Resources

In this episode, we introduce Madi Davis, host of 'Sisters on the Front Lines', who brings a fresh perspective on women's struggles with pornography. Join hosts Sam, James, Chris, and Madi as they discuss the unique challenges women face, the impact of shame, and the importance of connection. Madi shares her personal journey and highlights valuable resources that support women in their recovery. This episode is a must for anyone looking to understand and support women dealing with pornography addiction. Check out Madi's podcast & connect with her here: https://www.instagram.com/sistersonthefrontlines Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! [email protected] 00:00 Introduction to Unashamed Unafraid01:46 Meet Madi Davis: Host of Sisters on the Front Lines02:45 The Unique Challenges Women Face with Pornography Addiction04:33 Stories of Struggle and Shame08:48 Finding Resources and Support10:58 Messages of Hope and Recovery18:37 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this special episode of Unashamed Unafraid, we welcome Madi and Douglas, who share their experiences with pornography addiction and recovery. They represent the Un-Alone Club at BYU, a student organization aimed at supporting individuals struggling with pornography and other related issues. Douglas discusses his personal journey with addiction recovery, including how he overcame shame and learned to communicate openly with his wife. Madi shares her efforts in starting a podcast focused on helping young women struggling with pornography. Together, they emphasize the importance of community and connection in overcoming addiction. Tune in to hear their inspiring stories and insights on living unashamed and unafraid. Follow the Un-Alone Club on Instagram! Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! [email protected]:00 Introduction to Unashamed Unafraid01:27 Meet Madi and Douglas01:47 The Un-Alone Club at BYU02:38 Madi's Podcast Journey06:41 Douglas' Personal Story07:51 Douglas' Mission Experiences08:35 Douglas' Recovery Journey11:54 Douglas' Relationship and Marriage17:07 The Un-Alone Club's Activities21:00 Understanding Ego Dystonic and Pornography21:27 Empowering vs. Disabling Labels21:55 Guest Speakers and Diverse Perspectives23:27 The Importance of Community24:11 Pornography as a Symptom24:55 Religious Perspectives on Pornography29:20 The Power of Connection29:57 Personal Stories and Experiences35:45 Starting the Club and Its Impact39:39 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Join the Unashamed Unafraid crew for a Live Unashamed episode where they openly discuss their experiences with sexual addiction, recovery, and the journey to self-forgiveness. Through heartfelt conversations, they explore the immense challenges of forgiving oneself despite being forgiven by others, the power of brotherhood and support, and how spirituality plays a crucial role in healing. Dive deep into personal stories, struggles, and moments of divine revelation that helped shape their paths to redemption. Whether you're in recovery or supporting someone who is, this episode is a powerful testament to the transformative power of grace and self-compassion. Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! [email protected]:00 Introduction and Greetings00:52 Discussing Self-Forgiveness03:01 The Role of Brotherhood in Recovery05:57 Personal Stories of Forgiveness09:04 The Journey of Recovery15:34 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this episode of Unashamed Unafraid, we delve deep into the journey of sexual addiction recovery with professional coach Austin Hamilton. Austin shares his personal story of overcoming pornography addiction and infidelity, emphasizing the importance of truth-telling and courage in the healing process. Highlighting how hidden struggles can impact relationships, Austin outlines his methods for guiding clients through recovery using story work, journaling, and compassionate self-reflection. Join us for an inspiring conversation on embracing vulnerability, understanding the roots of addiction, and fostering authentic connections. Don't miss valuable insights on how to live unashamed and unafraid. To connect with Austin, Website: pxrncoach.com Email: [email protected] Socials: @PxrnCoach on IG/TikTok/Facebook/YouTube Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! [email protected] 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Anxiety02:00 Introducing Austin Hamilton02:47 Austin's Journey to Recovery03:44 The Turning Point: D-Day05:33 The Path to Healing and Courage09:20 The Importance of Truth in Recovery11:55 Navigating Post-Disclosure Challenges13:54 The Role of Intimacy and Communication21:27 Disclosure as a Lifestyle23:59 Breaking a Promise on a Special Day24:36 The Importance of Truth in Relationships25:18 Diving into the Root of Issues26:15 Understanding Childhood Influences27:05 Healing Through Story Work30:48 Behavior Modification and True Healing41:26 The Power of Journaling42:55 Creating a Safe Space for Sharing45:33 The Role of Compassion in Recovery48:06 Final Thoughts and Resources

In this episode of Live Unashamed, Sam, James, Joshua, and Chris discuss their daily struggles and steps taken to live unashamedly. From setting boundaries with close friends to grappling with honesty in social situations, the group shares their personal experiences. The conversation explores the hardest aspects of being open about addiction and recovery, the fear of judgment, and the importance of brotherhood. They also emphasize the significance of being transparent with loved ones and the ongoing journey of recovery. The episode ends with a call to action for listeners to share their own fears and experiences. Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! [email protected]:00 Introduction and Roll Call01:23 Living Unashamed: Personal Reflections03:41 The Challenges of Honesty09:22 Fear of Judgment and Recovery11:26 Financial Transparency and Recovery14:50 The Importance of Brotherhood17:04 Listener Engagement and Conclusion